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42 three questions on how to exclude well
One who not only fits but also helps fulfill the gatherings purpose?
Two who threatens the purpose?
Three who despite being irrelevant to the purpose do you feel the lieged to invite?

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The kindness of exclusion

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Don’t multitask try to narrow down on a specific thing don’t do no mediocre

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What is the event about? Is the wedding a celebration in recognition of your parents love? Or is it about bringing tribes of people together? Different answers will produce different response as to who gets class seat at the table. Is it your parents best friend? Or an old college roommate?

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How was this meeting or dinner or conference unique among the other meeting starts in conferences that your host this year question mark from Japanese tea Garden one meeting one moment in your life that will never happen again

Ichi-go ichi-e

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The more specific the meet up, the more likely could for success from Scott have heard and cofounder and CEO of meet up for example LGBT couples hiking with dogs but have a tighter fit in more success overtime.   Specificity sharpens together in because people can’t see themselves in it

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commit to gathering about something (16)

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commit to gathering about something (16)

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Does this meeting take a stand. “Gatherings that are willing to be alienating which is different from being alienating have a better chance to dazzle.  gatherings that place everyone for what they really thrilled.

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I should have a five minute page one meeting to figure out social for the week.

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Nq It’s not enough to change the timing is setting of the gathering but you also need to change the structure of it as well. Think of the New York Times changing the pitch meetings to have a few on the audience report and the reviews on certain stores

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8 routine is the enemy of meaningful Gathering

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8 routine is the enemy of meaningful Gathering

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When you skip asking yourself what the purpose of your birthday party is in this specific year, for where you are at this precise moment in your life, for example you forsake an opportunity for your Gathering to be a source of growth, support, guidance, and inspiration tailored to the time in which you and others find yourself.

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A category can masquerade as a purpose just as easily, if not more so, in our personal Gatherings, particularly those that have become ritualized over time

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Like all repeated Gatherings, the Justice Center is a work in progress. The participants... Are constantly making sure that we are remaining true to our mission. This is supposed to be a laboratory in a model. It's supposed to be a different way of doing things.  And a better way of doing things.

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4 Red Hook Community Justice Center  experiment Alex Calabrese

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4 Red Hook Community Justice Center  experiment Alex Calabrese

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Red Hook  decided to reinvent what is just the system could do moving away from either prosecute or dismiss. " what is the purpose of a justice system we want to see? And what would a court look like if it were built according to that purpose? "

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There are many possible things to do in an event. A networking (the category) might come together to accomplish (purpose) different things. Maybe they are making connections, or finding new employees, or making a self sustaining group.