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Trust vs Mistrust means where your basic needs met during infancy such as food, water, and love and are the parents going to be there for you. on the same hand did your parents also give you enough room to defend slightly for yourself where you could grow up in a trusting world.

for me I never went to bed hungry I also had my bottle and was also shown love from my mom who took care of me. According to the book I was able to form basis trust and form intimate relationships with my family!

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Autonomy vs shame means are you growing independently and seeing the world has a group plan meaning certain places allow certain actions.

for me I was able to go explore more by myself, but I wasn't able to get to far or act like a fool and not take my turns for example on the playground. According to the book I became more powerful and was able to express what I wanted but I had boundaries because full freedom is never a good thing.

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Initiative vs Guilt means some actions you do will need approval and sometimes you won't receive that approval. I did some things that I knew would get me in trouble such as hitting my sister and I learn that actions come with consequences. According to the book I was in that in between of a kid and becoming an adult that not all my actions are okay and seeing how to regulate myself to calm down.

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Industry vs inferiority means knowing your self worth and knowing what your goals are . I knew because of my trusting of my parents that I was love and great part of the world and I was able to become industry. I knew that my life had meaning. According to the book  I was able to obtain praise from others and had motivation with good self esteem.

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Identity vs Indentity confusion means knowing what you are going to do in the real world. For me personally by 12-18 years I was not completely there. I knew I wanted to help kids but I didn't know how yet until later on when I realize I wanted to be with kids for the rest of my life. I did know who I wanted to became as a person. I knew what my sexuality was and who I wanted to marry later on  According to the book I resolve 2 out of 3 of the major issues I just didn't know what occupation I wanted to go in but I knew what values I wanted to live by and what my sexuality was.

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Intimacy vs Confusion means who are you going to settle down with and share rest of life with.
For me personally I haven't reached this yet, but when I do I will be marrying a man who I could see being a true dad to our future kids. According to the book when I reach this I will be in adulthood (which is where I am) and be ready to start my own family.

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my family at my going away dinner supporting me 

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Generatively vs Stagnation means that I am looking back on my life and helping my friends, family, and community by giving back.
While I also haven't reached this stage when I do according to the book I will have a stable job (which I hope is a teaching job with little one) and helping my spouse raised our little kids and showing them what it like to be part of Community.

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looking back on life and see all the great things I've done and fun things such as moving to Nashville and going to hockey games 

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final stage, stage 8 Integrity vs Despair 

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final stage, stage 8 Integrity vs Despair 

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Integrity vs Despair means are you able to look back on your life and feel proud about all you done. When I reached this stage I wanted to be able to say I made a huge difference in kids live especially kids who maybe weren't always giving a good chance. I want to look back and see all the experience I got to have or go on; all the cruises, friends nights, family nights, having kids and rising them, growing old with the person I love with my whole heart.