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lack of self control

to push them to be better

to make them stronger

its “worked” for generations

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Bad parenting experience
Responsibility

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To exert control
Having come from a background of harsh parenting themselves
Unable to control our reactions when dealing with our kids
Enforcing what you were raised with/ not staying current with the times

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Phones
Chores
Grades
Laziness

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We don’t have family support
Out of frustration
No tools to deal w it
Generational trauma
Easier and faster
List of pressure on us

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- To gain control
- unconsciously due to being under pressure
- reflection of parent harsh up bringing
- Not aware of consequences
- Sign of weakness

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People use harsh parenting because they may have been raised in a harsh environment as that's how their culture is.

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1. Learned from their parents
2. Want to be in control
3. Lack of tools to do better
4. Not understanding age appropriate parenting
5. Kids don't listen and gets frustrating

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Because they are raised that way, cultural justification, lack of parenting skills, generation trama, lack of knowledge, emotional immaturity

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1. work-to-home emotional conversion
2. Loss of control
3. Sense of responsibility
4. High stakes
5. To discipline

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control the situation
not listening

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When kids don’t listen
It’s the easy way out
When the parent feels they can’t communicate with children they resort to harshness
Lack of patience
When the parent is not emotionally stable

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- it’s easier to be harsh to resolve the issue at hand
- that’s the way we were taught
- external stress and pressures
- frustrated and angry on child behavior
- higher expectations
- lack of education on parenting

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1. Repeated generational cycle
2. Wanting the best for them makes us act irrationally
3. Frustration
4. Fear
5. Overstimulated and frustrated
6. Exhausted and stressed
7. Comparing kids causes great stress
8. Not meeting our expectations.
9. The mirror. (Seeing ourselves in our kids)
10. Immigrant families have a fear of losing our kids
11. Wanting them to be perfect.

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Being over protective
High expectations
Fear of failure
Economic reasons
Desperation

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- parents frustrated with other things
- that's how they grew up
- less effort
- because kids don't listen
- kids easy target to control

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Lack of emotional intelligence
Aways right

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1. Lack of patience
2. Trying to be protective/ maybe that's what they were taught
3. Their own insecurities
4. Lack of knowledge
5. Stressed out in your life and tend to project that onto the kids.