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This topic was interesting because when creating a budget, no matter how big or how small a budget is, you can still use the percentage rule to get your max budget for each section of planning.

This topic is relevant to me because my uncle just got married last year and I got to help with some things throughout, so I better understand everything that goes into the wedding now as well because they did a "destination" wedding. I also find it interesting how much detail goes into weddings and that every last detail gets discussed.

I would share with my family/ friends that you don't have to have this great big budget to have everything you want. No matter your budget you can still have your perfect wedding. The percentage rule is something I would share with my family as you can use it at anytime.

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This video explains the most common situations of who paYs for the wedding. It breaks down different aspects of the wedding to explain how the different parties may possibly pay for different things. A key point is that there may not always be family contributing to the wedding, it may be the bride and groom 100% paying on their own.

I chose this video because it helps you figure out who may pay for what if there are other contributors for the wedding and gives a look on what sometimes happens in this situation. A useful piece of information given is when who pays for what and how it is separated into bride or bride and family and that the groom or groom and family pay for specific things for each other and contribute to things for the other person.

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Average Wedding Cost Plus How To Set a Wedding Budget and Who Pays for What

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This website communicates some common mistakes which can happen when planning your wedding. It provides helpful tips to navigate your planning and to avoid these errors. It also included how to properly plan for these things. A key point in this website is that it tells you at the beginning. what is in this article and it shows what percentage of your budget should go to different expenses.

I chose this website because the tips and mistakes people make are clearly written out with explanation as to why it happens and a reason which you can avoid it. The website is easy to navigate with all the information separated, explained, and clearly laid out. A helpful piece of information which is the key point above is having the percentage known for each category and having your budget. By having these two things you can figure out what your max budget for each category is which will help you from overspending.

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"Expensive" and "stressful" might be two things that come to mind when you think of wedding budget planning, but they don't have to be. Below, we share the biggest budgeting mistakes you should avoid in order to make your wedding planning process as fun and cost-efficient as possible. We also break down exactly how much each wedding element generally costs to help you determine how much to allocate for each item and service. Once you have an idea of how to properly divide funds, you'll be able to avoid potential budgeting mistakes.
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Wedding Budget Breakdown

Below, we outline how much of your wedding budget should be allocated to specific expenses.

50% Percent: Venue, Catering and Rental Costs

The biggest part of your wedding budget will go toward the big ticket items, which covers the cost of renting out your venue space, hiring caterers for food, alcohol and rentals, such as tables, chairs and dinnerware. Some couples also include the price of their cake in this 50% chunk of their budget.

12% Percent: Photography and Videography

When wedding budget planning, set aside at least 12% of your budget for the images and videos of your special day. After all, these are wedding keepsakes you'll treasure forever. In addition to paying for the final products, you'll need to cover the cost of the photographers and videographers' time.

9% Percent: Attire, Hair and Makeup

Be sure to earmark at least 9% of your budget for your attire. Of course, this percentage should also include the cost of the dress and tuxedo rental, along with shoes and any accessories, such as jewelry or cufflinks. You will want to lump in the cost of your hair and makeup, too.

8% Percent: Decor

Allocate 8% for your ceremony and reception decor. This includes bouquets, flower arrangements, special lighting and decorations.

7% Percent: Entertainment

Whether you're looking into hiring a live band or DJ, the price of hiring these professionals can vary. Do your research in advance to know exactly how much money to put aside for this portion of the wedding. When crunching numbers, we suggest putting 7% of your budget toward the music.

3% Percent: Wedding Planner

A wedding planner can make all the difference when it comes to planning your special day. After all, you can rest easy that your celebration will go off without a hitch when you have a professional taking care of all the details. Save 3% of your total budget to cover the cost of a wedding planner.

2% Percent: Stationery

Your wedding stationery is a very important detail of your wedding. Just think, your save-the-date cards and formal invitations are the first glimpse of your wedding that your guest will receive. This stationery budget will also cover your ceremony programs, menus, thank-you cards and more. Reserve 2% of your budget for your wedding stationery.

2% Percent: Officiant

If you're hiring an officiant to legally marry you, allocate 2% of your budget to cover these costs.

2% Percent: Transportation

Many couples like to hire transportation to ensure their guests get to the right venue at the right time. This may involve hiring a bus or shuttle to run to and from the hotels. Others like to hire a limo for the wedding party or an elaborate getaway car after the ceremony. Set aside at least 2% of your wedding budget for transportation.

2% Percent: Wedding Bands

One of you may already have a sparkling engagement ring on your finger, but don't forget about the wedding bands. These are the rings you will both wear for the rest of your lives, so save around 2% of your allocated budget for them.

2% Percent: Goodies for Guests

The last piece of your wedding budget breakdown includes the cost of party favors and gifts for those who made your day extra special. Many couples like to provide their guests with a parting gift to remember their wedding by. It's a small gesture that will go a long way.

Once you have a general understanding of how to allocate funds in a wedding budget, you'll be prepared to move forward with financial planning. Below, we outline the five biggest wedding budgeting mistakes to avoid.

1. Not Determining Who's Paying for What

Yes, it's awkward, but the conversation has to happen. Talk with your families about who will pay for what: Some brides' families still pick up the entire tab (as is "tradition"), but it's more and more common for grooms' families to participate too. How do you bring up the conversation? For many couples, talking to each family separately is the best way to have truly open discussions. When you do talk, here are strategies for determining your initial budget.

Ask both of your folks if they're planning to contribute to the cost of the wedding. If so, have them commit to a specific dollar amount, and then add up all the contributions to create your budget. Alternatively, it may be easier to ask each set of parents to finance a particular aspect of the wedding (such as the ceremony, honeymoon or catering) instead of just committing to a dollar amount. Decide how much you two can contribute between now and the wedding. Below are some of the top considerations that can influence who pays for what.

The general budget

If you're planning on a formal candlelit dinner in the grand ballroom of that amazing hotel downtown, your budget is clearly going to have to be much bigger than if you've sketched out an afternoon tea and dessert party in your parents' pretty backyard. In general, there are several major factors that will really affect what you'll need to set aside.

There's a per-head cost for food and liquor, and these two are typically the biggest expenses of the whole wedding, so changing the guest list size is the surest way to increase or decrease your costs. On top of that, the smaller the guest list, the more you'll save on all your other details, including décor, stationery, favors and rentals, because you won't need as much of everything.

The venue

Some cities and towns are just more expensive than others. New York, Chicago and Los Angeles are the obvious culprits, but small towns and remote destinations can entail greater costs if things like flowers and talent have to come from afar. Tourist towns can also up your wedding price tag during peak season. Likewise, certain venues are more expensive than others. Some-such as a city park-come with no (or low) fees, while others, like a grand ballroom, might cost you the equivalent of a year's college tuition. Also, be aware that many popular locations have head count minimums, meaning they won't host a wedding that's too small, and some may also have a per-head minimum that requires your event to be a certain size.

The date and time

Highly sought-after seasons and days of the week are pricier for obvious reasons. An evening reception is usually more expensive than a brunch or afternoon reception, not only because of higher catering costs for dinner, but also because people tend to drink less during the daytime, and many couples choose to go more low-key on elements like lighting, music and décor.

The more formal the affair, the more expensive, because you'll have to match the site, food and musical entertainment to the overall upscale tone. The outlay for a full six-course meal is typically greater than for a cocktail soirée with mostly hors d'oeuvres; the fee for a 12-piece band is greater than that for a DJ or quartet; all-out décor like lighting, specialty linens and dramatic floral displays also will run up the bill. Plus, fancier affairs tend to be larger.

2. Not Allocating Funds Correctly

Just like buying shoes, an apartment or a pair of jeans, when it comes to financing a wedding, you should figure out how much you need to spend to get what you want. Set your expectations accordingly, and use our budget breakdown above as a guide. (FYI, the average wedding cost is $33,931.) To avoid stress, also allot 5% of your budget for a "just-in-case" fund. If you're paying for your honeymoon yourselves, remember to budget for that as well.

If you're asking yourself how you can possibly save up for something as expensive as a wedding, don't worry-it's doable. As soon as you're engaged, start putting aside as much of your income as you can for the wedding. Saving 20% of your monthly income is a good-though lofty-goal. The longer your engagement, the more you'll be able to put away. You can also save up by limiting your spending on small stuff (watching Netflix instead of going out, curbing your Starbucks habits and so on). These changes will hardly affect your quality of life, but after a year, the extra cash will cover some wedding essentials.

3. Forgetting to Keep Track of How Much You've Spent

You've established your budget, but you have to spend the next few months keeping track and allocating your funds. Follow these four points to make sure your spending is where it should be.

Get a system

Put your accounting skills to the test by deciding on a budgeting system to track all the money coming in and out. The easiest way? The Knot Wedding Budget Calculator, which automatically tells you how much you should be spending on everything from music to mother-in-law gifts, and allows you to track all your payments and their due dates. Otherwise, you can put all your info in an old-fashioned spreadsheet. Just make sure you record every payment you make and who you owe what.

Explore hidden costs and extras

Knowing all the costs up front will guarantee that your budget can actually cover it all. Research potential hidden fees that can add up over time. Below, we share five common extra costs to keep in mind:

Overtime: If the party's hopping, those extra 45 minutes may whiz by, but you'll probably pay dearly in overtime costs for everyone from the photographer to the venue manager. If you suspect the wedding may go long, work overtime costs into your budget-if you don't use it, it'll be a nice surprise chunk of cash.

Service fees: The "service charge" is an additional fee venues charge to cover their own cost of hiring servers, coat checkers, and bathroom and parking attendants, which typically amounts to 20%-25%of the event's total food and drink fee.

"Free" trials: A florist's demo may be gratis the first time, but if you make repeated changes, you risk being billed. And you'll definitely want to factor in your hair trial with your stylist into your overall hair budget.

Extra decorations: Things like stamps for the RSVP cards, ribbons for the favors and marriage license fees seem so small that you can shrug them off, but like any costs, they add up. Going "just over budget" in a couple different categories with a vague plan of making it up somewhere else can push you past your limit.

Gratuities and tips: From the sexton who cleans the church to the hotel steward who delivers your welcome bags, even conservative tipping can add hundreds to your wedding cost. Make sure to account for these costs in your initial budget. You should also set aside at least $800 for gratuities (the additional amount given to your vendors for their hard work). As with a waiter or your hairdresser, tips are generally expected unless you're unhappy with the service.

Plan to go over

If you account for budget overages, then you never actually blow your budget. Try to earmark 5% of your budget for unforeseen costs. Here are three areas where you might go over: flowers (a last-minute realization that something previously unconsidered needs to be decorated, or a request that an additional family member wear a boutonniere or corsage); weather-related expenses (umbrellas for a rainy day, space heaters for an unseasonably cool day or additional shade for a particularly hot or humid one); and small accidents (gown needs last-minute spot removal, something breaks in the days before the ceremony or menus get damp and need to get reprinted).

Be smart

Take advantage of budgeting and money management tricks along the way. Put all your wedding money in one separate account, so you can easily track additions and withdrawals without getting it confused with the rest of your day-to-day funds. Pay for as many of your expenses as possible on a credit card that gives you benefits like mileage, rewards or cash back. Make sure everyone making purchases (your partner, mom and so on) is all on the same card system, allowing you to benefit from the rewards and also from the easy tracking of your purchases. To avoid credit card fees, pay the bill off in full each month.

4. Not Saving Where You Can

Whatever your budget, you don't have to resort to DIY bouquets to come in on target. Follow these 11 tips to having a chic wedding without sacrificing one iota of style.

Decide what's most important

Pick your top three priorities and allocate a little extra money for them (like your gown, catering and band). Next, pick the three things that come lowest on your priority list (maybe flowers, cake and invitations), and budget accordingly.

Cut the guest list

We know it's tough, but one of the fastest and most effective ways to lower your wedding cost is to pare down the invitees. Get out that red pen! At $100 a head, taking 10 guests off the guest list saves $1,000. Also consider the size of your wedding party: Gifts and transportation are cheaper for two than for ten.

Pass on pricey details

Glamorous details on items you're indifferent about spike costs without adding any fun to your day. Free yourself of the pressure to upgrade and instead make honest choices based on what you want. As a general rule, before you sign a contract, look through the itemized list of what you're buying and ask yourself, "Will anyone notice if we don't do this?"

Consider printing costs

Having two shades of ink on your invitation might match your color scheme, but it can also add massive printing costs; square invites also require extra postage. And of course, bespoke stationery typically costs more than customizable templates ( The Knot Invitations has many gorgeous-and more affordable-options).

Get a smaller car

Town cars will shuttle your wedding party to the reception just as effectively as a stretch limo.

Skip the special effects

If you're happy with simple wedding pictures, pass on options like sepia tones, multiple exposures and split frames.

Substitute less expensive flowers

Choose flowers that are in season, and pick locally grown flowers rather than blooms that need to be flown in from afar to reduce costs. For example, if you exchange Black Magic roses for more reasonably priced, deeply colored dahlias in all your bouquets and table arrangements, you'll save about $4 a stem. If you were planning on having five roses per bouquet and 10 per centerpiece, and have a wedding party of five ladies and a guest list of 150 people, you could save $700.

Simplify your menu

Reduce the number of overall dinner courses (making three courses fabulous costs less than serving five individual courses) and keep your menu simple. Stick with the specialties of the season and region.

Save the good stuff for later

Have the caterers bring out the fancy Dom Perignon for the toast, but pour a less expensive champagne the rest of the night-no one will know the difference.

Pare down the cake extras

Order a small, fabulous wedding cake that's exactly what you want and, in the kitchen, have several sheet cakes of the same flavor cut for your guests. And stay away from tiers and (time-consuming) handmade sugar flowers, fancy fillings and special molded shapes. Have your caterer decorate each plate with a flavored sauce instead. Buttercream frosting is also tastier and less expensive than fondant.

Resell and reuse clothing

If you want to hold onto your wedding attire for sentimental reasons, we totally get it. That being said, you definitely don't have to. Use Nearly Newlywed to resell your wedding dress, or consider sourcing a tuxedo from Rent the Runway. The same goes for all your wedding-related event outfits: there's nothing wrong with borrowing or repurposing your pieces-sharing is caring, after all.

5. Not Being Realistic

As mentioned above, it's easy to oversimplify some of the financial aspects of a wedding. To stay on top of your wedding budget, you have to be realistic about what each element generally costs. Once you know this, it's easier to allocate funds from your budget.
There's a lot to keep track of when it comes to wedding budget planning, but it doesn't have to be stressful. Follow our tips above and you will be more equipped to stay within your means.

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The Biggest Wedding Budgeting Mistakes to Avoid

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We have included third party products to help you navigate and enjoy life's biggest moments. Purchases made through links on this page may earn us a commission. "Expensive" and "stressful" might be two things that come to mind when you think of wedding budget planning, but they don't have to be.

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Website #1: Average Ontario Wedding Cost

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Website #1: Average Ontario Wedding Cost

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This website article takes real life experiences from wedding photographers and their take on wedding costs. It showcases weddings with a variety of budgets, and that anything is possible with whatever amount it is you may have. They asked real life people about their wedding budgets and did real life research.

I chose this website because it is recent and they personally collected data and it is clearly represented in a graph. The website has clear explanations and information to explain the numbers showed throughout. A key piece of information in this website is that these couples decided on a budget and it was most likely in these numbers that they were $5000-$10,000 below their set budget. As well as when the budget is under $30,000 they are likely to stay under budget and if the budget is over $30,000 then there was more money spent causing them to be over budget.

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Here is what the Average Ontario Wedding Costs in 2020 & 2021 — Hush Hush Photography & Film

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In April 2020, we conducted a survey about wedding budgets + costs and what we found was NOT what we were expecting!

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Video #1: Calculating Costs/ Keeping a Budget

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Video #1: Calculating Costs/ Keeping a Budget

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This video breaks down the different big elements of your wedding all the way down to your smaller details which you may not think about that could end up being costly. A key point is setting a maximum budget which you absolutely will not go over and a realistic budget which allows some wiggle room for your costs.

I chose this video because it breaks it down into smaller parts and categories when planning your wedding. It explains how to figure out it will cost you for each person with your set budget at your wedding. It also gives you different scenarios in regards to your budget which you could apply. to your planning.

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Valerie Gernhauser | The No-Nonsense Wedding Planner

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WHAT DO WEDDINGS COST IN 2020? How to calculate your wedding planning budget and keep costs in check

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Here you can learn about the different factors you need to think about when planning your wedding down to the little details. By knowing about different costs associated with your wedding you can figure out possible ways you can save money to stay under your wedding budget! You can see where different forms of purchase come into play like planning a wedding with vs without a wedding planner or renting instead of buying.