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So true.

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That was very effective and actually touched me a bit. I do agree when you say emotional is worse just because I have dealt with both and feel like you cant be very resilient that easily from emotional pain but it is easier with physical pain.  I love how you added that emotional pain can lead to physical because it can for example 🤬 and hurting yourself because of usually depression.

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This is so right. it is so sad hew people who cared about temple thought she was invisible. Conor also had this problem with.

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It really was I agree with you

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No, because she is the reason that everybody knows about connor's mom. She is also one of the reasons why he's bullied.

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Yup

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Lilly is a very important character. She makes one of the themes in the book. She should be in the movie.

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That is a great answer.

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Yeah but she got all offended at first like what a complete and utter loser

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That was simple but effective.

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I agree with this because Temple did avoid that and that is very relatable. Also your examples are very understanale and go good with the question you answered. Lastly I liked your first sentence to your answer.

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I think they should have kept her in. Lily may not have played the biggest role in the book but she helped Conor learn

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I agree with this comment. Emotions are a powerful thing and if they get hurt, there's not really a lot you can do to make the hurt go away. But you can do your best to make it bearable for the person who's hurting.

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Not really she just stands around

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invisible means not being seen. There are many different deffinitions .
Connor faced invisibilty when the bullies were trying to bother him. Temple faced invisiblity when people didnt think she could do things because she hs autism.

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Yes i agree

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Yes she does do that. She opened up a line of communication Conor didn't know existed. I like your answer.

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Lily is one of the most important characters in the whole book. I think this because really without her, the story couldn't move forward! Conor's mother would still have cancer, and the monster would still come, but people would not treat him the way they did, Conor would also probably be less teased.

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Lily is an important character in this book because she helped conner feel like he had a purpose at school.

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yeahh, she was actually a big help in conors life

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yeahh, she was actually a big help in conors life

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People dont want to be a burden to others. Some people dont want people to know they are sad because they dont want to talk about it. It is sad when people do this.

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I love this answer

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yep, perfectly stated

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Lily to me is an important part of the book because she is what allows Connor to believe that he is not invisible to the people who matter.  She really also helped develop Connors character and Harrys just by being in the story a little bit.

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Sometimes people just want to be alone, but sometimes that's not very healthy, and we need to seek out help, even if they don't want somebody to carry their weight for them.

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some people just want to keep it to themselves instead of share it around with people.

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invisible is when something is not visible. but the way conner and temple grandin  had invisibility was much different. conners invisibility s when people see you but they treat you like you are invisible and not there

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Often people feel that telling people about their fears will scare them. Like with temple's autism people made fun of her for that so for someone who is afraid of that happening to them they might try and hide their fears. Other times we are afraid confronting our fears makes them more real like how conor was trying to ignore his fears to make them go away

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That is so true it made my day. Thank you so much AH

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Friends can be difficult. you want them there when you need them most, you want them to care for you and feel sorry for you. But you also want to be alone sometimes. Sometimes friends do not help, but that is where communication comes in handy.
She was a great example for both, she was there for connor but she also gave him space. I think she should have been in the movie.

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For me talking to people about that sort of stuff can br a bit akward. Fears are sort of something thst is out own. Conor was keeping it to himself because he didnt like tallking about it. I feel like temple just didnt think about telling others.

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she is important because she helped conor realize he was not alone nd he could talk to others about his problems.

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hi rodizzly

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I think that people don't communicate with each other because they don't want to be judged or misunderstood, or maybe they just want to protect the other person, like how conor's mom didn't tell conor that she was gonna die as soon as she should have.

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Yeah she does

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people choose to bear things alone because they feel like people will judge them or not understand.

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They might be scared of what people will think of them after it. They probably dont want to be taken for granted and not be understood. For example Connor never told his mom the truth about how he felt because he felt like it was letting go to soon and that his mom would be mad thinking he was a bad person for thinking that.

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Temple and Conner were invisible because they both had something they were trying to hide (except temple tried to embrace it) but nobody wanted to be near them.

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yeah true true true

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I believe that some people want to bear things alone because they do not want to put it on others. It is easy to feel like a burden.

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people are afraid of what others are going to say like conner was afraid to talk about the monster because he didn't think anyone was going to believe him. And no one agreed with temple on anything so she just kept it to herself.

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That is true because you don't want to be a burden so you try to hide the pain.

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ya she was annoying but she kind of reminded him that he wasn't invissible

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She was a little annoying but she helped Conor know he's important.

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Emotional suffering is worse. This is because I think its harder to heal emotionaly. This is also because when you are faced with emotional suffering then it can lead to physical suffering.

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Yes i do because she shows him that he's not invisible to the people who care about him. I think she has a little role that makes a big difference.

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thats true like temple didn't really ever feel invisible

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I think she is important. Because if it weren't for her, nobody would have found out about his mom. And that is pretty much the cause of all his suffering.

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communication is key to happy living. People do not fully understand how you are feeling.

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some think others will not relate to what they are saying and they will not be help in any way. conor avoided talking to his gma about it because he thought she wouldnt understand. temple avoided talking to anyone about her problems because she felt the same.

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You are so very right.

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lilly in the book is an important character because she is what connor uses to try and get better. for example at the end of the book lily gives conner a note that inspires him to go see the u tree

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Sometimes you feel like your your own best friend. No one can understand you like you can. And other people's opinions of the thing your grieving over can cause you anger.

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ya they also dont know how they would react to it or how they would possibly help

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It means that the people that dont matter see you but the people who matter see you. It can mean different things though. Like for Temple it meant that to even the people who mattered she felt invisible. Her meaning was that she was seen but not understood because she was autistic. To Connor it meant that only the important people saw him and everywhere else he did no feel seen

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All she did was be annoying

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that's so true. It's hard to find someone to talk to that you can trust.

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Because they think it will be easier. Or they just don't want other people to get involved and have things get even worse than they could already be. They could also feel like they're just not important enough to tell someone about their problems.

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Invisability or being invisible means that people are ignoring you.  Or people dont notice what you are doing. Everbody deserves to be noticed by at least one person.

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Invisability or being invisible means that people are ignoring you.  Or people dont notice what you are doing. Everbody deserves to be noticed by at least one person.

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That is very true to know & understand

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invisible means to not be seen by anything. both temple and conor dealt with this because they both had problems of their own and other people were scared off by it

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They think they can handle the utter terribleness of being alone with absolutely nobody there to help them just nobody so they have to die alone with their terrible sadness

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I think that there are different definitions of invisibility. Like actually being invisible vs being ignored. I also think that both Temple and Conor were just ignored, and conor at first used force to be seen, which didn't really work as planned, and Temple just persevered.

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being invisible with emotions means that you are there physicaly but mentally you feel that no one can see you. Temple was just very sad and it wasn't her fault, and conner made himself that way because he didn't want anyone to see him.

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Invisibility is the feeling of not being seen. The world keeps going but you feel like you are frozen still. Invisibility is having no one care, the feeling of being alone and not wanted.

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I think shes important because she did help conor realize that he really did have someone. she also help him see that the people who really do matter see him

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they might not communicate with others because they're scared of what they'll think. Temple didn't feel like anyone was really sharing her dream so she didn't share it with anybody. I feel like Conor was a little ashamed so he didn't want to share.

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invisibility isn't just not being seen. It can be not being seen for who you are.  Conor felt like no one understood what he was going through and now Temple's disability worked was invisible to most people

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in the end she helps connor know she is there for him

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they think no one could help. they think that because they think no one would know how to feel about it or help.

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I 100% agree with this

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that's true I think there's different ways of coping and it depends on the situation.

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They might be scared to tell anyone because they would judge them or make them feel like they couldn't do it. Or they were just scared. in a monster calls, conor didn't tell his mom because he was scared that it would come true. in temple grandin, temple didn't tell anyone because she didn't want anyone to call her bad name or anything like that.

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If someone didn't want to talk to their parents or anybody they wouldn't but if they did they would. When you have an utterly terrifying truth and secret to your life it makes you feel terrible and horrible and bad. Temple Grandin couldn't talk to her mom because she was seriously autistic. Connor wouldn't because he knew the truth was awful and painful.

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Yes it is different. Conor is invisible because he made himself that way. Temple's situation wasn't her fault. Being invisible is feeling like you are ignored. It's completely mental.

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emotional because in Temple Grandin she didn't care what they were doing she cared what they were saying because it got to her emotions. Also in A monster calls he didn't care about Harry punching or hurting him he cared about his mom dying and what he was going to deal with in the end.

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When you're still around but no one sees you. i don't think so. in both situations someone was ignoring them and they got angry and sad.

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This is hard to answer because it you are phisicially suffering you cant doo anything because you are hurt. If you are suffering emotionaly than you feel like .

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This is hard to answer because it you are phisicially suffering you cant doo anything because you are hurt. If you are suffering emotionaly than you feel like .

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I would say suffering physically because it can always go away. like in a monster calls conors hand would hurt because he destroyed his gmas room but throughout the book his emotional suffering overwhelmed him. and in temple grandin she may have been hur but her emotional suffering would overwhelm her as well.

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i think emotional suffering is worse because it's not like you can just fix it with a bandaid like physical suffering it takes time for example in temple grandin she couldent just go to the doctor and get it fixed it took years

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It means nobody can see you or doesn't care about you. The idea of being invisible is a daunting thought. I would want to be seen so I would make myself seen and beat someone up like connor or make a cows life better.

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Emotional is harder because you have to learn how to cope with your feelings, like how conor did, even though Temple had to overcome her autism, conor had to deal with loss.

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great awser

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They think no one can relate to them and it is harder to cope by yourself, but you just don't see it in the moment, all you think about is how it might affect someone when you vent to them when really you are trying to cope, and you don't want to be a burden because you don't know what they are going through.

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people don't want to re-live their fears. conor didn't say anything because he let go and didn't want to. temple didn't say anything about her fears because they were silly and knew they were.

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great awnser

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Definitely.

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I agree

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The truth can hurt and will hurt but it will always be better in the end.

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I think emotional suffering is worse. When your physically hurt it can be fixed pretty easily. But emotional can last as long as you make it.

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Emotional suffering is worse than Physical suffering. For emotional, people can only use their imagination to know how you are feeling. When it comes to physical suffering, people only have to use their eyes.
For example in both books we read, people tried to understand what they were going through. It is all about points of views.

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It may be hard because you either have: A :more important things to worry about or: B: no one to talk to.

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Emotional pain is the worst pain to feel because emotional pain becomes a part of you. physical pain can be more easily treated with medicine and surgeries while emotional is a lot more difficult to "fix". When you are emotionally hurt the whole world disappears and that pain feels like all you can be or ever will be. You feel broken.

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I agree

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Emotional. Because physical wounds can heal, but emotional wounds rarely do. They're more discrete wounds, but that doesn't mean they are easier to get rid of.

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Emotional is a much harder struggle in todays day and age where people judge you for who you are. Physical you can get over, but emotional will haunt you FOREVER

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I agree with this answer, the truth will free you

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I totally agree with this. Conor felt like this. Lots of people experince things like this in their life.

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I totally agree with this. Conor felt like this. Lots of people experince things like this in their life.

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