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What makes you feel connected in a relationship? Give an example.What causes disconnection for you in a relationship? Give an example. 

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What makes you feel connected in a relationship? Give an example.What causes disconnection for you in a relationship? Give an example. 

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What makes you feel connected in a relationship? Give an example.What causes disconnection for you in a relationship? Give an example. 

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What makes you feel connected in a relationship? Give an example.What causes disconnection for you in a relationship? Give an example. 

# data[].attributes.headline
What makes you feel connected in a relationship? Give an example. What causes disconnection for you in a relationship? Give an example. 

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What makes you feel connected in a relationship? Give an example. What causes disconnection for you in a relationship? Give an example. 

# data[].attributes.headline
What makes you feel connected in a relationship? Give an example.What causes disconnection for you in a relationship? Give an example. 

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What makes you feel connected in a relationship? Give an example.What causes disconnection for you in a relationship? Give an example. 

# data[].attributes.headline
What makes you feel connected in a relationship? Give an example. What causes disconnection for you in a relationship? Give an example. 

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What makes you feel connected in a relationship? Give an example. What causes disconnection for you in a relationship? Give an example. 

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Respect, reciprocated feelings

Not respecting boundaries, breadcrumbing

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connection
1. consistency and security. i know what to expect from them and i know that i can trust that person.
2. communication. i can openly talk about issues without fear or judgment
3. mutual understanding. when we understand each other, we empathise and recognise what each other feel about something

disconnection:
1. no boundaries
2. lying
3. no time for each other

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connection:
- communication and comprehension
- sense of trust
ex.  talking about each other's feelings/ thoughts to solve a misunderstanding instead of ignoring the situation

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- mutual feelings of wanting to give your best, spending quality time together, and constant acts of service without asking
- lack of communication!!!!!!! and not respecting your partner

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i feel connected in a relationship when we would spend time together and and have deep conversation about life, although we might have different point of view but it is always nice to hear another perspective.

what causes disconnection would be crossing boundaries purposely.

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disconnection:
- not making time for one another
- not appreciating efforts done
ex. when they make plans already but cancel last minute and go with other people :(

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- communicating about how we feel and be open minded and to hear one another out
- schedule meetings to meet each other
- respect for one another

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being able to find time to talk to each other even if it's just through text

lack of trust and not respecting boundaries

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xuan ru, aairah, kai ching, rachel, charanne

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xuan ru, aairah, kai ching, rachel, charanne

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connection:
- communication,
- trust,
- sense of security,, like yk they'll be there for you
- on the same wavelength (like vibes yk)

disconnection:
- mistrust ( keeps being suspicious of partner )
- stepping over the boundaries ( possessive, over jealousy etc)
- not putting in the same amount of effort

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To feel connected in a relationship, mutual respect is needed, finding time to spend time with one another and making the effort to learn about one another

For me to feel disconnected in a relationship, not spending enough time, someone who doesn't understand you and not willing to put in effort in knowing you or spending time with you.