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Fixed: "My cousin Noe lanai always blames me on stuff and ( it wasn't my falt ) that she and a friend did something wrong."
Growth: Instead of her saying it wasn't her falt, she could have said
that I was trying to help her out
and she didn't listen to me and so she lied to our parents and got me
in trouble with my aunt Alisha Lopez.

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Fixed: "I'm to scared to play a baseball game in front of other people, so I just won't go to the game."

Growth: Instead of saying that you are too scared, you could say " I am really scared to play the game but it's good to try new things."

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Fixed:it's not my fault the lockers hinges broke off I did not throw the base ball at it.
Growth:It is my fault that the lockers hinges broke off I should not have been throwing a base ball inside, but I should not have been even tossing it in the first place.

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Fixed: "I'm not good at art and that's why I failed."
Growth: "I'm not good at art but I can practice and I'll get better next time."

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Fixed:"I was just riding my bike and I crashed into the the mailbox t wasn't my fault".
Growth: Instead of saying it wasn't my fault you should say "I will try to ride my bike safely and ill help you get a new mailbox" .

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Fixed: It wasn't my fault that i cant ride a unicycle it was that i did not have help with it.Growth: Instead of saying that it was int my fault i shod be saying i shod of ask for help instead of blaming it on some one else.

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Fixed: "My dog Jeff ate my spelling homework but it wasn't my fault."
Growth: Instead of being irresponsible with your homework and letting your dog get a hold of your work you could of said "My dog Jeff got my homework because i didn't put it away from Jeff" that is a more proper way to say it, because excuses never get you to a better place!!!

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Fixed:It wasn't my fault he punched me first. Growth: he punched me first but I shoud have not punched him back.

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Fixed: I'm scared of talking out loud in front of the class.
Growth: I should be saying I do not feel  condfindent speaking in front of the class yet. I should  practice at home and try to talk more in school. Instead of thinking I'm not going to raise my hand because if I get it wrong I don't want to look dumb. I should raise my hand more often to get comfortable with speaking to the whole class. I should not be afraid of standin up in front of  the whole class.

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Fixed: " It not wasn't my my fault that i could't get my homework done." Growth: instead of saying you could't get your homework done say i'm sorry i could't get my homework done it wont happen again, and someone can help you get done or if you don't have time later on in the day to do it right as you get home and your mom or dad can help you."

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Fixed: "It wasn't my fault we lost our soccer game. I played really well". Growth: Or, you could ask yourself  maybe I should of been guarding the person instead of letting he/she pass me and score a goal. So you, and all of your teamates  lost together because you lose as a team and and you win as team".

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Fixed: "It  wasn't my fault I was to scared to ask Trinity to come sit at the table with us."
Growth: Instead of saying it wasn't my fault I was to scared you could of said, "Trinity do you want to come sit with us." "Next time I will ask her if she would like to sit with us, instead of not even asking if she wants to sit with us."

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Fixed: "It's not my fault that I didn't score a goal. I kicked the ball with my left foot."  Growth: Instead of saying you couldn't score the goal because you kicked with your left foot. Instead you can say "I can go home and practice kicking with my left foot and do that for about 30 minutes each day and I will get better at it. Then I will be able to kick with my left foot and score goals with my left foot"

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Fixed: ¨It was int why fault that I was scared to ask Ashlee to sit by me at lunch
Growth: Instead of saying it was int my fault say Ashlee you wanna sit by me this sit is open for you to sit at¨.  don´t be scared just go ask.

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Fixed: "Its not my fault that my room keeps getting dirty. Its too hard to keep my room clean."
Growth: Instead of saying its too hard, a person could find ways to make it easier, like listening to music or take it small steps at a time. For example, clean a section of it one day then another the next day and keep doing that until its clean. Instead of making an excuse of saying its not your fault when it most likely is since its your room you could say, "I'm going to go work a little section of my room today, and when I feel that I did a good job I can take a brake."

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Fixed: "I'm not good at drawing, no matter how hard I try I just cant draw."
Growth: instead of saying I'm not good drawing You could say "I may not be good at drawing but I can try as hard as I can, work on it when ever I have a chance to and maybe one day I'll be good at drawing."

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Fixed: "It's not my fault I am scared of high places and don't want to climb the HUGE cliff with you. You could fall off that huge thing man!"
Growth: Instead if saying that you are scared of heights and you don't want to do it so your trying to get out of doing it, you should something like "I'm scared of heights but I well try climbing that HUGE mountain with you man so I can face my fears and get over it so they don't have to haunt me in my dreams".

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Sometimes I say I failed at something or can't do something. Then I look at all the possible angles or what could have happened, then I realize that I can do better at that something or try again to see if I can do it.

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Fixed: "I'm scared of doing a triple back flip on a motorcycle, I may brake something."
Growth: I could try and practice doing I back flip on a bike, or just by my self on the ground. Then when I get better at doing a triple back flip, I can try doing it into a foam pit, so I can learn what to do and what not to do so I don't get hurt. After I get better I can try the real thing.  And do it over and over again unlit I perfect the triple back flip.

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Fixed: " Its not my fault that i cry when i get a shot.''
Growth: Instead of crying I can grab something and hold it tight so I don't cry, and i will get better at not crying over hearing the word shot, that way my  mom isn't with me all the time when I get shots.

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fixed: "I'm not good at drawing." Growth: "Instead of saying its to hard they could ask their parents for help my moms an amazing drawer. I could ask her how she draws the out line or i could practice my way of drawing harder. Instead than saying Its to hard.''

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Fixed: "I'm really bad at drawing people. Its not my fault people are too hard to draw."

Growth: "What I could do is look up tutorials on how to draw people and study the general shapes of other people in drawings."

Growth and Fixed are two different mindsets. Growth is a positive mindset and Fixed is a negative mindset.

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Fixed: "I get too embarrassed in front of people.  I can't share my ideas with them."
Growth: Or, you could stand up and share your ideas. Don't make up excuses and don't be embarrassed for the rest of your life. Build up confidence. Then, next time someone wants to listen to you share your ideas, don't be afraid. Just be yourself. Share your ideas with them. You could say, "I'm too scared to share my ideas with them, but I could practice at home speaking with my family and friends or just build up my confidence to talk to strangers."