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Sometimes you just need to listen

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The problem

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Lack of clarity and direction.

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The man is focused on the solution

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Listening & empathy

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That’s me - the guy ; wanting to fix not listening first

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Goal setting first (do you want to just vent out or you want fixing)

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Full attention

Listening with no judgement

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People most of the time dont need fixing

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just empathizing can be a breakthrough in a relationship

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Understanding and clarity is important.

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Fixing (Solution)

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The man is focused on telling

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what he sees - the nail as the problem; not what the lady needed

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Shying away from painful feedback to the point of “protecting the pain point”

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To be listened to.

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focused on what he was seeing as a problem

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Helping but approach is immediately prescribing

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she just wanted to be listened to

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The problem and how to solve.

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Progress is mentee driven - sometimes as mentor you want to focus on solving the problem but the mentee is not yet ready or wants to unpack feelings first

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Listen

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Presence

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active listening

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ive the propensity to tell :(

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solution instead of the need

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Empathy (Yes, talking is healing but not this time) haha!

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Empathize first

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I am a problem-solver :-)

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Different perspective

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tendency to jump into my perspective

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full presence and empathy, compassion

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Lear ing to restrain myself from solutioning

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nurturing (nanay-like)