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Kiami & Giovanni

Giovanni-Host
Kiami- Friend
Giovanni- Friend

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Kwetsi, Asher, Denzel, Irina

Irina - Host
Kwetsi - 3rd Perspective
Asher - Friend
Denzel - Friend

Situation - Asher has Denzel's account on his ps4, and he used the money that was in Denzel's account to buy a game. Denzel's finds out about it, and Asher denies it.

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Nate, Noelani, Ana, Lia

Nate - host
Noelani, Ana - arguing friends
Lia - mediator friend

Issue - Noelani and Ana had an argument and they started spreading rumors about each other

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Alisha, Sofia, Jose, and Luira
- Two friends are distant from each other ever since one moved, and because of that their mental health hasn't been great and the other friend thinks they're getting ignored.
Host: Jose
Friends: Luira and Alisha
Spectator: Sofia

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carlota, laura, luna and Livia
host- luna
friend 1 - laura
friend 2- livia
second perspective- carlota
Conflict: Friends fight because of different views on priority of relationship

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Hamza - Friend
Juilo - Host
Marlon - 3rd Person View
Anoushka - Friend

Be aware of the person's hesitation and try to be a nice person when it comes to being asked questions then being gentle when you're asking questions.
One of the friends was not listening and understanding the other friend's opinion.

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Breakout Room 4 (Nate, Irina, Livia, Kwetsi, Hamza, Noelani):

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Breakout Room 4 (Nate, Irina, Livia, Kwetsi, Hamza, Noelani):

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1. How do you know if someone is a friend?
- They make an effort to maintain the relationship
- There is trust between the two of you; efforts are reciprocated
- You enjoy being together
- You can rely on each other
- You are comfortable with talking to each other

2. How do you know if someone isn't a friend?
- They gossip about you/allow gossip about you behind your back
- You engage in frequent arguments and fighting
- They don't respect your boundaries
- They exploit your friendship for their benefit
- They make fun of/tease you

3. How do you stay connected with distant friends?
- Communicating through social media; calls, messages, etc
- Visiting them (if possible)
- Making conversation with them as much as possible

4. What can hurt a relationship?
- Engaging in toxic behavior; creating a toxic relationship
- Lack of any kind of communication with each other
- Lack of trust, honesty, respect, support, empathy, humility, etc

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1. - You are both comfortable talking to each other.
- Comfortable with your cultural beliefs.
- They take time out for you.
- They are loyal to you.
- They support you and your emotions.
2. - There is little trust.
- Do not respect you and your beliefs.
- Platonic conversations with each other.
- Time is not as valuable for them.
- Most likely to cross boundaries.
3. - Show interest in them even if they are far away.
- Stay in contact with them.
- Continue to show basic principles in a relationship.
4. - Lack of honesty
- Lack of communication
- Crossing boundaries.

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1.1. When you interact with them frequently
1.2. When you have each others back
1.3. They're the first people you think of when you need someone to talk to.
1.4. Your comfortable around them
1.5. They respect your boundaries

2.1 They're always distant
2.2 They dont talke to you
2.3 Negative Feedback
2.4 They do bad things to damage your relationship
2.5 they don't consider you in their plans

3..1 Communicate with each other
3.2 Introduce your friends to older friends
3.3 Make sure they enjoy talking to you.

4.1 Not staying in contact
4.2 Being dishonest
4.3 Making yourself the Priority

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Luna, Laura, Lia, Sofia, Denzel

Top 5 ways you know someone is a friend:
- Plenty of communication
- Respecting each others boundaries
- Honesty
- small amount of conflict
- always helping each other out.
Top 5 ways to know someone isn't your friend:
- You don't like them
- They know little about you
- Lack of communication
- Never around
- Don't help you out
- Only help when they benefit from it.
Top 3 ways to stay connected:
- A lot of communication
- Having voice chats at times
- Checking in on each other
- Friend circle/group
- Online games
Top 3 ways to hurt a relationship:
- Disrespect
- Rumors/gossip
- Lack of communication
- Crossing each others boundaries
- Don't spend time with each other

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Now more than ever it is important to maintain a healthy mental state and over all positive outlook on life so if your life is being downgraded by someone else's lack of boundaries being able to cut them off is important

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Some boundaries have been created because the situation that we are in for example the boundaries on school campus. I think that the only boundaries that have changed are the social interactions with one another.

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I think that even though we are doing online learning the boundaries do not change because just because you are online and you cannot see a person face to face does not mean that you and the other people stop having boundaries and that what you say won't affect them.

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It applies to our current situation because since we’re in a pandemic, its hard to “physically” interact with people, but that can still be done mentally in a way.

I think that even with online learning, boundaries have been kept the same.

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The boundaries remain the same because even if we're away from each other there's still questions and actions that can be done that pass these boundaries like honesty being broken and such.

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I think that what we have learned so far applies to our current situation because we are still interacting with each other and we need to learn how to keep healthy friendships.

I think that some of the boundaries have maintained the same while online. The only thing is that mental and emotional boundaries are stronger now since we cant be together in person a lot.

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Learning about what we expect in a relationship and our role in a relationship can help us interact with people online and know if we individually are in a healthy relation.

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In relationships, it important to create some boundaries with the other just because everyone has different meaning and understanding to different situations. Like, in a friendship it important to know what the other person want and what doesn't like. I mean you can't read someone's mind and know what they want at all times but just knowing what the person wants would help.

I think for most of us our boundaries are changes through online classes. This  might be because most people haven't met each other and so they either forgot or don't remember what the other person wants in a relationship. For me personally, I think that all the moving has made me question about my boundaries and now I think about wha the other wants and thinks about before I make a final decision.

I think yeah most boundaries have been created and change because for me, I met new people as I moved.

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The main way that our learning so far can be applied to the current situation because it is harder to interact regularly with our friends, so learning about how to maintain our relationships despite the situation is very important.

The main way that boundaries have changed is in our physical boundaries, since social distancing has increased our physical boundaries to keep the disease from spreading to others.

A boundary that has been created from being online (for some people) was a boundary from physically interacting with other people, since some of us are still online and cannot see other people face-to-face.

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what we have learnt so far apply to our current situation?
1. I think that this connects to out curent situations because to have respectfull friendships and relationships boundaries are very important

Have any boundaries changed while online?
2. I think that boundaries still apply while we are in online school because, althought physical bonderies have not been a factor because of the corent pandemic. we still have mental boundaries, witch still have to be respected

Have any boundaries been created?
3. for me personaly I dont think any have been created, the reason why I say this is because I think that all my boundaries have already matured.

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1. From what we have identified about different roles in relationships we are now able to analyse our fulfilment of roles. It helps with self-critiquing.
2. I think that most boundaries have maintained somewhat the same online. However i think that we have become more self-aware of our boundaries due to having different learning conditions (face-to-face and online).
3. During complete online learning, boundaries became more sensitive. By this I mean that with different circumfrence such as different time-zones we empathised with each other more.

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people might not be as available as they were before and their mental state might not be the same. People need to make sure they are on the same page regarding their friendships. It connects to what we have learned so far because having boundaries is part of a healthy relationship and having different expectations.

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Boundaries do apply in our current situation, because people can still cross lines in boundaries that have been changed to fit online interactiveness and not physical interactiveness.
- Being able to go to the bathroom, without asking. (In a school setting)
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I think that what we have learnt applies to our situation because we have to learn how to interact with each other in a different environment. This meaning if we wanted to keep these healthy relationships we should help each other and make sure that we are all well. I think boundaries have changed in terms of space because not all of us will be emotionally available, so we all learnt how manage keep space and respecting how we are all dealing with our mental health.

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This global pandemic has just helped us realize how social we were and how many boundaries we have made to keep each other safe. Being online has made many feel isolated and used to being alone therefore they aren't used to being around others.

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I think that some boundaries have been created so far, and an example of this is at school, now we have a lot of boundaries that we need to apply to and make sure to not break them for safety reasons and health of others. What we have learnt so far applies to our current situation because we've learned more about some boundaries that we should have in relationships platonic or romantic that are important so that the relationship doesn't evolve to become toxic.

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Breakout room 2: Livia, Gio, Laura, Sofia and Carlota

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Breakout room 2: Livia, Gio, Laura, Sofia and Carlota

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Similarities:
- loyalty
- attention
- presence
- trust
- communication
- honesty
- respect
- commitment

Differences:
- boundaries
- intentions the person may have
- affection

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Breakout Room 1: Alisha, Asher, Marlon, Lani, Lia, Kiami

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Breakout Room 1: Alisha, Asher, Marlon, Lani, Lia, Kiami

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Similarities: Communicate, be supportive, honesty, respect, appreciation, trust.
Differences: Intimacy, boundaries

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Breakout Room 4 (Luna, Anoushka, Luira, Ana, Denzel)

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Breakout Room 4 (Luna, Anoushka, Luira, Ana, Denzel)

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Role: Both relationships involve more then one person but there are differences.
Similarities:
-Honesty
-communication
-commitment
-loyalty
-Respect
-space/breaks
-expectations
Differences:
-Attention
-intimacy
-boundaries
-awareness
-formality/seriousness
-requests
-durability

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Breakout Room 3 Nate, Kwetsi, Julio, Irina, Hamza

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Breakout Room 3 Nate, Kwetsi, Julio, Irina, Hamza

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1. The expectations are the same, but in a romantic relationship it is more. Or they expectations are enhanced.

Similarities
- Honesty
- Loyalty
- Commitment
- Communication
- Love
Differences
- More of everything in a romantic relationship.
- Intimacy
- Romantic Love

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1. can communicate
2. loyal
3. can commit
4. know how to dress, good appearance
5. good manners
6. smart
7. have goals
8. has proper hygiene
9. shows affection
10. honest
11. Be good with children
12. has a good sense of humor
13.  someone that brings happiness
14. respects you
15. mature

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Relationship Expectation Kwetsi & Alex & Noelly

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Relationship Expectation Kwetsi & Alex & Noelly

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1. Both people in the relationship should be happy.
2. Should be able to communicate.
3. Should be comfortable with each other.
4. Both people should be honest in the relationship.
5. Know how to prioritize the relationship. Make sure its not at the bottom of the list.

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1. Loyalty
2. Communication
3. Support
4. Good time management
5. Mutual respect
6. Boundaries

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1. Someone who will talk to you about everything and communicate about everything (like if something isn't working out or something needs to be change).
2. Someone who expects you the way to are

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1. Communication. Being able to talk about situations even when they are hard to speak about.
2. Loyalty.
3. Attention.
4. Respect.
5. Kindness.

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1. Something you should expect from a friend is trust and loyalty.

2. Friends should respect you. And vice-versa.

3. You should help your friends when their in need or struggling.

4. You should respect your friends space, decisions and opinions.

5. Friends should listen to you even if you don't feel like it. It’s always good to listen to whatever they have to say.

6. Friends should support each other.

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1. Someone we can be comfortable with

2. Somoene we can spend our time with

3. Somoene that can make us happy

4. Somoene who supports us in tough time and vice versa

5. Somoene who accepts us for who we are

6. Somoene you should communicate with.

7. Somoene who is willing to understand you and your issue, vice versa

8. Somoene who respects your space.

9. Somoene who will forgive you when you make mistakes.

10. Somoene who is commmited to be in the relationship.

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So we're able to actually communicate with others at this time especially when we're talking through zoom.

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Be aware from the persons hesitation and try and be a nice person when it comes to being asked questions then being gentle when you're asking questions.

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1. Friends should be there when you need to vent.
2. Friends should be honest with you.
3. They should stand up for your when you are not present to do it yourself.
4. You should aim to have a genuine relationship.
5. Friends should lack a filter (thinking too much about something they want to say to you)

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We should be aware of how hard it can be for some to talk about personal experiences therefore always be respectful.

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I believe we should explore the topic of healthy relationships because many don't know what one looks like therefore discussing opinions and expectations can help those who aren't informed make better decisions.

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1. Friends should call you out on bad things you do instead of agreeing with everything
2. Friends should never make you feel unwanted or ignored
3. You should always check on your friends, you know them better than anyone else.
4. You should expect your friends to need time alone sometimes.
5. You should help your friends battle any barriers they might be going through.

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1. Friends should be able to give advice to one another.
2. Friends should also be there for support when needed.
3. Friends should be able to communicate with one another.
4. Friends should be spending time with one another.
5. Friends should be reliable for hard times.

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1. We should expect our friends to be honest
2. We should expect our friends to help us
3.We should expect our friends to be respectful
4. we should expect our friends to be reliable
5.we should expect our friends to include us as much as possible

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1. We can expect our friends to trust us (and be trustworthy).
2. We can expect our friends to be people that we enjoy being around.
3. We can expect our friends to support us in tough times, and let us talk to them about our problems.
4. We can expect our friends to be respectful of our opinions.
5. We can expect our friends to be able to forgive us if we make mistakes.

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1- We should expect our friend to be there for us in tough times and vice versa.
2-We should expect them to be somoene we trust, and can tell personal important things.
3- We shoudl expect them to be somoene that we look forward to have fun or spend time with.
4- They should expect that it is normal for people to make mistakes sometimes and still be forgiven.
5- We should expect them to be respectful about our cultural beliefs and vice versa.

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A friend should laugh with you cause they understand the Joke you made. They should be there when something is wrong, they should hang out with you and still have fun, they should be dependent, understanding, caring and loving.

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I think we should explore the topic of healthy relationships because it is important for people to know how to interact with each other in a respectful way without any problems occuring.

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1. We should be respectful and mindful of people's views.
2. We should be respectful of others ideas.
3. We should encourage one another to engage in ideas.