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active listening, allow someone to say everything they feel they need to say before responding, bc sometimes someone may need more to get their intent across. also in a possible conflict answering with a common goal, not just listening to respond

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using in person communication, lead with kindness and empathy

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being conscious of your tone of voice

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Sometimes I make jokes in a serious manner

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Talk about very important things in person with no distractions. Be honest

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Honestly you can’t always but you can always go back and inform what the intent was in that moment

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Use as straightforward communication as possible

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Clarifying questions and communication

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Being direct/honest and not beating around the bush

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im often sarcastic and some people not understanding it

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Understanding where the other person is mentally and using language that you’ve used before with that drain so that they understand

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We can communicate explicitly our intent

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Don’t make assumptions

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Using voice inflections and trying to make phone calls instead of text

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I feel like it happens a lot when I say “good for you”  it depends on the tone

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Treating everyone with kindness and not being closed off to certain people

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Talking about making plans but not following through with actually making the plans

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By not jumping to conclusions

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Be transparent and honest!

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Communicate your intent honestly

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using technology is very hard to convey intention

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When people just take things the wrong way

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Discuss with the person so you are on the same page as them

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Sometimes having a different sense of humor as someone can throw things off

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When giving advice and they don’t understand my tone of voice

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making it clear before you have a conversation what your intent is so they don’t misinterpret

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sometimes trying to help comes off the wrong way 

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sometimes trying to help comes off the wrong way 

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when i was younger my family used to call me “the viper” because my tongue was so sharp so miscommunication happened all the time

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I was telling someone a story but that person told the person involved and twisted what I said

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Over text it’s super easy for ppl to not understand the tone and it makes sounding sincere hard

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Texting someone I wasn’t supposed to

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When you say something as a joke but it may have offended someone

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We communicate what we are doing and why

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I have an agressive tone so people just pay attention to the tone and not the words

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sending an emoji you think is funny but does not have the same meaning

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This happens a lot over text in conflicts

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Texting something important

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“I’m sorry”

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When actions come off a certain way but they meant something different

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when i offer advice and try to be helpful but ppl see me as a hater 

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when i offer advice and try to be helpful but ppl see me as a hater 

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“Sorry you felt/took it that way”

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having a one-on-one conversation in person or over the phone to avoid miscommunication and hurting each other’s feelings

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self awareness —> create tactics to improve —> hold self accountable

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Constant challenging each other to be the best version of ourselves 

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Constant challenging each other to be the best version of ourselves 

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By making sure we all treat each and every member of this chapter with actual respect instead of being fake to everyone. This will allow everyone to bond and strengthen communication

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Practicing becoming a better version of yourself every day

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texting an apology! sometimes it may come across as ingenuine

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Becoming a better version of yourself

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Allowing yourself to change in a good way

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By growing, personally

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Reflecting on how you can grow and actively trying to learn

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Never settling to be the best version of yourself

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Becoming a better version of yourself

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Learning about yourself and others

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Overcoming a traumatic experience

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Actively trying to be a better me everyday even if that means I’m the only one who notices the change

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Making changes to better oneself

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Bettering yourself

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Personal growth is having an open mind about all aspect of yourself, being self aware and working to become the best version of yourself

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Building more on who you were before

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trying to do the best you can every day no matter what it looks like

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Seeing changes in your past behavior and how they bettered you

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striving to better yourself physically and emotionally

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Developing and improving your sense of self over time

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Understanding other persepctives

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Understanding one’s flaws and working to improve every day

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Actively trying to become the greatest version of yourself!

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Becoming more mature and learning from the past

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Moving beyond a hurdle that held me back

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self-reflection and improvement

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always finding ways to improve yourself