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My daughter is dating a man more than twice her ageHi dear friend!I’ve seen your letter and I understand that you’re feeling right now about that. I know it may be so abashing for you, but we will have to found a manner to see that situation in a better way. Sometimes we can’t change the attitudes or thoughts from our children even if it’s for their own welfare, because you as her father would do many things in order to see her happy… perhaps this time it will be different and in any moment of life everybody has to fall and understands each mistake and grow up. I’m feeling very sad about it, sure; but first of all we must keep calm, your daughter needs your accompaniment, if you demonstrate her your support she shall trust in you. I believe you couldn’t break that relationship, moreover she’s 23 and at this moment it`s that her wants. Of course, I disagree, but we should be able to wait for her experience with that man and try to explain her your opinion, taking care of her all the time. Thank you very much for trusting in me. A hug my friend. Everything is going to be all right. 

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My daughter is dating a man more than twice her ageHi dear friend!I’ve seen your letter and I understand that you’re feeling right now about that. I know it may be so abashing for you, but we will have to found a manner to see that situation in a better way. Sometimes we can’t change the attitudes or thoughts from our children even if it’s for their own welfare, because you as her father would do many things in order to see her happy… perhaps this time it will be different and in any moment of life everybody has to fall and understands each mistake and grow up. I’m feeling very sad about it, sure; but first of all we must keep calm, your daughter needs your accompaniment, if you demonstrate her your support she shall trust in you. I believe you couldn’t break that relationship, moreover she’s 23 and at this moment it`s that her wants. Of course, I disagree, but we should be able to wait for her experience with that man and try to explain her your opinion, taking care of her all the time. Thank you very much for trusting in me. A hug my friend. Everything is going to be all right. 

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I left my home for freedom in Europe but I’m terriblylonely.Q: I am a 30-year-old guy and I am really lonely. I was born inIran and was raised in a conservative family and society. I wentto university there and graduated with a master’s degree inEnglish language studies. I am now at university in Germany,but I am not able to make friends with girls. I have no properjob, no future and not even a friend. I tried online dating sites;they don’t work. What is wrong with me? I even think of endingmy life. I do not have any future going back to a country whichdoes not accept me when I do not believe in Islam.Dear Q.First of all, I want to congratulate you for your desire to succeed and succeed in life with your studies, the first impression that your letter gives me, is that you are a winner, that you do not settle for what life offers you and what you want more, that's good, you're ambitious and you'll achieve it, do not worry about meeting people, since you come from a very conservative culture, therefore you have a lot of that in your mind, so do not worry, be yourself, and Stay open to new experiences, do not feel bad, I'll give you some suggestions:- You can introduce yourself to your university by teaching your native language, so you can meet more people and girls.- Do not forget to be yourself, do not be ashamed of your culture or your language, this can generate insecurity, you should be proud of your culture and share more with your colleagues.- in relation to your work, you say that you do not have the appropriate work, I do not know if you feel bad or you do not earn enough, remember, you are a student and your priority is to finish your studies, however, you can teach your language natal, make some flyers to let you know, you can place an ad in the local newspaper or in the newspaper of the university, you should be more proud of your culture and your language, remember, you are not in that country to get a couple, you are there to overcome you become a professional, and everything will arrive in time, you should offer your services as a translator and thus have more stable income and meet more people.

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I left my home for freedom in Europe but I’m terriblylonely.Q: I am a 30-year-old guy and I am really lonely. I was born inIran and was raised in a conservative family and society. I wentto university there and graduated with a master’s degree inEnglish language studies. I am now at university in Germany,but I am not able to make friends with girls. I have no properjob, no future and not even a friend. I tried online dating sites;they don’t work. What is wrong with me? I even think of endingmy life. I do not have any future going back to a country whichdoes not accept me when I do not believe in Islam.Dear Q.First of all, I want to congratulate you for your desire to succeed and succeed in life with your studies, the first impression that your letter gives me, is that you are a winner, that you do not settle for what life offers you and what you want more, that's good, you're ambitious and you'll achieve it, do not worry about meeting people, since you come from a very conservative culture, therefore you have a lot of that in your mind, so do not worry, be yourself, and Stay open to new experiences, do not feel bad, I'll give you some suggestions:- You can introduce yourself to your university by teaching your native language, so you can meet more people and girls.- Do not forget to be yourself, do not be ashamed of your culture or your language, this can generate insecurity, you should be proud of your culture and share more with your colleagues.- in relation to your work, you say that you do not have the appropriate work, I do not know if you feel bad or you do not earn enough, remember, you are a student and your priority is to finish your studies, however, you can teach your language natal, make some flyers to let you know, you can place an ad in the local newspaper or in the newspaper of the university, you should be more proud of your culture and your language, remember, you are not in that country to get a couple, you are there to overcome you become a professional, and everything will arrive in time, you should offer your services as a translator and thus have more stable income and meet more people.

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My family is great, but I feel as though I have no real friends.Q: I am 38, happily married with two children and have a job I enjoy. However I have found myself plagued by anxiety about friendships and feelings of loneliness. Since having children I seem to have been on a roller-coaster of friendships. As our lives have evolved, people have drifted away. I now feel I am left with acquaintances (mainly school mums) rather than actual friends. I find WhatsApp groups stressful and can’t go on Facebook, as I feel jealous when I see events where I haven’t been included. Some of my pre-children friends remain, but busy lives and distance mean I only see them a couple of times a year. I’ve given up on phone calls, as people only seem to want to text! I just don’t know how I can get out of this spiralling anxious mindset. Will it improve when my children are older, or without play dates will my social life dry up altogether?

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My family is great, but I feel as though I have no real friends.Q: I am 38, happily married with two children and have a job I enjoy. However I have found myself plagued by anxiety about friendships and feelings of loneliness. Since having children I seem to have been on a roller-coaster of friendships. As our lives have evolved, people have drifted away. I now feel I am left with acquaintances (mainly school mums) rather than actual friends. I find WhatsApp groups stressful and can’t go on Facebook, as I feel jealous when I see events where I haven’t been included. Some of my pre-children friends remain, but busy lives and distance mean I only see them a couple of times a year. I’ve given up on phone calls, as people only seem to want to text! I just don’t know how I can get out of this spiralling anxious mindset. Will it improve when my children are older, or without play dates will my social life dry up altogether?

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Good morning, friend, I will help you with your dilemma and I will give you some tips that you can put into practice.

It is true that before you could spend more time with your friends but with these tips, now that they can not, they can improve their relationship. Maybe you could call your friends and insist that they end up responding. They will love being called, you can also make plans with your family and friends over the weekend. You should write to them daily, so that the communication between you is not cut. If you want to make new friends at work, you should talk to them about things they have in common, and you will see that their relationship can be strengthened.
You can go out with your colleagues in the office is also a good option. You can also request a phone number and get in touch with us through text messages or calls.

In the future, you will have more time because your children have grown and you can share with your friends how you want.

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I have a serious crush on my teacher – should I tell her?

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I have a serious crush on my teacher – should I tell her?

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Q: I’m a 16-year-old student harbouring ardent feelings for a teacher. She’s an absolutely wonderful (in my view, angelic) human being, who seems utterly devoted to what she does and is terribly cordial to us students. It is out of awe for her personality, and gratitude for how she’s made a mark in my life, that I feel so attached to her. She’s in her late 20s, I suppose, but I feel she could be 18. My feelings are not sexual, but my social circles make barely any room for this possibility. I can find little solace in my friends for fear that they’d mock me because she’s not considered a looker. I feel an urge to tell her how amazing and adored she is, but fear she’ll be threatened or affronted, or that she’ll feel pained for me and not know how to respond.

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Having a crush on your teacher is as common as it is complex.

Dear friend, after analyzing your problem, I can see that you are in a complex situation, but that you can solve it.

I imagine you need to clarify the doubts that go through your head and I shall I help you with that

Should you declare? Is it bad to feel so passionate? Might you be reciprocated? What should you expect the reaction of your classmates to be?

The first question is that you do not know whether to express your feelings; it may be a difficult decision, because you do not know the reaction of the teacher.

However, I believe that you are probably a bit confused in your feelings, that for your age you cannot distinguish between admiration and love or simply obsession. That does not mean you should not tell him how you feel.

However, if you are going to express it, you will be sure of what you feel and it will be clear that you are the student, she is the teacher and that the difference in age is a very important factor in the construction of a relationship

Therefore, you should vent your feeling, but not expecting something to happen

Taking into account the following question, it is not bad to feel passion and less at your age, because adolescence is a stage in which those behaviors are experienced, only that you must realize that consequences can have certain attitudes.

The third question is how the dream you have that your teacher couldcorrespond to you, however, is something I think could not be possible because his attitude reflects that he is very focused on his work and that his cordiality should not be a cause for a student falls in love with her

In addition, she should not establish a relationship with you because she is your teacher and why she has much more experience than you do.

Finally, the reaction of friends is something that worries you, and I think you should know that since it is not common they can react in an inappropriate way, what I suggest is that you look for a loyal friend that you can trust and be supportive of. In your situation, that way you canclarify your doubts and make the right decision.

In conclusion, as you can realize the consequences of your falling in love, there could be many, so I invite you to clarify your doubts and overcome this obstacle that is due to your adolescence or would you rather have a bad experience?

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My father is a womaniser. I’m terrified I’ll become one, too

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My father is a womaniser. I’m terrified I’ll become one, too

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Q: I’m 22, single and very romantic, yet I can’t relate to women. I grew up with a womanising father and ever since I can remember he has made comments about women and sex. No man in my family has ever achieved true love and they have all had multiple sex partners and lovers, betraying the confidence of wives and long-term girlfriends. My great grandfather, my grandfather, my uncle and my father share this and some of me thinks that I can’t fight it, that I will become the same. But I struggle. I just can’t talk to women; I can’t play charming around them even when I have a good relationship with them in spaces such as work or college. I have “female friends”, but I can’t break the confidence they have in me by playing the love card. So, I’m often the friend of the women I like. My entire romantic concept has been built by culture, by movies like Gone with the Wind or Doctor Zhivago, books like A Farewell to Arms, For Whom the Bells Tolls and long sessions of the Smiths or the Cure.

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I read your letter and let me tell you that you are right to be afraid of becoming a womanizer, being a womanizer can be a mental illness, because there are factors that can be acquiring during growth, for example, womanizers could have a compulsive disorder, they are born of the male culture and only seeks enjoyment, these could be some characteristics of a womanizer.

Let me show you some things that should take into account if you do not want to become a womanizer.

It is clear that you like a woman, therefore, you should to make her know your interest and feelings toward her, like you said before, you are very romantic, in this case you would have to facing the situation showing your love through a gift, a song, or a message, you must take the initiative, also, you must stop being shy and give free rein to your conquering spirit.

If you want begin a relationship, you must go step by step, in the friendship stage, you can find a lot of attributes her as  beauty, smart, and personality, that possibility would you can fall in love her and she of you, then, you can spend nice moment and enjoy it, by the last, you can discover her attitudes and desires in order to keep the lover relationship, therefore, you must be  faithful, giving her all your attention and love.

On the other hand, I would consider that, you should not be afraid to become a womanizer, if your predecessors were a womanizer, that does not mean that you will also be, you could discover it while you acquire love experiences, in fact, be a womanizer is not bad, just matters what you feel, even, you should not see the fact of being a womanizer like a default but as an opportunity to meet several personalities, then, until your true love arrives.

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He wasn't present at the births of most of them. He was out with his mistresses. The one exception is his eldest daughter Arianna, who shares many of his interests - like heavy drinking.

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Alexei refuses to cope with his grief over the loss of his wife 

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Alexei refuses to cope with his grief over the loss of his wife 

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Instead, he distracts himself with stories he makes up about her.