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Cutting my Biological dad out of my life. 

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Cutting my Biological dad out of my life. 

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Experience- I cut out the most abusive person  of my life. One night he got extremely drunk (happened a lot) it was not safe to be home so i packed a bag and my friend picked me up. Never saw my father again. This event taught me he would never change for me or my brother.

Believe- I am never going to be enough for anyone.

Action- It is really hard for me to trust people, especially men i can feel really uneasy around them. I cut people out of my life for little things and i overthink a lot about friendships and relationships.

Result- I have cut out a lot of people from my life that i shouldn't have. I overthink about every little thing I do because I have so many doubts about myself and self-worth. This has caused me to have a extreme  amount of anxiety

Pivot or Keep?  Pivot

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Experience- I had finally got my own car. I finally believed I was free.

Believe- I believe I will never be stuck in a bad situation, I have a way to go wherever when I need to. I am able to drive to school, work, and see my friends.

Action- I found a job that i love and made great friends. I started going to the gym and being able to do more things I enjoy.

Result- I feel independent. I can drive my brother to his football practices and help my mom out when she needs it.

Pivot or Keep- Keep

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Experience- I started playing soccer when i was 5 and clubs since i was 10. I found my passion and felt a sense of achievement every time i stepped on the field.

Believe- I am really passionate about soccer and good at it.

Action- I play soccer whenever i can. I found out my coworkers play at the park next to our job so I started playing with them every week.

Result- I am able to free my mind when I play and it brings me a sense of joy every time.

Pivot or Keep? Keep

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My mom getting engaged to a amazing guy 

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My mom getting engaged to a amazing guy 

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Experience- My stepdad proposed to my mom.

Believe- My mom is finally getting the love she deserves. She will finally be happy with a loving and supportive man.

Action- I feel so relived now because my mom was always struggling with self worth. I now have a even bigger family.

Result- I feel safe knowing that everyone in my home is happy. I am so grateful for my stepdad because he has stepped in the role of being a parent to me and my brother as well. I overall just feel so safe and loved by him.

Pivot or Keep? Keep!!

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Experience- I met Danielly at work and we hung out one day in her car and went to get food. While we were in her car even though we barley knew each other we both told our complicated life story's. I mean we told each other every detail after knowing each other for barley a month. I have never felt so comfortable with someone.

Believe- I am enough and I know I have someone who will be there for me no matter what, I am never alone.

Action- Anytime I feel stressed out or I feel alone i will reach out to Danielly. She will always reassure me and we hangout all the time.

Result- I feel safe having her as my best friend. I know i am never alone now.

Pivot or Keep- Keep

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TO: You are perfect the way you are.

Every time i think I am not enough or overthink every thing I do I will remember that I am enough and do not need to change for anyone. I have amazing friends and family that would never ask me to change anything about myself. They love me for me.