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[Post - OCT] Contested Divorce: Why Planning Ahead Matters | Scheduled 11.17.25

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[Post - OCT] Contested Divorce: Why Planning Ahead Matters | Scheduled 11.17.25

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In a contested divorce, couples may agree on some matters but not on others. The most common points of conflict include:

Division of marital assets

Allocation of debts

Alimony or spousal maintenance

Child custody and parenting time

Child support

While custody and child support may be modified later if circumstances change, property division is final. That makes it important to plan carefully now to protect your future. ⚖️

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/contested-divorce-lawyer

#contestedivorce #divorcesupport #familylawyer #divorcehelp

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[Thought Leadership Post - OCT] Protecting Children During Divorce | Scheduled 11.14.25

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[Thought Leadership Post - OCT] Protecting Children During Divorce | Scheduled 11.14.25

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Divorce doesn’t just affect spouses—it reshapes an entire family. The way parents handle conflict during divorce can have lasting effects on their children, often more than the actual outcome of the case itself. The emotional toll of constant fighting is something children carry with them for years.

Too often, kids are unintentionally placed in the middle—used as messengers, bargaining chips, or pawns in ongoing disputes. While understandable emotions run high, parents who lose sight of their children’s needs risk causing irreparable harm to their relationships.

Our role is to advocate for outcomes that not only serve our client’s interests but also protect the children involved. That means minimizing conflict, fostering stability, and ensuring both parents can co-exist in a way that allows children to thrive.

So I ask: when divorce involves children, is the real victory measured in what you “win,” or in what your children don’t lose?

📞 Call us at (516) 506-7006 or visit scharofflaw.com

#divorce #divorceattorney #coparenting #legal #divorcelawyer

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[Post - OCT] Postnuptial Agreements in New York: What You Should Know | Scheduled 11.12.25

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[Post - OCT] Postnuptial Agreements in New York: What You Should Know | Scheduled 11.12.25

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A postnuptial agreement is a legal tool that gives couples clarity and protection after marriage. It is especially useful when life circumstances change, such as inheriting a family business or when one partner takes on significant debt.

To be valid in New York, a postnuptial agreement requires:

Complete honesty about assets, debts, and income

Independent attorneys for both spouses

A properly signed, written document with witnesses

A postnup can provide peace of mind by addressing property division, spousal support, and estate planning. It helps set clear expectations and reduces uncertainty if the marriage ends.

⚖️At Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C., we guide clients through complex family law matters with clarity and strategy. If you’re considering a postnuptial agreement, contact us today.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/postnuptial-agreement

#postnuptialagreement #familylaw #newyorklaw #postnup

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[Post - OCT] Protecting Your Assets in Divorce | Scheduled 11.10.25

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[Post - OCT] Protecting Your Assets in Divorce | Scheduled 11.10.25

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In divorce, your financial future is at stake. In New York, courts don’t divide everything 50/50. Judges decide what is fair, which makes planning ahead essential.

👉🏻 Marital property includes assets earned or acquired during the marriage, such as homes, retirement accounts, and joint funds.
👉🏻 Separate property covers assets you owned before marriage, inheritances, gifts, and some settlements. Be careful, mixing separate funds with joint accounts can blur the line.

At Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C., we help clients protect what matters most. If you are considering divorce, now is the time to take control of your financial picture.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/protect-wealth-divorce

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[Carousel Post - OCT] Divorcing a Narcissist: Can You Ever Win? | Scheduled 11.06.25

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[Carousel Post - OCT] Divorcing a Narcissist: Can You Ever Win? | Scheduled 11.06.25

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Divorcing a narcissist can feel impossible.

They manipulate, delay, and create chaos to wear you down. But you don’t have to play their game.

The key isn’t fighting harder. It’s fighting smarter. Facts, preparation, and clarity always cut through the noise. Often, a narcissist’s own behavior becomes their biggest liability in court.

👉🏻 Swipe through this carousel to see why strategy, not chaos, determines the outcome.

If this sounds like your situation, know you don’t have to go through it alone. Let’s talk about the best path forward for you.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/divorcing-a-narcissist-in-new-york

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[Reel Post - OCT] A Divorce Lawyer Who Truly Cares and Delivers | Scheduled 11.05.25

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[Reel Post - OCT] A Divorce Lawyer Who Truly Cares and Delivers | Scheduled 11.05.25

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We’re grateful for this thoughtful review. Divorce is never easy, but honest guidance and realistic expectations can make the process more manageable.

If you or someone you know is facing this challenge, reach out to see how we can help. 🤝🏻

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/#contact

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[Thought Leadership Post - OCT] The Cost of the Wrong Lawyer | Scheduled 11.03.25

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[Thought Leadership Post - OCT] The Cost of the Wrong Lawyer | Scheduled 11.03.25

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Hiring the wrong lawyer in a divorce can be one of the most expensive mistakes you’ll ever make. Not just in dollars, but in time lost, opportunities missed, and unnecessary damage to family relationships. Too often, clients come to us after spending years locked in battles that could have been resolved sooner, had the strategy been different.

The wrong lawyer might focus on ego-driven tactics—loud arguments, endless motions, or posturing that creates more conflict than it resolves. That approach can double the cost of divorce and prolong the process, leaving families emotionally exhausted and financially drained.

The right lawyer approaches your case with precision, balance, and the willingness to fight when it truly matters. It’s not about aggression for aggression’s sake—it’s about advocacy that is strategic, measured, and always focused on outcomes that benefit the client.

So ask yourself: when your future is on the line, are you choosing a lawyer who feeds on drama, or one who is committed to solutions?

📞 Call us at (516) 506-7006 or visit scharofflaw.com

#divorce #divorceattorney #newyorklawyer #divorcelawyer

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[NL Blog Post - OCT] Divorce and the Family Home: What Happens When One Spouse Wants to Keep It? | Scheduled 10.31.25

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[NL Blog Post - OCT] Divorce and the Family Home: What Happens When One Spouse Wants to Keep It? | Scheduled 10.31.25

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For many families, the home represents more than property. It’s where memories were made and milestones were shared. 🏠

During a divorce, deciding what happens to the family home can be one of the most emotional and financially complex parts of the process. From buyouts to delayed sales, understanding your options under New York’s equitable distribution laws is key.

At Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C., we guide clients through these important decisions with clarity and care, helping you protect your interests and plan for the future.

Read our latest blog post to learn what happens when one spouse wants to keep the family home. 👇🏼

https://scharofflaw.com/divorce-and-the-family-home

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For many families, the home is more than a place to live. It holds memories, comfort, and a sense of belonging. During a divorce, deciding what happens to it can be one of the hardest parts of the process.

In a New York divorce, the question of "who keeps the house?" often carries both emotional and financial weight. Let's talk about what happens when one spouse wants to stay in the family home and how the law looks at that situation.

Is the Home Marital or Separate Property?

Before deciding who may keep the home, the first step is figuring out what type of property it is.

Marital Property
If the home was bought during the marriage, it's usually considered marital property, even if only one spouse's name is on the deed.

Separate Property
If the home was owned before the marriage or inherited, it might be separate property. But if marital funds helped pay for the mortgage, taxes, or renovations, some or all of its value could be shared property under New York law.

Common Options for the Family Home

1. One Spouse Buys Out the Other

This happens when one spouse keeps the home by paying the other for their share of the equity. The money can come from refinancing, savings, or trading another marital asset, such as a retirement account.

2. A Delayed Sale

Sometimes, especially when there are children, one spouse (often the custodial parent) stays in the home for a set period. This gives the children stability until they are older. The couple or the court sets clear rules for paying expenses and deciding when the home will be sold later.

3. Immediate Sale

If neither person can afford to keep the home, or a buyout isn't realistic, selling it may be the only choice. The court divides the proceeds fairly, which doesn't always mean equally, based on each spouse's situation.

How New York Courts Decide: Fair Division

New York follows what's called equitable distribution, meaning the court divides property in a fair way, not necessarily a 50/50 split. Here's what the court looks at:

Children's Needs: Judges often want to keep kids in a familiar environment.

Financial Situation: Each spouse's income, contributions, and future needs matter.

Ability to Maintain the Home: Can one spouse realistically cover the mortgage, taxes, and upkeep?

Length of the Marriage: Longer marriages can affect how the court divides assets.

Financial and Emotional Considerations

It's natural to feel attached to the family home, but it's wise to think about whether keeping it makes financial sense.

Keep in mind:

A buyout isn't final until the departing spouse is removed from the mortgage and deed.

Future tax effects, such as capital gains, may come into play if the house is sold later.

Home ownership includes ongoing costs like insurance, maintenance, and repairs.

Why a Property Valuation Matters

An independent appraisal gives a clear, accurate value of the home. This number is essential when calculating a buyout or refinance. A proper valuation protects both parties and helps ensure a fair outcome.

Move Forward with Confidence

Every family's situation is different, and decisions about the home can affect your future for years. If you are facing questions about your marital home in a New York divorce, our team can help guide you through the process with care and clarity.

We work hard to gain results that are best for you and your family. To learn more about the ways we can assist, schedule a consultation today or call (516) 506-7006.

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What happens to the house in divorce? Find out how New York law addresses home ownership when one spouse wants to keep the family home.

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[Post - OCT] October: Domestic Violence Awareness Month | Scheduled 10.27.25

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[Post - OCT] October: Domestic Violence Awareness Month | Scheduled 10.27.25

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Domestic violence does not always leave visible scars. It can be financial, emotional, or psychological, and it affects families across every community. Too often, survivors feel trapped, uncertain where to turn for safety and support.

The legal system can play a powerful role in protection. Orders of protection, custody arrangements, and financial safeguards are critical tools that help survivors rebuild their lives with security and stability.

We are committed to guiding clients through these difficult circumstances with compassion and strategy. Everyone deserves a future free from fear. 💜

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/domestic-violence-lawyer

#domesticviolence #dvam #familylaw #newyorklawyer #legalhelp

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[Reel Post - SEPT]  Worried About Infidelity? 4 Benefits of Including an Infidelity Clause in a Prenup  | Schedued 9/29/2025

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[Reel Post - SEPT]  Worried About Infidelity? 4 Benefits of Including an Infidelity Clause in a Prenup  | Schedued 9/29/2025

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Protect your heart and your future. Including an infidelity clause in your prenup can give you financial security, confidence, and make divorce proceedings simpler if the unexpected happens. ⚖️

Talk to us about creating an agreement tailored to your needs.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/infidelity-clause-prenup

#prenuptialagreement #prenup #familylawyer

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[Thought Leadership Post - SEPT] Choosing the Right Advocate | Scheduled 9/25/2025

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[Thought Leadership Post - SEPT] Choosing the Right Advocate | Scheduled 9/25/2025

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Do you want a lawyer who makes the loudest noise, or the one who makes the strongest case? Clients often assume that the most aggressive attorney is the most effective. In reality, success in divorce litigation is rarely about who yells the loudest.

An effective advocate is calm under pressure, prepared for every scenario, and skilled at tailoring arguments that resonate with the court. Intimidation may rattle some, but professionalism and precision consistently carry the day. Choosing a lawyer who understands this difference is critical to protecting both your future and your finances.

The right advocate doesn’t just fight — they know when to fight, how to negotiate, and how to protect your interests without burning unnecessary bridges. That balance is what makes lasting resolutions possible.

👉🏻 If you had to choose today, would you prefer a lawyer who is a “shark,” or one who is a strategist?

📞 Call us at (516) 506-7006 or visit scharofflaw.com

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[Post - SEPT]  Parental Alienation: A Hidden Custody Game-Changer | Schedule 9/22/2025

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[Post - SEPT]  Parental Alienation: A Hidden Custody Game-Changer | Schedule 9/22/2025

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Parental alienation isn’t just hurtful, it’s harmful. When one parent turns a child against the other without reason, it can cause lasting emotional damage.

In New York, judges take this behavior very seriously in custody decisions, even if the law doesn’t use the term. ⚖️

Protect your child’s well-being because they deserve love from both parents.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/prove-parental-alienation-evidence-tips

#parentalalienation #childcustody #familylaw #divorcesupport #coparenting

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[NL Blog Post - SEPT]  Do You Know How to Protect Your Wealth in Divorce? | Schedule 9/18/2025

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[NL Blog Post - SEPT]  Do You Know How to Protect Your Wealth in Divorce? | Schedule 9/18/2025

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Divorce doesn’t just end a relationship; it can turn your finances upside down. In New York, the court won’t split everything 50/50. Instead, it decides what’s fair. ⚖️

That makes planning ahead one of the smartest things you can do.

Read our blog and let’s look at how to protect what’s yours.

https://scharofflaw.com/protect-wealth-divorce

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Wondering how to keep your finances intact during divorce? Learn practical tips to protect your wealth and avoid costly mistakes in New York.

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[Testimonial Post - SEPT]  Facing Divorce Was Hard, But I Was Never Alone | Scheduled 9/15/2025

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[Testimonial Post - SEPT]  Facing Divorce Was Hard, But I Was Never Alone | Scheduled 9/15/2025

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Throughout the divorce journey, our team at Jerome A. Scharoff guides and protects your rights, helping you face the realities of divorce with confidence and peace of mind.

Contact us today for the support and guidance you deserve. 🤝🏻

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/testimonials

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[Post - SEPT] Did You Know? | Scheduled 9/11/2025

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[Post - SEPT] Did You Know? | Scheduled 9/11/2025

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Did you know a prenup can include an infidelity clause?

From financial penalties to losing alimony or even changes in property division, this clause sets clear consequences if a spouse is unfaithful.

It can cover physical cheating, emotional affairs, or even online relationships. Clear definitions make it enforceable.

👉🏻 If you’re considering a prenup or want to learn how an infidelity clause could work in your situation, our firm can help you draft an agreement tailored to your needs. Contact us to schedule a confidential consultation.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/infidelity-clause-prenup

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[Thought Leadership Post - SEPT] The True Cost of Divorce | Scheduled 9/8/2025

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[Thought Leadership Post - SEPT] The True Cost of Divorce | Scheduled 9/8/2025

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When it comes to divorce, are you thinking about cost in dollars… or in years of your life? Many people focus on legal fees, but the deeper cost of divorce often lies in the time lost, the stress endured, and the impact on family relationships.

The more contentious the process, the more expensive it becomes. Aggressive tactics might feel satisfying in the moment, but they often lead to prolonged litigation, depleted savings, and co-parenting arrangements that suffer from unnecessary hostility. Cost-effectiveness isn’t about cutting corners — it’s about being strategic.

When handled thoughtfully, divorce doesn’t have to derail your financial future or your emotional stability. The right strategy can shorten timelines, reduce expenses, and create agreements that last. That is the true measure of value in this process.

👉🏻 When you think about the “cost” of divorce, which weighs more heavily for you — the financial price tag, or the years of emotional wear and tear?

📞 Call us at (516) 506-7006 or visit scharofflaw.com

#divorcehelp #divorcelawyer #newyorklawyer #divorce

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[Post - SEPT]  Your Trusted Advocate in Family Law | Scheduled 9/4/2025

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[Post - SEPT]  Your Trusted Advocate in Family Law | Scheduled 9/4/2025

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With decades of experience in matrimonial & family law, Jerome A. Scharoff has guided clients through life’s most challenging moments from sensitive custody cases to high-stakes financial matters.

As a respected leader in the Nassau County Bar Association, he’s shaping the future of family law while protecting the rights of his clients today.⚖️

Contact us now to get the trusted guidance you deserve.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/#contact

#familylaw #matrimoniallaw #divorcelawyer #newyorkattorney

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[Thought Leadership Post  - AUG] Divorcing a Narcissist Isn’t Just Difficult—It’s Strategic | Scheduled 9/1/2025 

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[Thought Leadership Post  - AUG] Divorcing a Narcissist Isn’t Just Difficult—It’s Strategic | Scheduled 9/1/2025 

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What if the hardest part of your divorce isn’t the legal process, but the person on the other side?

Divorcing someone with narcissistic traits often involves more than just dividing assets or settling custody. It can mean navigating manipulation, gaslighting, and endless attempts to provoke conflict. These dynamics don’t just complicate negotiations—they can completely derail them if not handled carefully.

In our practice, we recognize that high-conflict personalities require a different approach. That means creating firm boundaries, building a strong evidentiary record, and staying focused on the end goal, not the emotional bait. The key is to remain strategic, grounded, and always one step ahead.

If your spouse thrives on chaos, how will you protect your peace?

📞 Call us at (516) 506-7006 or visit scharofflaw.com

#divorcehelp #divorcinganarcissist #newyorklawyer #divorce

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[Reel Post - AUG]  Facing Divorce as a Business Owner? 5 Tips to Keep Your Business Safe | Scheduled 8/28/2025 

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[Reel Post - AUG]  Facing Divorce as a Business Owner? 5 Tips to Keep Your Business Safe | Scheduled 8/28/2025 

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Divorce doesn’t have to put your business at risk. 💼

By taking proactive steps like tracking financials, valuing your company, reviewing agreements, and planning ahead, you can maintain control and clarity.

Let’s talk about how to protect what you’ve built. Schedule your consultation today.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/divorce-business-owners

#divorcelawyer #familylaw #businessowner #nylawyer #divorce

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[Post - AUG]  Can’t Agree on Divorce Terms? | Scheduled 8/25/2025

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[Post - AUG]  Can’t Agree on Divorce Terms? | Scheduled 8/25/2025

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In a contested divorce, the core dispute often comes down to who gets what: property, debts, custody, and support. 🏠

These are high-stakes decisions that can define your future. Our team helps you navigate them with smart strategy, thoughtful care, and practical solutions.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/contested-divorce-lawyer

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[Testimonial Post - AUG] Majority Custody Thanks to This Team | Scheduled 8/21/2025

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[Testimonial Post - AUG] Majority Custody Thanks to This Team | Scheduled 8/21/2025

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We are truly honored to help families through life’s toughest moments. Our team always help secure majority custody and bring peace during a challenging divorce.

Thank you for trusting us. We’re proud to be a trustworthy, responsive, and professional team you can count on. 🤝🏻

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/testimonials

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07.15.25  - Jerome A. Scharoff - Majority Custody Thanks to This Team

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[Post - AUG] Why Do Contempt Proceedings Happen? | Scheduled 8/18/2025

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[Post - AUG] Why Do Contempt Proceedings Happen? | Scheduled 8/18/2025

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Think you might be in contempt? It happens more often than people realize.

Misunderstandings around custody or child support orders can trigger legal consequences, sometimes through no fault of your own.

Let’s talk through your options. We’ll help you understand where things stand and how to protect your rights.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/contempt-proceedings-lawyer-in-new-york-divorce-cases

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[Thought Leadership Post  - AUG] The Price of Revenge in Divorce | Scheduled 8/14/2025

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[Thought Leadership Post  - AUG] The Price of Revenge in Divorce | Scheduled 8/14/2025

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Is it worth winning a battle if you lose the war?

It’s common for divorcing spouses to want to “make a point” or “teach the other side a lesson.” I’ve seen individuals spend tens of thousands of dollars litigating a single issue out of principle, only to find themselves financially and emotionally drained with little to show for it. The desire for vindication is human—but it can be incredibly costly.

At our firm, we encourage clients to consider the return on their emotional and financial investment before heading down a combative path. That doesn’t mean we avoid a courtroom when it’s the right option—it means we know how and when to go to battle, and when a more strategic solution offers a better outcome. The goal is not just to win, but to preserve your long-term wellbeing.

Divorce is not just about justice—it’s about rebuilding your life on solid ground. What are you truly fighting for?

📞 Call us at (516) 506-7006 or visit scharofflaw.com

#divorcelawyer #newyorklawyer #divorce #legalhelp

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[Blog Post - AUG] How to Financially Prepare for Divorce: Essential Steps for a Secure Future | Scheduled 8/11/2025

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[Blog Post - AUG] How to Financially Prepare for Divorce: Essential Steps for a Secure Future | Scheduled 8/11/2025

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Concerned about protecting your financial future if your marriage ends? You're not alone.

Divorce can bring uncertainty, but taking smart, proactive steps now can make all the difference. From securing assets to managing debts, there's a path forward that puts you in control.

Let’s explore divorce strategies in New York that reduce risk, protect your peace of mind, and prepare you for what’s next. 🔍

https://scharofflaw.com/how-to-financially-prepare-for-divorce

#divorcelawyer #divorcesupport #familylaw #divorcelaw #blog

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Facing divorce? Learn how to financially prepare with essential steps like budgeting, asset tracking, and planning for a secure future in New York.

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[Post - AUG] Child Support Awareness Month | Scheduled 8/7/2025

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[Post - AUG] Child Support Awareness Month | Scheduled 8/7/2025

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Every child has the right to grow up feeling secure and supported.

Facing child support challenges can feel overwhelming, but trusted guidance makes all the difference. You deserve clarity and confidence as you move forward. 🤝🏻

Book your consultation—we’re ready to help.

https://scharofflaw.com/#contact

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[Thought Leadership Post - JULY] Strategic Patience in Divorce: Why Rushing Can Backfire | Scheduled 8/4/2025 

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[Thought Leadership Post - JULY] Strategic Patience in Divorce: Why Rushing Can Backfire | Scheduled 8/4/2025 

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“Can we be done in 30 days?” It’s one of the most common questions I hear, and I understand why. Divorce is draining, and people are eager to move forward.

But there’s a big difference between moving fast and moving smart. Agreeing too quickly—before all financial disclosures are complete or before you’ve had time to consult key advisors—can lead to lopsided results.

A strategic divorce lawyer helps you balance efficiency with preparation. Sometimes, patience pays for itself—especially when what’s at stake is your parenting rights or your long-term financial security.

When it comes to major life transitions, is faster always better—or is it just more comfortable?

📞 Call us at (516) 506-7006 or visit scharofflaw.com

#divorcelawyer #newyorklawyer #newyorklaw #divorce #legal

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[Post - JULY 27] National Parent's Day | Scheduled 7/27/2025

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[Post - JULY 27] National Parent's Day | Scheduled 7/27/2025

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Happy National Parents’ Day! 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

Today, we honor the love, dedication, and sacrifices parents make every day. At our firm, we recognize the vital role parents play in shaping strong families and brighter futures.

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#nationalparentsday #parenthood #familylaw

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06.23.25 - Jerome A. Scharoff -  National Parent’s Day

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[Reel Post - JULY] Breaking the Cycle: Legal Tools for Abuse Victims in New York | Scheduled 7/31/2025

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[Reel Post - JULY] Breaking the Cycle: Legal Tools for Abuse Victims in New York | Scheduled 7/31/2025

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Domestic violence extends beyond the physical, encompassing emotional, psychological, and financial abuse.

New York law acknowledges these forms of harm, providing legal avenues for protection. ⚖️

At Jerome A. Scharoff we assist clients in obtaining protection orders to secure their safety and start anew. You are not alone; your well-being and future are our priority.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/domestic-violence-lawyer

#domesticviolenceawareness #divorcelawyer #familylaw #protectionorder

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06.23.25 - Jerome A. Scharoff - Breaking the Cycle Legal Tools for Abuse Victims in NY

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[Post - JULY] Protect Your Home During Separation: 5 Must-Know Tips | Scheduled 7/28/2025

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[Post - JULY] Protect Your Home During Separation: 5 Must-Know Tips | Scheduled 7/28/2025

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Going through a separation? Here are 5 key steps to protect your property:

• Secure important documents (mortgage, deed, taxes)
• Communicate carefully and always check with your attorney
• Track all home-related expenses
• Consider mediation to reach fair agreements
• Seek legal advice to protect your rights

Ready to protect what matters most? Contact us today for trusted legal guidance during your separation. 🤝🏻

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/who-stay-in-house-during-divorce

#legaltips #divorcesupport #propertydivision #familylaw #legalcounsel

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06.23.25 - Jerome A. Scharoff - Protect Your Home During Separation

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[Testimonial Post - JULY] More Than a Lawyer, A True Partner in Difficult Times | Scheduled 7/24/2025

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[Testimonial Post - JULY] More Than a Lawyer, A True Partner in Difficult Times | Scheduled 7/24/2025

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At Jerome A. Scharoff, we see ourselves as more than just legal representatives; we're dedicated partners. We stand by you, offering unwavering support, deep knowledge, and true compassion as you navigate life's most challenging transitions.

Thank you for your trust. ⚖️

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/testimonials

#testimonial #clientreview #familylaw #newyorklawyer #NYlaw

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04.14.25 - Jerome A. Scharoff - More Than a Lawyer, A True Partner in Difficult Times

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[Thought Leadership Post - JULY] Putting Children at the Center, Not in the Middle | Scheduled 7/21/2025

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[Thought Leadership Post - JULY] Putting Children at the Center, Not in the Middle | Scheduled 7/21/2025

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“How will this process look through your child’s eyes ten years from now?” Research shows kids fare better when parents shield them from conflict and craft predictable routines.

Parenting plans that focus on developmental stages—toddlers vs. teens—reduce friction and foster resilience. Clear communication protocols (think shared calendars and neutral drop-offs) help co-parents navigate inevitable bumps without courtroom relapses.

Judges increasingly expect parents to demonstrate flexibility: swapping weekends for a championship game or accommodating a new extracurricular can speak volumes about priorities. Modeling cooperation today cultivates healthier relationships tomorrow.

When conflicts arise, do we fight to be right, or do we fight for our children’s peace of mind?

📞 Call us at (516) 506-7006 or visit scharofflaw.com

#divorce #newyorklawyer #coparenting #divorcehelp

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[NL Blog Post - JULY] Facing Divorce as a Business Owner? Here’s How to Keep Your Business Safe | Scheduled 7/17/2025

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[NL Blog Post - JULY] Facing Divorce as a Business Owner? Here’s How to Keep Your Business Safe | Scheduled 7/17/2025

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Divorce is tough, especially when a business is involved.

In New York, a company started or grown during the marriage may be considered marital property, even if your spouse didn’t contribute to it.

👉🏻 Read our latest blog to learn how to safeguard your business during divorce.

https://scharofflaw.com/divorce-business-owners

#divorcelaw #businessowner #familylaw #divorceattorney #maritalproperty #blog

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Divorce as a business owner? Learn how to protect your company’s value, manage division risks, and stay in control during a New York divorce.

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[Post - JULY] 4th of July | Scheduled 7/4/2025

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[Post - JULY] 4th of July | Scheduled 7/4/2025

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Happy 4th of July!

Wishing you a safe and joyful Independence Day filled with pride, celebration, and unity. 🎆

https://scharofflaw.com

#independenceday #4thofjuly #USA

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[Thought Leadership Post - JUNE] Divorcing a Narcissist: What the Courtroom Doesn’t Fix | Scheduled 7/14/2025

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[Thought Leadership Post - JUNE] Divorcing a Narcissist: What the Courtroom Doesn’t Fix | Scheduled 7/14/2025

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Clients often come to us exhausted—mentally, emotionally, and financially—after years of trying to reason with someone who only plays by their own rules. When they finally decide to divorce a narcissistic spouse, they’re not just looking for legal protection. They’re looking for relief.

But here’s the truth most attorneys won’t say upfront: the courtroom can’t fix personality disorders. Judges are focused on facts, not manipulation. That means while we can fight for custody, support, and a fair distribution of assets, the narcissist’s gaslighting and control tactics don’t stop just because a judge bangs the gavel.

What we can do is create a strategic legal plan that protects you from future entanglement. That may mean building airtight parenting plans, requesting decision-making boundaries, and documenting everything. It also means working with professionals such as therapists, financial advisors, or parenting coordinators who understand how to respond without fueling the fire.

Are you prepared for a legal strategy that doesn’t just confront the conflict but minimizes its power over your future?

📞 Call us at (516) 506-7006 or visit scharofflaw.com

#divorcinganarcissist #narcissistdivorce #legalsupport #divorcelaw #familylaw #narcissist

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[Post - JUNE] Filing First in a Divorce: The Potential for a Faster Court Date | Scheduled 7/10/2025

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[Post - JUNE] Filing First in a Divorce: The Potential for a Faster Court Date | Scheduled 7/10/2025

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Filing first may lead to a slightly earlier court date, but this is not always advantageous. If you are not adequately prepared, rushing the process could negatively impact your case.

Having additional time to prepare allows for a stronger, more well-organized presentation. ⚖️

It’s important to remember that strategy outweighs speed in the courtroom.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/filing-for-divorce-first

#divorcelaw #newyorkdivorce #familylaw #familycourt #divorcehelp

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05.14.25 - Jerome A. Scharoff - Filing First in a Divorce

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[Blog Post - JUNE] Post-Divorce Modification: When & How to Change Your Divorce Agreement | Scheduled 7/7/2025

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[Blog Post - JUNE] Post-Divorce Modification: When & How to Change Your Divorce Agreement | Scheduled 7/7/2025

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Divorce is meant to provide closure, but life doesn’t stop moving just because a judge signed off on an agreement. ⚖️ Jobs change, kids grow, and financial situations shift.

Sometimes, what worked at the time of the divorce no longer makes sense. When that happens, modifying your divorce agreement may be necessary. 🔄

Here’s what you need to know about when and how you can modify your divorce agreement in New York.

https://scharofflaw.com/post-divorce-modification

#legalcounsel #blog #familylaw #childsupport #familylawfirm

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Circumstances change—learn when and how you can modify your divorce agreement in New York after the final judgment.

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[Reel Post - JUNE] Protecting Children: How NY Courts Handle Custody & Domestic Violence | Scheduled 7/3/2025

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[Reel Post - JUNE] Protecting Children: How NY Courts Handle Custody & Domestic Violence | Scheduled 7/3/2025

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When domestic violence is involved, child custody decisions in NY courts go beyond physical safety, they focus on emotional and psychological well-being too.

Courts may consider:
✅ History of abuse
✅ Mental & physical health of both parents
✅ Willingness to support the child’s relationship with the other parent

It’s all about what serves the child’s best interests.

We're here to help you.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/domestic-violence-lawyer

#childcustody #domesticviolenceawareness #familylaw #familylawyer #legalhelp

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[Thought Leadership Post - JUNE] The Most Overlooked Step in Divorce? Getting Organized. | Scheduled 6/30/2025

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[Thought Leadership Post - JUNE] The Most Overlooked Step in Divorce? Getting Organized. | Scheduled 6/30/2025

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When emotions are high, paperwork is often the last thing people want to deal with. But disorganization in divorce isn’t just inconvenient. It can be costly. In fact, one of the most overlooked contributors to a messy outcome is a lack of preparation.

The earlier you gather key documents such as tax returns, bank statements, and mortgage records, the more control you have over your case. Being organized allows your legal team to work efficiently and with confidence. It also demonstrates seriousness, which can influence how opposing counsel and the court perceive you.

At Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C., we help clients build a solid foundation from the start. Preparation is power, and that power allows us to be more strategic, not reactive. It saves time, money, and unnecessary stress.

How prepared would you be if your divorce started tomorrow?

📞 Call us at (516) 506-7006 or visit scharofflaw.com

#divorce #newyorklawyer #legaltips #legalprofession

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[Carousel Post - JUNE] 4 Divorce Myths You Shouldn’t Believe About Filing First in New York | Scheduled 6/26/2025

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[Carousel Post - JUNE] 4 Divorce Myths You Shouldn’t Believe About Filing First in New York | Scheduled 6/26/2025

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Thinking filing first gives you the upper hand in a New York divorce? Think again.

Here are 4 common myths that don’t hold up in court and what actually matters. ⚖️

Have questions about your situation? Contact us.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/filing-for-divorce-first

#divorcelaw #newyorklawyer #divorcelawyer #familylaw

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05.14.25  - Jerome A. Scharoff - 4 Divorce Myths

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[Post - JUNE]  Being a Father Means More Than Biology  | Scheduled 6/23/2025

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[Post - JUNE]  Being a Father Means More Than Biology  | Scheduled 6/23/2025

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Being a father isn’t just about biology, it’s about being there, through the good days and the hard ones. But in New York, if paternity isn’t legally established, your ability to be part of your child’s life can be limited.

Whether you’re trying to sort out a paternity test, court process, or just don’t know where to start, we’ll walk you through it. Step by step.

Your bond with your child matters. And we’re here to help protect it. 👨‍👧

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/fathers-rights-lawyer

#fathers #paternityrights #custodyrights #nyfamilylaw #familylawyer

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05.14.25  - Jerome A. Scharoff -  Being a Father Means More Than Biology 

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[Blog Post - JUNE] 10 Common Reasons for Grey Divorce & Why Late-Life Splits Happen | Scheduled 6/19/2025

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[Blog Post - JUNE] 10 Common Reasons for Grey Divorce & Why Late-Life Splits Happen | Scheduled 6/19/2025

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Divorce isn’t just something that happens to younger couples anymore. In fact, the number of divorces among people over 50 has doubled between 1990 and 2010. 📈

One in four divorces now involves individuals in this age group. Splitting up later in life, often called 'grey divorce,' brings its own unique set of challenges, from financial stability to emotional adjustments.

Let’s take a closer look at the reasons why more older adults are choosing to divorce:

https://scharofflaw.com/grey-divorce-reasons

#greydivorce #divorce #familylaw #divorcelaw #blog

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Late-life divorce is growing. Find out what drives gray divorce and how these common reasons might apply to your situation.

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[Post - MAY] Enforcement Can Restore Your Peace After Divorce | Scheduled 05.28.25

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[Post - MAY] Enforcement Can Restore Your Peace After Divorce | Scheduled 05.28.25

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If your ex-partner refuses to leave the home that was legally granted to you, it is not just frustrating, it is a violation of a court order. ⚖️

Legal enforcement allows you to reclaim your space and restore peace in your life. 🏠

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/enforcement-lawyer

#divorcerights #familylaw #enforcement #maritalhome

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04.14.25 - Jerome A. Scharoff - Enforcement Can Restore Your Peace After Divorce

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[Thought Leadership Post - MAY] Divorce is Hard. Co-Parenting Doesn’t Have to Be. Scheduled 05.23.25

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[Thought Leadership Post - MAY] Divorce is Hard. Co-Parenting Doesn’t Have to Be. Scheduled 05.23.25

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Divorce is Hard. Co-Parenting Doesn’t Have to Be.

The divorce may end your marriage, but it doesn't end your relationship with your children or with the person you’re co-parenting them with. Yet many litigants go into divorce hoping to “win custody” without understanding what long-term co-parenting success really looks like.

The courtroom can’t teach you how to manage bedtime schedules, navigate holidays, or handle teenage rebellion across two households. That takes a different kind of planning rooted in stability, respect, and forward thinking.

We work with clients to protect parental rights, yes, but also to preserve the ability to raise emotionally secure children in a divided family structure. Because your kids deserve more than a legal victory. They deserve peace.

Is your legal strategy focused on your children’s future or just your frustration today?

📞 Call us at (516) 506-7006 or visit scharofflaw.com

#nylawfirm #legalcounsel #divorce #coparenting #legaltips

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[Reel Post - MAY] 5 Key Issues to Resolve in a Contested Divorce | Scheduled 05.20.25

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[Reel Post - MAY] 5 Key Issues to Resolve in a Contested Divorce | Scheduled 05.20.25

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Thinking about divorce or already going through one?
If it’s contested, a judge might decide for you unless you sort things out first. ⚖️

Here are 5 key issues to resolve in a contested divorce: 👇

🔹 Division of marital assets
🔹 Allocation of debts
🔹 Alimony/spousal support
🔹 Child custody and parenting time
🔹 Child support

✅ Some decisions are final, plan ahead to protect your future. We're here to help you find real, out-of-court solutions that work.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/contested-divorce-lawyer

#divorcehelp #familylaw #contesteddivorce #legalguidance #newyorklawyer #divorcelawyer

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_04.14.25 - Jerome A. Scharoff -  5 Key Issues  to Resolve in a Contested Divorce

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[Post - MAY]  Lost Your Job? You May Qualify for Child Support Modification | Scheduled 05.15.25

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[Post - MAY]  Lost Your Job? You May Qualify for Child Support Modification | Scheduled 05.15.25

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A sudden drop in income can make it difficult to meet your child support obligations. 💼

If this happens, it’s important to act quickly, file a petition as soon as possible. 📝

The court cannot adjust payments retroactively, and failing to follow the existing order may result in contempt of court. ⚖️

Contact us today to protect your rights and take the right legal steps.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/modifications-after-divorce

#childsupporthelp #familylawtips #parentrights #nylaw #legaltips

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[Blog Post - MAY]  Do Prenups Need to Be Notarized in New York? | Scheduled 05.12.25

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[Blog Post - MAY]  Do Prenups Need to Be Notarized in New York? | Scheduled 05.12.25

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💍 Marriage is a lifelong commitment filled with possibilities. While you're planning for the future, it's wise to also prepare for the unexpected.

📄 A prenuptial agreement offers couples a clear, structured way to define their financial arrangements.

🔍 In this blog, we examine the fundamental requirements for a valid prenuptial agreement in New York, including the critical role of notarization.

https://scharofflaw.com/prenup-notarization

#prenup #familylaw #nylaw #prenuptialagreement #legaltips #relationshipgoals

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In New York, notarization can impact the enforceability of a prenuptial agreement. Find out if your prenup needs to be notarized—contact us for guidance.

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[Thought Leadership Post - MAY] What Does ‘Winning’ a Divorce Actually Look Like? | Scheduled 05.08.25

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What Does ‘Winning’ a Divorce Actually Look Like?

Clients often come in saying they want to “win” their divorce. But unlike criminal cases or business disputes, family law rarely offers a clear winner. The real success? Leaving the process with dignity, financial security, and a workable life on the other side.

Winning isn’t about destroying your spouse. It’s about making sound decisions under pressure. It’s about knowing when to stand your ground and when to compromise, especially when children or significant assets are involved.

We focus on outcomes that serve your long-term interests, not short-term emotional victories. That’s what real strength looks like in a divorce.

📞 Call us at (516) 506-7006 or visit scharofflaw.com

So, ask yourself: are you chasing a win… or building a life?

#divorcehelp #newyorklawyer #legal #divorce #legalhelp

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[Post - MAY] Exceptional Support During a Difficult Time | 05.05.25

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[Post - MAY] Exceptional Support During a Difficult Time | 05.05.25

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We’re grateful for our amazing clients who trust us during some of the most difficult times in their lives. ⚖️

Helping you through a tough transition and making it easier is why we do what we do.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/testimonials

#clienttestimonial #clientreview #familylaw #familylawyer #newyorklawfirm

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04.14.25 - Jerome A. Scharoff -  Exceptional Support During a Difficult Time

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[NL Blog Post - MAY] Are You Facing Divorce Later in Life? Steps to Protect Your Assets and Future | Scheduled 05.01.25

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[NL Blog Post - MAY] Are You Facing Divorce Later in Life? Steps to Protect Your Assets and Future | Scheduled 05.01.25

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Divorcing later in life brings unique challenges, as years of shared life, home, and plans feel like they’re shifting. 🏠

We support individuals across New York in finding clarity and confidence as they move into their next chapter. 💪🗽

Check out our blog where we explain how property is divided in New York during a divorce:

https://scharofflaw.com/divorce-later-in-life

#divorce #newbeginnings #movingon #newyork #divorcelawyer #blog

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Divorce later in life presents unique challenges. Learn how to protect your assets, retirement, and future during a gray divorce in New York.

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[Post - APRIL] Tips for Drafting Your Prenup or Postnup Agreement | Scheduled 4/29/2025 

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[Post - APRIL] Tips for Drafting Your Prenup or Postnup Agreement | Scheduled 4/29/2025 

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Starting the conversation about a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement can strengthen your relationship and guarantee financial clarity. 👫

Here are some tips:

1️⃣ Get independent legal advice for both spouses.
2️⃣ Be transparent about your assets, income & liabilities.
3️⃣ Plan early, don’t wait until the wedding day or marriage crisis.

An informed decision today can secure your future together.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/can-spousal-maintenance-be-waived-in-a-prenuptial-or-postnuptial-agreement

#prenuptialagreement #postnuptialagreement #financialplanning #familylaw #legalhelp

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[Thought Leadership Post - APRIL] Co-Parenting with a Narcissist—The Battle After the Divorce | Scheduled 4/24/2025 

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[Thought Leadership Post - APRIL] Co-Parenting with a Narcissist—The Battle After the Divorce | Scheduled 4/24/2025 

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Co-Parenting with a Narcissist—The Battle After the Divorce.

The legal battle may end with a judge’s ruling, but when children are involved, the real challenge often begins after the divorce is final. Co-parenting with a narcissist isn’t about collaboration—it’s about damage control. They use every interaction as an opportunity to manipulate, undermine, and keep you emotionally engaged in the fight.

One of the biggest mistakes parents make is assuming the narcissist will eventually “move on.” The reality? They don’t co-parent—they counter-parent. Every decision, big or small, becomes another power struggle. They may refuse to follow agreements, badmouth you to the children, or create unnecessary conflict just to maintain control. The antidote? A highly detailed parenting plan, parallel parenting techniques, and strong legal enforcement when necessary.

Boundaries are your greatest asset. Narcissists thrive on reaction—when you refuse to engage in their drama, they lose their grip. Every message, exchange, and interaction should be strategic, documented, and emotion-free. You’re not just protecting yourself—you’re protecting your children from becoming pawns in their game.

For those navigating co-parenting with a narcissist, what strategies have helped you minimize conflict?

#coparenting #legalhelp #divorcelawyer #newyorklaw #legalcounsel #familylawyer #legalguidance #familylaw #narcissist

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[Blog Post - APRIL] Prenuptial Agreements And Their Impact On Business Assets | Scheduled 4/22/2025 

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When couples prepare for marriage, financial concerns often arise, especially if one or both partners own a business. 💼 A marriage can impact not only the families involved but also employees and stakeholders. It’s important for business owners to take steps to protect their business, ideally before marriage. 💍

A prenuptial agreement can help set clear expectations and protections for both partners.

👉 Learn more on our blog for tips on protecting your business. 📖

https://scharofflaw.com/prenuptial-agreements-and-their-impact-on-business-assets

#businessprotection #prenuptialagreement #financialplanning #businessowners #divorceprotection

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When couples prepare to marry and merge their financial interests, questions and concerns often arise. These issues become far more complex when one or both

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[Post - APRIL] The Hidden Challenges of Child Support in New York | Scheduled 4/17/2025 

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[Post - APRIL] The Hidden Challenges of Child Support in New York | Scheduled 4/17/2025 

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Child support in New York is based on a set formula, but complications arise in cases involving closely-held businesses , high-income caps, or unique family situations. 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

At Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C., we help you address these challenges and guarantee that the best interests of your child are met.

💬 Contact us to secure a fair child support arrangement.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/child-support-lawyer

#childsupport #newyorklaw #custodialparent #familylaw #legalhelp

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[Post - APRIL] From Our Clients | Scheduled 4/15/2025

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[Post - APRIL] From Our Clients | Scheduled 4/15/2025

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We are thankful for the kind words of our client.

It’s always our top priority to handle every case with the utmost professionalism and sensitivity. 💼

We're proud to have been there every step of the way and will continue to offer the best support possible. Thank you for trusting us. 🫱🏻‍🫲🏼

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/testimonials

#clienttestimonial #satisfiedclient #clientreview #familylaw #familylawyer #newyorklawfirm

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[Blog Post - APRIL] When Does Separate Property Become Marital in NY? | Scheduled 4/10/2025

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[Blog Post - APRIL] When Does Separate Property Become Marital in NY? | Scheduled 4/10/2025

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Divorce and property division can be complicated issues, especially when determining what’s separate and what’s marital property. 💔💼

In New York, separate property can become marital property when it’s commingled with marital funds, improved using shared resources, or re-titled in both spouses’ names. 🏡

Read our blog and let’s take a closer look at how separate property can be reclassified as marital property and what steps you can take to protect it. ⬇️

https://scharofflaw.com/separate-property-becoming-marital

#divorce #propertydivision #separateproperty #maritalproperty #nylaw #familylaw #legalhelp

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When Does Separate Property Become Marital in NY? - Garden City Divorce & Family Lawyer | Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C.

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In New York, separate property can become marital if it’s commingled, improved with joint funds, or re-titled. Protect your assets—call us today.

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[Thought Leadership Post - APRIL] Think You Can Hide Assets in Divorce? Think Again. | Scheduled 4/8/2025

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[Thought Leadership Post - APRIL] Think You Can Hide Assets in Divorce? Think Again. | Scheduled 4/8/2025

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Think You Can Hide Assets in Divorce? Think Again.

Some people believe they can outmaneuver the legal system by hiding assets during a divorce. Offshore accounts, secret businesses, or even stashing cash—it happens more often than many realize. But here’s the truth: financial deception almost always gets uncovered, and the consequences can be severe.

In New York, courts take financial transparency seriously. If hidden assets are discovered, the penalties can range from an uneven division of marital property to sanctions or even perjury charges. A forensic accountant, legal discovery tools, and a skilled attorney can uncover discrepancies with surprising accuracy. The short-term gain of hiding assets is rarely worth the long-term fallout.

If you’re going through a divorce, the best strategy is honesty and preparation. Instead of trying to manipulate the outcome, focus on securing a fair division that allows you to move forward. Do you think people underestimate the risks of financial deception in divorce?

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[Post - APRIL]  Is Your Child's Father Legally Recognized? The Truth About Establishing Paternity in New York | Scheduled 4/3/2025

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[Post - APRIL]  Is Your Child's Father Legally Recognized? The Truth About Establishing Paternity in New York | Scheduled 4/3/2025

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In New York, paternity isn’t always automatically assumed.

If the mother is married, the spouse is considered the legal father, even if the biological father is someone else. If not married, a father must take legal steps to be recognized. 👶

For those not in agreement, the court can order a DNA test to prove biological fatherhood. It’s all about protecting your child’s future. 💡

Need help with paternity rights? Contact us today.

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_02.05.25 - Jerome A. Scharoff -  Get Your Finances in Order Before Your Divorce

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[Post - MARCH]  Divorce Without the Courtroom Drama | Scheduled 3/27/2025 

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Thinking about divorce but want to keep it simple? 🤔

An Uncontested Divorce in New York is a great option if you and your spouse agree on everything. No long court battles, just a smooth and peaceful process. If you’re on the same page about property, custody, and support, you can move forward with less stress.

Ready for a fresh start? Contact us today to get started on a hassle-free divorce. 🤝

📞(516) 506-7006

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02.05.25 - Jerome A. Scharoff - Divorce  Without the Courtroom Drama

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[Thought Leadership Post - MARCH] When a Court Order Feels Like a Suggestion | Scheduled 3/25/2025 

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[Thought Leadership Post - MARCH] When a Court Order Feels Like a Suggestion | Scheduled 3/25/2025 

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You followed the process, went through the legal battle, and finally secured a court order. But now, your ex-spouse is ignoring it—refusing to pay child support, denying parenting time, or failing to divide assets as agreed. It’s frustrating, but more importantly, it’s not optional.

Too often, people assume a court order is merely a recommendation rather than a legally binding directive. The reality is, noncompliance has consequences, and the law provides multiple options to enforce an order, from wage garnishment to contempt proceedings. The key is knowing when and how to act—without escalating unnecessary conflict.

Taking the right approach isn’t just about enforcement—it’s about holding your ex accountable while protecting your rights and financial well-being. The longer violations go unchecked, the harder they are to correct. If you’re in this situation, what has been the most challenging part of enforcing a court order?

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[NL Blog Post - MARCH] Divorcing a Narcissistic Spouse? Protect Your Rights and Assets | Scheduled 3/20/2025

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[NL Blog Post - MARCH] Divorcing a Narcissistic Spouse? Protect Your Rights and Assets | Scheduled 3/20/2025

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Divorcing a narcissist? It’s not easy. 😔⚖️

Their need for control and high-conflict tactics can make the process even harder. But you don’t have to go through it alone.

📖 Read our latest blog for strategies to protect yourself and move forward with confidence. ⬇️

https://scharofflaw.com/divorcing-narcissistic

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Divorcing a narcissist can be overwhelming. Their need for control and conflict can make every step more difficult. At Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C., we understand

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[Post - MARCH]  When to Consider Changing Your Divorce Strategy | Scheduled 3/18/2025

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[Post - MARCH]  When to Consider Changing Your Divorce Strategy | Scheduled 3/18/2025

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Not all divorces stay uncontested. Sometimes, plans need to change.

If you and your spouse can’t agree on key issues, if they refuse to follow through on agreed terms, or if delays keep happening, it may be time to prepare for a contested divorce. ⚖️

Need legal guidance? We’re here to help you protect your rights and move forward. Contact us today. 🤝

📞(516) 506-7006

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[Testimonial Post - MARCH]  Client Experiences | Scheduled 3/13/2025

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[Testimonial Post - MARCH]  Client Experiences | Scheduled 3/13/2025

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At Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C. we pride ourselves on being knowledgeable, detail-oriented, and thorough. ⚖️

We take the time to carefully work through every case to make sure our clients get the best results possible. Your case matters, and we’re here to guide you every step of the way.

Need legal support? Contact us today to see how we can help. 💼

📞(516) 506-7006

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[Post - MARCH]  Get Your Finances in Order Before Your Divorce | Scheduled 3/11/2025

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[Post - MARCH]  Get Your Finances in Order Before Your Divorce | Scheduled 3/11/2025

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Thinking about divorce in New York? 🤔⚖️

One of the first steps is getting your financial documents in order. 📑 Make sure to gather your bank statements, tax returns, and property deeds to keep things smooth when dividing assets. 💰

A little preparation now can save you time and stress later.🔑 Need guidance? We’re here to help.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/can-an-uncontested-divorce-become-contested

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02.05.25 - Jerome A. Scharoff -  Get Your Finances in Order Before Your Divorce

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[Thought Leadership Post - MARCH] The Illusion of Control in a Divorce with a Narcissist | Scheduled 3/6/2025

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[Thought Leadership Post - MARCH] The Illusion of Control in a Divorce with a Narcissist | Scheduled 3/6/2025

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If you’re divorcing a narcissist, you may already know that control is their currency. They thrive on manipulation, gaslighting, and emotional warfare—all tactics designed to keep you off balance. The legal process, which should be about fair division and resolution, becomes their battleground for dominance.

What many don’t realize is that a narcissist is not seeking a fair outcome—they are seeking to win, regardless of the collateral damage. They will use the courts as a stage, filing unnecessary motions, dragging out proceedings, and distorting reality to paint themselves as the victim. But here’s the truth: their power diminishes when met with calm, strategic, and fact-driven advocacy rather than reactive emotion.

The key is a precise, proactive legal strategy that denies them the control they crave. This means crafting a case that anticipates their tactics, ensuring airtight documentation, and maintaining composure in and out of the courtroom. It’s not about fighting fire with fire; it’s about extinguishing their ability to ignite chaos in the first place.

If you’ve been through a divorce with a narcissist, what was the most surprising tactic they used?

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[Blog Post - MARCH] What Is a Postnuptial Agreement and Should You Get One?| Scheduled 3/4/2025

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[Blog Post - MARCH] What Is a Postnuptial Agreement and Should You Get One?| Scheduled 3/4/2025

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Just married? 💍 Life is amazing, but let’s be real, marriage comes with its challenges.

Between work, responsibilities, and big financial decisions, things can get complicated. That’s where a postnuptial agreement comes in. It’s not just for the wealthy, it’s a smart way to bring clarity and security to your shared financial future. 💰

In our latest blog, we break down why a postnup could be a game-changer for married couples in New York. Check it out⬇️

https://scharofflaw.com/postnuptial-agreement

#postnuptialagreement #maritalfinances #marriageplanning #financialsecurity #familylaw #marriagetips

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You’ve finally married the love of your life. The honeymoon was idyllic, and you’re still receiving compliments about how magical the wedding was. But now,

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[Blog Post - JANUARY] What Can Be Used Against You In A High-Conflict Custody Battle? | Scheduled 2/27/2025

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[Blog Post - JANUARY] What Can Be Used Against You In A High-Conflict Custody Battle? | Scheduled 2/27/2025

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Creating a custody plan can be really challenging, especially in high-conflict situations where emotions are intense, and the thought of missing important moments with your child feels overwhelming. Every decision in these cases counts.

Having an experienced divorce and family law attorney by your side can make a big difference, helping you avoid mistakes and work toward the best custody arrangement for your family.

For more tips and advice, check out our blog:

https://scharofflaw.com/what-can-be-used-against-you-in-a-high-conflict-custody-battle

#familylaw #custodybattles #parenting #childcustody #familylawattorney #legaltips #divorcesupport #custodyarrangements #divorcelawyer

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What Can Be Used Against You In A High-Conflict Custody Battle? - Garden City Divorce & Family Lawyer | Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C.

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Developing a plan for custody can be incredibly challenging, especially in high-conflict situations. The prospect of missing out on key moments in a child’s

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[Thought Leadership Post - JANUARY] What’s The True Measure Of Success In Divorce? | Scheduled 2/25/2025

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[Thought Leadership Post - JANUARY] What’s The True Measure Of Success In Divorce? | Scheduled 2/25/2025

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For many, success in divorce is simply about getting the best possible settlement. But is that really the full picture? Shouldn’t success also include emotional well-being, the ability to co-parent effectively, and financial stability for years to come?

A successful divorce isn’t measured solely by who “gets more.” It’s about securing outcomes that allow both parties—and their children—to move forward in a healthy and constructive way. That often requires careful strategy, clear priorities, and an understanding of when to stand firm and when to compromise.

Navigating these decisions can feel overwhelming, which is why having a thoughtful advocate by your side is critical. Together, we can ensure that every decision reflects your values and prepares you for the next chapter of your life.

What do you believe is the most important factor in achieving a successful divorce?

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#divorcesupport #divorcelawyer #legaladvice #legaltips #divorcecoach #divorcelaw #wellbeing #coparenting #divorcecounsel #divorceadvice

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[Post - JANUARY] Handling Emotional Challenges in Grey Divorce | Scheduled 2/20/2025

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[Post - JANUARY] Handling Emotional Challenges in Grey Divorce | Scheduled 2/20/2025

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Grey Divorce comes with deep emotional challenges due to years of shared experiences and family ties. Seeking emotional support is truly important.

At our firm, we go beyond legal guidance. We help you understand your rights and encourage you to prioritize your emotional well-being.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/understanding-grey-divorce-in-garden-city-ny

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[Post - JANUARY] Grey Divorce and Retirement | Scheduled 2/18/2025

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[Post - JANUARY] Grey Divorce and Retirement | Scheduled 2/18/2025

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Retirement plans are vital in Grey Divorces. Dividing assets like 401(k)s and pensions requires careful planning to guarantee financial security for both parties.

Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C. is here to help you secure a fair agreement. Contact us today for guidance.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/understanding-grey-divorce-in-garden-city-ny

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10.18.2024 - Scharoff - Grey Divorce and Retirement

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[Post - JANUARY] Financial Implications of Grey Divorce | Scheduled 2/13/2025

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[Post - JANUARY] Financial Implications of Grey Divorce | Scheduled 2/13/2025

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Grey Divorce can bring unique financial challenges, especially with shared finances, significant assets, retirement accounts, and real estate to consider.

In New York, marital property is divided through equitable distribution, which means a fair but not always equal division.

At Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C., we’re here to safeguard your financial interests and help you navigate the process so you can maintain your lifestyle after divorce.

📞(516) 506-7006

https://scharofflaw.com/understanding-grey-divorce-in-garden-city-ny

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[Blog Post- JANUARY] Can a Prenup Actually Protect Your Assets? Learn How to Safeguard What’s Yours | Scheduled 2/11/2025

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[Blog Post- JANUARY] Can a Prenup Actually Protect Your Assets? Learn How to Safeguard What’s Yours | Scheduled 2/11/2025

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Protect your business and wealth from being jeopardized in a divorce. While no one plans for separation, a prenuptial agreement helps safeguard what you’ve worked hard for.

At Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C., we specialize in securing your financial future by clearly defining assets like property, income, or business interests. A prenup offers peace of mind and guarantees fairness.

Want to learn more? Read our blog:

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Imagine building a business or growing your wealth, only to see it jeopardized during a divorce. While no one marries expecting a separation, planning ahead

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[Thought Leadership Post - JANUARY] Does Divorce Have to Mean War | Scheduled 2/6/2025

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[Thought Leadership Post - JANUARY] Does Divorce Have to Mean War | Scheduled 2/6/2025

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When faced with divorce, many people assume it’s a battle where only one side can “win.” But is it possible to emerge from the process with your dignity intact and a solution that works for everyone involved?

In my practice, I’ve seen firsthand how a strategic and collaborative approach can minimize conflict and protect what matters most: your family, your finances, and your future. While litigation may sometimes be necessary, it’s rarely the first or best step. Thoughtful planning and clear communication often lead to more efficient and cost-effective outcomes.

Choosing the right path in a divorce isn’t about winning or losing; it’s about creating a resolution that aligns with your long-term goals. Every step you take should aim to preserve what’s most important to you while ensuring fairness and clarity.

What do you think is the most important goal in a divorce: winning or resolving?

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[Blog Post - JANUARY] What Legal Steps Should You Consider When Divorcing a Spouse Diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder? | Published 2/4/2025

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[Blog Post - JANUARY] What Legal Steps Should You Consider When Divorcing a Spouse Diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder? | Published 2/4/2025

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Divorce is never easy, but it can become more challenging when mental health issues like bipolar disorder are involved.

At Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C., we understand how delicate these situations are, especially for families here in New York.

Are you facing a divorce with a spouse diagnosed with bipolar disorder? Read our blog for legal steps to go through this challenging situation.

https://scharofflaw.com/what-legal-steps-should-you-consider-when-divorcing-a-spouse-diagnosed-with-bipolar-disorder

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Newsletter: What Legal Steps Should You Consider When Divorcing a Spouse Diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder? - Garden City Divorce & Family Lawyer | Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C.

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Divorce is never easy, but it can become more challenging when mental health issues like bipolar disorder are involved. At Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C., we

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Wishing you peace, happiness, and prosperity this holiday season.

Happy Holidays from all of us at Jerome A. Scharoff P.C.!

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Video Post: Let's Discuss High Conflict Custody Cases | Sceduled 11/29/2024

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Video Post: Let's Discuss High Conflict Custody Cases | Sceduled 11/29/2024

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Are you facing a high-conflict custody battle?

In our recent video, we offer valuable strategies to help you handle the difficulties of high-conflict custody cases.

If you're dealing with a high-conflict custody case or any related legal matter, don't hesitate to reach out to Jerome A. Scharoff.

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#FamilyLawyer #FamilyLaw #DivorceAttorney #Custody #ChildCustody #ChildWelfare #ParentingPlan #CoParenting #FamilyCourt

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[Thought Leadership Post] The Illusion of Quick Fixes in Divorce Settlements | Scheduled 11/27/2024

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[Thought Leadership Post] The Illusion of Quick Fixes in Divorce Settlements | Scheduled 11/27/2024

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In the pursuit of a swift resolution, many individuals may be tempted by offers that seem to promise a quick fix to their divorce woes. While the allure of a speedy settlement can be strong, it often comes with compromises that could affect you far beyond the courtroom. Quick solutions may not address underlying issues or provide the comprehensive solutions necessary for a stable future.

At Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C., we advocate for thoroughness over haste, ensuring that every aspect of your case is carefully considered and that the final agreement is truly in your best interest. Our commitment is to deliver thoughtful and lasting solutions, rather than quick fixes that may lead to future complications.

What are the potential risks of settling too quickly in a divorce, and how can you ensure that your agreement will stand the test of time? Have you explored all the implications of a fast settlement on your future stability?

📞 Call us at (516) 506-7006 or visit scharofflaw.com

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Video Post: What Are The Differences Between Prenuptial Agreements And Postnuptial Agreements? | Scheduled 11/25/2024

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Video Post: What Are The Differences Between Prenuptial Agreements And Postnuptial Agreements? | Scheduled 11/25/2024

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Confused about prenuptial and postnuptial agreements? Discover the key differences and how each can impact your marriage.

Watch our latest video for clear, legal insights.

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#FamilyLawyer #DivorceAttorney #DivorceLawyer #DivorceSupport #NewYorkLawyer #LegalGuidance #LegalAdvice

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[Reel Post] How Divorce Can Affect A Small Business | Scheduled 11/21/2024

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[Reel Post] How Divorce Can Affect A Small Business | Scheduled 11/21/2024

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Divorce is a challenging process that becomes even more complicated when it involves small business owners.

The divorce will affect not just personal lives but also professional operation of the business.

If you’re facing a divorce and are concerned about the future of your business, we are here to help.

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[Blog Post] What Steps Should You Take To Build A Case Against A Narcissistic Ex | Scheduled 11/19/2024

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[Blog Post] What Steps Should You Take To Build A Case Against A Narcissistic Ex | Scheduled 11/19/2024

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Dealing with a narcissistic ex can be emotionally draining and legally complex.

Partnering with an attorney experienced in managing narcissistic tendencies can keep your case on track.

Discover essential steps to build a strong case and secure the best settlement terms by reading our blog:

https://scharofflaw.com/what-steps-should-you-take-to-build-a-case-against-a-narcissistic-ex

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Dealing with a narcissistic ex can be emotionally draining and legally complex. Working with an attorney who knows how to overcome the challenges of dealing with a spouse with narcissistic tendencies is one of the best ways to keep your case on track and deflect the tactics your spouse will try to use against you.

At Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C., we strategically and economically tailor solutions for our clients, including those with bullying narcissistic spouses. Let's explore the key steps to build a strong case to ensure you receive the right settlement terms when dealing with a narcissistic ex.

Understand Narcissistic Behavior in New York

To effectively build a case that supports your objectives for custody, property division, and other issues when you are divorcing a narcissist, it's crucial to understand the impact the behavior can have on the divorce process. Narcissists often display patterns of manipulation, deceit, and a lack of empathy. Recognizing these traits can help you document and present your case more convincingly in court.

Manipulation Tactics: Narcissists frequently use manipulation to control and undermine others. This can include gaslighting, lying, and playing the victim.

Deceit and Misdirection: They may provide false information or twist the truth to suit their narrative, making it challenging to present clear facts.

Lack of Empathy: A narcissistic ex often lacks empathy, focusing solely on their own needs and desires, disregarding the impact on others, including their children.

One way narcissists will often try to control divorce proceedings is to delay the process by failing to comply with information requests or filing unnecessary motions. When your legal team is ready for these maneuvers, you can often thwart the attempts at delay and control.

Prioritize Your Children's Well-Being

When children are involved, their well-being should be the top priority. Courts in New York focus on the best interests of the children, so it's vital to show how your spouse's behavior affects them.

Keep records of any negative impact on your children, such as changes in behavior, emotional distress, or academic performance. Consider involving child psychologists or counselors who can provide professional testimony regarding the impact of your ex's behavior on your children. At the same time, you should be prepared to demonstrate your ability to provide a stable and supportive environment for your children.

Gather Concrete Evidence

Documenting your ex's behavior is essential to support your claims. Detailed and organized evidence can significantly strengthen your case if you are trying to keep your spouse from gaining custody or gaining an unfair advantage.

Keep Detailed Records: Maintain a journal of incidents, including dates, times, and descriptions of events. This can help establish patterns of behavior.

Save Communication: Preserve emails, text messages, and any other written communication that demonstrates manipulative or abusive behavior.

Witness Statements: If possible, gather statements from friends, family, or professionals who have witnessed the bullying behavior.

Your attorney can assist with the process of gathering, preserving, and organizing evidence.

Protect Your Financial Interests

Narcissistic spouses may attempt to manipulate financial matters to their advantage. It's essential to protect your financial interests throughout the divorce process. As soon as you start considering divorce, it is a good idea to make copies of financial records, including bank statements, tax returns, and property documents. Taking action early on can help in case your spouse tries to hide or withhold information later.

It may make sense to hire a forensic accountant to uncover any hidden assets or financial discrepancies. The goal is to work toward a fair settlement that takes into account your financial needs and future stability.

Legal Strategies in New York

You should be able to rely on your divorce attorney to provide a clear legal strategy to protect your rights and interests throughout the process. This includes the effective use of discovery tactics to uncover information and negotiation to resolve issues out of court when possible. We routinely use tools such as:

Temporary Orders: These orders can provide immediate stability with respect to custody, visitation, and support and protect your interests while the divorce process is ongoing.

Restraining Orders: When necessary, we seek restraining orders to prevent harassment or abusive behavior.

Custody Evaluations: We may request a custody evaluation from a neutral third party to assess the best interests of your children.

The legal process can be long and arduous. It is often helpful to surround yourself with a strong network of friends, family, and professionals who can provide emotional support. It is also a good idea to prioritize self-care to maintain your physical and mental well-being throughout the legal process.

The Right Legal Assistance Makes All the Difference When Divorcing a Narcissist in New York

Dealing with a narcissistic spouse requires a strategic and knowledgeable approach. At Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C., we are committed to providing thoughtful and cost-effective strategies tailored to your unique situation. Our goal is to deliver the best possible outcomes for you and your family.

To learn more about the ways we can assist in this type of challenging situation, schedule a consultation today with Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C., by calling (516) 506-7006 or contacting us online.

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Have you ever thought about how strategic decision-making impacts the outcome of your divorce? Many clients focus on immediate gains or losses without considering how their decisions might influence the broader context of their future. Strategic choices made early in the process can have significant long-term effects on financial stability and family dynamics.

A well-considered strategy often involves understanding the potential consequences of each decision and opting for solutions that align with your overall goals. This approach not only helps in achieving favorable outcomes but also in managing the emotional and financial aspects of the divorce more effectively.

What role do you think strategic planning plays in shaping the outcomes of divorce cases? How do you ensure that your decisions today do not compromise your future well-being?

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I'm proud to share that I’ve been recognized in Super Lawyers for another consecutive year. I'm deeply grateful for the trust and support of my clients.

My commitment to family law drives me to provide the best for my clients every day.

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Proud to announce that Attorney Jerome Scharoff has been recognized in Super Lawyers from 2015 to 2024.

His dedication to family law continues to set the standard for success.

Congratulations Jerome.

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What To Expect When Divorcing A Narcissist | Scheduled 9/5/2024

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What To Expect When Divorcing A Narcissist | Scheduled 9/5/2024

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Understanding the complexities of divorcing a narcissist is crucial for your emotional and legal well-being. Our latest blog dives deep into the challenges you might face and offers insights to help you navigate this difficult journey.

What You’ll Learn:

-Recognizing Narcissistic Behavior

-Essential Legal Strategies

-Protecting Your Well-Being

Read the full article here:

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Divorcing a narcissist presents unique challenges that can deeply impact both your emotional well-being and the legal proceedings. Understanding what to expect in such situations is crucial for preparing for the journey.

Let's explore the complexities involved in divorcing a narcissist and provide insights to help guide you through this difficult process.

When divorcing a narcissist, you face unique challenges that can test your emotional and mental resilience. I understand the intricacies involved in these situations and provide guidance tailored to your needs.

Understanding Narcissistic Behavior

In divorces involving narcissists, it's crucial to recognize their traits: a sense of entitlement, a lack of empathy, and an overwhelming need for admiration. These traits can manifest in manipulative tactics, gaslighting, and attempts to control the narrative of the divorce proceedings.

Legal Strategies for Divorcing a Narcissist in New York

When divorcing a narcissist, it's essential to have a clear legal strategy in place. This may include:

Documentation: Keep meticulous records of all communications, including emails, texts, and interactions, to provide evidence of any manipulative or abusive behavior.

Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries and stick to them. Limit communication to necessary matters and avoid engaging in emotional conflicts.

Legal Representation: Seek guidance from experienced legal counsel who understands the nuances of divorcing a narcissist. A skilled attorney can advocate for your rights and protect you from unfair tactics.

Protecting Your Well-Being

Divorcing a narcissist can take a significant toll on your mental and emotional well-being. It's essential to prioritize self-care during this challenging time:

Therapeutic Support: Consider seeking therapy or counseling to process your emotions and develop coping strategies for dealing with the challenges of divorcing a narcissist.

Support Network: Surround yourself with a supportive network of friends and family who can offer encouragement and understanding.

Focus on the Future: Keep your eyes on the future and focus on building a new life for yourself beyond the confines of the divorce proceedings.

Contact Jerome A. Scharoff for Compassionate Legal Guidance

If you are facing the complexities of divorcing a narcissist in Garden City, NY, don't hesitate to contact us for compassionate legal guidance. I am dedicated to advocating for your rights and helping you achieve a favorable resolution during this challenging time. Contact us online today to schedule a consultation or call us at (516) 506-7006. I am here to provide the support and guidance you need to navigate this challenging process.

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Why You Might Need Enforcement-  Scheduled: 8/29/2024

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Why You Might Need Enforcement-  Scheduled: 8/29/2024

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Divorces aim to create a future where both parties can move forward with clarity and respect, resulting in legally binding agreements. However, real-life situations can often deviate from these plans. If you’ve been granted possession of the marital home and your ex-partner refuses to vacate, it’s not merely an inconvenience. It’s a barrier to moving on and establishing a new, peaceful environment for yourself or your kids.

Enforcement isn’t about seeking vengeance or reliving past grievances. It’s about standing up for your rights and ensuring that agreements, forged through careful deliberation and negotiation, are respected.

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How Does A Narcissist’s Behavior Impact Custody Battles? -  Scheduled: 8/27/2024

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How Does A Narcissist’s Behavior Impact Custody Battles? -  Scheduled: 8/27/2024

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Custody battles are challenging enough, but when dealing with a narcissistic former partner, the difficulties multiply. At Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C., we understand the unique complications that arise in these situations and are here to help you navigate them effectively.

Read the full article here:

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Divorces in New York often come with a set of terms decided upon during the proceedings. Whether it’s child custody arrangements, alimony, or property division, it’s essential that these decisions are honored. But what happens when they’re not? This is where the role of a post-judgment enforcement lawyer comes into play.

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Skill and Dedicated Advocacy for Your Paternity Case -  Scheduled: 8/15/2024

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Skill and Dedicated Advocacy for Your Paternity Case -  Scheduled: 8/15/2024

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Legal paternity has a tremendous impact on the life of a child and both parents, affecting the emotional bond and financial situation. Paternity cases can be painful and contentious, requiring a sensitive and knowledgeable approach.

At Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C., we understand the delicate nature of paternity proceedings and respect the concerns of everyone involved. Our dedicated team is here to provide the support and advocacy you need during this challenging time.

Need help navigating paternity laws? Contact us today:

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Rights and Responsibilities of Paternity -  Scheduled: 8/13/2024

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Establishing legal paternity is a crucial step in verifying a man as a child’s legal father. Once paternity is legally set, fathers gain specific rights and responsibilities. These include the responsibility to pay child support if they are the non-custodial parent, as well as rights to parenting time and legal and physical custody. Legal paternity can also impact inheritance and insurance matters, ensuring the child's future is secure.

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Understanding Litigation in Divorce Proceedings in New York -  Scheduled: 8/8/2024

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Understanding Litigation in Divorce Proceedings in New York -  Scheduled: 8/8/2024

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Navigating a paternity case can be complex and emotionally charged. Whether you are the child's mother, a man who believes he is the father, the child, the child's guardian, or the Department of Social Services, it's crucial to understand how the process works.

In court, if all parties agree on paternity, an Order of Filiation can be signed without the need for a DNA test. If there's disagreement, the court may order DNA testing for the mother, the potential father, and the child. The results, expressed as a percentage of likelihood, will then be reviewed in court.

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Curious about how a paternity case works? Here's a breakdown:

➡️ A paternity case can be filed by the mother, potential father, child, guardian, or Department of Social Services.

➡️ If parties agree, an Order of Filiation can be signed without a DNA test. If not, a court-ordered test may be necessary.

➡️ Results aren't a simple yes or no but a percentage of likelihood.

➡️ Disagreements may lead to testimony and evidence presentation in court.

➡️Ultimately, the judge's determination leads to an Order of Filiation if paternity is confirmed.

Have questions or need assistance with a paternity case? Reach out to us today.

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Legal paternity is a complex and often misunderstood subject in New York. Establishing paternity is necessary to acquire parental rights and initiate obligations toward a child.

In some situations, paternity is presumed, but a mother or biological father can take action to overcome the presumption and show that paternity lies elsewhere.

If you need to establish legal paternity, Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C. can help. We have decades of experience helping clients reach their goals in family law efficiently and effectively.

Rights and Responsibilities of Paternity

Establishing legal paternity verifies that a man is a child's legal father. Once paternity is legally set, then that father acquires certain responsibilities, including payment of child support if he is the non custodial parent.

The father also acquires rights such as the right to parenting time and the right to legal and physical custody. Legal paternity can also affect issues such as inheritance and insurance.

Presumption When the Mother is Married

When the mother of a child is married at the time the child is born, New York law presumes that the spouse is the child's other legal parent. While this affects paternity, it also applies in LGBTQIA+ parenting situations. The child is presumed to be legitimate and the spouses are presumed to be the parents. The presumption exists even if the spouse is not the biological father.

However if the spouse is not the biological father, either the mother or a man who believes he is the biological father can file a paternity case seeking to establish paternity.

When the Mother is Not Married at the Time of the Child's Birth

Technically, a child who is born to a mother who is not married does not have a legal father. The biological father has no rights or responsibilities until paternity is established.

To accomplish this, both the mother and the father can voluntarily sign an official form acknowledging paternity. If both parents do not agree to this, then one can file a paternity case in court seeking an Order of Filiation.

How a Paternity Case Works

A paternity case can be filed in court by:

The child's mother

A man who believes he is the child's father

The child

The child's guardian

The Department of Social Services

The case will be heard by a judge. If all parties agree, an Order of Filiation can be signed on consent and no DNA test is required. If one or all parties disagree, the court can order a DNA test of the mother, potential father, and the child. Then the parties will need to return to court when the test results are complete.

Test results of a paternity test are not a simple yes or no but a percentage of likelihood of paternity. When the parties to the case hear the results, they may agree on paternity, and the court will enter the Order of Filiation. If they still don't agree, the case will be postponed and both sides will be permitted to bring in witnesses to testify. After hearing evidence from both sides, the court will issue a determination and if the Judge finds that the man proposed as the father is the father, then an Order of Filiation will be issued.

Skill and Dedicated Advocacy for Your Paternity Case

Legal paternity has a tremendous impact on the life of a child and both parents. It affects not only the emotional bond but the financial situation of the child and both parents. For that reason, paternity cases can be painful and contentious.

At Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C., we approach paternity cases with sensitivity as well as knowledge. We understand the delicate nature of the proceedings and we respect the concerns of everyone involved.

If you are considering a paternity proceeding or need to respond to a case, we invite you to schedule a consultation to learn more about the ways we can assist.

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As a parent in New York contemplating a move, the well-being of your child takes center stage. Relocating isn't just about changing addresses—it's about ensuring your child's happiness and stability.

Key Factors in Court Decision:

✅ Reasons for the Move

✅ Quality of Parent-Child Relationships

✅ Impact on Emotional & Physical Well-being

✅ Child’s Own Wishes

✅ Feasibility of Maintaining Relationships

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Modifications After Divorce   Scheduled: 3/20/2024

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Modifications After Divorce   Scheduled: 3/20/2024

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Navigating post-divorce adjustments regarding custody, visitation, child support, or alimony? Remember, court approval is essential even with mutual agreement. Your original court order holds until officially modified.

At Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C., we streamline the process. Negotiate changes upfront to save time and money while retaining control over outcomes. If negotiation stalls, we advocate in court for your preferred outcome. Efficient and effective results are our priority.

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Defending An Order Of Protection Lawyer in New York   Scheduled: 3/25/2024

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In New York, an order of protection is a powerful shield against harassment or harm, especially in family disputes. At Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C., we understand the weight these orders carry and the impact they have on lives.

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In New York, an order of protection is a severe legal measure intended to safeguard individuals from harassment or harm. Often arising in family disputes, these orders can significantly impact one's life and relationships. It's crucial to approach these situations clearly and with legal support. At Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C., we recognize the complexity and sensitivity of these cases. We're here to guide you through the legal landscape, ensuring your rights and perspectives are effectively represented. Whether you're facing a temporary or permanent order, our team in Garden City is committed to advocating for your best interests.
Comprehensive Strategies for Defending Orders of Protection
Defending an order of protection, often in the context of family law, involves a multifaceted approach to upholding the protective order that has been issued. Here's a detailed look at this process:

1. Understanding the Order of Protection: The first step is to understand the scope and terms of the protection order fully. These orders can vary, ranging from no-contact orders to restrictions on physical proximity. Understanding the specifics is crucial in formulating a defense.

2. Gathering and Presenting Evidence: A robust defense of an order of protection hinges on the strength of the evidence. This includes documenting instances of abuse, harassment, or threats that led to the issuance of the order. Evidence can range from physical documentation, such as texts or emails, to medical records or witness statements.

3. Demonstrating the Need for Continued Protection: The core of defending an order of protection is to demonstrate the ongoing need for it. This involves showing that the threat or behavior that necessitated the order still exists. It's not just about past incidents but about establishing a pattern of behavior that suggests a continuing risk.

4. Responding to Challenges: If the subject of the order (the respondent) challenges it, a defense must be prepared to counter their arguments. This could involve discrediting claims that the order is unnecessary or overly restrictive, reinforcing the order's validity and necessity.

5. Legal Representation and Advocacy: It is crucial to have legal representation during this process. A lawyer can help navigate the legal system, ensure compliance with all procedural requirements, and provide effective advocacy in court.

6. Preparing for Hearings: Preparation is key if the matter goes to court. This includes organizing evidence, preparing witnesses, and developing clear, persuasive arguments for the judge. The goal is to articulate why the order of protection is necessary for the safety and well-being of the petitioner.

7. Handling Violations of the Order: If the respondent violates the order of protection, it's essential to document and report these violations. Legal action, including criminal charges, can be taken against individuals who violate these orders, which can reinforce the need for the order.

8. Support and Resources for the Protected Party: In addition to the legal aspects, defending an order of protection also involves providing support and resources to the protected individual. This can include connecting them with counseling services, helping them develop safety plans, and ensuring they have the support needed to navigate the emotional and practical challenges they may face.

9. Advocacy for Children's Safety: If children are involved, their safety and well-being become paramount in defending the order. This might involve coordinating with child protective services or seeking modifications to custody arrangements to ensure the children's safety.

10. Considering Long-Term Solutions: While an order of protection is often a short-term solution to immediate danger, part of its defense involves considering longer-term solutions. This might include seeking permanent orders, exploring legal options like divorce or custody modifications, and ensuring a stable, safe environment for the protected individual.

In summary, defending an order of protection at Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C., involves a comprehensive approach that combines legal strategy with a focus on the safety and well-being of the individual seeking protection. This process requires careful consideration of evidence, legal knowledge, and an understanding of the personal dynamics involved.
Legal Guidance for Your Protection
The complexities of an order of protection demand skilled legal guidance. Our approach at Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C., combines thorough legal knowledge with a genuine concern for your well-being. We help you understand the process, prepare for hearings, and articulate your side effectively. Our team in Garden City is your ally, ensuring you're not alone in this challenging journey. We're here to protect your rights and advocate for a just outcome.
Contact an Experienced New York Order of Protection Lawyer
We work hard to achieve the best results for you and your family. To learn more about how we can assist, schedule a consultation today . If you're dealing with an order of protection in New York and need legal support, contact Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C. at (516) 506-7006 . Let's work together to navigate this challenge and protect your future.

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Substantial Change in Circumstances to Modify Custody - Scheduled: 4/1/2024

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Substantial Change in Circumstances to Modify Custody - Scheduled: 4/1/2024

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Life can take unexpected turns, and sometimes custody arrangements need adjustments too. If you're considering a modification, remember that proving a substantial change in circumstances is key.

Here are common grounds for seeking a modification:

✅ Relocation of the primary custodial parent

✅ Instances of family violence

✅ Substance abuse issues

✅ Unstable home environment

✅ Abandonment or neglect

✅ Child's expressed desire (if over 12)

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Can Alimony be Waived in a Prenuptial or Postnuptial Agreement in New York? - Posted: 4/2/2024

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Seeking clarity on alimony waivers in New York? Look no further! Check out our latest newsletter where we delve into the question: Can Alimony be Waived in a Prenuptial or Postnuptial Agreement in New York?

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Can Alimony be Waived in a Prenuptial or Postnuptial Agreement in New York? - Garden City Divorce & Family Lawyer | Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C.

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If One Parent Doesn’t Adhere To The Custody Agreement, What Can Be Done in New York? - Scheduled: 4/3/2024

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If One Parent Doesn’t Adhere To The Custody Agreement, What Can Be Done in New York? - Scheduled: 4/3/2024

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Custody agreements are the backbone of shared parenting in New York after divorce or separation. They're designed to ensure fairness and stability for your children. Sometimes, one parent may need to adhere to the terms of the agreement, leading to violations that can have serious consequences.

Violations can range from interference with visitation to unilateral decision-making. Consequences can be serious, impacting the well-being of your child.

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Garden City Divorce & Family Lawyer | Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C.

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If One Parent Doesn’t Adhere To The Custody Agreement, What Can Be Done in New York? - Garden City Divorce & Family Lawyer | Jerome A. Scharoff, P.C.

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Custody agreements in New York are legally binding documents that outline how parents will share time, responsibilities, and decision-making authority for