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Assume that I had the best intentions and am wanting to understand the impact and how to change thoughtfully

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Assume that I had the best intentions and am wanting to understand the impact and how to change thoughtfully

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trust that the other person is not out to get me and willing to work it out

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trust that the other person is not out to get me and willing to work it out

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I need to feel heard not judged to feel safe.

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directness/honesty and a plan for action after the conversation

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directness/honesty and a plan for action after the conversation

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Relationship and connection with certain person and know they will be real and empathic 

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Relationship and connection with certain person and know they will be real and empathic 

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time and patience when responding, empathy, respectful dialogue

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need to feel as though there is a solution to the problem, and be heard

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need to feel as though there is a solution to the problem, and be heard

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To be heard and come to a solution. "Don't go to bed on your anger" is my life motto.

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To be heard and come to a solution. "Don't go to bed on your anger" is my life motto.

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Shoot Straight---If we have a relationship 

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Shoot Straight---If we have a relationship 

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I need to feel like I am being listened to, empathized with, and trust the other person.