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Re: My parents don't care about me!      

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by Emily >> Wednesday, September 8, 21__ at 8:20 A.M
Current mood: I'm so upset :((
Yesterday afternoon i came home with joy because i got a high score on my test and i wanted to show it off to my parents. However, when i showed it off to them, they seemed to ignore my bussiness and they told me not to bother them because they was busy. I felt lonely and sad when no one was happy with me! i was mad at them for being busy with work and not sharing good things with me. I wish my parents understood and spent more time with me. What should i do to make them change their mind?
Please comment down below if you want to give me some advice! Thanks for reading my post! Have a nice day!

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Re:My dad has a different opinion than me.

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by Nói gì cũng chuẩn >> wednesday at 20h05 p.m
Current mood : I'm angry.
On weekends I often play video games in my room, my father always opposes it because he thinks it will make me not interested in studying and harm my health. I do not agree with that opinion and expressed dissatisfaction with his opinion, so I do not often confide in my father because he is a difficult person.
my father is not completely wrong, but if playing for fun on weekends, it will bring us many benefits. For example, making us feel comfortable in life, not feeling stressed.
I wish my dad would have a positive opinion on this matter

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The individual child is a separate individual. Parents, remember that your child is not like anyone else on this earth.

I was born once, and I can only live one life, a life that certainly won't last forever. In that spirit, I realize that I definitely cannot live as one. photocopies of other people's lives.

I want to be able to do things every day that I love, that inspire me. I call it living with passion.
I hope my parents think more freely

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by cya my friend
wednesday at 20h44 p.m
current mod:...........................
recently when i watch Tv i see a news about
video is bad. My parents come to me and talk to me video is bad and i should stop play.I think is true that video game is bad but not like new said.The new said that video game chase violet; addiction.So my parents believe on it .When i explain it they don't true me.Game make me comfortable, feeling like i being my myself.
I wish my parents could unstand that not all video game is violet many video is friendly like vr chat; osu, minecraft.......
Thanks for reading my post . さようなら

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The individual children is a dispart individual. Parents, remember that your children is not like anyone else on this life. I was born once, and I can only live one time, a life that certainly won't last forever. In that situation, I recognised that I definitely cannot live as one. photocopi of other people's life.I want to be able to do every things in every day that I like, that make me happy. I called it living with passion.
I hope my parents think more moderm and more freedom

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Re: my parents don't let me playing games because they think games is bad

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Re: my parents don't let me playing games because they think games is bad

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by ai ciu năm lốp (ốp pơ q2 )
yesterday, i was playing a game with my friend while the news was talking about some kids who hurt people to stole their money to spent into games and my dad come in my room and he saw me play video games and he was so angry. After that, he blame me and then he talked about my exam at school but it's quiet good so he can not talk to much about it but the television talk about the news and he based on that news, continue blame and shout at me. I explain that game has a lot of benefit like it can help me improve my skill, my language or my brain. It also can make money, if you play like a pro or you so lucky and you have a rare skin or something, it can be sold for a high price but my parent don't think that. They always think that games effects my studying so that i can play for 30 minutes per days

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No one can understand my efforts and my psychological problems.
I can't make myself happy, not because I don't want to. It's that no matter how hard I try, I still can't achieve it. I feel suffocated, pressured about the things around me. My parents raised me, I have good friends around me, and at the same time, I have a high position in class and an excellent academic result... everything, in theory, is acceptable. But when I do something wrong, they only focus on my mistake, scold, criticize it. No one noticed how hard I tried to achieve that result. No one acknowledged that. Honestly, I have mild depression, and when I share it with my parents or relatives, they say: "You just go to school, and no one pressures you. How can you be depressed? feel?" I feel like all I see is sadness and black. It's like a force that pulls me down, and every time I try to get out of it but then I realize that's what I can't. I feel like it's a nightmare that goes on forever and has no end. People say I should relax by playing games, hanging out with friends, going for a walk, but all I can do is look at the ceiling, listen to sad songs and think why I'm like this. I can't explain why I'm always sad, and I don't know!! When I wake up, I know I will have to face the repetition day after day. They are boring, but it is my duty. I have no right to refuse it; I am afraid I have to live a fake life, drowning in fear of being judged. Do you think I want these? In a dark space filled with sadness and hate? So I created a different person, she studied well, always happy and you won't see her negative side. I still live with two people, 1 for everyday life and 1 for myself in the late nights. That sounds easier than accepting that I have a lot of problems. Depression is like hell for me, and no one has any idea how hard it is for me. It is eating away at me day by day. Furthermore, I think I can end this story here. Thanks for listening to my story

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Current mood: I'm so upset! ( ' ^ ' )
These days, my Mom often complains of fatigue, headaches and irritability. This has been going on for a few months now. Due to the pressure of work due to the Covid epidemic, while the mother's job is already extremely stressful, and due to the symptoms after giving birth to three children - symptoms for which there is almost no cure. Almost every day when she comes home, she is grumpy and complains of being tired while she is the most influential person in the house, so everyone is also very tired. The fact that my 3 sisters and I tried hard to study did not make my mother less tired.
I am so upset about this and don't know what to do. I wish my mother could be happier.

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What should I do to make my father sympathize with me?

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What should I do to make my father sympathize with me?

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by Tdcamsa  >> Thursday, September at 4.58 p.m

Current mood: I'm so bored…

Last week, my dad and I had a huge argument. The reason started from the fact that I often slept late to do my homework. He thought that stay up late would be bad for my health. Although I know what my dad is saying is true, I really don't have any time of the day except at night to do my homework. During the day, I take the main course in class, in the afternoon I also take extra classes until the evening. Sometimes I don't even have time to have dinner because I have to be active at the club of school. That's why the only free time I have to do homework is at night when everyone is asleep. And of course, my dad totally disagrees with this. I explained to my father many times about this but he said that I should quit the club to arrange my study time more reasonable.
I wish my dad would sympathize and allow me to make my own decisions.

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Why are parents so "aversion" to their children playing games?

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Why are parents so "aversion" to their children playing games?

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by DHA, Surely you guys still remember the old 4-button video game? At that time, the game was simple, mainly for entertainment purposes, and did not train many human skills. Therefore, when seeing that their children are too passionate about such useless games, any parent does not have thoughts about games such as: "Useless games, waste of time, waste of electricity, ... until they do not solve the problem. What's the matter?" Gradually, it was like a rut in thinking, defaulting to "Games are bad" even though this field has diversified around the world. Unfortunately, parents do not care about that development because they do not care, they just want to keep their children away from the game as much as possible. Instead, there are healthier sports activities, developing human abilities.

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I have a problem with my parents. Whenever I am gone they like to search through my personal belongings and my message. Whenever I get upset they always make it out to always be my fault. This is really upsetting me. Sometimes I don't know if they care about the way I feel or not. I don't have anything to hide, well actually I do, but they are my personal possessions. I feel I am being violated. I know parents are older and SOMETIMES wiser but they are denying my privacy and that's not fair

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by Meteor>>Thursday, September 9, 2021 at 22.02 p.m
Current mood: I'm so upset
In this covid-19 time, I have to handle almost the chores in my house because my sister is busy with her work. Yesterday my mother told me that she would allow me to buy thing that I wanted and she would paid for me even if it was expensive. But this morning, I told her about the thing that I wanted to buy but after I said that I want to buy CD she said that the CD was too expensive and unreasonable. I know that I should not ask my mom too much for something but I think she should do it when she promises with me.
I wish that she could keep her promise next time.

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Re: My best friend drop out of school!!!

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by Trà Đào Sữa >> Wednesday, September 8,21__ at 10.11 A.M.

Current mood: I’m worried!

My best friend, Hoa, decided to drop out of school and start working to help her parents. In my class, she was one of the best students. She not only always got high marks on exams but also was a good friend because of her kindness. She helped us with our homework, gave us encouragement to overcome our troubles. Hoa’s  family is very poor. Both of her parents are farmers. Although they work hard in the fields all year round, they can’t earn enough money to cover their everyday needs. Of course, they can’t support Hoa to go to school. She loves her family so much and she doesn’t want to be a burden on her parents, so she dropped out of school and started working. Since she left school, my class has missed her so much and all of us wish we could do something to help her to continue her education.

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Recently, I have had a trouble with my friendship which I don't know what to deal with now. The story began when I had an argument with my best friend because she thought I was untruthful and told her secret out. We have had the best friends who always tell each other everything. Last week, she revealed that she had a crush on the boy next to her, and of course she wanted me to keep her secret. I though that was not too serious, so I made a slip of the tongue to some girls in my class when chit-chating. Then, everyone felt surprised started to tease her and the boy. She really got mad at me and said that she would no longer be friend with me. I knew it was totally my fault, but how many times I apologized to her, but this time it was her who refused to listen to me. I don't want our friendship to come to an end this way. We've been good friends for years. I really hope that she will forgive me for what I have done and said to her

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I am really worried and don't know what to do now. My best friend, Hand, dropped out of school and started working as a construction worker in order to earn his living because his parents can’t support him anymore. Our form teacher and the school leaders tried to campaign his family to let him come back to school, but they refused just because they were in a really bad economic situation. They need Hand to take the burden of a needy family. He was very sad to quit school, but he had to.
I miss him very much now because I have no one to share my studies at school. He is a very good student. A bright future was waiting for him if he had a chance to come back to school. I have tried to help him, but how can I do this meanwhile I am still an eleventh grader? I haven't worked at all, but my life is very different from others because I pursued my studies. My parents are graduates and teachers, so they expected me to take the path of school. I grew up believing that studying was the right choice I should make since I was small. Academic results are always the standards my parents want to set for me. The reality is that I tried hard to study and tried to obey their will, but my homework almost took all my time. I don’t have time for my friends, except Hand.

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Current mood : all fine
Today i'll bring up a really interesting stories that i've been reading lately , it's about The Rabbit and the Fox .
Once there was a naughty rabbit. He likes to play tricks, and it made other animals angry. But it was very different to catch him.
One day, a wolf said to a fox, "I have an idea to catch the rabbit. You go back home and get into bed. I'll go to the rabbit and tell him that you are dead. If he comes to see you, you'll jump up and catch him."
"Good idea," said the fox, "I'll do that." Then fox ran home and got into bed. The wolf went to the rabbit's house and said, "Mr. Rabbit, have you heard Mr. Fox is dead?" The wolf stood at the door, and then he went away.
Really? I haven't heard anything about it." The rabbit said to himself, so he decided to go and see if it was true. He went to the fox's house and looked in through the window. He saw the fox lying in bed. He opened the door and went in. he looked at the fox and said, "Mr. Wolf says Mr.Fox is dead, but he doesn't look like a dead fox. A dead fox always open his mouth."
When the fox heard this, he thought, "I'll show him that I am dead." So he opened his mouth.
The rabbit saw the fox open his mouth, and he knew the fox was not dead. He ran out of the house as fast as he could.

A man was going to the house of some rich person. As he went along the road, he saw a box of good apples at the side of the road. He said, "I do not want to eat those apples; for the rich man will give me much food; he will give me very nice food to eat." Then he took the apples and threw them away into the dust. He went on and came to a river. The river had become very big; so he could not go over it. He waited for some time; then he said, "I cannot go to the rich man's house today, for I cannot get over the river." He began to go home. He had eaten no food that day. He began to want food. He came to the apples, and he was glad to take them out of the dust and eat them. Do not throw good things away; you may be glad to have them at some other time.

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Just yesterday, my mom and i get into an argument, i told my mom that i wanted some more privacy since we live in a pretty small house and our room don't have door.

But my mom was upset, she tell me what do i need privacy for ?, "probally to play video games and watch movie all day" said my mom. i felt very sad and upset that she said that. Yes i may spend sometime to play video games and watching movie, but due to the covid pandemic, all the student need so study online, so there will be very little time for me to play video games.

Also i just want some private space, whatever i say whatever i do, my whole family can know it, it feel like a prison, if this keep up, i might just go insane ran away from my house

The concept of having some privacy is to allow individual to express themselves, everybody have their secret, whether it is good or bad, they don't want you to know it, that is the meaning of privacy

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Some thoughts on children's personal privacy.

Perhaps because still carries the mindset of the previous generation, so many parents control their children too much, although my parental control is not among "excessive", it still has a certain level of control. I know that parents only want the best for their children, but that control should also have a certain degree, especially during the time when children are teenagers like me right now.

I just want my parents and other parents to give their children their own space, not to manage closely, even to know all the secrets that their children are keeping in their hearts.

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i'm a non-binary, bisexual and depressed.
i want to come out with you because i have no one to support this.
i dont like my family at all because our opinions are always contradicted; the more i try to explain, the more they wont listen. for that reason, i decided to go to university in ho chi minh city, but my parents didnt support it from the moment i suggested it.
i used to come out my mother that i'm bisexual, but maybe because i can still love boys/men, my mother accepts me for who i am and i dont like it.
i just want to say that, thanks for reading this nonsense post haha.

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by Tangerine >> Thursday, September 9, 21__at 22:00 P.M.

Current mood: I’m so upset!

This afternoon when I was getting up to prepare to start a new school day as usual, I found out that my mother was reading my message because I forgot to log jout of my messenger account after returning the phone to her.  I know it's partly my fault because I was careless and forgot to log out of my acc when I returned the phone to my mother, but I hope she will pay more attention to this because I also have privacy rights? If she see I haven't logged out, she can completely ignore it and re-login her nick.  Then, when I expressed my displeasure, my mother started saying things like: "It's so important to act like a secret when it comes to children!".  That's it, mom doesn't respect me, she still thinks I'm a child who doesn't understand and considers it childish. How can I make her understand this?