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To help your child and that for a fellow parent that you see at drop offs and pick ups, educate your child.

More often than not, bullying (especially cyber-bullying) can be avoided if we have a candid conversation with our children.

Explain to them the implications that certain behaviours may have.

Teach them to respect their classmates, despite their different appearance or interests.

Instill in your child the understanding that we are all individuals and we are all equally important.

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Tina is a mother from the US that lost her daughter due to suicide, as a consequence to the bullying she experienced as a young child and cyber-bullying in high school.

Listen to Tina's recount of her daughter's life.

Her story is touching and she provides valid points/tips on what teens need from their parents.

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What Kids Have To Say About Bullying And How To End It | Tina Meier | TEDxBend

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Educations Services Australia has created a powerful multipurpose website.

This website contains pages aimed at supporting students, parents and teachers.

This should be your first line of defense when it comes to anything related with your child, not only when faced with cyber-bullying.

Save this website and spend some time sifting through the information and support available to you and your child

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Find information to support your child's wellbeing through their secondary school years.

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We need to keep in mind that children and teens are not "meaner" or more hateful and harmful than they have ever been. Unfortunately with the development of technology, it is easier to bully others.

Unlike bullying 10 years ago, bullying does not end at school, it follows students home via social media.

The following video is a small interview with a group of students that open up on what it is like to be cyber-bullied.

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Secrets Teens Keep On Their Phones | Inside Online Bullying

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Inside Cyber-bullying | In the latest installment of the "GMA" series on youth and technology, T.J. Holmes talks to teens who reveal how some apps and social media expose them to cyberbullying.

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Unfortunately many times, lines get blurred and your child may not know that they are participating in harmful online behaviour.

Cyber-bullying can be as simple as sharing or retweeting a "funny" post/image about someone in their classroom.

Educate your child on what is appropriate online behaviour and take the time to discuss the issue with them.

For more information, visit the Australian Parenting website attached -

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did you know

About 20% of young Australians aged 8-17 years experience cyberbullying each year.

Cyberbullying doesn't happen much under 10 years. It peaks at 11-15 years and slowly decreases over 15 years.

Most victims and those who bully them know each other in real life. They often go to the same school, are the same gender and describe themselves as friends.

Cyberbullying is using digital technology to deliberately hurt someone. It can happen in lots of different ways. You can help your child avoid cyberbullying by agreeing on rules about smartphone and computer use. Talking with your child about staying safe online is important too.

Cyberbullying: what you need to know

Cyberbullying is when a person uses digital technology to deliberately and repeatedly harass, humiliate, embarrass, torment, threaten, pick on or intimidate another person.

Cyberbullying happens in lots of different ways - by mobile phone, text messages and email, in online games, and through social media sites like Facebook, YouTube, Tumblr, Snapchat and Instagram.

Examples of cyberbullying include deliberately:

posting or sending messages that threaten people or put people down

leaving people out of online games or social forums

spreading nasty rumours online about people

setting up unkind or unpleasant fake social media accounts using real photos and contact details

trolling or stalking people online

sharing or forwarding people's personal information

posting insulting or embarrassing photos or videos of people

harassing other people in virtual environments or online games.

Cyberbullying can happen at any time of the day or night, anywhere there's internet or mobile access.

If your child has a disability, or is experiencing a mental health issue like depression or anxiety, this can make him more vulnerable to cyberbullying.

Cyberbullying can become offline bullying - for example, bullying at school. And face-to-face bullying can become cyberbullying.

Cyberbullying is harmful. It's never cool, funny or OK. But only about 20% of teenagers have engaged in bullying or been bullied. This means that most teenagers are using the internet happily and responsibly.

Effects of cyberbullying

Children and teenagers who experience cyberbullying can end up being bullied at school. Cyberbullying often leaves teenagers with lowered self-esteem, less interest in school and low academic achievement.

Children and teenagers might feel confused by changes in their friendships groups. They might also feel alone, lonely and isolated. Cyberbullying can lead to mental health issues like depression, anxiety, stress and, in extreme cases, suicidal thoughts.

Some victims of cyberbullying feel they have no safe place.

Helping your child avoid cyberbullying

Here are some things you can do to help make cyberbullying less likely to happen to your child:

Agree on rules
Agreeing on clear rules about when your child can use her mobile phone, computer or tablet can help her avoid cyberbullying. For example, cyberbullying often happens at night through text messages and shared images. It's best if you agree to switch off all devices at night and leave them in a family area.

Talk about cyberbullying with your child
It's a good idea to start talking about cyberbullying when your child first starts to use social media sites, or when he gets a mobile phone.

You can talk about:

what cyberbullying looks like - for example, 'Cyberbullying is sending mean text messages, spreading rumours on social media, ganging up on a player in an online game, or sharing an embarrassing photo with other people'

how it might feel to be cyberbullied - for example, 'Being cyberbullied can make you feel very upset and lonely. It can make you not want to join in activities where the cyberbully might be'

the consequences of cyberbullying - for example, 'People who get cyberbullied can stop doing well at school and feel depressed or anxious'.

Talk about being safe online
This might involve talking about things like:

online friends and messaging friend lists - if your child adds someone she doesn't really know as a 'buddy' or 'friend', it gives that person access to information about her that could be used for bullying

not giving out passwords to friends. Some teenagers do this as a sign of trust, but a password gives other people the power to pose as your child online

thinking before posting - if your child posts personal comments, photos or videos she might get unwanted attention or negative comments. The comments and photos can also be available online for a long time

telling you, a teacher or another trusted adult if she's worried about anything that's happening online.

How cyberbullying is different from other bullying

Cyberbullying is different from other kinds of bullying, for both the person engaging in bullying and the victim.

People using bullying behaviour often act more boldly online than if they were facing their victim in person. Sending taunts remotely and anonymously makes people doing the bullying feel safer and more powerful. They can't see their victims' physical or emotional responses, which might otherwise have an impact on the bullying behaviour.

For people being bullied, cyberbullying is tough to deal with. Because teenagers use mobiles and the internet a lot of the time, bullying can happen 24 hours a day, not just when they're at school. Victims of cyberbullying might not know who's doing the bullying or when the bully will strike next. This can make teenagers feel persecuted and unsafe, even when they're at home.

Bullying messages posted online are very hard to get rid of. These messages can be forwarded instantly and be seen by many people, instead of only the few people present in face-to-face bullying situations.

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Cyberbullying: kids and teens | Raising Children Network

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About 20% of young Australians aged 8-17 years experience cyberbullying each year. Cyberbullying doesn't happen much under 10 years. It peaks at 11-15 years and slowly decreases over 15 years. Most victims and those who bully them know each other in real life.

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It is always a good idea to save any posts, emails, photos or nasty/threatening emails your child receives.

Store these as evidence as you may need them one day.

Ensure your child does not have these digital posts to refer to and re-read.

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If the issue is recurring and your child feels threatened, call the police.

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The Australian Government takes cyber-bullying very seriously

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The Australian Government takes cyber-bullying very seriously

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In the case where cyber-bullying is recurring and neither yourself or the school have been able to stop it; you can report the issue to the police.

The Office of the eSafety Commissioner have created a website with detailed information on how to handle situations, who you can contact and where to find help.

Please visit website for further information -

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