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Listen to us
Be less judgmental
Be more understanding

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Patience and Dua, communication and trying to emphasize with their school and current culture

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Patience and Dua, communication and trying to emphasize with their school and current culture

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Always be there for them no matter what mistake they make.

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Don’t yell (please)
Don’t be old
Don’t hit kids
Don’t take away our phone
Listen to what we have to say

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Communicate with them as a complete person and with respect

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hear us kids out, and try to understand where were coming from.
from a kid— try to understand that the generation the parents were raised in DOESNT totally apply to your kids generation
compromise is so important! it helps keep a stable relationship between parent and child.
allow kids to make their own mistakes— they’re going to do what they want to regardless. just be there to help them

and overall, us kids are trying our best. please be patient with us

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Be good listener with h out being judgmental

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Send them to islamic school only and go with them sometimes.

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Talk to them
Become friends
Learn the things they like to do
Convince don’t force
Hold your temper

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Listen with curiosity

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Be more involved in their day to day life
Listening more actively
Less supervision
Engage doing common activities/sports etc
Be more empathetic

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-be friends with them
- learning to be tech-savvy
- adapt to their culture
- be supportive, don't be judgemental
- participate in activities they enjoy

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1:1 time with kids
Play games they like
Hobby together
More family get together
Treat them with respect hear them out

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Take them back home

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Be patient
We need to be a role model
Give some time for playing and some  time for parenting
Connect them to seera

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respect them and love them

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Give them our time
Build trust with verification
Empower them
Define boundaries
Educate them about right and wrong

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Become kid friend, take them outside to parks, play video games with them, don't disturb them when they are talking to friends, 

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Become kid friend, take them outside to parks, play video games with them, don't disturb them when they are talking to friends, 

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Listen intentionally2- don’t be judgmental, try to see things from their perspective, give them space , allow them to grow

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Be empathetic
Research our culture
Practice what you preach (don’t be hypocritic)
Don’t be negative
Explain your actions

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don’t yell
don’t embarrass them

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Spend time with them
Listen to their opinions
Don’t raise them as you were raised

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Connecting to core values, through modeling these values.
Truthfulness. Honesty. Respect.

Picking your battles. If something is not against the deen then it's fine. Not everything is garam.

Saying yes more to our kids.

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Listen and listen to them
Do things together their way
Care
Passion and compassion

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No shouting no being rude or talking back

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-Be empathetic to what they are experiencing.
-Don’t be judgmental
-Don’t push them away when they come to you with problems.
-Don’t compare them to others
-encourage them don’t force

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Socialize with other Muslim families
Be their friends
Having conversations around Islamic knowledge

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Send them to boot camp

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Bring them to the Masjid
Connecting with them on a daily basis
Not pushing them hard
Providing guidance about the real world
Enroll them in Islamic education

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Keep communication lines open
L I S T E N
Empathize
Emotional intelligence
Apologize if wrong; treat them as intelligent beings
Don’t disrespect their boundaries
Partake in their culture/media consumption to a certain extent (with limits)

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Communication
-Listen in
-Finding common interests
-Being at childrens level
-Bonding activities
Connecting outside of home in nature/outdoor activities
Turn off internet

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Beside being their parents, be the friends they needs
Spend more time
Do outdoor activities more to take them from phones
They should know that their parents are there whenever they want to talk to
Respect them if we want to be respected as parents
Learn what they like and teach them to filter.
Bring them to masjid/closer to masjid activities

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Making lots of dua
Being a friend to them
Prioritizing our deen instead of culture
Being balanced in dealing with them
Giving them muslim identity
Activities together as a family like volunteering

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don’t force them to be religious

don’t pressure them even more (on top of school pressure)

do what they like to do

make them feel more comfortable

give them space

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1. Practice what you preach. Do the good things what you’re telling your kids.
2. Incorporate into Muslim community.
3. Improve communication with teens.
4. Make them feel better included in family and community
5. Be more patient / make lots of dua
6. Try to better understand where they’re coming from without your own judgment/ preconceived notions
7. Follow them on social media 😑

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Spending time together
Befriend before they are teenagers

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Be their friend but also remind them about their religion and culture 

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Be their friend but also remind them about their religion and culture 

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Join them for their interest.
Keep on reminding them.
Listening to them.

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Modeling

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1) listen, listen, listen
2) share lessons from islam that are relevant to today
3) do not show displeasure with stories
4) make them read Quran and reward them
5) be a friend
Share more fun culture

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Treat them like adults; talk to them with respect and give them responsibilities 

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Treat them like adults; talk to them with respect and give them responsibilities 

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Adults also spend more time on phones than with their own kids

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become boot camp

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