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I actually grew up very tomboy and almost all my likes and most of the way I dress is 'masculine' I've only recently started to even go into the feminine side. But I've never felt like a man specifically. I guess I'm just fine with having a woman's body. And my personality is whatever I want to be anyway. To be honest I think I just don't put that much thought into my gender. My parents were very good about not caring about gender when we grew up, I knew I was a girl but they let me do whatever I wanted to do regardless of gender. So I think I just don't care that much. I'm just me.

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The thing I know most is that I'm not a woman. I tried out being in between for a little while, but it wasn't enough I guess?
Getting comfortable in my body took transitioning [to a man].

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Agender is what works for me, because no gender has ever felt suitable, I have never felt like any one gender or type suits me, so when I found the term it made sense for me to say Agender-- I have no gender.

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Queer for me is a non-binary term as opposed to male/female. It is also separate from the popular use of transgender which often adheres to the same binary. It is less-committal and in that sense somewhere in the family of genderfluidity. I do not experience body dysmporhia and would not describe feeling more masculine one day or feminine the other. I recognize and embrace the inherent qualities of my sex and individual biology. I am aware that gender is a social construct and I choose the when, where, and why of my gender expression within the constraints of the culture(s) that I participate and coexist within. I do not have a personal pronoun preference as such and know that my assigned sex and current choice of expression will cause others to gender me in accordance with their pre-existing visually based gender cues. Neutral pronouns make the most sense on paper to me, but I do not correct any pronoun used in reference to me.

Queer also doubles as my term for sexual preference. It too is an amorphous moving target on a continuum which is largely based on individual connection and current headspace.

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Still figuring it out, but demi-girl and genderfluid are close enough.

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I never found a satisfying answer. I “tried on” different things like bigender, pangender, etc and never found anything that made me happy. I haven’t revisited the subject in a good while.

So for now, gender fluid or genderqueer fit best, only because I see them as somewhat broad catch-all categories for things I feel. I don’t want to co-opt struggles of those who more concretely feel that way though so I just call myself “a Dalton.”

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I'm a pansexual, cisgender man. Being a man fits; this is what feels authentic for me.

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I feel masculine but present feminine most of the time.

I identify as non-binary because my gender fluctuates frequently and I'd kind of rather just be "a person". Non-binary for me basically means I can be whoever I want. I can be a guy and wear a dress and lipstick, or I can dress more masculine. I can be mister or miss. Mommy or daddy. Or none of those things. Non-binary means I just get to be myself.

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For the first half of my life, I identified as “tomboy.” Now I identify as human, but I get that the world wants to assign a gender, so I just say that I’m a female since that’s my biological sex and it’s how I look on the outside (since age 16). I don’t really have preferences in regards to pronouns but most people use she/her when referring to me and that is fine. I would be just as fine if they used he/him or they/them. I hate being put in a box and forced to have a label.

I don’t mean to not give straight answers. This is a confusing area for me so it’s hard to pinpoint one answer and say “that is correct,” because it wouldn’t be the truth.

What I present on the outside doesn’t match my inside. And what gender pronouns I have used over the years don’t match how I feel, but they don’t *not* match either.