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Matuto kang tumimbang ng lahat, ng mali at matuwid; at hanapin mo ang pinakaugat na siyang sanhi ng kanilang paghihirap sa buhay at sa diwa. Ngunit tiyakin mo muna sa pamamagitan ng mga naunang hakbang, na nauunawaan mo na ang kanilang kalagayan. Tingnan mo ang lahat sa pamamagitan ng mata ng Maykapal.

ANALYZE WHAT YOU OBSERVE.

Learn to weigh all things, both what is wrong and right; and find the very core of the struggles that affect their lives. But you can only do this through the first few steps, only if you truly understand how they are feeling and what they are going through. Look at everything you observe and experience in the eyes of faith.

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Don’t be too investigative, the goal is not to interrogate. Be careful with the words you use, lest you offend anyone in the area. In fact, it would be better if you do not say anything at all first, especially if you are uncertain of what to say. Listen to the people first – listen to what they are saying and beyond this, strive to listen to what they are NOT saying. It is only then when you can say to them that you understand them. There lies the possibility that they will be ready to speak and tell you what they cannot say. You allow their very self humanity to open up with your own self and humanity.

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LOOK (CLOSELY).
“Looking” entails not just seeing with your eyes, but also with your entire being. Keep your eyes open, don’t dream, don’t fall asleep. The truth is in front of you! You are in the middle of a mystery, don’t faint or be afraid! Look at their eyes; look if their smiles are sweet or bitter. Feel what they are feeling. (Are their hearts still beating?) Look at their very being as people but don’t just examine them. You need to sharpen your ability to feel. Look at the things surrounding their lives and experiences. Try to comprehend their hearts’ deepest longings, their hopes, aspirations as well as frustrations.

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Your intention to engage with the people in your Binhi area must be sincere. If you engage with the area simply because you want to, nothing is bound to come out of the experience. Also, if you engage with the area out of the belief that the people there need you, you are mistaken. You are not, by any means, a Messiah or Saviour of sorts. You are simply a person, a human being, just like the members of the community you will be engaging with.

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Don’t rely solely on your own strength. You need God/love and spiritual guidance as you go through the engagement more than anything, more than you can ever fathom. What we are “doing” “[being with other people] does not mean you already fully understand all of this before you do it. What matters most is when you are finally and actually there, person-to-person, ready to learn and share yourself.

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Do not judge based on just what you see and hear in the call. Don’t come to a decision based on just your logic. Immerse yourself in their way of life and experiences, in what they hold closest to their hearts, into their very selves. Open up yourself so you can understand them much deeper. This asks from you a deep sense of humility, compassion, patience, and inner strength to face the difficulties that you will encounter. This asks you to share your life deeply. Makipagkwentuhan ka.

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I cannot exactly say that I'm ready at this very moment, but it's something that I'm looking forward to for sure. As preparation, reflection is definitely something I'm planning on doing. As well as mentally preparing myself for sharing my thoughts and feelings alongside listening to someone else's stories.

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I would say that I am partaking in the online kwentuhan because I want to be able to listen to other people's stories. My experience with the ASHS' immersion really taught me that it's important to listen to the people you want to help. This online kwentuhan is one way of doing that. I want to get to know them and I want to know their stories to ground myself and to serve as a reminder that there is a greater fight to be fought outside school grounds.

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I would rush to my computer immediately and sincerely apologize once accessing the online kwentuhan.

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Inform the instructor about my condition at once so that the needed adjustments can be made.

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Email or contact instructor using LTE at once.

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I would be surprised and would probably ask her about them.

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Ask about the person and hope for nanay's wellbeing. I would also remind her and her family to always keep safe.

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I would just listen to her and then go with the flow. If I listen to my feelings over my head, I'd probably be able to think of something to say.

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I would laugh lightly and politely acknowledge her statement and then change the topic.

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I would say that the online kwentuhan is for the both of us to know each other well. It is to create relations and eventually be as persons to each other.
- Shan Mikel Villareal

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I would say that I may not be ready yet. To prepare myself for the online kwentuhan, I may prepare questions that will help to know the community better. I would also be reflecting on myself and be ready on answering their questions.
- Shan Mikel Villareal

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This should not happen. The scheduled online kwentuhan was our choice of date and we should be responsible on attending on time. If I were late, I would sincerely apologize but there should be no reason to be late unless there is an emergency.
- Shan Mikel Villareal

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I would still be attending the online kwentuhan but I will inform my professor or my Binhi formator that I am not feeling well.
- Shan Mikel Villareal

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I would use my mobile data to have a connection. If not, I would send a text or call my Binhi formator or my professor immediately and inform them about the situation.
- Shan Mikel Villareal

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For this online setting, this situations normally happen and it is fine. I would still be continuing on the online kwentuhan. I could also ask about the people around them.
- Shan Mikel Villareal

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I would ask about how they are feeling and if they are safe from the virus. I would remind them to be safe at all times especially in this pandemic.
- Shan Mikel Villareal

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I would ask her if she wants to ask me anything or tell me stories. Eventually, I would know her better and ask more questions.
- Shan Mikel Villareal

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I would take this stories seriously and I would put my heart into it and listen very carefully.
- Shan Mikel Villareal

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I would acknowledge her, then subtly change the topic or ask about them.
- Shan Mikel Villareal

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I would say that we're having this online kwentuhan to be able to know them more. I would love to listen to their stories and learn from them. This online kwentuhan will help us to build connections with each other and to look at things at different perspectives.

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As of this moment, I am not ready yet but this is something I also look forward to. I would prepare myself by familiarizing with the area institution, prepare some questions for them, also prepare answers for the questions they may ask.

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I would rush to my laptop or phone to immediately connect with the meeting link or room and I will sincerely apologize for not making on time. However, I would also make sure this won't happen to not cause any trouble.

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I would inform my Binhi formator about my situation. If I can manage to attend despite my illness, I will still attend.

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I would inform my Binhi formator about what happen. If my data can manage to last with the duration of the online kwentuhan, then I will use it.

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This may look distracting for me and may affect my listening to them. However, I will give my full attention to what they are saying rather than being distracted.

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I would ask how they are doing and hope for their safety.

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I will listen to her stories first and eventually I can think of related topics to talk with. I will value her stories more that what I am feeling.

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I would acknowledge it politely. It may sound awkward for both of us so I will change the topic immediately.

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Personally, I am not yet prepared for the online Kwentuhan as I am such an introvert myself and could not keep a conversation myself. Preparations such as reading background information and news would help me for this.
- Dranreb James Cucio

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I will immediately tidy myself up and prepare as fast as possible. I will also sincerely apologize to everyone that I woke up late.
- Dranreb James Cucio

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I will still attend the Online Kwnetuhan and inform my formation coordinator my situation.

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I will try my best to reestablish internet connection via mobile data. I might borrow some data from my father if he has.
- Dranreb James Cucio

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I will simply not pay attention to that and focus on the speaker instead. That is normal especially since it is in an online platform. Similarly, I can ask about them as well.
- Dranreb James Cucio

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I will listen closely and sincerely understand as much as I can. I might share some insights related to the topic discussing as well.
- Dranreb James Cucio

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I think Online Kwentuhan's purpose is to get to meet other people. These interactions we will have would help us also as a person because it will widen our perspectives with the experiences other people have been sharing to us :>>

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I'm actually excited for the online kwentuhan because I get to bond with other people and know them on a deeper level. With that, I think we shall prepare ourselves to be more open when it comes to sharing things about us. We need to loosen up and socialize with people outside the circles we currently have. Aside from that, we will also need internet connection of course so we can attend the online kwentuhan sessions :>

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Sasali pa rin po sa meeting at manghihingi ng paumanhin

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As much as possible, I will avoid this kind of instance and be always punctual in the scheduled online kwentuhan session. But in case it happens, I would simply rush to my device and connect to the meeting and would ask apology for the said behavior.

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I will inform my Binhi formator immediately if ever my condition or illness is really worse that I can't attend the meeting.

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I would use mobile data so I can join the session. However, I would also inform my Binhi formator about the situation so just in case all the data was consumed and I got disconnected from the meeting, my Binhi formator would know what had happened.

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As for me, this is nothing unusual because I experience it sometimes so I would just not give attention to this instance that much. I would just continue with our online kwentuhan and won't ask things that will make the other person uncomfortable.

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I would say that this online kwentuhan is for an amazing opportunity to get to know them better and learn a thing or two. This is a way to connect deeper.

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Conversing with someone who I can learn from and be a friend to are things that I like to do. Though not all conversations go smooth, I try my best to keep it with the same level of vibe or understanding. Conversations will always be a part of human interaction and with this online kwentuhan, I want to prepare for it mentally and physically to converse with the area partner.

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In the first place, one should prepare physically and mentally... and that includes the time. One should be prepared. But if ever it really does happen, I will first try to contact my formator and update him of what happened. After that I would ask him if it would be okay to still join or simply resched.

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I will immediately contact my formater and apologize for such unfortunate happening and try to come up with a contegiency plan.

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One hour is still a huge time para magpaload so magpapaload ako, if still no chance of connectivity or poor connection, then I would contact either the formater or my classmates to the unforeseen happening,

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Converse with respect and listen carefully. Instead of establishing fear simply talk about their well being and kamustahin sila.

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if it is close to being awkward because there is no conversation happening, I would like to start it up by simply sa pagkamusta sa kanila and start from there.

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if that eveer happens then Im going to say thank you and humble myself with such blessing.

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I will listen to their stories and will make them feel that I do care about what they are sharing. I would give advices or positive things that could uplift the other person. Also, at times like this, I also tend to share some personal stories of mine. This could initiate other people as well to loosen up more. With that, the conversations would be more meaningful,

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I would  ask them if their family are doing well in times of this global pandemic health crisis.

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Most of the times, I worry about this instance that the other party and I wouldn't have a meaningful conversation. What I do is that I would initially ask frst the other person about little things and then we could start from there. I always tell myself to not hold back the genuine stores that I would love to tell because I know that there would be people who would like to listen to it. As much as possible, I would like to show the other person that I'm interested in whatever she's going to tell. I could ask her about her child, her teenhood experiences and even seek advice for the matters concerning adulthood.

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I would just laugh about it and would try to open another topic.

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I would say that the online kwentuhan is an opportunity to get to know others.  Through these sessions, we may be able to understand each other and possibly learn from one another.  Consequently, we are able to perceive the world we live in through other people's perspective.

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Personally, I consider myself as an introvert.  I find it difficult to interact with people whom I am not close with.  Nonetheless, the Online Kwentuhan is something I am looking forward to as socializing is something I would like to improve on.  In order to ensure that I give my best in the kwentuhan, I will prepare questions, conversation starters, and things alike.

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While this should not happen, the best thing to do is be honest about not waking up early and sincerely apologize. I will immediately contact my facilitators on whether I should still catch up or find another schedule to do the Online Kwentuhan. Nonetheless, if I am to still catch up, I will make myself presentable and make the most out of the time remaining. Furthermore, if given another schedule, I will ensure to make the necessary preparations in order to not be late.

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I will contact my formator about my current state. It would be better to ask for a reschedule instead of forcing myself as I might not be able to give my best in the session. Nonetheless, if my condition is not too severe, I will still attend and give my best.

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Within one hour, it is still possible to get load for mobile data.  Whether or not I am able to accomplish this, I will inform my classmates and formator on my situation as my signal may hinder me from effectively spending time with my "kakwentuhans".

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I will try my best not to be distracted as this is something that usually happens especially in the online setting.  I will continue on with the online kwentuhan and not show my "kakwentuhans" that I am bothered in any way. If they apologize, I will say that it is okay and that I understand.

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I will listen attentively to what they are saying. Based on my experience last year with our retreat, I know that there is a possibility that a person may share something that is extremely sensitive and affects them greatly. Thus, listening and showing that I care and understand them may help them feel comfortable in opening up.

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I would ask the person on how he/she is doing in these unprecedented and unfortunate times. Moreover, I will wish for their safety.

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In order to ensure a smooth and comfortable interaction, I will touch on the small talks we will be able to have. From short stories, I can build up on that by following up some questions and possibly share stories of my own in relation to the prior story told. With this, not only am I able to ensure that communication flows, but I am also able to show my interest in the person's story.

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I would smile in a humble manner and simply say thank you. I will not focus too much on the compliment and will instead change the topic.

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I would say that the online kwentuhan is getting to know more people and build relationships. We may learn from each other's experiences, and help them with their concerns by listening and giving advice.

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I will honestly inform my formator about the reason for being late in the session as soon as possible. I will sincerely apologize and also discipline myself for it not to happen again.

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Personally, I am introverted or shy but I will do my best to prepare by being open and respectful to others. I will willingly listen to them and learn from their experiences and perspectives of life.

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I will inform my formator about my situation ahead of time. If I can still manage to join the session, I will.

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I will assess and troubleshoot my router to see if I can fix the connectivity issue. If the problem persists, I will use mobile data to attend and contact the formator about the situation.

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I think it is normal and understandable as we are learning from home and we can not avoid having that kind of situation. I will just focus on the topic being discussed.

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I would say that this online kwentuhan will help us know each other's stories and eventually learn from them. It is a great activity wherein we can interact with people coming from different backgrounds but might have the same perspectives in life.

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I am looking forward to seeing and bonding with our area partner. After the preparatory session, I think I am somehow ready to face them as I gained insights on how to deal with them. I will prepare questions and boost my energy to become this online kwentuhan a successful one.

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I will rush to my laptop and apologize to the area partner and facilitator. I will inform my facilitator immediately. This should not happen because I should be responsible for this activity. To avoid this, I will sleep and wake up early and prepare for the activity.

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I will inform my Binhi formator immediately, so that the participants will no longer waste their time. As long as I am fine, I will join the online kwentuhan.

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I should be ready for instances like this, so I should have a load for mobile data. I will inform the Binhi formator and try to reconnect or rejoin in the online kwentuhan.

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This is not new to me and since we are in an online setting, this is normal. I will continue hearing my area partner's stories and giving feedback. After the conversation, I can ask them about those people but it depends if they want to talk about them.

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I will listen to them by heart because I can get real life lessons that I can apply eventually in my life. I will try to uplift them and show my care and concern to them. These stories should be taken seriously because they might play a role in building myself.

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I will ask if they are safe and how their lives are during this pandemic. I will remind her the ways on how to avoid catching the virus.

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First, I will write questions that I want to ask her to ensure that we will have a meaningful conversation. From her stories, I can give feedback by sharing my stories, too. It is a casual conversation after all, so I think I have so many thoughts in mind. I will treat her as a friend so that it will be a light conversation and we both enjoy the session.

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I will smile and say "thank you" to her. I will change topic quickly so that it will not be awkward for the both of us.

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I will listen to what they are saying and understand their feelings. I can give some advice if I can and help them feel more comfortable rather than being pressured.

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I would ask them on how they are doing and remind them to stay safe at all times. Also, I will pray to God for their safety too.

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Masasabi kong isa itong nakahihiyang kaganapan sapagkat nakapaghanda na dapat ako para sa kamustahang ito sapagkat matagal na itong binanggit at nakapili na rin ako ng oras na pinakabagay sa aking oras. Hindi ko man mabalik ang oras at ako ay ganap nang huli sa nakatakdang usapan. Ako ay magmamadali na lamang at hihingi ng paumanhin sa lahat ng mga panauhing kasama sa kamustahang ito.

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Hindi man ako handa ngayon, paghahandaan ko ang aking pagdalo sa online kamustahan. Aalamin ko ang mga bagay na kailangan kong alamin tungkol sa komunidad na nakatakda sa akin. Karagdagan doon, sasanayin ko ang aking sarili na sumagot sa mga tanong na may kinalaman sa komunidad.

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Sasabihin ko sa kanila na ginagawa itong online kamustahan upang magkaroon kami ng mas malalim na ugnayan sa isa't isa. Sa pamamagitan ng pagbabahagi ng aming mga kwento, mas malalapit kami sa isa't isa at maaari ring may matutuhan kami sa mga kuwentong mapapakinggan namin.

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Agad kong ipagbibigay alam ito sa aking Formator. Kung masyadong malala ang aking karamdaman, hihingi ako ng paumanhin sa mga panauhin at tatanungin kung kailan sila maaaring makausap 🤬. Kung hindi naman masyadong malala ang sakit ko, ako ay iinom ng mga gamot na maaaring makapagpagaan ng aking loob at magpapatuloy sa online kamustahan.

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Agad akong magpapa-load upang hindi masayang ang mga paghahandang ginawa para sa event na ito. Kung hindi pa rin kinaya ng aking load o walang signal ito, susubukan kong i-contact ang aking Formator ukol dito at humingi ng paumanhin sa biglaang kaganapang ito.

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Hindi ko na lamang ito papansinin at patuloy ko ng gagawin ang aking ginagawa sa panahong iyon. Kung sakali mang mapansin ito ng aking kausap, sasabihin kong ito ay okay lang naman at hindi kailangang ipag-alala. Maaari ko rin silang tanungin tungkol sa tanong dumaan kung bukas silang magkuwento tungkol doon.

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Ang aktibong pakikinig ay natutuhan ko sa isang seminar noon sa aming organisasyon na Pathways. Sa mga kalagayang ito mas nagiging makabuluhan ang pakikinig na hindi lamang naririnig ang mga salita ngunit ninanamnam at inuunawa. Maaari ko silang tanungin pa ng mga karagdagang mga detalyeng handa silang sabihin. Hindi na ako magbibigay ng aking kalagayan dahil baka masapawan sila o maramdaman nilang hindi masyado mahalaga ang kanilang kuwento.

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Kukumustahin ko ang kalagayan nila ng kanyang pamilya at paaalalahanan ko sila ng mga kailangang gawin sa gitna ng pandemya gaya ng paghuhugas ng kamay, pagsusuot ng face mask at face shield, at iba pa. Kung mayroong kaso sa kanilang pamilya, ipaaalala ko sa kanila na dapat mayroong social distancing at hiwalay dapat ng kwarto ang may kaso upang maiwasan ang pagkalat ng COVID.