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In your respective groups, discuss the assigned role’s perspective on whether or not Mdm Phua should stay with her family.

Story:
Mdm Phua who is 70 years old, has lived on her own for several years after her husband passed away and her three children moved to their own homes after marriage. She is now a proud grandmother of seven grandchildren. She has some health issues, but manages them very well on her own. She has a small circle of neighbours whom she meets regularly for tea or walks in the park.

Recently, her eldest daughter suggested to her to come and live with her family as they were concerned about Mdm Phua's health and whether she might become lonely as time passes.

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What would you choose to do?

What would you consider in your decision-making process?

What would you be most concerned about?

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Why did you make the suggestion for your mom to live with you and your family?

What do you care about or believe in?

What were some factors you considered? (Example financial, emotional)

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How do you feel about this suggestion for grandma to live with the family?

What do you care about or believe in?

How will your and her life be changed?

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How do you feel about the suggestion for your friend?

What do you care about or believe in?

How will you support this family?

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i would choose to stay in my own place, not wanting to be a burden to my daughter and her family. They have another mouth to feed, and like take care of me and everything. I would just bluntly tell my daughter that i would not want to stay with them and instead ask them to visit more often.

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i feel that she should live with her daughter as it will be better if there would be someone to look after her, however i feel like she would probably feel less care free and might end up doing the chores or the daughter may find her as a burden to the family

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1: so mdm phua won't feel lonely and want to be filial to her
2: uh being filial to her
3: if my children n partner are okay with it
if there is space for mdm phua

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- worried about her
- she can help with the housework while i am working

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1. I feel that it would be ok for me and it wouldn't affect me. However, I would need to be told in advance.
2. I care that whether I would be able to take care of her if she is sick.
3. We would have to live with one more person so some daily schedules might be changed. If we would be able to take care of her.

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If she wants to she should. If she dont want to she shouldn't.

Mdm Phua be chilling ngl. She is coping by herself well enough, and has friends to chat and hang out with.

The daughter worrying is valid, but her assuming that my dawg here Mdm Phua is alone or unwell enough to live on her own is abit extreme. Just a little bit.
Plus the daughter has her own family living with them, so i am not sure if Mdm Phua and the grandchildren will be comfortable.

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- While i would be sad that one of my friends in my friend group would be going away and not probably seeing me again, i would not be mad and would even probably even encourage her to go.

- I would care about her not being lonely or not being made to be a maid when she goes over to her daughter's house

- i would help encourage Mdm Phua to go

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--> We would choose to live in our own house
--> Not being a liability to our daughter and her family

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1. stay alone
2. don't want to disturb the daughter's family, will miss the neighbours because i'm living a peaceful life then need to change new environment
3. relationship problems with daughter's family, scared that would affect the family's relationship