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The basic Panhu myth is about a dragon-dog who transforms into a man and married a princess. The emperor of China in the course of losing a war which he was waging with a neighbor to the west, offered to marry his daughter to anybody that would present him with the head of his enemy.

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Tenacious spirit. Dont back down despite setbacks.

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Tenacious spirit. Dont back down despite setbacks.

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致我们单纯的小美好》又想骗我谈恋爱.

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A Love So Beautiful Chinese Drama Ep 1 [Eng Sub] 致我们单纯的小美好

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Episode 2 is linked here: https://youtu.be/QR_Wx1pkS98 FYI - there are two other awesome channels that are subbing this drama - JiangChen♥XiaoXi and Nuomi C-Drama Translations and Subs. Eps are split amongst the three channels, so you'll notice eps skip on my channel.

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Watch Legend of the Condor Heros 1983 - Cantonese.

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Watch Legend of the Condor Heros 1983 - Cantonese.

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Listen to song list.
Wang re hua.
Miao qiao wei.

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*** Live each day believing it is your last.

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*** Live each day believing it is your last.

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1. Follow your heart and trust that it knows where it's going.

2. The worst thing that could happen might turn out to be the best thing that could happen.

3. You are already naked.

4. Don't let anything drown out your inner voice.

5. Stay hungry. Stay foolish.

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If you want to learn how to get the most out of your life, there isn't a much better teacher than Steve Jobs, who appeared to pack several lifetimes, never mind several careers, into his 56 years on our planet. And though Jobs did not discuss his life or his unconventional choices in public all that often, one notable exception was his commencement speech to Stanford's 2005 graduating class, where he laid out his philosophy as lessons anyone can follow.

That speech is so justifiably admired that there's a text of it hidden in the software of every Macintosh computer, if you know how to find it. Here's what Jobs had to say to the Stanford graduates, and all of us:

1. Follow your heart and trust that it knows where it's going.

Six months into his first year at Reed College, Jobs dropped out-a very big deal, since his biological mother had made college education a requirement of his adoption, and his adoptive parents had saved for years so he could go.

"I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life and no idea how college was going to help me figure it out," Jobs said. "And here I was spending all of the money my parents had saved their entire life. So I decided to drop out and trust that it would all work out OK. It was pretty scary at the time, but looking back it was one of the best decisions I ever made."

He wasn't officially a student, but Jobs stuck around, dropping all his required courses and dropping in on the ones that interested him. One of those was a calligraphy course that explored different fonts, variable space between letters and so on. Jobs was drawn to this class so he took it, even though it was clearly useless for any future career he might pursue.

Except it wasn't. "Ten years later, when we were designing the first Macintosh computer, it all came back to me," he said. "And we designed it all into the Mac. It was the first computer with beautiful typography." Typography that, as Jobs pointed out, Windows and every other operating system simply copied.

"Of course it was impossible to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college. But it was very, very clear looking backward ten years later," Jobs said. "So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something-your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life."

2. The worst thing that could happen might turn out to be the best thing that could happen.

One of the worst things to happen to Jobs was his-very public-dismissal from Apple, ten years after he co-founded the company. To add to the humiliation, the board fired him at the behest of Jon Sculley, an executive Jobs himself had recruited and hired.

"What had been the focus of my entire adult life was gone, and it was devastating," Jobs said. "I even thought about running away from the valley. But something slowly began to dawn on me-I still loved what I did. And so I decided to start over."

Over the next five years, he founded NeXT and Pixar, and met and fell in love with his wife-things that would never have happened if he hadn't been fired. And then Apple figured out it needed him after all, and brought him back by purchasing NeXT. "I didn't see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me," he said.

"Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don't lose faith. I'm convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. You've got to find what you love."

3. You are already naked.

"When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: 'If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you'll most certainly be right,'" Jobs said. "It made an impression on me." From then on, Jobs would look in the mirror each day and ask himself, if this were the last day of his life would he want to spend it doing what he was about to do? "Whenever the answer has been 'no' for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something," he said.

He went on to talk about being diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, hearing that his death was imminent, and then being treated and cured. Sadly, that same cancer would return and claim his life about six years later, though he didn't know it at the time. Even so his wisdom about how to best use our brief lives was right on point:

"Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life," he said. "Because almost everything-all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure-these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart."

4. Don't let anything drown out your inner voice.

Knowing your time in life is limited, he told the students, think carefully about how to spend it. "Don't waste it living someone else's life," he said. "Don't be trapped by dogma-which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary."

5. Stay hungry. Stay foolish.

Jobs closed with these simple directives, drawn from the back cover of the final edition of the Whole Earth Catalog. The words ran under the picture of a beckoning country road early in the morning, he said. "It was their farewell message as they signed off."

He wished that for the graduating students, he added, just as he'd always wished it for himself: Stay hungry. Stay foolish. That's advice we can all follow. Jobs always did.

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5 Important Life Lessons Steve Jobs Wanted You to Learn

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Focus on discovering yourselves more than others. Observe and enjoy.

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More than grades. More than classes. More than teachers. More than the lunch menu. More than friends. More than sports. More than show choir. More than photo or art or math or science or English or History or home economics.

I hear them talk about this subject more than ANY of those things listed above.

I'm single. She's taken. He's hot. She's beautiful. He's a cheater. I'm lonely. She's lucky. He's popular. She's dating. He's looking.

I'm not worth it.

The worth of many teens is hanging in the balance.

Not for real, mind you.

But in their own minds.

Because their worth is determined by how "wanted" they are.

And I'm not making this up. Because they tell me. They write me letters, write in journals, and they tell me to my face. Anybody who is anybody has a boyfriend, a girlfriend, or is in the process of talking to someone about being someone's boyfriend or girlfriend.

And I'm not saying that having a boyfriend or girlfriend in high school is wrong. My mom and dad were high school sweethearts. What's WRONG is allowing your worth, your appearance, your modesty, your actions, and your choices to be defined by the process of finding and acquiring "the one."

So...here are 10 reasons you don't NEED a boyfriend (or girlfriend) in high school. Let it be encouraging and affirming. These four years will soon pass - and they are a small percentage as compared to the grand, amazing, journey of life.

1. You can wear sweats. I watch lots of teens stress about what they should wear every day to school. And I love wearing fancy schmancy clothes as much as the next person, but there's nothing like a comfy pair of sweats and a worn out t-shirt. The right person will see your true beauty no matter what you wear. And sidenote: you shouldn't have to wear revealing clothing to attract attention. If you need to do that, they don't want you for the right reasons.

2. You can figure yourself out. When you're using all your time to figure out what the opposite sex is thinking, you're not figuring out who YOU are. High school is the time to figure yourself out, what you like, what you're good at, how you learn. I watch too many teenagers spending way too much time figuring out if someone likes them. It shouldn't be such a big guessing game.

3. You can focus on your friends. My favorite year in high school was my senior year. I decided I didn't want to be in a serious relationship and I focused on my friends. We had the most AMAZING year of our lives, and we will never forget it. Working on friendship not only strengthens your self-identity, but it helps you know more about what you do and don't want in a dating relationship.

4. You can observe. You can learn a whole lot about someone by watching from a distance. If you're learning about the guys or girls you're interested in, you can save yourself some heartache. How do they treat others? How do they treat teachers? How do they treat people that are hard to like? This will tell you a LOT about whether or not you'll ever want to date them.

5. You can get involved. I've watched countless teens drop out of sports, extra-curricular activities and friend groups to spend time with their boyfriends/girlfriends. High school is when you figure out what you love and what you hate.

6. You can save your kisses. Nowadays, kisses don't seem to be precious anymore. Everyone is worried about sex (or not having it). If you believe you are WORTH millions (which you ARE), then you aren't just giving your kisses (or sex) away. If you're waiting and not just dating ANYONE, you'll be able to date people who will help you learn what you're looking for in a marriage.

7. You can go out in groups. Groups are a great way to "pre-date" someone. You can do #4 (observe) and #5 (get involved) at the same time when you're out in a group. And there isn't the pressure to be the perfect date when you're in a group. Don't forget to wear your sweats if they're your fave.

8. You can be picky. While you're observing and waiting, you can remind yourself that it's okay to be picky. Too many people put up with bad behavior just so they can have a date to prom or be in a relationship. You have the right to have high standards about who you want to have that big of a part of your life.

9. You can seriously have fun. Too much - way too much - time is spent worrying about the opposite sex. Imagine what all that wasted time could have been spent doing! Going to movies, hanging out with friends, listening to music, going to football games...the options are endless.

10. You can wait patiently. The old adage "good things come to those who wait" isn't a lie. Because the right person - the one who has high standards and saves his/her kisses is also waiting patiently. And don't you want that person? The one who waits? Who wants to treat you like the king/queen you deserve?

It's not wrong to date in high school.

It's wrong to think your worth hinges on whether or not someone likes you, wants to like you, wants to date you or doesn't want to date you.

Your worth is complete - just being YOU. Just standing there doing nothing. And the right person will see that in you without you having to dress, act, or pretend to be someone you're not.

So focus on the moment. The friends. The memories.

The high school experience is like a roller coaster. Up and down. But you have a choice - every, single, day. And you can choose to see yourself the way I see you.

Priceless.

Boy(girl)friend or not.
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More than grades. More than classes. More than teachers. More than the lunch menu. More than friends. More than sports. More than show choir. More than photo or art or math or science or English or History or home economics. I hear them talk about this subject more than ANY of those things listed above....