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Talk, think and resolve together. Write a letter or get a mediator if needed. 

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Talk, think and resolve together. Write a letter or get a mediator if needed. 

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acknowledging that it is going to feel uncomfortable 

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acknowledging that it is going to feel uncomfortable 

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I would like them to come talk to me one on one. It would best to start with reminding each other of our shared values if applicable---we are a team, even in difficulty!

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First tell them “I’m not trying to disregard your feelings, and hope you do the same. Please hear me out and let’s talk like adults” 

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First tell them “I’m not trying to disregard your feelings, and hope you do the same. Please hear me out and let’s talk like adults” 

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I would like to have an in-person conversation about it after both parties have had time to think about the problem and solution.

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Be transparent about your own thoughts while being open minded about others

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Be transparent about your own thoughts while being open minded about others

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Circle back after a discussion is had an agreement is made to see how it's going for all parties. Follow up! :)

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Circle back after a discussion is had an agreement is made to see how it's going for all parties. Follow up! :)

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is essential.

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Let’s talk and listen to each other and have empathy towards each other. Every opinion matters.

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Let’s talk and listen to each other and have empathy towards each other. Every opinion matters.

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- having an open conversation
- come opened mind into the conversation
- meet before or after school
- being honest

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Come to be directly and be open to collaborating together to problem solve.

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I would want them to come to me and speak from the heart, be honest, direct, and trust that they will be heard.

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I would want them to come to me and speak from the heart, be honest, direct, and trust that they will be heard.

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Time needs to be taken to have opportunity to discuss topics that have presented themselves.

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Discreetly acknowledge the discomfort in the moment: "this feels bad, can we talk later?" and then talk later

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Talking it out in a tactful way and considering the other person's lived experiences and trauma just like we do with the children.

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Start by finding common ground-- what do we BOTH care about in this situation? Then move on to problem solving together.

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Start by finding common ground-- what do we BOTH care about in this situation? Then move on to problem solving together.

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Having a professional conversation with one another, respecting others opinions and being willing to work through differences. 

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Having a professional conversation with one another, respecting others opinions and being willing to work through differences. 

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I prefer that people come and talk to me directly at an agreed upon time.

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I prefer that people come and talk to me directly at an agreed upon time.

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If someone has a concern, I'd like them to tell me about it as soon as they can in a 1-1 situation. They can send an email asking to talk, or stop by my room. Please assume good intentions and be honest about your feelings.

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Knowing decisions are made with students best interest in mind even if we have different ideas of what we think a student might need 

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Knowing decisions are made with students best interest in mind even if we have different ideas of what we think a student might need 

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I would like discretion in terms of people outside of the situation if applicable. 

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I would like discretion in terms of people outside of the situation if applicable. 

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Find a time to talk about it when we’re both in calm mindsets

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Please come talk to me. Let’s have a discussion about what went well, what didn’t and set expectations for how the move forward in a positive, respectful way so we can both thrive in our roles so our students also thrive.

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Keeping the student at the center, using I statements and being honest.

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Keeping the student at the center, using I statements and being honest.

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Come to me to have a conversation with an open mind. Try to see from each others perspective

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Address concern directly and privately and always assume positive intent.

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I would like the person to come talk to me when they are calm and I am calm so that we can learn from each other’s perspectives

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Talk about it in an open, respectful way.

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Avoid triangulation- go to the person

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I think it's important to understand that we can respectfully disagree and have difficult conversations because there is so much to be learned from doing so.  Having the conversation is what is important!

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Open, honest, and empathic communication where we listen to understand and resolve.

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Talk to me first, let me know how they feel, what happened. Be open to have a conversation that is collaborative and on going. 

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Talk to me first, let me know how they feel, what happened. Be open to have a conversation that is collaborative and on going. 

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I would like them to feel comfortable enough to talk about the issue with me.

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We can have hard conversations by trying to see from their perspective.

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I would like them to find a mutually agreeable time to talk with me in person

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I would like them to find a mutually agreeable time to talk with me in person

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I would want them to come to me directly and have the conversation face to face and to be OPEN to hearing my side. 

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I would want them to come to me directly and have the conversation face to face and to be OPEN to hearing my side. 

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Inclusion is a no make any exceptions of persons, regardless of race, gender and other differences

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Inclusion is a no make any exceptions of persons, regardless of race, gender and other differences

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Inclusion means that the entire classroom is aware of the needs of their fellow students.

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Inclusion means that the entire classroom is aware of the needs of their fellow students.

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Inclusion looks like every child having a voice and feeling comfortable in the classroom and around their classmates. 

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Inclusion looks like every child having a voice and feeling comfortable in the classroom and around their classmates. 