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"My Husband Will Never Know I Named Our Son After His Real Father."

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The 19 Secret Reasons Why People Dumped Their Partners But Never Told Them

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Is a Blowjob a Dating requirement?

We accessed interesting blowjob related confessions from University confessions pages, namely Rhodes University and asked our Relationship Guru's*, Aphelele Monti and Zonke Nyaki to respond.

For many guys, a blowjob is heaven. They consider it to bring more thrilling sensations even more intimate and sexier than actual sex due to the different experience of the warm mouth, slippery tongue and the excitement it brings.

Of the men we spoke to, 40 percent say they've had multiple orgasms. These are genital contractions between three and five seconds long, and men can experience several before having a full orgasm.

And when you're having oral sex, enthusiasm is better than technique. "The most amazing oral sex I've had? It was a standard blowjob but she loved doing it and it showed," says one 31 year old.

If he had to choose between a woman who had porn-star technique but looked bored, and a woman who wasn't as proficient but was having fun, he'd go for Ms Enthusiastic. Enjoying a man's penis shows you're enjoying him, and that's the biggest ego boost ever.

The Young Independents asks...(and our *Guru's respond)

IS A BLOWJOB A DATING REQUIREMENT?

1. Aphele Monti - A blow job is not a dating requirement but a "necessity" during sex. I wouldn't reject dating a person because she doesn't give some head but I'd definitely be disappointed when she doesn't offer one when we are getting it on. I mean, where's the fun in that.

2. Langelihle Dube - LOL, um... No, it's not. If the person is opening to learning, then we can start off slow. But consent, and an open mind are key. No one should ever be forced or manipulated into performing any sexual acts they are not comfortable with.

3. Lebogang Mawela - Iyhoo..LOL, I was never ready for this. Ok, blow jobs are not a dating requirement. It all depends on what you and your partner agrees on doing, I mean sometimes it's difficult to even predict whether you will do it, during sex it becomes LIT and anything can happen. At the end of the day it's all about being comfortable and experimenting.

4. Zonke Nkayi - Wouldn't go as far as saying it is a requirement, with that said I feel a blow job is a very very neccesary thing (extremely neccessary if you as me LOL..jokes). On a slightly serious note I think when it comes to dating someone a blow job shouldn't be on the criteria of things you look for in a person, although the idea of not getting a blow job might SUCK, I'd still date a girl who would want to give me a blow job.

Check out FB comments that'll make your head explode:

* Guru's- Marginally adept at giving unapologetic, honest and raw advice.

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Is a Blowjob a Dating requirement? We accessed interesting blowjob related confessions from University confessions pages, namely Rhodes University and asked our Relationship Guru's*, Aphelele Monti and Zonke Nyaki to respond. For many guys, a blowjob is heaven.

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We all have interesting memories that surface when we think of our times at high school...

Some great, some awful and some excruciatingly embarrassing.

Untold mischievous high school stories ought to be shared (they're super juicy coupled with the recklessness that comes with youth).

Especially the kind of stories that would send our parents into a coma should they ever find out.

The horror of being seen in a different light did not stop brave Twitter users from airing their high school memories under the hashtag #MyHighSchoolConfession.

Here are some of their confessions:

#MyHighSchoolConfession
That moment you pretend to be looking for your home work when you know very well you didn't do it. 😂 pic.twitter.com/hFPGkWUADe

- ★Ms.Kiyiekah♤ (@RawkinsLizzie) March 22, 2017

#MyHighSchoolConfession
Teacher giving back test results
Teacher :Denis 25%
Rest of us: 😂😂😂😂
Teacher :he's the highest
Us: pic.twitter.com/wfpU7ebVBq

- iPaul Culture 🔥👊 (@Kalchare) March 22, 2017

I had a full exercise book full of lyrics #MyHighSchoolConfession

- King Trapa 👑 (@trapafasa) March 22, 2017

How I made it to top ten😂😂😂.... I'd miss tests and ask people over Mxit, what was in the paper. I feel so bad now 😂😂 #MyHighSchoolConfession

- Bonga (@bongabotha) March 22, 2017

Related article: Rhodes confessions answered...

Join the confessional by sending us your juicy high school confession to [email protected]

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Outrageous high school confessions... | The Young Independents

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Naledi (23)

I was giving head in my new boyfriend’s bedroom and he farted. About five seconds later I queefed, I guess it is correct to say we didn’t say anything to each other until the end of Matric.

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Asanda (23)

It was supposed to be a quick thing in the garage. A kinky experience. And then it went horribly wrong.

We were both highly turned on by being majorly exposed and then my mother who heard noises came out only to find out that it was me and my bf.

She dragged me into the house and made me tell my father what I did.

#mortificationlevels.

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Babalwa (25)

My father came back from work and walked in on my boyfriend and I having sex. That wasn’t all, my bf was actually spanking me too. My father stood there for about five minutes watching us and then he suddenly coughed.

He left and muttered aloud that my bf better be using protection. I didn’t want to face my dad. I preferred dying in that moment.

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Lee (26)

My boyfriend couldn’t get me to orgasm. I screamed and shouted so he thought I was really about to come, I guess at the end of my performance, I actually came. I had to pretend it was another orgasm, meanwhile it was the real one.

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Zama (25)

Most embarrassing! His mother walked in on us doing the act. She was on her way to church and somehow managed to walk straight into my boyfriend’s room.

She walked out as quickly as she could. Her son was on top of me. I have never been to that house ever again.

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Samantha (20)

My boyfriend and I tried to have sex a few nights before. We were in my bedroom (my parents were away) and we did what we usually do; everything but sex. He whips out his thing and we are both excited and then he jumps on top of me, now he couldn’t find a hole.

He didn’t know the difference. We ended up going for night out in town and not having sex. I spent most of the night trying to hide how embarrassed I was on his behalf and mine.

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