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Honestly, it’s a question I’ve carried quietly for most of my life. I am the youngest in our family of four; a daughter, a sister, the one with the easy smile and quiet nature. But behind that picture-perfect image is a truth not everyone knows. I am adopted. I became part of this family when I was four years old, and with that, my life took on a completely new shape. I was given the name Mary Rose, a name that’s become mine, yet still feels like a bridge between who I was and who I am becoming. Sometimes I wonder about the life I had before, what I have forgotten, what I have carried with me. Being adopted is not something I talk about often, but it’s a part of me that holds both pain and beauty. I’m still learning to understand my own story, to embrace the chapters I didn’t get to write and to be proud of the one I’m writing now. Maybe that is what this journey is really about figuring out who I am, not just by where I came from, but by who I choose to be today.

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I grew up in Looc Norte, Asturias, Cebu. It is a quiet and humble place. It is where my story began, where my childhood memories were rooted. This has been my home then, and it still is now. My home shaped me with its strong sense of family and community. It is the kind of place where family gatherings are big, laughter echoes from house to house, and simple things like shared meals or walks along the road feel meaningful. Growing up here taught me the value of being close-knit, of looking out for one another, and of finding joy in the everyday moments. No matter where life may take me in the future, this little corner of Cebu will always feel like home.

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Education for me is a path of personal growth, quiet transformation, and self-discovery. I entered preschool at the age of six and started kindergarten at seven. At that time, I was an incredibly shy child, often reserved and hesitant to speak up. But as I progressed through my early years in school, I slowly began to uncover the abilities that had been quietly waiting within me.

Elementary school was a turning point in my life. I studied at Asturias Central Elementary School, where my skills and potential began to develop. During these early years, I joined various extracurricular activities that made my learning experience more meaningful and helped shape my character. I proudly became a Girl Scout, and in Grade 6, I had the chance to join a Jamboree held in Cebu City. That experience took me out of my comfort zone and helped me grow both socially and emotionally.

I also explored the world of cultural performance by joining a folk dance group that competed in Argao. One of my proudest moments was when we performed at Tsuneishi in Balamban, Cebu, to welcome visiting guests. I also joined the Lalin Festival in our town, Asturias, which helped me appreciate our local culture and traditions even more. Aside from that, I took part in essay writing competitions at the division level, joined a flower bouquet competition in Sogod, Cebu, and became a member of our school’s drum and lyre band. Each activity taught me something valuable and helped me grow in different ways. Despite being active in many events, I still maintained my status as an honor student.

High school was a time of adjustment and growth. I studied at Saint Francis Academy, a school known for its strong values and strict academic environment. It was challenging at first, but it helped me become more resilient. I continued to do well in my studies and stayed on the honor roll. Although there weren’t many extracurricular activities, I still found ways to grow as a leader. I was often chosen as a group leader for classroom cleaning and served as the worship chairperson of our section. In senior high school, I took the STEM strand, which helped me develop my critical thinking and problem-solving skills.

Now that I am in college, I continue to embrace the lessons and values I have gained. Currently in my second year of studying Bachelor of Science and Hospitality Management. I continue to be on the Dean’s List, which reminds me that hard work and consistency truly pay off.

Looking back, my educational journey has been a blend of academic excellence and meaningful personal development. From the timid girl who first stepped into preschool to the young woman who stands here today, education has been the constant force guiding me, challenging me, and helping me discover who I truly am.

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When life starts to feel overwhelming, I find myself going back to the little things that bring me peace. Watching K-dramas and Hollywood series is probably at the top of that list. It’s been one of my favorite ways to unwind after a long day of school work.

Aside from that, I have always enjoyed drawing and cross stitching. Painting is another creative hobby I turn to, especially when I'm just bored. I love listening to music too. There are days when everything feels a bit too much, and all I want to do is listen to music until the world fades out for a while. All these little things, they help me cope, express myself, and stay grounded.

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What are some of my proudest accomplishments?

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One of my proudest accomplishments was graduating from senior high school with flying colors. I did not expect it, especially since it happened during the pandemic. The learning setup was difficult, filled with uncertainties, distractions, and limited resources. But despite all the challenges, I stayed focused and pushed through. That moment reminded me that hard work and determination can lead to success, even in the toughest times.

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What are some challenges I faced in life?

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Through it all, I kept going. You got it, gurl.

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Life does not always go the way we plan. One of the biggest challenges I have faced so far was when I had to stop school for a year. Right after senior high, I was eager to chase my childhood dream. I enrolled in Veterinary Medicine at SWU PHINMA in Cebu, along Urgello. Even while I was still finishing senior high, I already had my eyes set on that path. I have always had a soft spot for animals. I loved the idea of taking care of them, healing them when they’re hurt, and being someone who could actually make a difference in their lives.

But reality hit hard. The expenses were overwhelming. I knew from the start that Veterinary Medicine was not going to be an easy course. It takes years, discipline, and a lot of heart. But what I didn’t expect was the wave of doubt that started to creep in. I was also worried for my parents, especially since my sister had just entered her second year as a nursing student. I knew how expensive everything was, and it made me question if I was being selfish for pursuing something that seemed so heavy, not just academically, but financially.

I shifted to Medical Technology next, not because I wanted to, but because I felt like I had to. Everyone in the family, especially my cousins was in the medical field. I did not want to be left out. I did not want anyone to think I had no direction. So I enrolled, even though my heart was not in it. The first semester was entirely online. I felt lost most of the time. I barely knew my classmates, the lessons did not sink in, and I felt disconnected.

Then came the second semester, face-to-face classes. I lasted only seven days. Seven days of trying to adjust, of trying to convince myself I could survive it. But deep down, I was struggling mentally and emotionally. Being far from home made everything harder. That’s when I finally gathered the courage to open up to my parents. I was terrified. I thought they’d be disappointed or angry. But they weren’t. Instead, they listened. They understood. They supported me.

Still, the aftermath wasn’t easy. I stayed home feeling ashamed, like I failed not just myself but everyone who believed in me. I couldn’t stop thinking about the money spent, the effort wasted, and the expectations I didn’t live up to.

That period of my life taught me so much not just about choosing the right course or school, but about listening to me, facing failure, and learning that it’s okay to change direction. It’s okay to pause and figure things out. Because sometimes, stopping is not the end. It is the start of choosing yourself again.

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I am a thalassophile — I love the ocean. Maybe it’s because we live near the shore. During the pandemic, we would often go to the beach to collect seafood for dinner. Being by the sea felt peaceful and comforting, especially during those uncertain times.

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How have these challenges shaped me as a person?

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The challenges I faced throughout my life have shaped me into who I am today. With the help of God, my parents, and my own determination, I continue moving forward. When I got into CTU Tuburan, my family was there to support me, always cheering me on and encouraging me to aim higher. They believed in me, even when I doubted myself.

I chose to pursue Hospitality Management—a course that, at first, felt unfamiliar and far from what I expected. But over time, I embraced it. I have grown and learned more than I ever imagined, not just academically, but personally as well.

Those past challenges made me stronger, wiser, and more resilient. They taught me that it's okay not to have all the answers right away. It’s okay to pause, reflect, and continue at your own pace. I’ve learned to be kinder to myself and more patient with the process. These experiences helped me become more self-aware, and they continue to guide me as I move forward in life.

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What are some of my future goals and aspirations?

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When I think about my future, my goals and aspirations are simple but they mean everything to me. First and foremost, I want to finish college and earn my degree. Even just passing and making it to the finish line would be a huge accomplishment. I hope to find a job in my chosen industry something that aligns with my skills and allows me to grow professionally.

One of my biggest dreams is to give back to my parents. They have done so much for me, and I want to return that love by giving them the comfort they truly deserve. I’d love to take them on a trip abroad someday, just to see the joy on their faces and make unforgettable memories together.

In the long run, I dream of a peaceful stable life, a home of my own in the province, a quiet place where I can settle down. I want good health for myself and my loved ones, a brand new car, and the kind of life where we’re not always chasing but finally living.

And because dreaming is free, I still hold on to that childhood dream of becoming a veterinarian. If life allows, I’d love to study again and finally pursue that passion. Who knows? Maybe one day, I’ll be able to make it happen.

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Life for me is not a race to perfection or a straight line toward success. It is a journey of becoming. My philosophy is simple, keep going even when the path changes. I have learned that setbacks are not dead ends but they are just part of the process of finding where you truly belong.

I believe in growing through what I go through. Challenges like shifting courses, pausing my education, or doubting myself have shaped me more than any success ever could. It taught me resilience, humility, and the importance of listening to my inner voice, not just the expectations of others.

Above all, I believe life is meant to be lived with purpose and heart. It’s okay to take detours, to fall, to pause, and to begin again. What matters is that we never stop trying to become the best version of ourselves.

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Who are my biggest influences and inspirations?

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If there is one constant in my life that has shaped me into who I am today, it is my family especially my parents and my sister. They’re more than just my support system; they are my greatest inspirations. Growing up, my parents were the type who didn’t let us go too far without checking in, but I have come to appreciate how that protectiveness was also balanced with lessons in independence.

I wouldn't be where I am today without them. They have molded me with love, patience, and unwavering value and that is something I carry with me every single day.

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