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It's a few years ago , when I'm still study in primary school . Once I borrowed a novel book from my best friend . While I was reading this book, I accidentally broke it.

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I feel very sorry and guilty for damaging my friend's book. But I'm not brave enough to apologize to my friend and ask him for understanding. However , I finally decided to say sorry to my friend . To my surprise , he accepted my apology . I understand that it's not a shame to apologize to someone and it can also improve relationship between us .

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On one hand , I shouldn't broke my friends book. This is a betrayal of his trust in me.On the other hand , I not only know that do apology is important but also understand that be honest can improve the relationships between me and my friends . Next time if I face the same situation , I will tell my friend truth first and not tell lies .

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•How did you feel afterward?

•How has it changed your actions or decisions since then?

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Last month, we chose our after school activities. And I chose badminton because my friend likes this. But I had never played badminton before.

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And then she taught me how to play badminton. And I found that badminton is a very interesting activity.

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One time I learned about how to managed my relationship. It happened in my junior hight school, one year ago. My homeroom teacher C., she is very nice to me, she catches our word spelling very hard, I know this is good to us but my classmates don't think so. They talk behind teacher, saying how bad she is, only me support her, I feel stressful of what I can help for teacher. Feeling very nervous in myy own friendship that time.

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It was about few days ago. I am in boarding school so I back home once a week. When I backed home last week. I saw my desk a mess-some take out food rubbish my favourite poster and cards on it. That's what my sister done. I am angry at that time and at first she did not admit it, then I had an argue with her

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One time i learned an important life lesson was when in the second year of my middle school. During the sports meeting, i have a unforgotten choice. During the sports meeting, one of the classmates who signed up the running racing in our class fell ill. And we had to find a classmate to substitute her.

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Back in Australia, when I was surfing the internet, my roommate Mercer told me that he added a classmate as a friend under the name of mine. In the beginning I was a little bit of angry and asked him to stop it. However, the new friend said he was glad to be my friend and invited me to play Counter-Strike 2 which is my favourite computer game. Then I added him and told him the truth, we played together and laughed a lot.

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So I know that it is very important to experience different things during our life. We can learn many things when we are trying different things. And we can also know ourselves better.

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One time I work in a team. But I didn't look at the detailed program requirements. It's causing the project to slow down.

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Once I was stressed because of my study and the relationship between friends. But I have no place to release my pressure. At one night, I found my best friend online. I wanted to tell her my pressure and sadness but she refused. However I didn't control myself successfully and I talked too much about my sadness. The next day she didn't talk with me well.

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Several years ago, I wasn’t really known how to manage my time and stay organized. In weekends, I usually need to finish some homework or review knowledges. But I always playing for a long time so that I forget to finish my homework or review knowledges. This leads to the next day I criticized by the teacher because of my unfinished homework, and for test I can’t get good grades. So my friend told me quite seriously, she said I should try to manage my time. I started to make plans for my study and stop playing games all the time.

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One time I learned an important life lesson when I was in 9 grade. It happened in my last school.after the PE lesson, me and my classmate went to the basketball count and played basketball. the next lesson was self-study.When the next class started, we were still playing basketball and didn't go back to the classroom It was 20 minutes after the class when we went back.The head teacher noticed that we were doing this.

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During my middle school years, I have gone through many things. But what impressed me the most was preparing for a significant exam. I was almost always frightened and anxious every day.further more, i had to do tons of homework and i was so tired that i wanted to give up.

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When I was 11 years old, I took part in a drawing competition，And prepare it very adequate ， but when I'm almost done，I found that the competition had Prescribed painting types，unfortunately，The picture I drew doesn't meet the requirements.

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When I was 11 years old, I was preparing for my piano grading tests. I thought I couldn't pass it, then I really wanted to give it up. So I stopped practicing.

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One time I learned an important life lesson was when I was 12 years old that time, Hard study maked me feel so strfull that time, I awlays push me to many bad emotions, and stay at home usually.

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I was caught by the teacher for playing with my phone yesterday.The teacher handed my phone to the student office.I felt frustrated at this time

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I had a conflict with a classmate before. It was because she borrowed my phone to watch a video, but she changed my password when she returned it.

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It changes during one time my emotion overload. I cry a lot that time, can't not study well in Math, also is because I don't know how to manage my friendship. My homeroom teacher told me to come out and having a talk, she asked me why I look so tired these days. I cry for no reason, C. said I don't need to maintenace teacher, you also don't need to be nice to everyone, you can find other people whose more fit with you.

At that time, I realized that I pay so many attention on taking care my relationship, even affect my own emotion. I don't need to be nice to everybody.

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Last mouth,we went to Australia.I made a new friend unexpectedly.We made friend on tiktok.His name is chief. But we knew each other from mercer.We have the same hobbies.We always play Counter-Strike 2 and valorant.These are our favourite computer game.We always laughed a lot.

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When I started to make plans for my life，I found that my life has become more fulfilling. I can finish my homework all the time, my grades have also improved a lot.This incident made me realize the importance of planning time reasonably and managing myself.

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There is not turning point ,The painting I prepared didn't get a ranking.I have learned that one must make preparations after checking the conditions before doing anything，do thing carefuly

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The experience taught me that I should not get angry at first time. Because I am not comfortable when I am angry

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One time I learned an important life lesson was when I had a PE class a few weeks ago. In that day, we had a table tennis test.Teacher ask us serve and let the ball touch the table twice ,then you will get one point.Durning the test, you can get the highest point, ten points.

I never tried table tennis before , and I don't know how to play it.When teacher let me to have the test, I just fell nervous and I be prepared for a very low score.Before the test start , teacher asked me if I try this in the past.I said no , and he showed me how to play it. When he finished showing , he gave me the racket and let me to play. I imitated the way he played table tennis, and unexpected, I learned it quickly. Even got the highest grades , and teacher praised me excitedly.

So this thing let me know , many things are not as difficult as we imagine. Just be brave to do it , and you can do it well.

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I apologized and then spent more time changing and refining the project.

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Now, sometimes I still feel high presure in managing my friendship, but I often remember what my teacher said to me. This changed my standard and way of making friends, I can say she is one of the best teacher I met during my 14 years.

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Unfortunately, my classmates hope me to substitute her to attend the matches which are relay and 800m. In fact, I don't want to take part in this activity. But my friend told me that if I didn't take part in this competition, it might affect the grades of our class. At that moment, i realize that everyone have responsibility to make class to be better.

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The impact of this incident on me is that I have successfully changed my living habits and I have more energy to study. At the same time, it also made me realize the importance of having a true good friend. I am very grateful to remind my friend that it was her words that changed me.

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One day, it rained heavily. After the rain, I saw that the grass along the road was still growing hard. Although the grass is very small, they did not give up and keep surviving . as the old saying goes ‘sticking leads to victory.''Through this incident, I realized that I shouldn't give up.

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After getting angry, I felt uncomfortable and the relationship between my sister and me will be worse, the problem cannot be solve as well. From then on, I try to control my emotion at first then solve the problem directly.

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I was pretty young that time, that must be about ten years ago. And I stole my brother’s snack, and he figured it out. But he did not told my parents. But I can feel he knew it because he always look at me. And I felt guilty, so after dinner, I apologized to my brother about it and he also forgive me.

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Since then, I think this is a selfish behavior. In the future life, I began to actively participate in class and school activities and take on class responsibilities.

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One time I learned an important life lesson was when I just 12 years old. I join a match about robot building and programming.

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This reminds me of sometimes, the wrong thing you do can’t be so serious, just admit you problem and apologize to others, then always reminds yourself never do it again

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generally speaking, I changed my mind and decided to prepare for the exam activey.in the end,i got a good result.I also realized how to deal with the mind to give up in the future.

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After that, I know you should never take away things that not belongs to you, it might affect the relationship between you and others. And I also have the courage to admit my problem.

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My topic is managing stress or anxiety before a presentation.I'm a person who is easily anxiety.I often feel anxious, I'm worried that I can't do a lot of things.I still remember that I lost an exam because I was too nervous.The night before the exam, I was very anxious, worried that I would not do well in the exam, and then I couldn't sleep.

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Only by treating everything with confidence and hard work can we live up to every opportunity

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From this incident, I learned that one must be prepared and have a thorough understanding before doing anything. and I think If you want to If you want to do one thing well you must read the rules in advance，I also deeply regret wasting time because I didn't look carefully，I think I wouldn't do it anymore.

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The next day of the exam, the tension did not decrease, but made me feel stressed. In the oral exam, I was so nervous and scared that I didn't answer the teacher's questions, which led to my failure in the exam. I didn't go to the school I wanted to go to. This was a bit of a big blow to me, and I began to lose confidence in myself.

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I control my mind wisely and I need to think before doing something. I should think of the result if I do something

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But now think about it, it’s all of them are not big things. One time, I watch a short video in Tiktok. The video said "All failures that except death are all spiritual failures." I don't 100% agree about this. But it let me realize one thing. Life has a high tolerance for mistakes. So even your are in trouble, as long as it doesn’t involve life and death, it’s all small thing.

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Since then, I am more tolerant of my mistakes. And don't feel like I am done for by little things.

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From this experience I find that some cases seem to let you feel embarrased actually can make you gain from it a lot, just get the chance.

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I think sometimes we need to be brave to face some cases if it is not hard to overcome, and you may surprisingly find something valuable.

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The turning point was my piano teacher found that I was lacking of practice that days, so she asked if I'm sure I don't want to pass the grading tests. If I were, I could stop practicing. But I hesitated, and thought about is it too impulsive to give up a thing that I'd been doing for such a long time. Therefore, I kept practising, and passed the test finally. I knew that it's important to insist in.

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At that moment, after a few awful days, I realized that if I keep pushed myself in this enviornment(school and my parents already gave me too much pressure. it makes me beome hate to do anythings just wanted a relax space to spant empty time and done nothing). This experience would taught me that I might become a loser sience chosed gave up myself completely.

So I desided to fix myself and I finally new that Managing stress or anxiety before a presentation.

Life just like a presentation, we always ready to introduce, share or show our life. We need to control anxiety reasonably and not let it make you lose your direction and fall into the quagmire of anxiety.

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Sience than, I have many new havest and more experience to help me when I have to facing those anxiety time. Because of this experience, It helps my calm down and face the pressure better.

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I regretted to talk about my sadness or stress with others agreement.There was almost no turning point. It was hard for me to fix our relationship. I could just try to comfort and promise I won't do it.

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We must look at what we are trying to do when we are accomplishing a task.This will not only minimize your mistakes, but also give you a clearer direction.

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The head teacher noticed us and gave us a lecture. At that moment, i realized that This is incorrect. I also realized that following the rules is very important.

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since then I feel very guilty. From then on, I tried to be on time for every class.

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Later, I told her that I didn't like her to change my password casually. She knew it was wrong and apologized to me.

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After that, I learned that I can't lend my things to others casually in the future, and I will say it in time when I feel uncomfortable in the future.

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we need to consider friend feel and ask what they think when to do a teamwork

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in the grade 7 I quarreled with my best friend. Because I was too selfish, my friend was patient so she was keep tolerating me ,but I didn't realize I was too selfish as I was do some things that ignore his feelings or never care about her think of a way.

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So we had a fierce quarrel .She didn't continue to play .I realize my problem ,I also apologized to him but it didn't change anythings .I was really sad cause she was my best friends ,and there are a lot of teacher find me and ask what happened between She and me .So after that I start to change the problem that I have .

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From this thing, I learned about don't let your guard down easily for anyone.Be cautious and careful when making friends. If you experience the same situation, you should first calm down and think about how to solve.

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ln my memory，I had a stage performance last year. At the first, I don't dare to sign. But because of the encourage of the teacher and friends, l finally signed up. Before going on stage, l was nervous, but when l started the performance, it was more natural and the performance ended perfectly.

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I finally realised how important the persistence is. After that, I always remind myself to try one more time and never give up.

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l learn an important lesson when l was young. I tore up my friend's novel, lam afraid to tell her, because l am afraid if she will be angry and l feel guilty

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To my surprise, my friend wasn’t angry.At that moment, l realized that hiding the truth will just make thing worse.From this experience, l learn that strengthens trust and deepens friendships

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Since then, I have always treated people with sincerity when I get along with them. Because of this experience,I learned that admitting mistakes is not a sign of weakness, but a necessary way to build a stronger relationship.