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#AITA for being angry as my father for not invite me to his wedding?

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#AITA for being angry as my father for not invite me to his wedding?

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In my childhood, I didn't use to visit my father because my mom wouldn't let me see him. But when I was 14 years old, my father and me used to go to cinema and we were going to grandmother home. My relation with my father at that time it was the best.

One day, my father call me on my cell phone because he want told that the weekend was his was his wedding, but I don't answer.

Next week, we were able to talk but, he just told me that he was mad at me because I never had time for him.

Weeks later, I didn't understand why he wasn't mad at me for answering him at the time. Until one day I was watching Instagram stories, and I saw a post from my cousin where there was a family reunion, and my dad and my stepmom were in wedding outfits. My family never said anything to me.

Am I the asshole for not answering his call and being mad that he didn't invite me?

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AITA for changing university degree and disappointing my family?

My family always expected me to choose a traditional mayor, like law, accounting, etc., but I realized that was not what I really wanted. I decided to change to something that I am really passionate about and even though I have a solid plan my family doesn't agree.

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AITA for refusing to lend my friend money for concert tickets?

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AITA for refusing to lend my friend money for concert tickets?

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So, here’s the situation. My best friend, let’s call her Sarah, and I have been close for years. We’ve always supported each other, but recently, she asked me for a favor that I’m not sure I handled well.

Sarah is a huge fan of a popular band, and they’re coming to our city next month. The problem is, the tickets are expensive, and Sarah doesn’t have enough money to buy them. She asked me to lend her $350.000 so she could get a ticket. Now, I have the money, but I’ve been saving up for a new laptop for University, and I’m not sure I can afford to lend her that much right now.

When I told her I couldn’t lend her the money, she got really upset. She said I was being selfish and that I don’t care about her interests. She even accused me of not being a true friend. I feel bad because I know how much this concert means to her, but at the same time, I don’t think it’s fair for her to expect me to give up my savings for something that’s not essential.

So, classmates , AITA for refusing to lend my friend money for concert tickets?

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AITA for making a complaint about the noise my neighbor makes while I am studying?

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AITA for making a complaint about the noise my neighbor makes while I am studying?

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I am a student and live in a house with my family. My neighbor is a nice guy, but he has a problem with noise. He is always listening to loud music, watching movies with loud sound or just talking loudly with his friends.

The problem is that I have to study and do work at home, and the noise makes me very uncomfortable. I find it hard to concentrate and feel stressed when I try to do my homework with all that noise in the background.

A few days ago, after a sleepless night because of the noise, I decided to talk to my neighbor about the problem. I explained that I understood that we all need to relax and have fun, but that the noise was affecting my ability to study and do my homework.

My neighbor was a little uncomfortable and told me that he didn't realize the noise was so loud. He promised me that he would try to keep the noise to a minimum, but not much has changed.

Now I'm wondering if I should make a formal complaint to the building management. I feel bad that I have to, but I need a quiet environment to study and do my homework.

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Am I the asshole because I am obsessed to do exercise?

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Am I the asshole because I am obsessed to do exercise?

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I used to be skinny and very sedentary. I used to spend entire days watching TV and playing video games. Exercise was never part of my routine, and I didn’t really care about my health. I used to think that working out was too hard, and I preferred to do nothing.

But one day, I wasn’t feeling good physically or mentally. My brother told me to do exercise and everything changed. At first, it was hard, but in a 1 month I started feeling stronger and more energetic. Now, I can’t imagine my life without it.

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AitA for not being a good daughter anymore?

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AitA for not being a good daughter anymore?

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Everything has a limit. I have a friend who stopped being a good daughter. This is her story: she didn't use to leave her house because she didn't like it (to go out), but the day came when she was tired, so she left to enjoy a little (bit) her life, so she talked with her friends and made plans. Her parents said that enough was enough, but she left in two opportunities, so she didn't understand because her parents said that she decided to leave and grow (?).

Now, she has a job, she used to leave work at 5 pm and... (ellipsis)

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AITA for having character?

I used to be a person who accepted everything teachers said even if they were rude or unfair to me. I was very submissive and all I did was to start crying after that.

When I was in 9th grade I started to change. When teachers told me things that were not true, I started to question and say: "with all due respect, that's not true"; "I don't agree"; "I must not excuse, because it was not my fault"; "Why do I have to excuse?". Teachers started to say that I was rude, and I had problems in high school, but I didn't care. I felt better being like that, saying my opinion.

Sometimes teachers think that they are right, and we (the students) must accept even if/when they are unfair, and it's not allowed to give your opinion or question them.

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Am I the Asshole for getting away from my parents? 

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Am I the Asshole for getting away from my parents? 

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Lately I've been living alone, I used to live with my parents but they just reached out to me for favors or housework/ house chores, when I needed them, they are never there or when I want to share something with them, they don't care about that and if I change my attitude or if I grow apart from them, they ask me if something is wrong or they just get mad at (with) me. Some time ago, we used to be a very (united) close-knit family and I felt very well with them, when I arrived to my house I used to tell them my day and I used to laugh a lot, I used to feel very supported but now all of this is over, the home environment is very bad and I feel very lonely in my house, that place doesn't feel like a home and for this reason I changed a lot with them, I feel like a furniture, Am I the Asshole for changing with them?

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AITA for changing some things in my life?

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AITA for changing some things in my life?

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I always have tried to be the perfect friend, I always have been there for everyone, but I realice that nobody has been there for my, my friends only searched to my when they needed something, but when I needed to they, they weren't, I started to feel that I was living for they and my life each time was more empty, I was whiteout energy, I felt alone and always was stressed, or anxious about all in my life, so I decided to change this, I started to be more focused on my and I started to say "no" when was necessary, and my fake friends started to let me alone and I prioricen my own happiness and my mental health, so, I wonder, AITA for that?

Alejandra L