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Children dealing with Grief - Children and dealing with the death of a loved one

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The Poppo Series with Memory Book (4 storybooks - 1 memory book) - Children dealing with Grief

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In June, designer Kate Spade's and chef Anthony Bourdain's suicides reminded us that suicide does not discriminate. It can impact anyone, and it is often unexpected. Numerous factors can put a person at risk, including family history of suicide, substance abuse, access to firearms, a history of trauma, chronic illness, prolonged stress and isolation. And not everyone who is suicidal has a known mental health condition. In fact, 54 percent of people who died by suicide did not have a mental health diagnosis.

That's why it's critical for everyone to be able to recognize the signs that someone may be considering suicide.
Here are 10 signs of suicide that could help you determine if someone is suicidal.

Threatening to hurt or kill himself or herself.

Looking for ways to kill himself or herself.

Talking or writing about death, dying or suicide.

Rage, anger, seeking revenge.

Feeling trapped, like there's no way out.

Increasing alcohol or drug use.

Withdrawing from friends, family or society.

Anxiety, agitation, unable to sleep or sleeping all the time.

Dramatic changes in mood.

No reason for living, no sense of purpose in life.

People may show one or many of these signs and some may show signs not listed. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), suicide rates are increasing. It's clear that this is a mental health crisis we need to address.

What can you do? Enroll in a Mental Health First Aid course today to learn more about suicide, how to recognize the signs that someone may be at risk and how to get them the help they need. Mental Health First Aid will also teach you about the risk factors and warning signs for other mental health and addiction issues, strategies for how to help someone in both crisis and non-crisis situations and where to turn for help.

If you or someone you know needs immediate support, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-TALK (8255) or call 911.

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In June, designer Kate Spade's and chef Anthony Bourdain's suicides reminded us that suicide does not discriminate. It can impact anyone, and it is often unexpected. Numerous factors can put a person at risk, including family history of suicide, substance abuse, access to firearms, a history of trauma, chronic illness, prolonged stress and isolation.

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We refuse to be invisible

Speaking out and rising up together

Our goal is to touch the lives of as many LGBTQ+ elders as we can. Stand with us as we keep up our fight for fair and equal treatment for LGBTQ+ elders.

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NARRATOR: SAGE was created in 1978 by a group of students, activists, elders and dreamers. A lot has happened in 40 years. We've expanded from a small local nonprofit to the nation's go-to organization on LGBTQ+ aging. Starting with the countries first safe space dedicated to LGBTQ+ elders, to creating programs helping those during the AIDS crisis, expanding services across America with the creation of our affiliate network and certification program. And we didn't stop there. SAGE demanded a seat at the table in Washington D.C. and worked with our LGBTQ+ pioneers to push progress forward. We supported our hero and fierce elder Edie Windsor in her fight for marriage equality and defended our community from attacks by the Trump administration when they tried to erase LGBTQ+ elders. We continue to fight. We refuse to be invisible. SAGE is committed to improving the lives of all LGBTQ+ older people. Through housing...

PERSON 1: No one should have to go back in the closet, especially when it comes to housing.

PERSON 2: That's why SAGE, and its efforts to build national LGBTQ+-friendly housing, is so important to me.

PERSON 3: The fact that SAGE is sharing their housing knowledge across the country warms my heart.

NARRATOR: SAGE is changing lives through programs.

PERSON 1: Every day the music appreciation that we have at SAGE is a wonderful thing. It helps my mind, it helps my body, and the people in the room appreciate the music that I play.

PERSON 3: Art and creativity is important to me because it gives me the opportunity to share these experiences with others.

PERSON 4: You know, the highlight of my day is sharing dinners with my friends. We get closer, we start talking about the activities of SAGE, and we have a good time.

NARRATOR: We advocate for and with our elders.

PERSON 1: I've been a lesbian activist ever since my teens. SAGE gives me the opportunity to speak my mind.

PERSON 4: There can be nothing about us without us. That's why I stand with SAGE and their work to support our rights in the highest levels of government.

NARRATOR: And support our pioneers through care.

PERSON 4: SAGE is a family. They care, and we care for our own.

PERSON 3: SAGE is a part of my life and local community, but I know that I'm an important part of the larger national movement.

PERSON 4: I've lived through tough times, and we persevere, and we're stronger together.

PERSON 5: SAGE is home to me.

PERSON 1: We are proud to celebrate 40 fierce years.

PERSON 3: I've been with SAGE since the beginning

PERSON 2: I am amazed, and so proud, of its growth

NARRATOR: It's been a great 40 years, and here's to 40 more.

PERSON 4: Because even younger people are going to need a SAGE

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We refuse to be invisible Speaking out and rising up together Our goal is to touch the lives of as many LGBTQ+ elders as we can. Stand with us as we keep up our fight for fair and equal treatment for LGBTQ+ elders.

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Trans Lifeline’s Hotline is a peer support phone service run by trans people for our trans and questioning peers. Call us if you need someone trans

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I am grateful to Caron for helping my family find sobriety for our son. My son is now 100 Days into the program and he's made progress and so has our family. We are stronger and better than before. We have the tools to survive this and deal with all that comes with having a child with substance issues. We tried many other programs but only at Caron did we finally find the solace and path we needed. Forever grateful.

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Welcome to Adult Children of Alcoholics®& Dysfunctional Families

Adult Children of Alcoholics (ACA)/ Dysfunctional Families is a Twelve Step, Twelve Tradition program of people who grew up in dysfunctional homes.

We meet to share our experience of growing up in an environment where abuse, neglect and trauma infected us. This affects us today and influences how we deal with all aspects of our lives.

ACA provides a safe, nonjudgmental environment that allows us to grieve our childhoods and conduct an honest inventory of ourselves and our family-so we may (i) identify and heal core trauma, (ii) experience freedom from shame and abandonment, and (iii) become our own loving parents.

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Adult Children of Alcoholics (ACA)/ Dysfunctional Families is a Twelve Step, Twelve Tradition program of people who grew up in dysfunctional homes. We meet to share our experience of growing up in an environment where abuse, neglect and trauma infected us. This affects us today and influences how we deal with all aspects of our lives.

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Who Are Al-Anon Members? Al-Anon members are people, just like you, who are worried about someone with a drinking problem. Family members have the opportunity to learn from the experiences of others who have faced similar problems. Read More Teens come together to

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Have a problem with alcohol? There is a solution. A.A. has a simple program that works. It's based on one alcoholic helping another.

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Crisis Text Line | Text HOME To 741741 free, 24/7 Crisis Counseling

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Crisis Text Line provides free, 24/7 support via text message. We're here for everything: anxiety, depression, suicide, school. Text HOME to 741741.

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Mental Health America is the nation's leading national nonprofit dedicated to the promotion of mental health, well-being, and condition prevention.

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American Psychological Association Crisis Hotlines and Resources

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American Psychological Association Crisis Hotlines and Resources

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Need to talk to someone? Specialists are available for confidential telephone counseling and longer-term help.

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A pioneering voice in self-help literature and the recovery movement, Melody Beattie is the author of many bestselling books-including The Language of Letting Go, Playing It by Heart, The Grief Club, Beyond Codependency, and The Codependent No More Workbook.

In 2009, Newsweek named Codependent No More one of the four most essential self-help books of all time.

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A pioneering voice in self-help literature and the recovery movement, Melody Beattie is the author of many bestselling books-including The Language of Letting Go, Playing It by Heart, The Grief Club, Beyond Codependency, and The Codependent No More Workbook . In 2009, Newsweek named Codependent No More one of the four most essential self-help books of all time.

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NAMI, the National Alliance on Mental Illness, is the nation's largest grassroots mental health organization dedicated to building better lives for the millions of Americans affected by mental illness.

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Important Mental Health Issues

Advocacy makes a difference in the lives of people with mental health conditions and their loved ones.

Together for Mental Health

NAMI is here to help. With your support, we can continue fighting for higher-quality, culturally competent care for people living with mental health conditions.

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From Next Door To Across The Nation

Find Support

If you or someone you know is struggling, you are not alone. There are many support services and treatment options that may help.

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Get involved and make a difference in the lives of Americans living with mental health conditions.

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NAMI started as a small group of families gathered around a kitchen table in 1979 and has blossomed into the nation's leading voice on mental health. Today, we are an alliance of more than 600 local Affiliates and 49 State Organizations who work in your community to raise awareness and provide support and education that was not previously available to those in need.

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Frequently Asked Questions - What is SAMHSA’s National Helpline?

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If you're thinking about suicide, are worried about a friend or loved one, or would like emotional support, the 988 Lifeline network is available 24/7 across the United States.

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The 988 Lifeline is available for everyone, is free, and confidential. See below for additional crisis services and hotlines.

What Happens When I Call The 988 Lifeline?

First, you'll hear a message telling you that you've reached the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.

We'll play you a little hold music while we connect you.

A skilled, trained crisis worker who works at the 988 Lifeline network crisis center closest to you will answer the phone.

This person will listen to you, understand how your problem is affecting you, provide support, and share any resources that may be helpful.

To read a more detailed explanation of what happens when you call the 988 Lifeline, and more, click here.

Remember, your call is confidential and free.

Should I Call The 988 Lifeline?

No matter what problems you're dealing with, whether or not you're thinking about suicide, if you need someone to lean on for emotional support, call the 988 Lifeline.

People call to talk about lots of things: substance abuse, economic worries, relationships, sexual identity, getting over abuse, depression, mental and physical illness, and loneliness, to name a few.

Talking with someone about your thoughts and feelings can save your life.

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Good Mourning - Grief Podcast - Grief Support Australia

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Short talks with Colette Kenny Verdes on maternal health, pregnancy complications, preeclampsia, HELLP syndrome, NICU trauma, miscarriage, pregnancy loss, and more.

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By Colette Kenny Verdes

In this episode, Colette continues where she left off from Birth Trauma Part 1. She talks about post-partum HELLP syndrome which led to stroke-like symptoms due to a subdural hematoma caused by HELLP.

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Preeclampsia Foundation - Saving mothers and babies from preeclampsia

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Learning more about the signs and symptoms of preeclampsia, HELLP syndrome and other hypertensive disorders of pregnancy can help you identify a problem early and ensure the best possible outcome

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What is a Missed Miscarriage?

Two years ago this week, I got pregnant. Sometime that June, at my 9-week doctor's appointment, I would find out that I had "a missed miscarriage."

I had never heard of this term before except for a few days before the appointment. I was thumbing through my What to Expect When You're Expecting book and found this description: "A missed miscarriage, which is very rare, is when the embryo or fetus dies but continues to stay in the uterus. Often the only signs of a missed miscarriage are the loss of all pregnancy symptoms. Confirmation of the miscarriage occurs when an ultrasound shows no fetal heartbeat."

Some would say that I was intuitively picking up that something was wrong, but truth be told on a conscious level, I had no idea. A missed miscarriage is tricky because the placenta still thinks that you are pregnant. As a result, I had a voracious appetite up until the end.

Previous Pregnancy was Complicated

Heading into the doctor's appointment for my first visit, I was already emotionally upset. The office was adjacent to the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit. That's where my family had spent a month of our lives just the year before when my son was born at 35 weeks.

Walking that same hallway, where I had gone through such a tumultuous time, wasn't easy. I was crying as the technician began the ultrasound. Minutes later, those tears would take on a new reality - there was no heartbeat and that the pregnancy was not viable, a word that I would grow to disdain.

My husband and I were advised due to my advanced age to begin "trying" earlier that Winter. Truth be told, we were not ready to expand our family at that point. Our one-year-son was healthy, but we had just come off of the NICU and had hit some road bumps with him in the ensuing months.

The day that I found out that I was pregnant the second time, a nasty stomach flu hit our house. My husband was laid out on the couch, our son was asleep, and I who had not quite caught the bug yet got home from an acupuncture appointment and very flippantly took a pregnancy test. Much to my surprise, it was positive. I told my husband who could barely stand (due to the stomach bug), we hugged quickly, and then life moved on.

Less Excitement about Pregnancy

Maybe it was because of the aforementioned NICU trauma, but there was a lack of excitement about our pregnancy. Still, we were deeply saddened when we found out about the miscarriage. After confirming via blood work in the days after that my hormone levels were dropping, we opted to schedule a D & C in an attempt to control the uncontrollable.

From what I have heard, miscarriages can be extremely painful, and as summer vacation was just beginning, we thought that waiting for that pain to start and the miscarriage to pass was not the best option, so we decided that I would get the procedure.

In the days between finding out about the miscarriage and the D & C, I worked a bit, cried a little, and was mostly in a haze. One thing I felt compelled to do during that time was to take pen to paper and make a list. And so I listed all of the women who I had personally known and some celebrities as well who had endured this loss.

List of Missed Miscarriages

My first attempt at this list brought me twenty names. As the hours passed, I kept adding more. It's not that their pain brought me relief, but knowing that others had gone through this made me feel less alone.

My husband was great as were both of our jobs. We had ample, generous time off and a lot of compassion. Still that list of other women carried me through those initial days of heartache and still does.

On the day of the procedure, we went to our original hospital (non-NICU related), where I had gone for my very first prenatal exam with my son. The nurse who had helped me on that long-ago October day, was the very one who would hold my hand during the D & C. I believe that she was an angel.

Procedure to End Miscarriage

Given the option of wearing earplugs and listening to music, I chose the Beatles but the pain proved to be worse than I anticipated even with the medication, so I just looked at my husband and prayed silently.

While my feet were in stirrups, the doctor let me know that we could begin trying to get pregnant very soon. Though his intent was pure, so began my pushing this experience under the rug. Meanwhile, I tried frantically to get pregnant for the next year and a half.

I don't think any of you would've noticed this inner struggle. After all, during this time, I was working full time and caring for my toddler son. My husband was in graduate school and working full time as well. During this period we also lived 3,000 miles away from all of our family. In other words, I didn't have time to process my sadness or grief. I had to show up for my
life and my life was very full!

Six months or so after the miscarriage, I began to get tested for fertility, and my husband did as well. Though at this point I was 41 and a half, I was diagnosed with unexplained infertility. Even at my age, I had a good supply of eggs. The quality of my eggs was in great shape too.

No Pregnancy after Missed Miscarriage

My husband's tests all returned normal. We opted to do a few months of IUI (artificial insemination) accompanied by an ovulation stimulator Clomid. The Clomid gave me awful cysts which delayed menstruation and were also quite painful. Given that we got pregnant with our son after one week of trying and got pregnant with the miscarriage with only one try, I naively thought that pregnancy was looming and that I would, in fact, prove everyone wrong and give birth to another child in my forties.

I bought every ovulation test kit that's ever been made, did acupuncture and yoga, and bought fertility crystals. But sadly it didn't happen.

I wish with all of my being that the desire to procreate again would leave me. It has at times haunted me and it's been the case for many years. I am seeking support to help me let go, not of the grief, but of my vision. There is resistance, at times a lack of acceptance, and in turn, pain, until it passes. And it
typically does.

To those who go through the 28-day cycle of engaging, waiting, dreaming, I am with you.

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Unexpecting:  Real talk on Pregnancy Loss by Rachel Lewis

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Unexpecting Book by Rachel Lewis * Real Talk on Pregnancy Loss

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When your baby dies, you find yourself in a life you never expected. And even though pregnancy and infant loss are common, they're not common to you. Instead, you feel like a stranger in your own body, surrounded by well-meaning people who often don't know how to support you.

What you need during this time is not a book offering easy answers. You need a safe place to help you navigate what comes next.

In Unexpecting, bereaved mom Rachel Lewis is the friend you never knew you'd need, walking you through the unique grief of baby loss. When nothing about life after loss makes sense . . . this book will.

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You need a safe place to help you navigate what comes after loss, such as:

Coping with a postpartum body without a baby in your arms.

Facing social isolation and grief invalidation.

Wrestling with faith when you feel let down by God.

Dealing with the overwhelming process of making everyday decisions.

Learning to move forward after loss.

Creating a legacy for your child.

When nothing about life after loss makes sense . . . this book will.

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Unexpecting Book Discussion Community -
Join us for a not so average book club.
New group starting October 17!

Why a discussion community?

This book reaches the depths of our losses and the heights of our love. It explores the science behind grief and the intangible algorithm of faith (or no faith). It talks about the loss of our old normal and the creation of the new. In short - it's a comprehensive resource on what to expect when you are no longer expecting.

And that's why having someone hold your hand through the reading process - someone who has been there both personally and professionally - is an invaluable companion to this book.

What Past participants are saying

"My experience in the Unexpecting community group was so incredible!! I have healed more in these couple of weeks than I have in a long time. It has been so healing to be among mommas who 'get it.' I will cherish this experience forever."

"If I was going to say something to a friend considering joining this group in the future, I would say 'Run! Don't walk!!' I loved the poems and the mindfulness. Participating in this group has reminded me that I need to take care of myself. "

"Having space to actually process parts of the book that were meaningful, sharing space and stories with others was an impactful part of this group experience. It was refreshing, a breath of fresh air to be in good company with others that GET IT. If you are considering joining this discussion group, it's worth it ... you will be surprised by the comfort you feel in this space."

"This group was a comfortable space to just share or listen, no pressure at all. The sharing and non-judgmental deep listening helped me feel heard and validated. I highly recommend joining, in my experience it was truly a safe and brave space."

Early bird pricing ends Sept. 30.

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About the Author

Rachel Lewis

Rachel Lewis is a foster, adoptive and birth mom. After a 5-year battle with secondary infertility and the losses of five babies during pregnancy, she now has three children in her arms and a foster son in her heart.

As the founder of the Facebook support group Brave Mamas, she is passionate about helping others through their grief. She is a contributor to Still Standing Magazine, Pregnancy After Loss Support, and Filter Free Parents. Rachel holds bachelor's degrees in Theology, Bible, and Speech Communications.

When she's not chauffeuring her kids around, you can find her shopping at Trader Joes for the best gluten-free treats, drinking iced coffee, or writing about grief and healing on her blog at The Lewis Note.

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RTZ HOPE is a national non-profit organization that provides holistic support, resources, and community for all people who have experienced unimaginable loss during the journey to parenthood.

No matter if your loss is recent or in the past, RTZ HOPE is dedicated to empowering parents to seek whatever paths to healing are right for you.

We come alongside anyone who would otherwise suffer in silence. As impossible as it may feel right now, we want you to know there is hope. You will never forget your baby, but you will find meaning and experience joy again.

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As a result of the film Return to Zero, Kiley Hanish founded the Return to Zero Foundation to help families whose baby died during pregnancy (miscarriage, stillbirth, termination), infancy, or toddlerhood. Her mission is to transform the culture of pregnancy and infant loss through awareness, educa

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1. Spend at least fifteen to thirty minutes daily in meditation, prayer, or quiet time just being.

2. Get at least twenty minutes a day of exercise- yoga, walking, hiking, or any type of exercise within your abilities.

3. Give yourself permission to laugh when you feel authentically joyful.

4. Surround yourself with caring others- family, friends, work colleagues. Seek the company of others who are compassionate & kind.

5. Find the sun for at least 20 minutes every day.

6. Observe and truly experience nature. Notice the sky when walking to your car. Listen to the sounds of birds. Pay attention to the trees, smell blossoming flowers, hear the buzzing bees, and watch ants as they work.

7. Without forcing it, experience gratitude daily for even the simple things in life that we usually take for granted: good health, family, running water, your home, & food.

8. Show compassion, actively, toward others. Look for, even small, opportunities to help. Open doors, offer to aid someone carrying groceries, really listen to someone else's story. Actively, every day, seek to show kindness. And volunteer at least one day per month.

9. Support your brain: Eat a healthy diet & eliminate junk & fast foods. Take a good, food based multi-vitamin/mineral & include omega-3 oils such as cold pressed linseed oil, & also include borage & flax.

10. Express love, gratitude, and affection.

12. Find creative expression: garden, yoga, art, music, sculpture, poetry, writing... any way to transform emotions into creativity!

13. Be your own best friend. Now. Hurry.

14. Have a good cry when you need it.

15. Drink plenty of good water.

16. Accept and embrace painful emotions without pushing them away. Accept and embrace 'feel good' emotions without clinging to them.

17. Practice solitude.

18. Sleep 7 hours a night.

19. Eat clean.

20. Play dirty (get in the mud, walk barefoot, sweat).

21. Remember your precious, beloved, irreplaceable ones who have died.

22. Try new things.

23. Find your special song.

24. Seek out those who made a difference in your life and tell them.

25. Help build bridges of love, not fear, between people.

26. Take an internet/electronics/cell phone break.

27. Treat yourself to a day of comfort.

28. Again, rescue an animal. Rescue animals truly can rescue us.

29. Buy a stranger a cup of coffee.

30. Find your own daily or weekly rituals of solace such as lighting a candle, burning incense, writing in a journal, or taking up a hobby that honors your precious one.

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1. Spend at least fifteen to thirty minutes daily in meditation, prayer, or quiet time just being. 2. Get at least twenty minutes a day of exercise- yoga, walking, hiking, or any type of exercise within your abilities. 3. Give yourself permission to laugh when you feel authentically joyful. 4.

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Open letter to Grievers by Dr. Joanne Cacciatore 

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Complicated Grief Resources | Center for Complicated Grief

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The first in a white paper series on understanding grief and healing and what can derail this process. A handout for patients, friends, and family members with basic information on grief, adaptation to loss, complicated grief and complicated grief treatment.

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Yoga for Grief and Loss by Karla Helbert 

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On Grief and Grieving by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross and David Kessler 

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On Grief and Grieving: Finding the Meaning of Grief Through the Five Stages of Loss

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It's Ok That You're Not Ok by Megan Divine

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It's OK That You're Not OK: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn't Understand

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It's OK That You're Not OK: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn't Understand [Devine, Megan, Nepo, Mark] on Amazon.com. *FREE* shipping on qualifying offers. It's OK That You're Not OK: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn't Understand

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Healing Your Grieving Heart by Dr. Alan Wolfelt 

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"Dr. Wolfelt's 100 Ideas series includes some of his best work on healing the grieving hearts of parents, children, teens, and friends. All of the books are easy to read, can be opened at any page for quick inspiration or help, and contain quiet gems of wisdom for coping with grief.

"Dr. Wolfelt takes us gently step-by-step into healing. We don't have to hurry. We can read number 12 or number 45, or even number 1 again and again until we're ready to embrace that idea. We're not pushed. We're led and encouraged." - The Compassionate Friends

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ISBN: 978-1-879651-25-8

Author: Alan D. Wolfelt, Ph.D.

Product Type: Paperback

Number of Pages: 128

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"Dr. Wolfelt's 100 Ideas series includes some of his best work on healing the grieving hearts of parents, children, teens, and friends. All of the books are easy to read, can be opened at any page for quick inspiration or help, and contain quiet gems of wisdom for coping with grief.

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Pet Loss Archives - Center for Loss & Life Transition

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Bearing the Unbearable by Dr. Cacciatore 

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Bearing the Unbearable: Love, Loss, and the Heartbreaking Path of Grief

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Star Legacy Foundation (Loss of Pregnancy, Stillbirth, and Neonatal)

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Star Legacy Foundation (Loss of Pregnancy, Stillbirth, and Neonatal)

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Star Legacy Foundation is a community of health professionals, families, researchers, policy makers, and advocates dedicated to healthy pregnancy outcomes and stillbirth prevention. We provide education, support research, offer family support, raise awareness, and encourage advocacy regarding pregnancy loss and neonatal death. Our focus is to prevent these stillbirths and ensure optimal care for families when prevention isn't possible. Our passion comes from the memory of babies who left us too soon and the belief that every pregnancy deserves a happy ending.

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Star Legacy Foundation: Stillbirth Education, Research and Awareness

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Star Legacy Foundation is a community of health professionals, families, researchers, policy makers, and advocates dedicated to healthy pregnancy outcomes and stillbirth prevention. We provide education, support research, offer family support, raise awareness, and encourage advocacy regarding pregnancy loss and neonatal death.

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Adult death of a Parent - OUR HOUSE Grief Support Center

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It is normal to experience shock and grief at the death of a parent, even as an adult. OUR HOUSE provides safe, comforting grief support services.

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MISS Foundation (traumatic grief, loss of children focused) 

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Get involved and help grieving families find hope and healing

Help provide a measure of love, education and grief support

Help provide care by symbolically adopting one of our rescue animals

COUNSELING SUPPORT

Our Compassionate Bereavement Care® Providers are located in cities throughout the world. They receive specialized training in traumatic grief and compassionate care.

Learn about MISS Foundation Founder Dr. Joanne Cacciatore's provocative story

Compassionate Bereavement Education

Do you work with bereaved family members after a child's death, suicide, homicide, accidents, or other losses? The MISS Foundation and Dr. Joanne Cacciatore offer an intensive, four-day training in traumatic grief to providers around the world. It's a rare opportunity to become a Certified Provider in Compassionate Bereavement Care (R), a mindfulness-based, non-medicalized approach to traumatic grief, with trainings held at Selah House, near stunning Sedona, Arizona. Offering 30 CEUs (continuing education credits), this one-of-a-kind, specialized program, prepares you for an in-demand field of training often overlooked in graduate and post-graduate training. The next CBC Provider training (in person and virtual) will be held March 30-April 2, 2023.

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MISS Foundation | Support for Bereaved/Grieving Parents & Families

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Get involved and help grieving families find hope and healing Help provide a measure of love, education and grief support Help provide care by symbolically adopting one of our rescue animals Our Compassionate Bereavement Care® Providers are located in cities throughout the world. They receive specialized training in traumatic grief and compassionate care.

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Grief.com is dedicated to help everyone deal with the often unknown terrain that comes along with all kinds of grief. Through education, information and other helpful resources we hope to make the challenging road of grief a little easier.

FAQs on Grief

Here you will find frequently Asked Questions about Grief & Grieving. From what is anticipatory grief? How long grief does last? Why not avoid grief? Should children go to a funeral? And many others.
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Help With The First Few Days

If someone close to you has just passed away, you may feel like you're in a fog. That's OK. What you are going through is a tremendously painful experience.
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Suicide & Grief

When we lose a loved one to suicide, it feels like we will never be the same. But we can heal and begin to build a life of love around the loss.
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One Day Seminars

These informative workshops are open to anyone dealing with death or grief. Therapists, counselors, & nurses may receive continuing education credits. All are welcome!
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LATEST BOOK

Finding Meaning: The Sixth Stage of Grief

In this groundbreaking new work, David Kessler-an expert on grief and the coauthor with Elisabeth Kübler-Ross of the iconic On Grief and Grieving-journeys beyond the classic five stages to discover a sixth stage: meaning.

In this book, Kessler gives readers a roadmap to remembering those who have died with more love than pain; he shows us how to move forward in a way that honors our loved ones. Kessler's insight is both professional and intensely personal. His journey with grief began when, as a child, he witnessed a mass shooting at the same time his mother was dying. For most of his life, Kessler taught physicians, nurses, counselors, police, and first responders about end of life, trauma, and grief, as well as leading talks and retreats for those experiencing grief. Despite his knowledge, his life was upended by the sudden death of his twenty-one-year-old son.

How does the grief expert handle such a tragic loss? He knew he had to find a way through this unexpected, devastating loss, a way that would honor his son. That, ultimately, was the sixth state of grief-meaning. In Finding Meaning, Kessler shares the insights, collective wisdom, and powerful tools that will help those experiencing loss. Read More

Frequently Asked Questions

What is Grief?
Grief is the internal part of loss, how we feel. The internal work of grief is a process, a journey. It does not end on a certain day or date. It is as individual as each of us. Grief is real because loss is real. Each grief has its own imprint, as distinctive and as unique as the person we lost. The pain of loss is so intense, so heartbreaking, because in loving we deeply connect with another human being, and grief is the reflection of the connection that has been lost.

When does Grief end?
Grief is not just a series of events, or stages or timelines. Our Society places enormous pressure on us to get over loss, to get through the grief. But how long do you grieve for a husband of fifty years? A teenager killed in a car accident? A four-year-old child? A year? Five years? Forever? The loss happens in time, in fact in a moment, but its aftermath lasts a lifetime.
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In May of 2017, Dolores Cruz's 24-year-old son, Eric, was killed in a horrific car accident. In the depths of grief, she began a quest to find answers. She searched to find out how this could happen, to find the God she thought she knew, to find meaning and purpose in her life, to find truth, and to find her son. Little by little she was able to gain a whole new philosophy and understanding of life, death, afterlife and God. She found healing and peace in the realization that not only was Eric still around in spirit, but that the love he gave us while he was here on Earth continues on. This is her story. And this is the story of Eric, a model son, a loving sibling, a loyal friend, and a musician with a heart of gold, who left his physical body at age 24, and how he came here to change us, to affect us, to make us better, and to remind us to look around and appreciate the wonders of this beautiful world that we take for granted.

Tips for planning an online funeral

Make sure you have a good, fast, and reliable internet connection where the service will be held. Funeral homes will generally have the right setup, but other locations may not.

Designate someone other than the funeral officiant to run the technical aspects of the online session.

If friends and family in other locations will be speaking or presenting, make sure they test out their connection and setup as well.

It's a good idea to have a test run, which can also be an opportunity to gather as a smaller group and mourn together.

Read more about planning an online funeral
Meet Contributing Author & Grief Expert: David Kessler

David Kessler is one of the most well-known experts and lecturers on death and grieving today, reaching hundreds of thousands of people through his books. "On Grief and Grieving: Finding the Meaning of Grief through the Five Stages of Loss is co-authored with the legendary Elisabeth Kübler-Ross. David also co-authored with Kübler-Ross, "Life Lessons: Two Experts on Death and Dying Teach us about the Mysteries of Life and Living." David considers it an honor and privilege to have worked so closely with Elisabeth for ten years and to be with her during her passing. Learn More about David Kessler

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Grief.com - Help For Grief Because LOVE Never Dies

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Helping Others Heal From Grief is Our Mission. We Serve Family, Friends and Professionals with Videos, Books, Workshops & Speaking Engagements.

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Good Grief builds resilience in children, strengthens families, and empowers communities to grow from loss and adversity.

"Without Good Grief, I'd probably be lost and so would my family." Clara, 16-years-old

Good Grief started in 2004 with a group of concerned volunteers who believed grieving children lacked advocates. In those early days, we began by educating teachers and community groups. In 2007, Good Grief started providing direct programming to children and their families. The need and response was tremendous, requiring Good Grief to grow our programs each year. In 2012, Good Grief responded to the emerging need of families traveling long distances to Morristown by bringing Good Grief programs to Princeton. In 2017, we launched our first satellite location for urban youth through our In Community program in Jersey City, which expanded to include Newark programs in 2019. In 2017 we also launched Routes to Resilience, a social-emotional learning program that is based on over 15 years of education and programs. In 2020, Routes to Resilience became part of a larger offering, Good Grief Schools, which consists of four programs developed specifically to create a healthy and supportive environment for students, educators, and parents. While we are best known for the thousands of lives we have impacted through our direct programming, our comprehensive education and advocacy efforts throughout New Jersey and across the nation have acquired notoriety and prestigious partnerships, including Sheryl Sandberg's Optionb.org, KIPP NJ, Boys and Girls Clubs of America, Big Brothers Big Sisters Essex, Union, and Hudson county, Arizona State University, Duke University, Scholastic, National Funeral Directors Association, Outward Bound Adventures, the National Alliance for Grieving Children, and more.

Members of the community can get an introduction to our mission, programs, and facilities by attending one of our impactful open houses. If you are considering finding a way to get involved with Good Grief, whether as a volunteer, donor, or advocate in the community a tour of our center is the best way to find out more, ask questions, meet staff, and become a part of our community. Open houses are approximately 75 minutes long and offer a quick, but thorough introduction to all things Good Grief!

Individual and group tours can also be arranged by contacting info@good-grief.org or 908-522-1999.

NOTE: This tour is not for interested peer support program participants. Please contact one of our Family Coordinators to learn more about enrolling in our programs.

Board of Directors

Our Board of Directors is the strategic brainpower of our mission. These exceptional leaders not only have extraordinary resumes and life experience, but they also have unwavering passion for and commitment to this mission. This hardworking team of leaders moves Good Grief forward each and every day.

2023 Board of Directors

Guy Langford - Chair, Partner, M&A Transaction Services, Deloitte
Dr. Jody Stowe, Andrew Dinnhaupt - Treasurer, Portfolio Manager/Research Analyst Global Financial Services, Franklin Mutual Advisers, LLC Vice-Chair
Jean Frydman, Esq. - Board Secretary, Sr. Associate General Counsel, Corporate Compliance Officer - Aquestive Therapeutics

Danielle Blank Adest, Chief Financial Officer, Crisis Text Line

Joseph Catanzaro, Head of Ads Optimization, Walmart

Conor Dolan, Commercial Real Estate Advisor, CBRE
John McDermott, JD, Group Managing Director, Senior Strategic Regulatory Advisor at UBS
Christopher Karambelas, ToneyKorf Partners, LLC

David Kushner, Author and Journalist

Robert Meirowitz, MD, President of Princeton Gastroenterology Associates

Alain Van Loo, Founder, Assetive

Paul Rosica, Former Head of Corporate Sales and Structuring at BMO Capital Markets

A Little Hope Foundation
Andrea and Victor Richel Family Foundation
Bayer Foundation
Christine's Hope for Kids Foundation
Church & Dwight
Community Foundation of NJ
E. F. Harris Family Foundation
E.J. Grassmann Trust
F.M. Kirby Foundation, Inc
First Data Foundation
George A. Ohl, Jr. Charitable Trust
Glen Ridge Community Fund
Green Family Foundation
Healey Family Foundation
Jennifer Swift Fieldman Foundation
Jewish Community Foundation
Leen Foundation
MCJ Amelior Foundation
New York Life Foundation
NJ Association of Student Councils
O'Toole Family Foundation
Overlook Hospital Foundation
Pioneer Boys of America Inc.
Princeton Area Community Foundation
The Provident Bank Foundation
PSEG Foundation
Rite Aid Foundation KidCents
Sanofi
Santiago Abut Foundation, Inc
Selective Insurance Group Foundation
Summit Area Public Foundation
TD Bank
The Allstate Foundation
The Alpine Foundation
The Berk Foundation
The Greater Cincinnati Foundation
The Hyde and Watson Foundation
The John Bickford Foundation
The Steven M. Rothbard Foundation
The Willis Foundation
Thomas Glasser Foundation
Union Center National Bank
Union Foundation
United Way
United Way of Northern New Jersey
Walter and Adi Blum Foundation
Weil, Gotshal & Manges Foundation, Inc
William and Catherine Krame Family Foundation
William E. Simon Foundation
York Children's Foundation

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First things to know after a loved one passes away

It is OK to feel confused and forgetful during these first few days. This is part of the process of grief.

There is no right or wrong way to do this. Whatever you are feeling is right.

Make sure to ask for help from the friends you want around you right now, particularly those who can help with tasks and organization.

There are several immediate arrangements that need to get done, and it is normal to feel that these are totally out of step with your emotions.

If someone close to you has just passed away, you may feel like you're in a fog. That's OK. What you are going through is a tremendously painful experience. Grief is a process, and it's impossible to comprehend all at once. You are transitioning, in a sense, into a new state of your lived reality, and this transition will take time.

No matter how prepared for this you might have thought you were, your system will be in shock. In the first few days, this shock will manifest itself in different ways-every person goes through this process in a unique way, and it is generally not helpful to read descriptions of grief and feel like you are "doing it wrong."

But there is no right or wrong here. There is only your natural path to healing. That's why the first and most important thing to remember during these first days is: Take your time, and take all the space you need. Don't set any expectations for how you should be feeling. Guilt, anger, frustration, irritability, a deep sense of helplessness-these are all natural things for you to be feeling. Making space for these emotions is the first step to containing them and beginning to heal.

Call in reinforcements

During these first days after losing your loved one, you will probably be overwhelmed by the number of people who reach out. It's OK not to get back to everyone immediately. Your friends will understand that you have a lot on your plate, both emotionally and practically, and they will not be expecting you to respond to their messages of condolence right away.

At the same time, you should think about who you do want to have around you now, supporting you through these difficult days. Unfortunately, you will need to make some arrangements and deal with some logistics pretty quickly, but you should not have to do it alone. Consider who will be a strong support for you right now as you make these plans-perhaps a friend who can think more logically rather than emotionally in this moment, or a person who is detail-oriented and simply gets things done. Decide who you most want to help you through tasks as big as planning the funeral and as little as going grocery shopping. Friends and family members are there for you, and will be glad to help out in the specific ways you ask them to.

First calls and funeral planning

The bureaucratic tasks you have ahead of you in these painful days are probably going to feel incredibly at odds with your emotional state-it takes time to finally accept that a loved one is no longer alive, and yet, we must make certain arrangements for them right away. Many people who go through this feel this discrepancy. Although this cannot make it any less painful, know that you are not alone in feeling this way.

Your very first day of grief may have to be spent making various arrangements. It will be useful, particularly if you are feeling fuzzy, to have a friend there who can keep a list of things that need to get done and take any tasks off your hands that they can. Grief can make even very organized people get confused and forgetful. Do not judge yourself for this, but make sure you have the help you need to get through it.

Depending on where your loved one passed away, you may need to call in a doctor or coroner to legally pronounce them dead. If your loved one was in a hospital or assisted living facility, this will be taken care of for you. But if they passed away at home or elsewhere, arrangements will need to be made right away.

In most cases, your next call should be to a funeral home, although you may first want to figure out if your loved one had a pre-arranged funeral plan. If you know who their lawyer was, reach out to them to ask if they had discussed a funeral plan. Otherwise, perhaps another family member will know. If there is a plan available, your job is easier now. You will simply call the funeral home they made their plan with and arrange with them for transportation of your loved one's body.

If a plan cannot be found, it will be time to choose a local funeral home, whose director can help you make arrangements for transportation and the funeral service, if you choose to hold one. If possible, involve other family members in the decision, but the more quickly you make it, the faster you will be able to turn your attention to other details, such as informing your loved one's other family and friends about what has happened, and starting to plan the funeral itself

Many people feel that they must do all of this planning in a haze. It's unfortunate that some things really must be taken care of right away, giving you no time to slow down and process what you are going through. This is the difficult reality of the first few days of grief.

Remember, your friends and family are there to support you-ask for help, even with the simplest tasks. And though many of the arrangements are urgent, remember that nothing is more urgent than your mental, emotional, and physical health. Be kind to yourself, and take breaks whenever you need them. With a little organization and a strong support system, you will get through this, so you can move on to a place where you can truly process how you are feeling.
You may be eligible for free bereavement support. Empathy can help with everything from funeral planning to estate administration, with step-by-step guidance and real-time expert support. Many people get free premium access to Empathy as a benefit with their life insurance claim. We partner with New York Life, Guardian Life Insurance Company, Bestow, Lemonade, and other leading carriers. When you make your life insurance claim, talk to your representative about whether Empathy is a benefit they offer.

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Right after someone close to you passes away, there will be a lot of intense or confusing emotions, and a lot of tasks that need doing that can seem totally out of step with how you are feeling. That's completely normal, and OK.

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We don't "move on" from grief. We move forward with it.  (Ted Talk by Nora McInery)  

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We don't "move on" from grief. We move forward with it.  (Ted Talk by Nora McInery)  

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We don't "move on" from grief. We move forward with it | Nora McInerny

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Speaking Grief explores the transformative experience of losing a family member in a grief-avoidant society. It validates grief as a normal, healthy part of the human experience rather than a problem that needs to be “fixed.” It also addresses the role that support from friends and family plays in a person’s grief experience, offering guidance on how to show up for people in their darkest moments.

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How do you help a grieving friend?  By Megan Devine (Video) 

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How do you help a grieving friend?  By Megan Devine (Video) 

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Here After with Megan Devine (Podcast)  

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Each week on Here After, join best-selling author and psychotherapist Megan Devine for conversations with interesting people about difficult things. There's a lot going on lately (understatement). From personal losses to bigger collective sweeps of let's just call it - a lot of awful things? - everything is a lot. It's a really human thing to hope things will get better (even when you're not sure how they possibly could). So this season on Here After with Megan Devine: we go looking for hope. But not your airy, flaky "hoping for the best" kind of hope. Here After explores the kind of hope you get from telling the truth about how hard things are, the hope you get from keeping your eyes open and refusing to let your heart shut down. Real world hope, with guests from the front lines of grief, loss, trauma, education and activism. Here After with Megan Devine is how you'd imagine the coolest dinner party ever might be: conversations that leave you feeling seen, heard, and even a little inspired to head back out into the world to have your own conversations about difficult - and hopeful - things. New episodes each and every Monday, from the author of the best-selling book, It's OK that You're Not OK, and iHeartMedia.

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Each week on Here After, join best-selling author and psychotherapist Megan Devine for conversations with interesting people about difficult things. There's a lot going on lately (understatement). From personal losses to bigger collective sweeps of let's just call it - a lot of awful things? - everything is a lot.

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Listen to Healing with David Kessler on Spotify.

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Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross Foundation (Videos)

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Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross Foundation (Videos)

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On this page, you can find linked videos related to the Elisabeth Kübler-Ross Foundation. These include interviews, speeches, appearances and more.

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Star Legacy Foundation-sponsored and other support groups are here to help.

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This section provides an easy way to find MISS Foundation support groups, volunteers, and specially trained Compassionate Bereavement Care (CBC) providers in your community. Searching by "Provider" will display individuals specializing in peer support and licensed professionals from fields including social work, counseling, nursing, clergy, and mental and medical health workers.

Providers have completed our specialized CBC training and work independently of the MISS Foundation. To find a CBC provider or support group in your area, please try the Location search function.

To find a MISS Foundation volunteer, please try the Location or Name search functions.

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LMSW - medical social worker across Spectrum Health adult and pediatric hospitals. Email: caitlinmbeckman@gmail.com Phone: (734) 419-9332

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Kirsten Powell is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 18 years of experience in the field of mental health and human services. She is Read More

Child and Family Therapist at Casa de los Niños Location:Tucson, Arizona Email:jlopez@casadelosninos.org Website:https://www.casadelosninos.org Phone:520-784-4025 Read More

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Provider Directory for Bereaved/Grieving Parents & Families

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This section provides an easy way to find MISS Foundation support groups, volunteers, and specially trained Compassionate Bereavement Care (CBC) providers in your community. Searching by "Provider" will display individuals specializing in peer support and licensed professionals from fields including social work, counseling, nursing, clergy, and mental and medical health workers.

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Partnered with amazing facilitators throughout the country, Grief Refuge provides grief support groups that hold the space for people to safely process grief. If you feel lonely, guilty, lost, or uncomfortable in your grief, join one of our groups to feel more healing and support. Learn More

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The Dougy Center The mission of The Dougy Center is to provide to families in Portland, Oregon and the surrounding region loving support in a safe place where children, teens, and their families who are grieving a death can share their experience as they move through their healing process.

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Center for Loss Grief Counselor Directory

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Center for Loss Grief Counselor Directory

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Below are resources we have found are often helpful when searching for a grief counselor.

National and International Resources:

Local Hospices or Funeral Homes: Often your local hospice or funeral home will have information about what bereavement services are available near you. They may even be able to offer you services such as support groups and counseling through their organization.

Our "Companion" Database: We have a growing referral list of individuals who have graduated from our training courses and earned the Death and Grief Studies Certification. Some of the graduates may not provide direct care, but they may still be able to refer you to grief counselors in their region or area. You can search our "companion" database below. It is searchable by location as well as type of loss. Please feel free to call us at (970) 226-6050 for any questions.

Local Resources:

Community Grief Center: For mourners in the Northern Colorado area, we recommend contacting Community Grief Center at (970) 506-4114 or communitygriefcenter.org. They provide services for children, teenagers, and adults, as well as facilitate support groups.

3Hopeful Hearts: For mourners in the Northern Colorado area who have experienced the loss of a child, we recommend contacting 3Hopeful Hearts at www.3hopefulhearts.com or calling (970)430-6136. They offer free grief companionship as well as support groups services and hold events in the community.

Judi's House: For child mourners in the Denver Metro and Northern Colorado area. we recommend contacting Judi's House at (720)941-0331 or http://www.judishouse.org. They provide grief support services to grieving children, as well as school outreach and training.

At this time, Dr. Wolfelt is unable to see new counseling clients. However, we are here to assist you in getting the support that will help you in your grief journey. We know that sometimes there's no substitute for a human voice when you have questions. Feel free to contact us at (970) 226-6050. Our office hours are 8:00 am to 4:00 pm Mountain time, Monday through Friday.

Companion Database

Amy

Disanto

Pastor Counseling; Certified Spiritual Director; Certified Group Facilitator; Member Spiritual Directors International

Jackson, WY, Wyoming and online

(307)699-2836

info@insightsjh.com

Yes

Death, Grief and Transition
Spiritual Counseling

My interest is in helping people navigate the impacts of loss and transition on faith/spirituality.

April

Boyden

Hospital and Hospice Chaplain; Campus Minister at Arizona State University. Spiritual Director for Eric's House, grief support after suicide or overdose. Ordained Interfaith Minister with 30 years experience as Deacon in the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America.
Certified for more than 20 years as Spiritual Director with Spiritual Directors International.

Phoenix, AZ, Arizona and surrounding areas

(360)582-7351

deacboyden@earthlink.net

Yes

Grief companioning. Spiritual Direction for individuals or groups. Facilitating meaningful rituals at life's thresholds. Grief Support groups. Meditation Circles. Retreats for Spiritual Practices including prayer, meditation, labyrinths, sand play for spiritual nurture, art for exploration including mandalas and collage. Song circles.

Available for pulpit supply, funeral and memorial services, retreats and workshops

Barbara

Kirchner

Sauk Rapids, Minnesota; St. Cloud, Minnesota (MN)

(320)393-8463

peaceful-moments@hotmail.com

No

group presentations, support groups

I do NOT do counseling. I offer a one-on-one "Fireside Chat" for women in the winter (this is not counseling, but instead a listening ear).

I offer a one-on-one "Serenity Nature Walk for Women" during the nice weather months (as above, this is not counseling).

Brian's Healing Hearts Center for Hope and Healing

Niantic, Connecticut (CT)

(860)451-8354

ann@brianshealinghearts.org

Grief support programs in child loss, loss of a spouse/partner, suicide loss, general loss and
individual grief support all using the companioning model. http://brianshealinghearts.org/

Deb

Semmelroth

DNP, MSW, LICSW, CT

Duluth, MN, Minnesota

(218)461-1214
(218)590-4199 (cell_

drdeb@selahgrief.net

Yes

Grief therapist - traumatic grief (suicide and child loss)

Garrick

Colwell

Certified Grief Educator
Grief Support Group Facilitator
Grief Recovery Specialist

USA

(512)787-3402

gcolwell@live.com

Yes

Grief Education
Grief Support Group Facilitation

Loss of Spouse
Loss of Parent
Men in Grief

Gary & Shanna

McPheters

Las Vegas, NV, Nevada

Shanna - (907)360-9203 Gary - (907)360-0012

Shanna - shanna_iam@hotmail.com
Gary - gmcpheters@hotmail.com

Yes

Providing support to grievers

Karen

Mittet

BA, BEd., MNTCW

Bellingham, Washington (WA) (Service area is close to the larger cities of Vancouver, BC and Seattle, WA)

(360)224-6882

karen@karenmittet.com

Yes

Helping people with any struggles or hardships they may be experiencing, including death, grief and loss.

Karen is a Narrative Therapist Counselor. She is naturally curious about the stories of people's lives. Karen understands that listening well, with compassion and an open heart, is important on a person's healing journey. Website: http://karenmittet.com/

Kathy

Sparnins

BA, Spiritual Director Certification, Grief Educator

Woodland Park, Colorado Springs, El Paso County, Teller County,
Colorado (CO)

(719)659-0447

kathy.sparnins@voicesofgrief.org

Yes

grief and loss

Grief Educator, provides grief groups, speaking engagements and a film presentation.

Nancy

Dietsch

M.Div., PhD, Certified Educator, ACPE (Association for Clinical Pastoral Education), Diplomate, Viktor Frankl Institute of Logotherapy, Board Certified Chaplain, National Assoc of VA Chaplains (NAVAC)

Nashville, Tennesse (TN)

(858)345-0915 (c)
(615)225-3833 (w)

ndietsch@msn.com

Yes

PTSD, Moral Injury, Sexual Trauma, Grief and Loss

Rebecca

Orr

PSW, Thanadoula

Dundas, Ontario (ON); Hamilton, Ontario (ON); Burlington, Ontario (ON); Oakville, Ontario (ON); Mississauga, Ontario (ON); Toronto, Ontario (ON)

(905)978-1606

rorr011470@gmail.com

No

death and grief, life transitions, end of life counselling

alternate email: meaningfulpassages@gmail.com. "I am happy to see clients in their own homes.
Initial session is 90mins, each additional session is 60mins
Session rates are flexible based on individual needs"

Rev. Terry

Irish

D. Min., BCC

Nampa, ID, Idaho

(626)629-9363

chaplaintli@gmail.com

Yes

Provides support for those who had lost someone from any type of death, NOT just cancer.
Ø Provide support for bereaved of every faith tradition, including those who declare no faith affiliation.

Stacey

Johnson

LBSW

North Alabama (AL)

(256)891-7724 or (256)572-8010

sjohnson@hospicemc.org

Yes

Speciality: children & adults who have experienced the death of a significant person
Services: Individual & Group Counseling Sessions; Camp HOPE; Teleconference
Organization: Shepherd's Cove Community Grief Services offered at The Brook Center: 201 Glover Street, Albertville, AL 35950. No cost to participants

Tammy

Quetot

MSW, LSW, Thanatologist, CT, FT, Early Childhood Associates Degree, Certified Aftercare Facilitator: Loss, Grief & Bereavement, Military Casualty Certifications (3)

Louisville, KY, Kentucky

(502_314-2196

Companionthroughgrief@outlook.com

Yes

Civilian and Military Grief Counseling: Children, Teens, Adults, Families.
Crisis Intervention and volunteer Natural Disasters
Camp Kids Connect Grief Camps, Support Groups.
Crisis Travel

Website: http://companionthroughgrief.com/

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Below are resources we have found are often helpful when searching for a grief counselor. National and International Resources: Local Hospices or Funeral Homes: Often your local hospice or funeral home will have information about what bereavement services are available near you.