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Behaviors of children with an avoidant attachment style

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Behaviors of children with an avoidant attachment style

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Behaviors of children with an ambivalent attachment style

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Behaviors of children with an ambivalent attachment style

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Behaviors of children with a disorganized attachment style

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Behaviors of children with a disorganized attachment style

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Disorganized attachment is when a child feels that they need to seek safety and comfort from their parents, however once faced with the parents, feel that they need to run away due to fear. 

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Causes of disorganized attachment can originate from the parent’s childhood. If they have unresolved trauma, they are likely to respond poorly to their child’s emotions and intentionally or unintentionally scare the child. 

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As the child, they will often feel the need to seek comfort from the parent, however feel afraid of the response if they were to seek comfort. 

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As an adult, they likely faced a hard childhood and have unresolved trauma. In a disorganized attachment, this is often taken out on the child (intentional or unintentional).

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 always longs to be with or beside their partner. However, the partner goes to the extreme. Example: If their partner goes out to eat with friends they would want to go or bring them no matter what.

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an attachment figure, usually parents, may leave the family, but then return home.

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tried to cling to their mother and keep her from leaving. If they worked hard and succeeded, they (strangely) got very angry. They kicked, shouted and cried uncontrollably.

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It shows that in some relationships, people sometimes feel abandoned. Some partners in a relationship don't want to feel alone or left behind. It might make them feel like the other person doesn't love them anymore. 

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The feeling of abandonment, and being guilty. The partner may seem to be okay about the situation but on the inside, they feel angry and upset. This may lead to an untruthful and toxic relationship. 

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a man with insecure-ambivalent attachment is excited because it’s his mother’s birthday and they’re going to celebrate. His girlfriend calls to tell him that she has an important meeting, that the boss is forcing her to stay late. He can’t do anything about it so he says he understands. But then his reaction is unexpected. He feels like he did as a child. Hopelessly abandoned, suspicious that his girlfriend doesn’t want to spend time with him. Maybe she doesn’t even love him anymore.

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When you aren't feeling love and secure, you're going to feel abandoned  every time a loved one leaves the house or something. They feel disappointed that the mother is never coming back and when it's constant, they start to calm down. This abandonment can go into different circumstances

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The same things that happened as a kid, can lead to the same result as an adult. The feeling won’t go away especially to the person you're with and love. This can make the relationship toxic and other things. 

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Attachment begins in childhood But it is an extremely important stage with a huge impact on you adult life.  As an adult we have more of an opportunity to attach to people because your more out there and you know more which gives the opportunity to figure out the good people from the toxic people and than attach yourself to that person or don't at all.

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 It can be caused by a traumatic past or a loss of a parent.

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We go to our parents first as children but having a parent who is unsafe can cause a disorganized attachment. The child also will act differently, we don't run to them at first instinct like secure attachments do. Disorganized attachments hide, hit, run away, hug and take it back. They seek for that secure base a parent should provide but as they get close the fear comes back.

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Disorganized attachment is the attachment the child makes with a guardian based on emotional security but it also forms fear torward the same person causing confusion and trauma.

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Adults will be confused, sometimes their actions won't make sense. They can be frightened or feared. They have to find ways to soothe themselves growing up which also affects them as adults when their ways of soothing themselves aren't healthy. They act differently in social areas and have a hard time trusting people. They can struggle creating relationships whether it's a friend, lover, parent figure or their own child.

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This causes the child to have no one to go to for security, comfort or safety making it hard for them to socially interact and chard for them to comfortably do some normal things.

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Disorganized attachment is when you're not getting the attention you need from your parents. This can be from the neglect or physical/verbal abuse that you might give to a child. This causes them to become detached from themselves and their parents.

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A child forms attachment fairly easily but it does the same wth fear so when both things connect with one thing it can become traumatic for the child.

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The trauma an adult may have had as a child can show thrugh in their actions as a parent. They can become easily stressed in fearful situations with their child.

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Avoidant Attachment is when a child may become self dependent because they think that they have to do everything for themselves as a result of neglect.

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One to feel abandoned or distrustful
Emotional dependence
Insecurity 
Fear of rejection

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One to feel abandoned or distrustful
Emotional dependence
Insecurity 
Fear of rejection

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Avoidant attachment is caused by neglectful and oftentimes uninformed parents that do not have the skills to develop a good relationship with their child.

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Disorganized attachment comes from fright with solutions. This could be resulted from abuse, neglect, unresolved trauma and loss in the parent's life that leaves them afraid which can also frighten the child.

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Avoidant Attachment as a child makes them self dependent and less likely to reach out for help when they are struggling.

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Disorganized attachment comes from fright with solutions. This could be resulted from abuse, neglect, unresolved trauma and loss in the parent's life that leaves them afraid which can also frighten the child.

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Children adapt to this rejecting environment by building defensive attachment strategies in an attempt to feel safe, to modulate or tone down intense emotional states, and to relieve frustration and pain.

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Avoidant Attachment as an adult makes for more distant emotional relationships and gets uncomfortable when things get too close for their liking.

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Tried to keep mothers from leaving, but when they came back they would distance from them.
Child becomes “self-contained” and not show desire for affection
One seeks proximity, without directly interacting with parent

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Insecure-Ambivalent Attachment is when someone who wants his partner to always be with him. They never wanna do anything alone or have their partner do anything alone so they become a couple who does everything together. 

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Wants partner to always be with them
If partner doesn't want to be with them, person tries to make partner feel guilty.
May result in toxic relationships
Person wants to spend time with partner rather than getting close with them.

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As a child you feel hopeless and abandoned when someone leaves you because you don’t know if they're coming back so that makes a child think that the person doesn’t love them anymore. 

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An insecure-ambivalent attachment is when you want to be near your person, but at the same time you don’t want to be with them. One thinks that they are not happier with or without their person, so they don’t leave them: even if it's a toxic relationship.

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Disorganized attachment is the feeling of being afraid of someone but attached in a way that it blocks out the bad things being happened. For example if a child is abused by the parental figure they most likely will be attached to the parent because that's who raised them even though sometimes they may be at high danger and very scared. The child's survival instinct are telling them to flee but the feeling of being secure may be in the very person that hurt them.

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One to feel abandoned or distrustful
Emotional dependence
Insecurity 
Fear of rejection

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He feels as if his girlfriend is pushing him away and doesn’t like him or hanging out with him. He is constantly asking if “don’t you love me anymore” 

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Tried to keep mothers from leaving, but when they came back they would distance from them.
Child becomes “self-contained” and not show desire for affection
One seeks proximity, without directly interacting with parent

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Wants partner to always be with them
If partner doesn't want to be with them, person tries to make partner feel guilty.
May result in toxic relationships
Person wants to spend time with partner rather than getting close with them.

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A child depends on their caregivers because they are drawn to need them and feel security with them. That then carries into parental abuse whether it be physically, mentally, or emotionally it affects the child and how they attach to people and envelope relationships. All of these different variables lead to dissociation which means they disconnect; they're not one. 

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Disorganized attachment causes dissociation with the child and others around the child. The child's survival instincts do not allow them to flee to safety as the person they are supposed to flee to can harm them. This attachment figure leaves the child in distress.

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It results when there is no organized strategy, an example done would be the disorganized child having their parent leave the room then coming back and the child running up to the child then immediately pulling away.There's no organization as their parent is unpredictable so no organized strategy allows them to feel safe.

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As an adult with a child and you are the one with disorganized attachment that shows through you being frightened of movements or stress involving your child. They may act confusing in relationships as it's unclear why they're doing this one thing they can also have trouble forming a coherent narrative. 

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avoidant attachment is when a child will be independent or depends on itself.  when an adult if something or someome gets too close they become uncomfortable. 

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avoidant attachment is when a child will be independent or depends on itself.  when an adult if something or someome gets too close they become uncomfortable. 

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When parents neglect or avoid a child’s emotional or physical necessities. This causes an inherent lack of emotional security for the child. 

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Lack of sought-out support from an emotional figure. Suppression of emotions and desires in order to keep those one cares about close.

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The quality of attachment means that the caregiver provides comfort and security to the child who feels insecure. They give that protection factor that the child needs.

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Attachment causes kids to not know what to do without their caregiver. The world is a cruel place and when kids are taught to stand up for themselves or to be tough, they will have a rude awakening.