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Perrys career took off when he landed the role of Chandler Bing, this became a defining part of his star image in his younger years beginning his true achieved celebrity status. Later on in life the role of the troubled star crept in, altering the way he was viewed and ultimately remembered but reinforcing his sense of authenticity.

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Matthew Perry received 34 nominations and achieved 6 wins for awards throughout his career. Reinforcing his achieved celebrity status in the acting space.

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Although it is not as widely known, Perry received many Emmy nominations for his other acting work alongside Friends including The Ron Clark Story and The West Wing.

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Matthew Perry was an American and Canadian actor best known for his role as Chandler on the beloved NBC sitcom Friends. Perry also appeared on Ally McBeal (2002) and received Primetime Emmy Award nominations for his performances in The West Wing (2003) and The Ron Clark Story (2006). He played a leading role in the NBC series Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip (2006-07) and also became known for his leading film roles in Fools Rush In (1997), Almost Heroes (1998), Three to Tango (1999), The Whole Nine Yards (2000), Serving Sara (2002), The Whole Ten Yards (2005), and 17 Again (2009).

Perry was co-creator, co-writer, executive producer, and star of the ABC sitcom Mr. Sunshine (2011). In August 2012, he starred on the NBC sitcom Go On and co-developed and starred in a revival of the CBS sitcom The Odd Couple (2015-17). Perry had recurring roles on legal dramas The Good Wife (2012-13) and The Good Fight (2017).

Perry suffered from severe addictions to drugs and alcohol. Through his recovery, he became an advocate for rehabilitation and spokesperson for the National Association of Drug Court Professionals. In 2013, he received the Champion of Recovery Award from the White House Office of National Drug Control Policy. In 2022, he released his memoir, Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing.

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Matthew Perry: bio, photos, awards, nominations and more at Emmys.com.

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Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

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Perry wanted to share his story in the hopes that he could help others who are struggling with addiction. He was very aware that his time in Friends gave him a platform and a voice that people would listen to and he wanted to utilise that.

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Read 16.6k reviews from the world's largest community for readers. "Hi, my name is Matthew, although you may know me by another name. My friends call me Ma...

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Friends is accredited as Perrys breakthrough role, throwing him and his 5 co-stars into the limelight. Over the course of its time Friends has received 79 wins and 231 nominations total, highlighting its success and popularity.

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It is noted that Perry and his character from Friends Chandler Bing seemed to be very alike. With Mr Sunshine Perry got to showcase his humour and skills not only in his acting but in his writing as well.

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Chandler Bing

Marriages

1 (wife: Monica E. Geller)

Aliases

Miss Chanandler Bong
The weird guy

Date of birth

uncertain, most likely April 1968 or 1969, see section Age

Education

Columbia University (formerly/graduated in finances?)

Unnamed high school (formerly/graduated)

Chandler Muriel Bing is one of the six main characters on . He was portrayed by Matthew Perry. He is notable for his sarcastic and witty sense of humor.

Background

Throughout most of the series, Chandler is an executive specialized in statistical analysis and data reconfiguration, occupying high-grade positions such as Processing Manager and head of the office. Though he has a high pay, he frequently complains about his dislike of his job, even deciding to quit in Season 9, finding employment as a Junior Copywriter in an advertising agency, a job he greatly enjoys and this is presented by his willingness to take an opportunity of internship it even if it means he has to start from the beginning.

Chandler is Ross Geller's best friend throughout and since college. He met Ross' sister Monica Geller and her friend Rachel Greene while celebrating Thanksgiving 1987 at the Geller family residence during his first year at college. He later moved to apartment #19 in New York City, across the hall from Monica and later Rachel. At some point during this time, Phoebe Buffay moved in with Monica and Kip became Chandler's roommate. Kip and Monica dated for a while, but later broke up, and could no longer stand to be in the same room as each other. Chandler's next roommate, Joey Tribbiani moved in, and completed the group of friends. Chandler lived with Joey until season 6, then he moved in with Monica, whom he had been dating for a year.

Chandler is the wealthiest friend because he has been saving money from his job for the last six years. He becomes angry when Monica expects him to spend his savings on her dream wedding, convincing her that they should save the money for their life after the wedding, which Monica agrees to.

Because of the Thursday night line-up that led with Friends, Thanksgiving was always an important episode for the series. Chandler's most vivid memory of Thanksgiving is when he was nine years old when his mother and father told him that they were getting divorced so his father could run off with the house-boy. Because of this, Chandler refuses to celebrate Thanksgiving in the traditional way. This includes a ban on all Thanksgiving food, as he insists that it's not as good after seeing a Thanksgiving dinner in reverse. His Thanksgiving dinner consists of tomato soup, grilled cheese sandwiches, and a family-size bag of Funyuns. Several Thanksgiving episodes include retelling of this backstory of Chandler's home life and his hatred of the holiday. Joey goes so far as to say, "It wouldn't be Thanksgiving without Chandler bumming us out!" Later on, perhaps thanks to his more positive view of family events due to his relationship with Monica, he accepts Thanksgiving. He still refuses to eat the actual food, even when dining with his friends, eating chicken instead of turkey and other things of that nature.

Chandler visits the Geller household for Thanksgiving again in 1988, slightly dismissed by Judy, Ross and Monica's mother, because he does not eat any Thanksgiving food. While attempting to get back at Chandler for calling her fat the previous year, Monica accidentally dropped a knife through Chandler's wicker shoes. Chandler lost most of the pinkie toe on his right foot because it couldn't be replaced, due to the fact that Monica accidentally brought a baby carrot to the hospital instead of the toe. This incident led Ross to call Chandler Sir Limps-a-Lot. Chandler is not aware that it was Monica's revenge-gone-bad that caused him to lose his toe until she tells him during Thanksgiving dinner (" The One With All The Thanksgivings").

Monica reveals that Chandler has a third nipple (which Chandler describes as a nubbin) after she learns that Chandler told Phoebe about her having sex with Fun Bobby on the balcony. The friends are amused at the secret, and they tease Chandler about it. Finally, Chandler has the nubbin surgically removed after Ginger, a would-be lover, is repulsed by it.

Chandler was a bed-wetter as a child. While supporting Rachel during her parents' divorce, he jokingly recommends the, "carefully regimented program of denial ... and, and wetting the bed," which he himself relied on as a child (" The One With The Two Parties").

Throughout the run of the show, Chandler comments how much he dislikes physical exercise. However, he is often seen enjoying Knicks games with Joey and Ross. He also enjoys watching ice hockey, football, and baseball. He even enjoys racquetball. It's often alluded that Chandler doesn't really enjoy these things; he just wants to seem like one of the guys. In Season 10, it is revealed that he once tried out for his high school figure-skating team, much to the amusement of Phoebe and Ross. On Thanksgiving, he enters the room saying he wants to watch football. Phoebe responds, "It's okay. Ross and Joey aren't here. You can watch the parade if you want." Chandler demonstrates excellent tennis skills and ping pong skills, the latter he hides from Monica due to her childish competitiveness.

Although it became less noticeable during the course of the show, Chandler has the habit of accenting the wrong words in his sentences. This leads to his friends and colleagues imitating his speech pattern.

Chandler Muriel Bing is the son of erotic novelist Nora Tyler Bing and cross-dressing burlesque star Charles "Helena Handbasket" Bing, who performs his all-male burlesque show, 'Viva Las Gay-gas' in Las Vegas, where they live. At the age of 9, his parents announced their divorce leaving him distraught and alarmed. Due to this, he resorted to what he calls "a carefully regimented program" of denial, sarcasm, wetting the bed and smoking. He has claimed to have seen sexually provocative scenes since the age of 7 due to his parents' lack of awareness. Despite his forgiving nature he still holds a grudge against both of his parents for being absent-minded and not providing emotional support and tends to be bitter whenever talking about them.

Chandler is introduced as a sarcastic person with a heightened fear of commitment. He lives with his roommate Joey next to Monica's apartment and constantly makes fun of Joey. He finds himself stumbling across the same annoying woman Janice who he has to break up with thrice in a span of one year. He used to be addicted to cigarettes and the addiction relapses once again while he's helping Joey to practice for an audition for the role of a person who has to smoke. He experiences sadness when Monica breaks up with Alan who helped him quit and almost relapses. He gets annoyed every time Ross brings up his ex-wife Carol along with Joey. He enjoys watching the Knicks, seeing Baywatch on TV and playing Foosball with Joey.

He experiences great boredom in his place of work and once, when he gets an offer of a promotion, he quits his job to pursue his dream. After taking aptitude tests and going to career counselor he finds out he's best suited for a corporate job. This crushes him since he was looking forward to doing something unique and interesting.

He gets confused after finding out that his co-workers think he's gay and consults the Friends, who say that they thought that too when they met him for the first time. Later, he realizes it's because of the way he talks and how he feels offended when people say a man is out of his league.

He repeatedly reassures Ross that he's going to be a good father, and tells him to stop pursuing Rachel continuously, finally convincing him to forget about her before Ross leaves for a work trip to China.

At the end of Season 1, he accidentally lets slip to Rachel that Ross is in love with her, surprising her.

Chandler feels incredibly guilty about telling Rachel how Ross was into her and at the same time telling Ross to find someone else, as Rachel realizes she has feelings for Ross and is devastated when Ross comes back to New York from his trip to China with Julie. He tries to tell Ross to reconsider going after Rachel but fails when Ross seems to be very content with Julie. When Ross finally finds out Rachel has feelings for him, he suggests Ross to make a pros and cons list about Rachel and Julie to help him decide. Ross ultimately picks Rachel but as she is visiting the apartment, the list automatically starts printing out of nowhere and breaks Rachel's heart. Chandler blames himself for the whole fiasco but is overjoyed when Ross and Rachel finally hook up.

Once, while babysitting Ross' son Ben, Chandler and Joey get distracted while flirting with some women on a bus and leave Ben on the vehicle. They go all over the city looking for Ben and finally find him at the Human Services office. Ross is infuriated with the pair.

Chandler is extremely furious when Monica tells the rest of the group about his third nipple. He once accepts Monica's help to lose weight but gets annoyed when she wakes him up on a Sunday and playfully calls him "fat boy".

He and Joey are increasingly impressed by Monica's boyfriend Richard and spend a lot of time with him. At the end of Season 2, he meets a woman online and gradually falls in love with her. They decide to meet up at Central Perk and it turns out to be Janice.

Season 3 starts with Chandler being in a passionate relationship with Janice. This is the only time where he doesn't intend to break up with her, and is genuinely in love with her and can overlook her seemingly annoying voice and laugh. When Joey finds Janice annoying as ever and expresses feelings of hatred towards her, Chandler tells him to suck it up and like Janice. Initially in his rekindled relationship with her, he experiences his trademark commitment-phobia and freaks her out by proposing they move in together. He later amends this by reassuring her that it's just his instinctive nature to freak out about commitment.

After learning Janice has kissed her ex-husband twice since they have been in a relationship, and subsequently the fact that she still loves him as well as Chandler, he reluctantly lets her go as they have a shot at being a family, and he reflects on how he felt about the man who "broke his family up", as he saw it, when he was a kid.

After the breakup he has a tough time getting over her but feels a little better after playing football with his friends on Thanksgiving and being chosen over Joey by a beautiful Dutch woman. Later on, his sadness resurfaces and he ends up kissing one of Joey's sisters, Mary-Angela, at a party. He tells Joey (to protect himself) that he might be in love with Mary-Angela and it wasn't just him messing around. When Mary-Angela gets excited, he goes over to the Tribbiani family home to gently break up with her, but it turns out Joey is there too, as well as all of the other Tribbiani sisters. Chandler genuinely doesn't know which one Mary-Angela is, and, when one of the sisters makes a pass at him in the hall, he assumes he has found her... but it turns out to be another sister, Mary-Therese. An altercation occurs, and when Joey realizes the truth he is pretty mad at Chandler. Chandler apologizes profusely, telling him he will never do anything of the sort again.

When Ross joins Chandler and Joey in a bar just after Ross has gone on a break from Rachel, Chandler tells him to call Rachel so that he can work past whatever trouble they were having as a couple. Ross then hears Mark's voice in the background, gets the wrong impression and sleeps with the girl from the Xerox place, Chloe. After learning he slept with Chloe, Chandler tells Ross to not tell Rachel about it and also erase any evidence of it happening. However, word gets back to Rachel. Chandler, along with the other three friends, are crushed when Ross and Rachel painfully break up.

In the aftermath of the break up, Chandler goes back to smoking but is helped to quit by Rachel. It appears the resemblance of Ross and Rachel breaking up and his parent's divorce is too similar that he goes back to using the coping mechanisms he used as a child. After quitting smoking, he helps Ross get over Rachel and not interrupt a date she's having.

Chandler has a brief fling with Rachel's boss Joanna who doesn't feel attracted to and has a tough time breaking up because of his fear of confrontation.

By the time the season ends, Chandler gets on Monica's case as to why she'd never go out with him hypothetically.

This starts with a perplexed Chandler questioning why Monica would never hypothetically date him. At the beach, Monica gets stung by a jellyfish and Joey remembers that the pain can be mediated if someone pees on it. Monica is unable to bend that way and Joey gets performance anxiety, leaving a reluctant Chandler to do the deed. Chandler, Joey and Monica agree to never let this matter slip out but after the other friends keep asking they confess. Later, Chandler runs into Joanna (Rachel's boss) and has another fling with her. After trying to break up with her on Rachel's command, he emerges not-so-victorious.

Chandler finds himself feeling attracted to Joey's girlfriend Kathy and decides to avoid her because of this. However, Kathy later returns the feelings and the two share a kiss. Extremely filled with guilt, Chandler tells Joey the truth and Joey's extremely livid at him and refuses to talk to him. To make it up to him, Chandler resolves to stay in a box for six hours and think deeply about his actions on Thanksgiving. While he's in the box, Kathy comes over to tell him that she'd be leaving for Chicago for a while and is upset that their relationship never took place. Joey finally forgives Chandler and tells him to go after Kathy and their relationship shows great potential.

" The One With The Embryos" provide us with great details about his life including:

He gets scared to see Michael Flatley's dancing because it appears that his legs flail about as if independent from his body

His father owns an all male gay burlesque show: Viva Las Gay-gas

No body knows his job; and so forth

(Joey and him win the girls' apartment after winning a quiz match and proceed to stay there until Monica and Rachel agree to kiss for a minute to get their apartment back in " The One With All The Haste") . After seeing Kathy share a sex scene with someone in a play, Chandler shows trust problems which Kathy is shocked to learn of. He later goes to amend this and apologize but it turns out that she did in fact sleep with Nick (the guy she was simulating sex with in the play) and is extremely devastated. With the help of Rachel, Phoebe and Monica, he successfully gets over her.

As the season comes to a close, Chandler becomes Ross' best man along with Joey as he is getting married to Emily. He initially thinks it's an impulsive decision but comes to respect it. After feeling homesick in London at the wedding he decides to give a toast at the wedding but is surprised when no one finds it funny and misses home even more. He comforts Monica when a drunken guy accidentally calls her Ross' mother and her mom keeps implying she will never get married. Later the same night, Monica appears at Chandler's hotel room (initially looking forward to a night of meaningless sex with Joey) but throws herself at him when he calls her the "the most beautiful woman in most rooms". After they wake up the next day on Ross' wedding day, it's rather awkward but they decide to meet up again.

Chandler and Monica decide to hook up only in London and even blame London for the romantic atmosphere that caused those events to transpire. However upon reaching New York, both find themselves attracted to each other and decide to date in secret. In " The One With All The Thanksgivings", we get to know the actual story of his parents' divorce and the reason for his hatred for Thanksgiving. We also learn that in 1987 when he visited the Geller's household with Ross to celebrate Thanksgiving, he called Monica fat. He apologizes many times and appears pretty remorseful but upon realizing that it was Monica who accidentally sawed his toe, he storms out of the room in anger and asks to be left alone. Monica later comes across to his apartment with a turkey on her head and does an embarrassing dance. He laughingly forgives her but blurts out "I love you". He later retracts the statement.

Pretty keen on hiding his relationship with Monica, Joey gets into many tough situations for his sake. The reason behind him wanting to keep it a secret and his commitment fear seem to be closely linked as both of them fear that the rest of the group will talk about marriage and children freaking him out. In " The One Where Everybody Finds Out" he tries to seduce Phoebe to throw her off the clues but after things escalate quickly and they share an awkward kiss, he officially claims his love for Monica who also does the same.

Later on he does get his commitment fear and even proposes marriage but is reassured by Monica that she doesn't want to settle down right away and would help him out with his fear of commitment. Afterwards when Phoebe hits it off with her cop boyfriend Gary, Monica gets insecure that she has passed the first phase of her relationship with Chandler when they were all over each other all the time: he comforts her and tells her that the newer phase they have is much more interesting and real showcasing his maturity In accepting commitment. In " The One With The Ride-Along", when a car backfires (which sounds like a gunshot) and it looks like Joey is defending Ross' life, Chandler feels offended about Joey choosing him over Ross but he is much happier (and perplexed) when he finds out that Joey was actually trying to protect his meatball sub. In " The One With The Ball", when Phoebe learns Gary is going to ask her to move in with him and she feels it's too early, she asks Chandler to scare Gary with his trademark commitment fear. Here we also find out that Chandler has a reputation of dropping things specially while he's being asked to catch something.

As this season comes to a close, Chandler gets into a fight with Joey who gets a lead in a very sketchy movie that doesn't guarantee him any money. Joey believes Chandler is not believing in his career and throws him out while they're going on the road trip to Vegas. Joey later forgives Chandler and asks him not to come because he doesn't want to prove Chandler right. Chandler and Monica regardless plan to go to Las Vegas to celebrate their one-year anniversary as a couple when Phoebe tags along and Ross and Rachel are scheduled to reach the next day. After learning that Monica had lunch with Richard earlier and wasn't planning on telling him about it, he gets upset but later Monica assures him that she won't see Richard again reuniting them. While the couple gets gambling fever, Chandler tells Monica that they could get married if she rolls a hard eight (roll four with two dices) she promptly agrees but they reconsider when they see Ross and Rachel run out of the wedding chapel in The One In Vegas.

Chandler feels unsure about marrying Monica who also feels the same way. He proposes (thinking that sharing his true feelings might hurt her) that if they see a sign they could get married but after seeing too many signs he comes clean about his feelings and feels better after learning that she feels the same way too. He later asks her if they should live together which she agrees to pretty enthusiastically. (" The One After Vegas"). He has a hard time telling Joey about this who ultimately is pretty saddened by his roommate's departure and even calls it the end of an era. He and Monica do fight while discussing the layout of the apartment when Chandler moves in but this is resolved by Ross. After moving in, Chandler decides to clean up the apartment as a romantic gesture but forgets the layout of things and gets scared thinking about how Monica would react to such an altercation to her organization but is reassured by Monica who thinks it was sweet and thoughtful regardless of how it altered her living room.

Chandler takes care of Monica when she's sick and asks Rachel and Phoebe to not look for the Christmas presents Monica is planning on giving them. In " The One With The Joke", when Monica's upset about why Phoebe would hypothetically date Rachel instead of her because she's "high maintenance", he reassures her saying that her being "high maintenance" shows her passion. He questions Ross' relationship with his student Elizabeth many times and makes fun of it with the rest of the friends.

As season 6 ends, Chandler plans on proposing to Monica. He takes Phoebe's help in picking out the engagement ring since she's the only one who knows because of walking in on Chandler while he was checking out ring brochures. He plans to propose to her in her favorite restaurant and is pretty annoyed when Richard coincidentally shows up with a date at the same place making it seemingly impossible. To make the proposal look out of the blue, he decides to throw Monica off by showing disgust at the whole concept of marriage (which he's pretty good at because of his commitment phobia) but this idea fails when his acting becomes too convincing and Richard shows up at her restaurant's kitchen to profess his love for her. Joey however tells Monica about Joey's plan and she sets up the optimal set-up of a proposal in her apartment. By the end of this season, Chandler and Monica are officially engaged.

Chandler tells Monica about his savings when she finds out that her parents used her wedding funds for a beach house. Earlier Monica thinks of using up the entire money on the wedding but Chandler finally puts his put down and refuses. Later he tells her that if she really wants to spend all the money in the wedding, she can but when she finds out what he was planning on doing with the money and their future, she happily agrees to have a much simpler marriage. He profoundly embarrasses himself in front of Ross and Monica's father and gets new glasses as the season begins.

In the One With Rachel's Assistant, we learn that Chandler:

Won a Vanilla-ice look alike contest

Kissed a guy by mistake in Atlantic city

He tries his best to step aside as Monica plans the wedding. He gets upset after learning that Monica wanted to initially sleep with Joey the night they hooked up in London but is reassured by both Monica and Joey and forgets about it. He has a tough time writing the wedding vows so he steals Monica's vows and switches the name. During the rehearsal dinner for the wedding, Chandler freaks out about not being a good-enough husband and having a failed marriage so runs away to cool off in his office. Helped by Ross, he makes it to the wedding and everything works out in the end.

Chandler desperately looks for the disposable wedding cameras to lighten Monica's mood since she's upset she's never going to be a bride again (this initially scares him but he realizes she would probably miss the prospect of dressing up in white and being showered with love and attention part of being a bride). He spends Thanksgiving teaching Phoebe a technique he uses to avoid helping out in the kitchen of pretending to watch a football match and occasionally screaming at the TV to look occupied. In " The One With Rachel's Date", we find out that his middle name is actually Muriel and that he doesn't even correct a co-worker who calls him Toby to avoid social confrontation. He dresses up as a pink bunny on Halloween and regrets it- to make Ross' romantic interest strong, he let's Ross win an arm wrestling match. He tries his best to support Rachel throughout her pregnancy.

He consoles Joey when he's having feelings for Rachel and also helps ease the awkward tension that takes place after Joey tells Rachel about his feelings and she doesn't reciprocate it. He also finds a newfound respect for baths and thus becomes more comfortable with his masculinity.

He later helps Joey with his interview along with the other friends so that he doesn't do anything stupid. He also shows his buried competitive instincts while playing Bamboozled with Joey and Ross (he tries to hide his competitive nature when around Monica so that he doesn't provoke her childish love of winning). He feels he's ready to have children with Monica while Rachel has her baby during the season finale.

He continues to try for a baby with Monica. When he falls asleep during an important business meeting, he apparently agrees to be the president of his company in Tulsa, Oklahoma. When Monica gets a job offer at Javu, an upscale restaurant in Manhattan, he asks her to stay in New York which puts a little strain in his relationship with her. Joey appears even more upset at Chandler's departure though. When everyone in his office at Tulsa openly smokes, he is compelled to as well but quits after Monica shows disgust at the habit of smoking. When Monica says she's found the funniest man she's ever met, he feels insecure. However, he feels perfectly fine about Rachel hiring a male nanny showing his comfort with his masculinity.

After learning that Ross and Rachel think that Chandler wouldn't be able to discipline his children in The One With Rachel's Other Sister, he shows off his potential to discipline when Rachel and her sister Amy get into a physical fight. In The One With Christmas in Tulsa, he finally realizes his lack of interest in his job and the strain this is putting on in his marriage and consequentially quits his job to find something he's more interested in. Despite having low self esteem, he's against borrowing money from others. He decides to take up a job in advertising and becomes the junior copywriter from an unpaid intern in a matter of months due to his maturity, talent and potential in advertising.

He's extremely devastated upon realizing that he and Monica cannot conceive and along with her, decides to take up adoption. In Barbados, he tells David the reason behind Phoebe and Mike's break-up, indirectly giving him the plan to propose marriage. Monica later takes care of this by calling Mike and telling him to prove his love which he does. He shows great ping pong skills which he tries to hide from Monica due to her extreme competitiveness.

Chandler and Monica make their peace with adoption. Chandler supports Phoebe and Mike's relationship and is very confused by the whole Ross, Charlie, Joey and Rachel mix-up and decides to eavesdrop on it in The One After Joey Kisses Rachel. However, he is more disturbed by the cornrows hairstyle Monica decided to adopt. He mistakenly tells a child he's adopted when Monica and Chandler go to visit a couple to gain more knowledge on adoption, he later on even tells Frank. Jr's children that Phoebe actually carried them and gave birth to them on the same day, blaming this on people for not informing him of both these situations beforehand .

Chandler gets Joey to write a letter to the adoption agency but is very sceptical about his good writing skills but is very amused when the adoption agency thought that Joey was a child and it was a very cute and sweet thing to do. When Erica is under the impression that Chandler and Monica are a doctor and a reverend respectively, he thinks it's best to come clean about the fact that the adoption agency probably had a mix-up. Monica fears that Erica would not be willing to give her baby to them if she realized that they weren't a doctor and a reverend but after they come clean, Erica is more upset by the fact that they lied to her. It's interesting to note that this time, Chandler is the one who is keen on showing integrity and truthfulness since in earlier seasons, he tended to craft lies to get out of the simplest situations- this shows significant development. Chandler ends up winning Erica's trust by giving a heartwarming speech.

Chandler comes clean about having broken a pact he held with Ross in college regarding the girls they could go out with but explains this to be because of the time when Ross kissed a girl on the pact and who Chandler had a major crush on during a college party. To spite him, Chandler also kissed Rachel on the same time not knowing that Ross and Rachel would kiss too (later it turns out that Ross actually kissed Monica which really disgusts him) (" The One Where The Stripper Cries" )

Chandler decides to get a new house in the suburbs with Monica to bring up the child which the rest of the friends, especially Joey, are not happy about. He was also upset when Rachel was going to go to Paris but decided to make his peace with it. Erica finally gives birth but as it turns out, she actually gave birth to twins; Chandler and Monica were only expecting one child. He initially freaks out and doubts their capability but after realizing its a boy and a girl, he is overjoyed and along with Monica names the girl Erica (after her biological mother) and the boy Jack (after Monica and Ross' father).

Chandler utters the very last line in the whole show as the group decides to have the last cup of coffee together by sarcastically saying "sure, where?" when Rachel asks.

Personality

Though Chandler never lets up by using sarcasm as a defense, he has a tendency to come off as needy and makes bad first impressions as said by Phoebe with his constant joke-making and brash demeanor. Despite this emotional immaturity, Chandler is the most financially secure of his friends.

Chandler is brash, zany and estranged from both of his parents. He suffers from commitment issues, brought on by growing up in a broken home with no idea of what a stable marriage looks like, can be neurotic and extremely defensive with humor as his shield but his sense of humor is generally unsophisticated, to the point during an interview when his boss told him he'd have "extra duties on his hand" he had to stop himself from laughing. Chandler also associates everything that links to his parents' divorce in a negative light, specifically Thanksgiving where his parents reveal their separation over turkey where his father plans to run away with the pool boy. This also associates with his mistrust of people in adult relationships. Becoming extremely paranoid when his girlfriend, Kathy (who was an actress) shared a sex scene with her co-star prompting a big fight between the two. Ironically it was Chandler's own paranoia that drove Kathy to have an affair with the same person.

His commitment issues are not only a running gag in the series but as well with his friends who use it as an excuse to mock him. In " The One With The Lesbian Wedding", when asked who of the group will get married last they all pointed at Chandler. This could either be a joke, a ribbing on his commitment-phobia or him being the least desirable of the group. However, he was the first friend to happily settle down as a married man. Even when he was a happily married man, Chandler still retained some of his paranoia when it was revealed that their surrogate mother was having twins, he instantly panicked and suggested keeping only one. However, when he discovered they were a male and a female, he was overjoyed.

Chandler is relatively comfortable with complimenting looks of the same gender like Phoebe. However, he is quite humiliated by his effeminate nature and is a profound heterosexual whereas Phoebe has been hinted to be bisexual. It's revealed Joey is who he would go out with. Also, when Phoebe saw her "perfect guy" at Central Perk after reading tea leaves, Chandler remarks "Oh my God, that guy was looking at you and he is so cute" in a high-pitched voice. He also began acting extremely effeminately when he was listening to a cassette tape for women to stop him from smoking. Because of this, Chandler is normally dominated by his ballsy and forward spouse, Monica and rarely ever "wins" in a fight with her, however, Chandler does have bursts of confidence. When Monica wanted to use his nest egg to pay for their big wedding he firmly put his foot down, which greatly impressed Phoebe who normally points Chandler out for his effeminate nature, claiming "Money, and a firm hand. Finally a Chandler I can get on board with."

Chandler also shares a lot of traits with Mr. Heckles, Monica and Rachel's neighbor. They are both extremely picky with women (planning to break up with one simply because her head was too big), were voted class clown in high school, played the clarinet and Chandler even did his signature pound the ceiling with a broom when Monica and Rachel were making too much noise.

Probably because of his entire childhood of being humiliated, Chandler would much prefer to follow through on an insane lie rather than admit to the truth and create an embarrassing situation or an actual confrontation. Lacking the nerve to break up with Janice after he rekindled their romance he tells her he is moving to Yemen and actually does when she only agreed to leave the airport after she saw his plane depart, causing him financial loss. This was further shown when he destroyed his own office when an enraged colleague (who had been calling Chandler 'Toby') got word that "Chandler Bing" stopped him from moving upward and he didn't want to admit that he mistook his name for Toby and never corrected him on it.

Relationships

Chandler started out as the one who had the most problems with commitment. He began his relationship with Monica as early as Season 5 (since Season 4's finale was actually a fling for both characters); moved on to the proposal in Season 6; married her in Season 7; and adopted twins Jack and Erica Bing in the last episode of Season 10. In " The One With The Lesbian Wedding", everyone thinks that Chandler will be last for them to get married. This ends up being quite ironic as he and Monica are the first to have a committed marriage that doesn't end in divorce, and none of the others have a long-term marriage again until Season 10 when Phoebe marries Mike Hannigan.

Going by his behavior in the seasons prior to him becoming involved with Monica, it is possible that Chandler has been interested in her for years. At the end of Season 1 (" The One With The Birth") he suggest they get together and have a child if they're both still single at forty, in (" The One With The Flashback") he said Monica was one of his favorite people and the most beautiful woman he'd ever known in real life, and during the friends' beach vacation in season 3, he tries to convince Monica that he will make a good boyfriend. She, however, laughs at the idea and for the first four seasons and before the show started they are portrayed merely as close friends. They've seen to depend on each other a great deal as Monica helped him lose weight ( Season 2), reassured him that he wouldn't die alone (" The One Where Heckles Dies"), comforted him about his crush on Kathy and gave him sex advice in Season 4. Chandler also apparently told her about his third nipple, and he was the only one who knew that it was her underwear on the telegraph pole outside the apartment. Chandler also comforts Monica when she's upset, like when she discovered that Phoebe moved out or when she was upset about not having a child or a boyfriend in Season 3.

Things change for Chandler and Monica in London when they sleep together ( season 4). Monica becomes depressed when her mother says that she'll never get married, and she is pushed over the edge when a drunken man mistakes her for Ross' mother. She gets drunk and decides to make herself feel better by sleeping with Joey, not expecting Chandler to open the door (" The One With The Truth About London"). When Chandler tries to cheer her up by telling her he thinks she was the most beautiful woman in the room at the rehearsal dinner - that she is, in fact, the most beautiful woman in most rooms, Monica throws herself at him and they end up spending the night together. The next day, initially things are quite awkward between them. When they meet up at the wedding they agree that sleeping together was a stupid thing to do, but that's not enough to keep them from agreeing to meet up again that night. They say that they will stop once they leave London, but that fails and they begin a relationship. Chandler refers to the night as the most romantic night of his life. It seems likely that Chandler already had strong romantic feelings for Monica by the time their first night together was over, and his mild interest in her, mentioned above, became a serious romantic connection due to the confirmation of Monica's feelings.

They try to keep their relationship secret from their other friends, who eventually found out (" The One Where Everybody Finds Out"). The first to find out is Joey when he discovers through identical aspects of Monica and Chandler's 'work trips' in " The One With The Kips" that they were actually away together. Then Rachel overhears a telephone conversation between the two containing sexual innuendos. (Monica denies this when she is confronted by Rachel, insisting that she was referring to Chandler as "Mr. Bigot" and not, "Mr. Big ...", going on to describe him jokingly as a racist). Phoebe finds out about Monica and Chandler when she witnesses them having sex without closing the curtains as she stands in Ross' apartment across the street, and Ross is the last to find out, in the same way as Phoebe.

After everyone finds out about their relationship Chandler's commitment issues resurface and he worries Monica expects him to get married and have children soon. This leads to a fight between them which he tries to fix by proposing. Monica points out how stupid he's being and says she doesn't want marriage and babies now and will help him through his relationship issues. (" The One With The Girl Who Hits Joey").

While celebrating their anniversary in Vegas, Chandler and Monica get into a fight over her seeing her ex-boyfriend Richard and Chandler admits that he knows Richard is still the love of Monica's life, indicating he still feels insecure about their relationship. However, Monica reassures him Richard is no longer the love of her life and they make up, later stating that they've never loved anyone else as much as they love each other.

In Vegas, Chandler and Monica feel that "the signs" are telling them to get married. Not ready to make such a commitment, they decide to live together instead.

At the end of Season 6, Chandler plans to ask Monica to marry him but a series of misunderstandings lead Monica to think he never wants to get married and Richard to also propose to her. Chandler Madly confronts Richard saying that he blew his chance and Chandler wasn't going to blow his because he and Monica were meant for each other. Richard accepts defeat and Chandler returns home to find Monica has planned her own proposal. They ask to marry each other and get engaged. (" The One With The Proposal, Part 2")

They eventually get married, and their wedding is officiated by Joey ( season 7). Unable to conceive naturally, they decide to adopt a child. Expecting only one child, they watch in surprise as their adopted twins - Jack and Erica Bing are born.

Monica often gets on Chandler's nerves because of her bossy, overly competitive, and neat-freak nature. However, he also states that he loves how passionate she is and feels good about calming her down when she's gets stressed. (" The One With The Joke")

In an alternate reality of " The One That Could Have Been", where Monica is still fat, and Chandler doesn't show much interest in her. However, the two still become a couple after sleeping together when Monica's current boyfriend gets called out to work during dinner.

Jack and Erica Bing

Twins Jack and Erica appear in the series finale when biological mother Erica gives birth to two babies instead of the expected one. The birth of the twins is unexpected because when the doctor read the sonogram, he said, "Both heartbeats sound healthy", but Erica thought that the doctor meant her heart and the baby's. Jack is named after his adoptive grandfather, Jack Geller; and Erica is named after her biological mother. They are shown in apartment #20, with the rest of the group before leaving with Chandler and Monica to go live in their new home in Westchester.

Ross and Chandler have been best friends since college when they were roommates. They made pacts involving the girls they weren't allowed to sleep with although Ross learns that Chandler broke this pact, and they were in a band together. Chandler also went to Ross' house for Thanksgiving. Ross and Chandler frequently go out to play racquetball and basketball. When bullies steal Chandler's hat, they confront them together. When the gang decides to play football on Thanksgiving, Ross picks Chandler as his first player - despite Rachel being his girlfriend at the time (" The One With The Football"). Ross sometimes describes Chandler as his best friend and vice versa. Chandler is the first person to know about Ross' secret love for Rachel. Not wanting either of them to get hurt, he convinces Ross to avoid telling her about his one-night stand with Chloe. When Rachel finds out anyway, Chandler looks very upset when he, Joey, Phoebe and Monica overhear from Monica's room the emotional argument that occurs between Ross and Rachel. Ross becomes Chandler's brother-in-law when he marries Monica at the end of Season 7. When Rachel and Ross remarry shortly after the series finale, she becomes his sister-in-law.

For a time, Chandler shares an apartment with his other best friend Joey. Chandler and Joey's apartment becomes an important focal point for the series as one of the few meeting areas of the gang. The two have formed a close and enduring friendship, and they get into many humorous situations. Their adventures include:

Losing Ross' infant son, Ben, on a bus;

Chandler's dismay at Joey building an "entertainment unit," which is so big it partially covers both of their bedroom doors;

Buying a chick and a duck;

Replacing their dining table with a Foosball table;

Seeing Rachel and Monica topless.

A famous running gag suggests them as an old married couple when they argue, with Chandler usually assuming the feminine role and Joey assuming the masculine role. In an episode where Joey's new roommate Janine is present, Joey takes the more woman-like role of their argument with comments such as, "Why would you say that? It's just mean!" and, "It's not what you said. It was the way you said it," due to the fact that Janine's feminine qualities are rubbing off on Joey.

The two start off on the wrong foot when Chandler is looking for a roommate and Joey comes to fill the slot, incorrectly assuming that Chandler is gay. Chandler chooses a fashion photographer with a porn star sister to be his roommate. But after Mr. Heckles tells the photographer that he is Chandler's new roommate, the photographer leaves and never moves in. This forces Chandler to give the keys to Joey, and they find out they have a lot in common: their fondness for sports and beer. Joey also introduces him to watching the women of Baywatch, especially Yasmine Bleeth.

Chandler often supports Joey throughout the show, paying for expenses such as rent and bills; all of Joey's headshots; several acting classes; and most of the food. In an alternate reality of, " The One That Could Have Been", these roles are reversed as Chandler struggles with finances while Joey rakes in the money. At one point, Joey helps out Chandler by allowing Chandler to be his assistant.

The two "break up" temporarily after Joey finds success as Dr. Drake Ramoray on the daytime soap opera Days Of Our Lives, which inspires Joey to move out temporarily (from " The One Where Joey Moves Out" to " The One Where Eddie Won't Go"). When Dr. Ramoray is killed off and Chandler becomes freaked out by his new schizophrenic roommate Eddie, the two move back in together.

When Chandler moves in with Monica, he and Joey remain close as neighbors. In the final episode, Monica destroys the Foosball table in order to save Chick Jr. and Duck Jr., before she and Chandler move to Westchester. Despite no longer living in the same apartment block, Chandler and Monica make it known that their new home will have a specially designated "Joey room" above the garage.

Chandler often refers to Joey as a family member. Although he thinks the relationship is brotherly, he does make references to Joey as a kid, stating to Ross in " The One With Rachel's Other Sister" that if he can't have Emma when Ross, Rachel, and Monica die, then Ross can't have Joey in the event of Chandler's death. He denies Joey to Ross because Ross denies him of Emma in the case of Ross', Rachel's and Monica's deaths. He later changes his mind. This does not stop him from pointing out his flaws, namely that he, "eats five times a day and shoves pennies up his nose."

Prior to his relationship with Monica, Chandler has an on-again, off-again relationship with Janice, who becomes a constant recurring fixture in his life. With her big hair, her nasal voice and laugh, and her tendency to say "Oh ... my ... God!" (with noticeable pauses in-between each word and hands flapping in sync) in every conversation. As notified before, Janice has an extremely annoying laugh. Chandler spends most of his time trying to break up with Janice. After breaking up with her in the season 1 episode " The One With The East German Laundry Detergent", Chandler finds himself involved with Janice twice more that season and several more times throughout the show.

There seems to be only one point in the entirety of the show where Chandler and Janice's relationship goes well, without him feeling the need to break up with her. During the season 2 finale, Chandler chats with a woman in an Internet chat room, who reveals to him that her husband (the Mattress King) is sleeping with his secretary. He agrees to meet up with her, only to find that the woman he has been chatting with is Janice. The finale ends with Chandler passionately kissing Janice. The relationship continues into season 3. Joey reveals his unyielding hatred for her, claiming that every time she laughs, he wants to, "rip off my own arm so I have something to throw at her!" He then makes an effort, for Chandler, to like Janice and be comfortable in her presence.

At the end of " The One With The Race Car Bed", Joey and Monica enter the Mattress King's store and see Janice kissing her ex-husband in his office. In " The One With The Giant Poking Device", Joey tells Chandler about what Janice has done. Chandler confronts Janice, telling her that Joey saw her kissing her ex-husband. She replies with "In the park?" He is shocked by this, and he asks her if she is breaking up with him. When she replies no, he asks her if she is breaking up with ex-husband. She again replies no, and that she cannot decide between the two. Chandler eventually decides to back off, due to the fact that she has a child and that there may be a chance for them to work things out. He changes his mind at the last minute, saying that he, "was babbling. Pick me!" She decides that the right thing to do is to go back to her ex-husband.

One of Chandler's final attempts to leave her once and for all involves him claiming he is moving to Yemen at the address 15 Yemen Road, Yemen, and then actually boarding a plane and flying to Yemen. It is not actually his plan to go all the way to Yemen. But Janice wants to see the plane take off as a final goodbye, making him actually take off.

Janice later has a fling with Ross, who is horrified when he is accused by her of being too whiny. Ross is worried about telling Chandler this, but Chandler is amused. Then Ross gives a speech about who friends can't go out with, giving an example of "other friends' relatives." Chandler, who is seeing Monica secretly at the time, says he is angry about it. He adds that Ross should remember that he forgave him and that he also gave him $27.

Monica inadvertently invites Janice to dinner when she discovers that Monica and Chandler are engaged. This leads to Janice inviting herself to live with them. Monica informs Janice that Chandler still has feelings for her, in an attempt to force her to leave. Janice does so in surprise and wishes them a lifetime of happiness. This is tempered when she whispers to Chandler as she leaves, "You call me when this goes in the pooper."

A later appearance from Janice is at the birth of Ross and Rachel's baby when Janice announces to a surprised delivery room that the baby she is carrying is Chandler's. She cackles hysterically and confesses that it is a joke, pointing out that she and Chandler haven't slept together in years.

In the final season, Janice plans to move in next door to Chandler and Monica in Westchester. In order to prevent this, Chandler suggests that they pick up where they left off because he never stopped loving her. Fearful that they might ruin their marriages, Janice removes her bid on the house. But she does kiss Chandler one last time.

Janice has appeared in every season of Friends, except in season 6. In this season, only her voice is heard on a mixed tape that she made for Chandler while they were dating. She also appears in " The One With Mac And C.H.E.E.S.E.", a clip show that includes her interaction with Chandler in " The One With The Candy Hearts".

Chandler is known for his wise-cracks and his sardonic attitude, which provides a defense mechanism. His most famous phrase is the rhetorical question and is used on the show as a source of humor many times.

Some of the humor used by the character on the show includes him:

Describing Rachel's attempts to keep him from smoking by throwing away every cigarette he puts into his mouth as, "the least fun game ever";

Quoting A.A. Milne as having said, "Get out of my chair, dillhole," in an attempt to persuade Joey to vacate the chair; and

Insisting that his surname is Gaelic for, "thy turkey's done."

His humorous conversations with Phoebe range from why Donald Duck wears a towel when getting out of the shower, to why there isn't a superhero called Goldman (inspired by Spider-Man). Often, when he and Ross are trying to pick up women, he is referred to as, "The Funny One."

Chandler claims he started using humor as a defense mechanism when his parents broke up, and he tends to make jokes when he's in an uncomfortable social situation. At one point, Phoebe's psychologist boyfriend Roger states that Chandler's behavior is textbook of someone who uses humor as a defense mechanism. His co-workers are so used to his sarcastic jokes that any serious comment he makes is thought to be another joke. At one point, the friends challenge him to avoid making fun of his friends for an entire week as his New Year's Resolution; this proves difficult when, among other things, Ross dates a woman named Elizabeth Hornswoggle. He eventually breaks down and sarcastically asks, "What are you dating? A character from Fraggle Rock?"

One of Chandler's bosses in season 8 finds him extremely funny when talking seriously: once when asking him where to find good Internet porn, and then when Chandler suggests to his boss to shred the papers on his desk and not claim to have received them.

Chandler becomes jealous of Monica's new Maître d', Jeffrey, because she claims that he is the funniest guy she's ever met and points out that although she finds Chandler to be hilarious, his humor tends to be more sarcastic than bits, impressions, and limericks. He tells Joey about the situation, and Joey replies with "Being funny's your thing!" to which Ross agrees later. He elaborates and says that if "funny," is taken away from him, all that leaves Chandler with is, "lame with women."

Gay innuendo and Bromance

Chandler often finds himself in difficult situations or making statements that make him sound homosexual, due to his father's influence. His friends and co-workers describe him as having a certain quality that makes people think he might be gay. He also often has long hugs with Joey. At one point, he entered a room full of his friends and asks, "Well, don't we look nice all dressed up? ... It's stuff like that. Isn't it?" Once when he enters the apartment with Joey and Ross, the girls ask the men who they'd rather be with if they had to date each other. While Joey and Ross refuse to answer, Chandler abruptly replies, "Joey," then recoils in embarrassment when everybody looks at him in shock. When asking Rachel and Phoebe what qualities about him make people think he is gay Phoebe sarcastically tells him, "You have gay hair".

Chandler has an ongoing bromance ( a close but non-sexual relationship between two men) with Joey. Some examples of this are: in "The One Where Joey Moves Out," Joey says he doesn't want to leave Chandler "high and dry." Chandler responds by saying "No, I've never been lower or wetter."

In, "The One With Joey's New Girlfriend," Chandler invites Joey's girlfriend to sit in the canoe with him. He asks her whether she would rather sit in the bow or the stern of the boat. She asks Chandler which he prefers, and he replies, "I like it in the stern ... of the boat!"

When Phoebe wonders whether she should propose to Mike, Chandler says, "If I were a guy ... Did I just say, 'if I were a guy' ?"

In " The One With The Flashback", when Chandler interviews Joey as a roommate after meeting for the first time, Joey tells him that he's, "totally okay with the whole gay thing."

The show's creators were actually considering making him homosexual at the beginning of the series but ultimately decided not to. The creators had Chandler revealed that he is, in fact, straight in "The One Where Nana Dies Twice" when a colleague of his at work wants to arrange a date with another man, thinking he is gay. He tells his friends about this, then realizes that they also - at one point - thought he was gay.

After Chandler plays a prank on Ross by posting on their college website that Ross has sex with dinosaurs, Ross creates a page for Chandler. On the page, Ross claims that Chandler is, "as gay as the day is long," and also supplies digitally edited images of Chandler making out with a policeman. Many of the alumni congratulate Chandler on revealing this fact. As a retort, Chandler posts on Ross' page that he has died.

Another instance which insinuates Chandler's homosexuality is when Ross exposes Chandler's kiss with a man to Monica. Ross states, "Now, Chandler isn't the type of guy who goes into a bar and makes out with girls," causing Monica to scream, Chandler replies, "In my defense, it was very dark and he was a very pretty guy!"

Much of Chandler's sexual ambiguity stems from his childhood, as do other personality traits such as smoking and resorting to humor. On Thanksgiving when Chandler was nine, his father announced that he was a homosexual and that he was getting a divorce from his wife because he would, "rather sleep with the houseboy than [her]." The houseboy said, "More turkey, Mr. Chandler?" in a very feminine voice right after this announcement. As a result of this, Chandler hates Thanksgiving and refuses to eat any traditional Thanksgiving food.

Chandler's father moved to Las Vegas, where he opened up an all-male burlesque called Viva Las Gay-gas. The burlesque features such musical numbers as It's Raining Men, where he works as a cross-dresser named Helena Handbasket. Chandler tells Monica that when he was growing up, he played the dancer on the far left.

Further amusement emerges when Chandler listens to a self-help hypnosis tape designed to prevent him from smoking. The tape is designed for females, and Chandler comes under the suggestion of being a "strong, successful, confident woman." This manifests itself in Chandler applying Chap Stick like a woman applying lipstick and blotting with a tissue and emerging from the shower with a towel around his chest and a turban on his head. He also tells Rachel that she is wearing a "stunning blouse." Joey overhears the tape and tampers with it, recording a message within it suggesting that Chandler should make him, "a cheese sandwich every day," and buy him, "hundreds of dollars worth of pants."

When the series begins, Chandler works as a Data Processor. This is a job which he thoroughly loathes, and tries to quit early in season 1 (" The One With The Stoned Guy"). His boss offers a promotion and more and more money to lure him back. According to the nameplate on his door (seen in " The One With The Ick Factor") he has become Processing Supervisor. Although never explicitly stated, exterior transition shots show that Chandler's office is in the Solow Building.[1]

It remains a running joke through most of the seasons that no one quite knows what he does.

The guys win the trivia game because Rachel and Monica don't know what Chandler does for a living ("The One With The Embryos") (Although since Ross created the game, this suggests that he knows the answer)

Joey once says, " And you call yourself an accountant?" and Chandler replies, "No!"

Monica admits several times that she doesn't pay attention when he talks about his work, but finally learns what he does when he quits in season 9. She calls it, "Statistical Analysis and Data Reconfiguration." Chandler responds by looking at her and saying, "I quit, and you learn what I do?"

Chandler mentions his job title in, "The One with the Cooking Class." This job inspires his oft-referenced office slang word "WENUS" (Weekly Estimated Net Usage Systems), as well as the "ANUS" (Annual Net Usage Statistics). Because of this job Chandler appears to be the most financially well-off among the six friends for the most part of the series and is also shown to hold a position of authority in his company.

For a time, Chandler is unable to simply quit his job as it is his nature to avoid ending anything forcefully. This leads to an awkward moment where he dozes off during a crucial meeting and unintentionally agrees to run a new branch of the company in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Although he is able to work out a schedule that allows him to spend a few days each week in New York with Monica when she gets a new job at a restaurant in the city, when his new job forces him to work on Christmas Day, Chandler quits his job so he can fly home to be with Monica (" The One With Christmas In Tulsa").

Monica helps Chandler secure a job in advertising. Much to Chandler's dismay, the job is as an unpaid intern. He soon secures a full-time paying job in the business as a junior copywriter where the internship was originally just for three assistants, as the company felt that Chandler was the strongest candidate in the program but was too experienced and mature to be just an assistant.

In an alternate reality storyline during the show (" The One That Could Have Been"), Chandler has the guts to quit his job and works as a freelance writer, specializing in comics.

Age and birthday

Chandler's birthday is most likely in early April. In the episode where a month-early surprise party for Rachel is thrown, Rachel says that Chandler's birthday is before hers. Therefore, his birthday would have to be after or on Rachel's party day (April 8) and before Rachel's birthday (May 5). In " The One With Unagi", an episode that takes place on February 24, Monica says that Chandler's birthday is in a month and a half. A month and a half from February 24 is early April. This would make him an Aries. His parents announced their divorce in 1978, Chandler stated that he was 9, which means he was born in 1969. However, it's possible that he was ten at the time, and forgot that and told the story with him being 9.

Chandler's age should be like this throughout the series; 1 (26-27), 2 (27-28), 3 (28-29), 4 (29-30), 5 (30-31), 6 (31-32), 7 (32-33), 8 (33-34), 9 (34-35), 10 (35-36).

Chandler is half Scottish as revealed in "The One With Joey's New Brain".

Chandler was voted class clown in his high school yearbook and played the clarinet.

Chandler went to an all boys boarding school for high school, as said in the very end of "The One Where The Monkey Gets Away".

Chandler wears white panties as seen in "The One With The Cuffs" and "The One With Ross' Sandwich".

At some point in Chandler's life his coach, Coach Rubin, called him "Little Baby Girl Chandler", which is mentioned in "The One With Joey's Porsche".

Chandler has the last line spoken by a cast member of the series. He says, "Where?" when the others suggest that they should go out for coffee.

It is admitted in the episode "The One Where Chandler Doesn't Like Dogs" that Chandler hates and is afraid of dogs.

He is missing the tip and nail of his right pinky toe.

The name Chandler is actually named for an archaic trade. A chandler was a candle maker. Chandler was almost never a first name before Friends aired.

Four generations of the Chandler family were owners of the Los Angeles Times newspaper from 1917 to 1980, Los Angeles being where Friends was filmed.

Chandler, like Joey, Ross, and Rachel, has kissed all five of his other friends:

He has been in almost every guy to guy competition such as who will be a groomsman or who Phoebe's triplets will be named after.

He is part Swedish. ("The One Where Everybody Finds Out")

Out of the six friends, Chandler is the only one to not have any siblings (Ross and Monica are brother and sister, Rachel has two sisters, Phoebe has a twin sister and a half-brother, and Joey has seven sisters).

Chandler has had the fewest relationships out of all the Friends; ten in total, of which four were serious. These were Janice, Joanna (Rachel's boss at Bloomingdale's), Kathy, and Monica, his wife.

He has a rather odd way of dancing.

John Bennett Perry, the real-life father of Matthew Perry, appears in "The One With Rachel's New Dress", as the father of Rachel's boyfriend, Joshua Burgin.

In a crossover, Chandler appears in an episode of Caroline in the City, the main character of which appears on "The One With The Baby On The Bus". The episodes were aired on the same night. [2]

In the BioWare Role-playing game Jade Empire, during a side quest, a man called "Chandler Ling" is used as a plot character framed for a robbery. This is obviously a reference to Chandler Bing.

Chandler had his third nipple removed in "The One With Phoebe's Ex-Partner".

He has "fooled around" with both Ross and Joey's sisters.

Chandler is 52-53 as of 2021.

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Matthew Perry has revealed how he created the unique speech patterns that made his character Chandler Bing so distinctive from the moment he appeared in .

Perry has written a memoir about his rollercoaster ride with global sitcom success, addiction and rehab - extracts of which have already brought headlines, including his crush on co-star Jennifer Aniston and near-death experience with opioids.

Switching to his craft in an extract published in today's Times, Perry explains how, right from his audition, he was inspired to give Chandler a speech pattern that stood out, with its emphasis on unusual words and syllables.

He writes:

"I read the words in an unexpected fashion, hitting emphases that no one else had hit. I was back in Ottawa with my childhood friends the Murrays; I got laughs where no one else had."

Becoming the final member of the lead cast of six, Perry took this same style of delivery into production:

"I was talking in a way that no one had talked in sitcoms before, hitting odd emphases, picking a word in a sentence you might not imagine was the beat.

"I didn't know it yet, but my way of speaking would filter into the culture across the next few decades. For now, though, I was just trying to find interesting ways into lines that were already funny, but that I thought I could truly make dance.

"(I was once told that the writers would underline the word not usually emphasised in a sentence just to see what I would do with it.)"

Sure enough, despite the show finishing after ten seasons in 2004, Chandler's expressions, including the memorable "Could I BE...?" remain in common parlance today, no doubt helped by the never-ending re-runs of the record-breaking sitcom, which a whole new generation of fans discovered on Netflix during lockdown.

Perry also recounts how, as soon as he was sent the script for the show, originally called Friends Like Us, he knew instinctively that Chandler was the character he needed to play.

"It was as if someone had followed me around for a year, stealing my jokes, copying my mannerisms, photocopying my world-weary yet witty view of life...

"It wasn't that I thought I could play "Chandler"; I was Chandler."

Perry was reunited with his fellow Friends alumni last year for a televised reunion. While the cast joined in remembering anecdotes from their time on the show, the actor - who has become a champion of rehabilitation for those suffering from addiction - talked about the pressure he put on himself to land the laughs for which he had become known:

"I felt like I was gonna die if [the live audience] didn't laugh. And it's not healthy for sure. But I would sometimes say a line and they wouldn't laugh, and I would sweat and... and just, like, go into convulsions. If I didn't get the laugh I was supposed to get, I would freak out. I felt like that every single night."

Matthew Perry's memoir 'Friends, Lovers and the Big, Terrible Thing' is released November 1.

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Matthew Perry's Dating History: From Gwyneth Paltrow to Molly Hurwitz

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Matthew Perry was linked to some big names in Hollywood.

TheCanadian actor stepped into the spotlight with his role younger brother of Valerie Bertinelli's title character on the 1990 show Sydney, but it wasn't until he landed the role of Chandler Bing on in 1994 that he shot to fame.

Over the course of his 30-plus years in the entertainment industry, Perry explored several romantic relationships, including high-profile ones such as Julia Roberts and Cameron Diaz.

Concurrently, the actor endured a tumultuous time in the spotlight. Upon being cast in Friends, his alcohol addiction started to surface, which Perry detailed in his 2022 memoir, Friends, Lovers and the Big Terrible Thing.

While he noted that among those lows were the relationships he lost due to his addiction, he thanked a number of his past lovers for saving his life - such as his first girlfriend Gabrielle Bober, "the one who pointed out that something was wrong with me and sent me to rehab for the first time."

In October 2023, Perry was found dead at a Los Angeles-area home TMZ reported, citing law enforcement sources. Law enforcement sources also confirmed Perry's death to the Los Angeles Times. The outlet reported that Perry was found in a jacuzzi at the home, and no drugs were found at the scene.

A spokesperson for the Los Angeles Police Department told PEOPLE that officers responded to a call at Perry's address regarding the death of a male in his 50s, but would not confirm the deceased's identity.

Ahead, look back at Perry's past relationships and what he had said about them through the years.

Valerie Bertinelli

Perry reveals in his memoir that he had a secret make-out session with Bertinelli while her then-husband, the late Eddie Van Halen, was passed out a few feet away.

"Valerie and I had a long, elaborate make-out session. It was happening - maybe she felt the same way I did. I told her I had thought about doing that for a long time, and she had said it right back to me."

While the Friends actor revealed that he had deep feelings for his former Sydne y costar, the two never officially dated.

Tricia Fisher

Perry began dating Tricia Fisher, the half-sister of the late Carrie Fisher, around the time A Night in the Life of Jimmy Reardon wrapped filming. He was 18 years old at the time.

He detailed the lengths to which his relationship with her deepened, noting that things went emotional to physical very quickly. Despite her desire to take their romance to the next level, Perry recalled his decision to wait.

"My firmness, at least in my conviction to wait, lasted two months... The make-out sessions that didn't lead anywhere were beginning to cause both of us to hyperventilate," he wrote - so Tricia made the first move and took him to his bed.

Though they split for some time, they reconnected again later in life. "Years later, Tricia and I would date again, while Friends was at its peak," Perry noted. "She didn't abandon me, but old fears crept up, and I ended the relationship."

Gwyneth Paltrow

In his memoir, Perry opens up about a handful of former flings, including Gwyneth Paltrow, describing their brief "make-out session in a closet" the summer before Friends was broadcast in 1994.

When the topic arose during an interview with , Perry considered what the actress might think of the published excerpt. "Hopefully, she'll find it to be a cute story," he said. "It'd be bad if Gwyneth Paltrow hated me; I wouldn't like that."

Julia Roberts

Julia Roberts marked Perry's first high-profile girlfriend, a relationship that began while shooting an episode of Friends. In his memoir, the actor told the story of how Roberts signed up to guest star on the hit sitcom, noting that she was eager to be part of his character's storyline.

Perry said that he went to New Mexico to ring in 1996 with her and met her family. "I did let her in, both figuratively and literally, and a relationship began," the actor wrote. "We would already be a couple by the time we started filming the Friends Super Bowl episode."

The two dated for a few months before Perry called it quits, much to Roberts' surprise.

"Two months later, I was single," Perry wrote. "Dating Julia Roberts had been too much for me. I had been constantly certain that she was going to break up with me. Why would she not? I was not enough; I could never be enough; I was broken, bent, unloveable."

Gabrielle Allan

In his memoir, Perry briefly opened up about his relationship with Veep producer Gabrielle Allan, who he referred to as Gaby, while discussing a time in his life when he realized alcohol really started to control him.

"Love of alcohol had indeed become the helmsman of my life, but I don't think I realized just how much it controlled me until one night when I was out with my girlfriend at the time, Gaby," he writes, adding that she would "go on to write for Veep and a bunch of other stuff and be a friend for life."

He recalled one instance when he "first felt the obsession for alcohol" after the then-couple went to a magic show in University City and returned to Gaby's house.

"Gaby didn't have any alcohol at home, which is, of course, totally fine, but for me at the age of twenty-one, all of a sudden this creeping feeling came over me for the first time. I felt my blood on fire for more to drink."

Jamie Tarses

In his memoir, Perry detailed his past romance with the late Jamie Tarses. He met her in 1994, prior to being cast in Friends, and dated her for several years after she divorced her then-husband, Fox TV producer Dan McDermott.

This was a relationship he valued, describing her as "the most magical, beautiful, and smart" woman. He added that she was there for him during his substance abuse struggles, which in part led to his decision to end things.

"I need time to process being sober," Perry recalled telling her at the time of their breakup. "In order to adequately pay sweet Jamie back for two years of giving up huge portions of her own very busy and important life by basically being my nurse, I ended our relationship."

Rachel Dunn

Perry dated former fashion student and longtime girlfriend Rachel Dunn for two years before breaking up in 2005. In his memoir, he described her as "the ex-girlfriend of his dream."

The two ended things around the time Friends wrapped. "There was no drama involved (in the breakup), just a commitment by Matthew to stay focused on his sobriety," a source close to the former couple told PEOPLE at the time.

Natasha Wagner

In his memoir, Perry referenced his relationship with Natasha Wagner, the daughter of Natalie Wood and Richard Gregson. Not only did he describe her as "beautiful, smart, caring and sexy," but he said, "she had it all; she was perfect!"

But because he needed more and hadn't "dated her properly," the two parted ways, though they remain friends.

Cameron Diaz

Perry detailed an incident that occurred with Cameron Diaz at a group dinner after being "set up" with the actress shortly after her 2007 breakup with Justin Timberlake. He recalled Diaz "accidentally" hitting his face while aiming for his shoulder after he said "something witty" following a game of Pictionary.

Lizzy Caplan

Perry's longest relationship was with Mean Girls alum Lizzy Caplan, though they kept their relationship fairly quiet when they were dating. Though he doesn't mention Caplan by name in his memoir, he mentioned that their romance began as "friends with benefits." After six years together - and almost getting engaged - the couple separated in 2012.

He wrote that their breakup still haunts him to this day. "All my fears reared up like a snake," he penned. "I often think if I'd asked [her to marry me], now we'd have two kids and a house. Instead, I'm some schmuck who's alone in his house at fifty-three."

Molly Hurwitz

Perry began dating literary manager Molly Hurwitz in 2018 and asked her to marry him in November 2020. "I decided to get engaged," Perry told PEOPLE at the time. "Luckily, I happened to be dating the greatest woman on the face of the planet at this time."

Despite Perry's fame, the two kept a low-profile relationship. Hurwitz posted a sweet tribute on her private Instagram page in honor of Valentine's Day in 2020. "Second year being my valentine, but his first as an Instagram influencer," she wrote in reference to the actor's massive following. "HVD to my favorite."

Six months after, the actor popped the question while at a Switzerland rehab; however, the two called it quits for good in June 2021. " Sometimes things just don't work out and this is one of them," Perry said in a statement to PEOPLE. "I wish Molly the best."

A few days after Perry's death on Oct. 28, Hurwitz spoke out about their time together in a post on Instagram. She captioned a photo of Perry's silhouette against a European city scape and opened up about the impact their relationship had on her life.

"He would love that the world is talking about how talented he was. And he really was very talented," she began. "As the Friends reunion was approaching, we rewatched the show together."

"'F-, I was so good!!!'" she recalled him saying. "'See what I did there???'"

Hurwitz gushed, "We rewound and studied scenes. Our respect and appreciation of humor is something that connected us. Being with him as he rediscovered his brilliance was magical."

Elsewhere in the caption, she wrote: "While I loved him deeper than I could comprehend, he was complicated, and he caused pain like I'd never known," she wrote. "No one in my adult life has had a more profound impact on me than Matthew Langford Perry."

She continued in part: "I have tremendous gratitude for that, for everything I learned from our relationship."

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Matthew Perry's Dating History: From Gwyneth Paltrow to Molly Hurwitz

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Matthew Perry dated several Hollywood A-listers ranging from Julia Roberts to Lizzy Caplan, and talked about his past girlfriends in his 2022 memoir. Here's a look back at his dating history.

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Matthew Perry Opens Up About His Addiction Journey with a New Memoir: 'I'm Grateful to Be Alive'

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Perry was taking 55 Vicodin a day and was down to 128 pounds. "I didn't know how to stop," he said.

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Matthew Perry is ready to share the truth about his life.

The star, 53, beloved for his portrayal of Chandler Bing on the hit TV series, has written a heartbreakingly beautiful memoir, Friends, Lovers and the Big Terrible Thing (available Nov. 1), detailing his journey - one filled with incredible highs and shattering lows.

"I wanted to share when I was safe from going into the dark side of everything again," he tells PEOPLE exclusively in this week's cover story. "I had to wait until I was pretty safely sober - and away from the active disease of alcoholism and addiction - to write it all down. And the main thing was, I was pretty certain that it would help people."

Perry opens his memoir with the revelation that he almost died a few years ago at age 49.

Publicly acknowledging at the time that he suffered from a gastrointestinal perforation, the actor had actually spent weeks fighting for his life after his colon burst from opioid overuse. He spent two weeks in a coma and five months in the hospital and had to use a colostomy bag for nine months.

When he was first admitted to the hospital, "the doctors told my family that I had a 2 percent chance to live," he recalls. "I was put on a thing called an ECMO machine, which does all the breathing for your heart and your lungs. And that's called a Hail Mary. No one survives that."

When Perry was first cast on Friends at age 24, his alcohol addiction was just starting to surface. "I could handle it, kind of. But by the time I was 34, I was really entrenched in a lot of trouble," he admits. "But there were years that I was sober during that time. Season 9 was the year that I was sober the whole way through. And guess which season I got nominated for best actor? I was like, 'That should tell me something.'"

For more on PEOPLE's cover story with Matthew Perry, listen below to our daily podcast PEOPLE Every Day.

At one terrifying point during his Friends reign, Perry was taking 55 Vicodin a day and was down to 128 pounds. "I didn't know how to stop," he said. "If the police came over to my house and said, 'If you drink tonight, we're going to take you to jail,' I'd start packing. I couldn't stop because the disease and the addiction is progressive. So it gets worse and worse as you grow older."

Though Perry tried to hide his condition, the dramatic changes in his appearance each year reflected his state of sobriety. His cast mates "were understanding, and they were patient," he adds. "It's like penguins. Penguins, in nature, when one is sick, or when one is very injured, the other penguins surround it and prop it up. They walk around it until that penguin can walk on its own. That's kind of what the cast did for me."

Candid about his relapses - he has been to rehab 15 times over the years - Perry has become well-versed on the tools necessary to maintain sobriety. "I'm pretty healthy now," he says, before joking, "I've got to not go to the gym much more, because I don't want to only be able to play superheroes. But no, I'm a pretty healthy guy right now."

While he prefers not to disclose how long he's currently been sober, he does still count each day. "It's important, but if you lose your sobriety, it doesn't mean you lose all that time and education," he says. "Your sober date changes, but that's all that changes. You know everything you knew before, as long as you were able to fight your way back without dying, you learn a lot."

He also has his scars: He's had 14 surgeries on his stomach so far. "That's a lot of reminders to stay sober," he says. "All I have to do is look down."

His impetus to stop taking drugs? "My therapist said, 'The next time you think about taking Oxycontin, just think about having a colostomy bag for the rest of your life,'" Perry recalls. "And a little window opened and I crawled through it and I no longer want Oxycontin anymore."

Now Perry is more determined than ever to try and help others who have struggled with addiction as well. "There were five people put on an ECMO machine that night and the other four died and I survived," he says. "So the big question is why? Why was I the one? There has to be some kind of reason."

For those who read the book, "I think they'll be surprised at how bad it got at certain times and how close to dying I came," he says. "I say in the book that if I did die, it would shock people, but it wouldn't surprise anybody. And that's a very scary thing to be living with. So my hope is that people will relate to it, and know that this disease attacks everybody. It doesn't matter if you're successful or not successful, the disease doesn't care."

For more on Matthew Perry, pick up the latest issue of PEOPLE, on newsstands everywhere Friday.

When it comes to gratitude, Perry has learned that "everything starts with sobriety. Because if you don't have sobriety, you're going to lose everything that you put in front of it, so my sobriety is right up there," he says. "I'm an extremely grateful guy. I'm grateful to be alive, that's for sure. And that gives me the possibility to do anything."

The journey, though incredibly dark at times, has made Perry stronger "in every way," he insists. "What I'm most surprised with is my resilience. The way that I can bounce back from all of this torture and awfulness. Wanting to tell the story, even though it's a little scary to tell all your secrets in a book, I didn't leave anything out. Everything's in there."

But it's also a story "that's filled with hope," he adds. "Because here I am."

If you or someone you know is struggling with substance abuse, please contact the SAMHSA helpline at 1-800-662-HELP.

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Matthew Perry Opens Up About His Addiction Journey with a New Memoir: 'I'm Grateful to Be Alive'

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Friends star Matthew Perry opens up about his addiction journey that nearly killed him and his new memoir, Friends, Lovers and the Big Terrible Thing

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'Friends' used to be too painful to watch for Matthew Perry. Now he's changed his mind

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For Perry, 53, the Emmy-winning sitcom served as a reminder of his long battle with addiction and alcoholism.

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Former "Friends" star Matthew Perry says he can't bear to watch himself in the hit comedy - and it has nothing to do with the show.

For Perry, 53, the Emmy-winning sitcom served as a reminder of his long battle with addiction and alcoholism, he recently said in a conversation with CBC's Tom Power.

"I didn't watch the show and haven't watched the show because I could go 'drinking, opiates, drinking, cocaine,'" Perry said in the live interview. "Like I could tell season-by-season how I looked."

Perry's interview with CBC came more than a month after he published his memoir, "Friends, Lovers and the Big Terrible Thing" in October. In his debut book, Perry reflected on portraying Chandler Bing on "Friends," his romance with Julia Roberts and more.

The memoir also detailed his experiences with addiction and sobriety.

Perry told Power that "alcoholism did not care that I was on 'Friends.'" Alcohol, however, wasn't Perry's only vice during his time on the comedy, which ran from 1994 to 2004.

"I was taking 55 Vicodin a day, I weighed 128 pounds, I was on 'Friends' getting watched by 30 million people and that's why I can't watch the show - because I was, like, brutally thin and being beaten down so badly by the disease," he said.

To help overcome his addiction and mental health issues, Perry checked into a number of facilities. In 1997 he entered the Hazelden Betty Ford treatment center in Minnesota, where he learned key information for his road to recovery.

Perry told Power that a so-called "spiritual guy" at the facility reminded him that his addiction wasn't his fault.

"It wasn't my will that was screwed up. It was that I have this disease and I need to get help," the actor said.

Decades after his time in Hazelden, Perry said he's made some progress. According to his memoir, the actor has been "mostly sober" since 2001 - despite a handful of "mishaps" - and is looking forward to finding out why he's "still here" despite several near-death experiences.

He shared with CBC that he's even open to revisiting "Friends" with a new perspective.

"I'm gonna start to watch it because it really [was] ... an incredible ride, but it's been an incredible thing to watch it touch the hearts of different generations," he said.

"I've been too worried about this. I wanna watch 'Friends' too."

In May 2021, Perry recently appeared alongside co-stars David Schwimmer, Jennifer Aniston, Courteney Cox, Lisa Kudrow and Matt LeBlanc for the "Friends: The Reunion" on HBO Max.

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'Friends' used to be too painful to watch for Matthew Perry. Now he's changed his mind

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In a recent intervew, 'Friends' star Matthew Perry opened up about his time on the hit show while living with addiction issues.

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Best known for his role on Friends, the 54-year-old was found dead in his Los Angeles home on Saturday.

Matthew Perry, the 54-year-old actor best known for his role as Chandler Bing on the long-running TV series Friends, was found dead at his Los Angeles home Saturday. As the son of established actor John Bennett Perry, he spent much of his life in the spotlight: his first TV role was in 1979, on ABC police drama 240-Robert, on which his father was the star.

Perry's career as a network regular began in 1987, with a starring role in a Fox series initially called Second Chance. It was renamed Boys Will Be Boys after a month on the air, part of a full revamp of the series. It was canceled the following year.

A series of guest roles followed, on popular shows of the era including Growing Pains, Who's The Boss?, and Beverly Hills, 90210.

In 1994, everything changed for Perry. That's when Friends hit the air. At age 24, he was the youngest main cast member. Though it was the show that brought him fame and wealth (in a landmark collective contract negotiation, the cast was paid $1 million per episode by 2002), he later said he "can't watch the show back," as all he can see are the signs of his substance use disorder, an illness that would continue for the rest of his life.

"I was taking 55 Vicodin a day, I weighed 128 pounds, I was on Friends getting watched by 30 million people-and that's why I can't watch the show, 'cause I was brutally thin," Perry said in a 2022 interview. "I didn't watch the show, and haven't watched the show, because I could go, 'Drinking, opiates, drinking, cocaine. I could tell season by season, by how I looked. That's why I don't wanna watch it, because that's what I see."

As Friends continued, Perry worked to build a career beyond the series, with big-screen roles in films such as The Whole Nine Yards and Serving Sarah. He was also a fixture on the talk show and events scene; an avid tennis player for much of his life, he played in numerous charity matches even as he privately struggled with his health.

Friends ended in 2004. In Perry's 2022 memoir, Friends, Lovers and the Big Terrible Thing, Perry said that he was taken straight to rehab after shooting the series finale. His struggles with drugs and alcohol cost him nearly $9 million over the years, he said, and led to 14 separate surgeries required due to opioid overuse. Meanwhile, his onscreen work continued, with films including 2009's 17 Again and in series such as Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip and The Good Wife.

Perry's last onscreen role was in the 2017 Reelz miniseries The Kennedys: After Camelot, in which he played Ted Kennedy. He last appeared on TV in 2021, on HBO Max's Friends: The Reunion.

With the publication of his memoir in 2022, Perry returned to the headlines, this time as an author. "Writing a book I had not really thought of before," he told the New York Times in the lead-up to its publication. "Whenever I bumped into something that I didn't really want to share, I would think of the people that I would be helping, and it would keep me going."

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Best known for his role on 'Friends', the 54-year-old was found dead in his Los Angeles home on Saturday.

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Matthew Perry once said his death would 'shock' but not 'surprise' people. That's how many are feeling.

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Due to his very public struggle with addiction and this becoming a strong part of his image in later life, even Perry him self acknowledged that his death would be recognised as shocking but not surprising.

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A year ago, when "Friends" star Matthew Perry released his memoir, he told People magazine: "I say in the book that if I did die, it would shock people, but it wouldn't surprise anybody."

Perhaps that's the best way to describe what fans and his loved ones are feeling right now: shock. Though Perry publicly battled addiction and health issues, his death on Saturday at the age of 54 left both those closest to him and fans in mourning, grappling with a specific kind of universal grief that comes when someone dies at a young age and their death comes as a shock.

"When people experience sudden loss, they may feel shocked, disbelief, confused and even in denial," Shavonne Moore-Lobban, licensed psychologist previously told USA TODAY. "The suddenness of the loss may be too much to process and feel too unreal for a person to immediately grasp."

Grief is different for everyone, experts say, and the trauma of a shocking death only compounds that grief.

"Sudden loss can be more shocking and people can feel less 'prepared' than they might with expected loss," Moore-Lobban adds. "However, it is still hard to prepare for anything that is life-altering, whether a person knew it was coming."

Sudden death or not, everyone grieves differently

Behaviors around grief vary among individuals, communities and within family units.

"How people grieve is influenced by the relationship they had with the person they lost, also what our religion taught us, what our culture taught us, and what our family taught us," grief expert David Kessler previously told USA TODAY.

Many have parasocial relationships with those in the public eye, be it celebrities, politicians, news anchors. You feel close to them like they're your friend or relative.

Just because collective or public grief doesn't match how one might grieve someone close to them, that doesn't make the experience any less real.

"It's a fascinating thing that people don't realize we really can grieve people we didn't know," Kessler added. "And it doesn't mean we're going to grieve them like our spouse or mother, father, or sister or child, but we will grieve them."

Regret is one such powerful emotion that accompanies grief. "Even when the last interaction was positive, there can be regret that the last interaction may feel incomplete," Moore-Lobban says. "Of course, there can also be sadness and anger as a response to sudden loss. Both of those can be connected to a need to make sense of something that may feel nonsensical."

And don't underestimate shock.

"Based on the literature, we see that the more common emotions experienced when someone dies suddenly are sadness, anger, shock and surprise," Jonathan Singer, director, Grief and Responses to Illness into Late Life Lab at Texas Tech University, previously told USA TODAY. "These emotions can then lead to other experiences, such as yearning for the person who has passed away."

Sudden death, according to some research, can lead to more intense grief reactions, in addition to "higher rates of post-traumatic stress after the loss, especially if they witnessed the death or if they were told the details about the death," Singer adds.
Obituary'Friends' star Matthew Perry, sitcom great who battled addiction, dead at 54
How to help someone grieve

If you're trying to comfort someone going through such a loss, don't try and minimize their loss nor put a timetable to the grieving the process.

"There is no limit to grief and because it is a cycle or process, it will continue as long as it needs to for the person who is experiencing it," Moore-Lobban says.

If you're going through loss yourself, talk about it. This "might mean acknowledging it and being open with someone you trust, about how you are feeling," Moore-Lobban says. "It might also include engaging in therapy with a mental health provider, which can be individual or group therapy. Talking about it can also occur by writing, meaning a person can journal about how they feel and what they are thinking."

In the case of "Friends" fans, it may mean revisiting their favorite Chandler episodes. Author Stephanie Land wrote a tribute on X that many fans of "Friends" could relate to: "My comfort show when I'm traveling. Because no matter where you are, there's always an episode of 'Friends' to keep you company if you can't sleep. We'll miss you, Matthew Perry. I hope you know that somehow."

There's no right way to grieve, of course. Above all, take care of yourself.
If you or someone you know needs support for mental health, suicidal thoughts or substance abuse call, text or chat: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: 988 and 988lifeline.org BlackLine: 800-604-5841 and callblackline.com Trans Lifeline: 877-565-8860 and translifeline.org
"Grieving is normal, understandable, and expected," Moore-Lobban says. "We should grieve the loss of another person, which also honors the memory of that person."
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Grief is different for everyone, experts say, and the trauma of an unexpected death like "Friends" star Matthew Perry only compounds that grief.

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This snippet from a pod cast reflects the feelings of many Friends fans uniting the community in their sense of loss. This video shows the impact that Perrys character had on people growing up.

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Matthew Perry’s Chandler Bing Ranked as Best ‘Friends’ Character, No. 2 Funniest TV Character of All Time

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Having been ranked the ‘best friends character’ of the 6 and the ‘2nd funniest TV character of all time’ shows Perrys ability to embody his character and take on Bings persona. His sarcastic nature is unforgettable.

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Matthew Perry’s Chandler Bing Ranked as Best ‘Friends’ Character, No. 2 Funniest TV Character of All Time

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“Friends” sarcastic Chandler Bing, played by the late Matthew Perry, was the sitcom’s best character, according to fan rankings.

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Matthew Perry Reveals CRUSH on Jennifer Aniston During Friends — Watch

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Matthew Perry Reveals CRUSH on Jennifer Aniston During Friends — Watch

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Max 60 Seconds: 17 Again with Zac Efron.

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Max 60 Seconds: 17 Again with Zac Efron.

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Hollywood Game Night  Matthew Perry & Lisa Kudrow Interview

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Hollywood Game Night  Matthew Perry & Lisa Kudrow Interview

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Matthew Perry: Our BEST Interview Moments

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Matthew Perry: Our BEST Interview Moments

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Matthew Perry Interview - ROD Show, Season 1 Episode 156, 1997

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Matthew Perry Interview - ROD Show, Season 1 Episode 156, 1997

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Matthew Perry does Friends trivia - The Graham Norton Show: Series 18 Episode 14 Preview – BBC One

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Matthew Perry does Friends trivia - The Graham Norton Show: Series 18 Episode 14 Preview – BBC One

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Viewers of the show recognise his ‘perfect comedic timing and attribute his character and the show to helping them.

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‘Friends’ Shoots to Top of TV Streaming Charts Following Matthew Perry’s Death

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Without the community of fans for Friends its unlikely that the show and its characters would have been as successful as they are. Friends has such a large audience as the characters are relatable to so many. Chandler, frequently referred to as the favourite friend seems to relate to the masses, boosting Perrys star image

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‘Friends’ Shoots to Top of TV Streaming Charts Following Matthew Perry’s Death

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“Friends” was the No. 1 most popular show on U.S. streaming services for the week of Oct. 30-Nov. 5, according to new data from JustWatch.

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3. Value in individuality and authenticity

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3. Value in individuality and authenticity

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After his death the sense of fandom became even more prominent online. Fans took their time to create different fan art in memory of Perry and his characters.

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This image links the death of Perry with the death of Chandler and his time on friends, referring to the title of the episodes: ‘The one where …’

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Matthew Perry shares his incredible story of survival and why fame wasn't the answer to his problems

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This interview following his memoir, discussing his story begins to separate the star from the character. Here he comes across as brave, brutally honest and inspirational, attributing this to Perrys star image.

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Matthew Perry shares his incredible story of survival and why fame wasn't the answer to his problems

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During the filming of Friends Perry was back and forward from rehab and this was reported on at the time, with less specifics than we know now provided. However, this did not seem to impact Perrys acting ability, his addiction almost unnoticeable in his acting without the rumours and now evident weight fluctuations.

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Feb. 27 -- Friends co-star Matthew Perry has returned to rehab for an undisclosed illness, his publicist confirmed Monday.

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Friends star: I was on 2 pints of vodka and 30 pills a day; PERRY ADDICTION ORDEAL.

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Perry first spoke out about his addiction to drugs and alcohol in 2002, following being 2 years sober to US magazine people weekly and Larry King. Even then the star knew that this would be a ‘lifelong fight’

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Friends star: I was on 2 pints of vodka and 30 pills a day; PERRY ADDICTION ORDEAL. - Free Online Library

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Free Online Library: Friends star: I was on 2 pints of vodka and 30 pills a day; PERRY ADDICTION ORDEAL.(News) by “The Mirror (London, England)”; General interest

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Under many of his interviews you will find comments comparing Perrys presentation of his actual self to his portrayal of Chandler in Friends. This consistency across platforms, genres and decades intensifies the sense of authenticity not only in his character but his own star image.

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Perry’s openness with his battle with addiction makes him more relatable and appear more human compared to other stars who present the ‘perfect’ image.

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In Friends Chandler’s personality is witty, sarcastic, slightly insecure and has great comedic timing, Matthew Perry also seems to embody these characteristics, homing them in his interviews and bringing them into other roles such as in 17 again, adding the characteristics to his own associated image.

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For many seasons of Friends Bing is presented as unlucky in love and afraid of commitment. This would have been reflected in his everyday life as Perry was known for having unreciprocated crushes on his cast mates creating more intrigue at the time into Perry himself.

As well as this Perry was linked to Julia Roberts in the dating scene, on and off screen.

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‘Many people can probably recall the moment at which they discovered a cherished artist, film star, or novel that would make a lasting imprint on their lives’
Bolin, G., 2016. Media generations: Experience, identity and mediatised social change. Routledge. P. 10

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“The television series invites audiences to experience the aging processes of televised characters through a durational trajectory of multiple seasons, plotlines, and narrative arcs. With the unique temporal workings of this medium and format, television not only depicts a story of someone who ages, but it can temporally document the aging processes through time“

Goltz, D.B., 2016. Still Looking. Serializing age: Aging and old age in TV series, 7, p.187.

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“Our sense of generational belonging due to having lived through a specific moment in culture can become somewhat distorted in fan communities, because the cultural moment is drawn out (sometimes over decades) and because the significance of the fan text is able to cut across age-based cohorts.“
Petersen, L.N., 2018. Gilmore Girls generations: disrupting generational belonging in long-term fandom. Celebrity Studies, 9(2), pp.228

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“Celebrities may re-establish themselves and once again attract

favourable publicity, developing a richer public persona in the process, but there are also many instances when the damage is irreparable, causing infamy and notoriety to linger.”
“There is no doubt a kernel of truth in the notion that talent can be a great aid in celebrity redemption.”
“Disgrace, punishment and redemption are all too familiar

features of celebrity culture.”

Gies, L., 2011. Stars behaving badly: Inequality and transgression in celebrity culture. Feminist media studies, 11(3), pp.347-361.

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Unlike Perry, Chandler Bing will remain on our screens transcending the notion of death, separating the character and star in his parting but solidifying his image in cultural history and memory for years to come.

Friends seems a show that will remain relatable and current for future generation to encounter and come to love as the storylines remain relevant and identifiable in 2023 compared to when it first aired in the 1990’s.

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While many who face the image of the troubled star are ridiculed and belittled, Perry seemed to avoid such negative criticisms. As such he was met with more disbelief, pity and understanding. Perhaps because of the ownership he took in his story of addiction of perhaps because of the strength of the loved and funny image he had built for himself over the years.

Audiences may have preferred to continue to view him as an escape rather than reality.

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Matthew Perry Reveals How He Created Chandler's Era-Defining Manner Of Speech In 'Friends'

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Perry saw the value in individuality, his speech and diction was unlike any we had encountered before. His phrases, facial expressions and consequent sarcasm became widely recognisable and he utilised it throughout his career.

This venture into individuality made him even more relatable to the perhaps less relatable audiences, branding him most peoples favourite Friend.

Could he BE anymore authentic?

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Matthew Perry has revealed how he created the unique speech patterns that made his character Chandler Bing so distinctive from the moment he appeared in .

Perry has written a memoir about his rollercoaster ride with global sitcom success, addiction and rehab - extracts of which have already brought headlines, including his crush on co-star Jennifer Aniston and near-death experience with opioids.

Switching to his craft in an extract published in today's Times, Perry explains how, right from his audition, he was inspired to give Chandler a speech pattern that stood out, with its emphasis on unusual words and syllables.

He writes:

"I read the words in an unexpected fashion, hitting emphases that no one else had hit. I was back in Ottawa with my childhood friends the Murrays; I got laughs where no one else had."

Becoming the final member of the lead cast of six, Perry took this same style of delivery into production:

"I was talking in a way that no one had talked in sitcoms before, hitting odd emphases, picking a word in a sentence you might not imagine was the beat.

"I didn't know it yet, but my way of speaking would filter into the culture across the next few decades. For now, though, I was just trying to find interesting ways into lines that were already funny, but that I thought I could truly make dance.

"(I was once told that the writers would underline the word not usually emphasised in a sentence just to see what I would do with it.)"

Sure enough, despite the show finishing after ten seasons in 2004, Chandler's expressions, including the memorable "Could I BE...?" remain in common parlance today, no doubt helped by the never-ending re-runs of the record-breaking sitcom, which a whole new generation of fans discovered on Netflix during lockdown.

Perry also recounts how, as soon as he was sent the script for the show, originally called Friends Like Us, he knew instinctively that Chandler was the character he needed to play.

"It was as if someone had followed me around for a year, stealing my jokes, copying my mannerisms, photocopying my world-weary yet witty view of life...

"It wasn't that I thought I could play "Chandler"; I was Chandler."

Perry was reunited with his fellow Friends alumni last year for a televised reunion. While the cast joined in remembering anecdotes from their time on the show, the actor - who has become a champion of rehabilitation for those suffering from addiction - talked about the pressure he put on himself to land the laughs for which he had become known:

"I felt like I was gonna die if [the live audience] didn't laugh. And it's not healthy for sure. But I would sometimes say a line and they wouldn't laugh, and I would sweat and... and just, like, go into convulsions. If I didn't get the laugh I was supposed to get, I would freak out. I felt like that every single night."

Matthew Perry's memoir 'Friends, Lovers and the Big, Terrible Thing' is released November 1.

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Matthew Perry Reveals How He Created Chandler's Era-Defining Manner Of Speech In 'Friends'

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Matthew Perry has revealed how he created the unique speech patterns that made his character Chandler Bing so distinctive from the moment he appeared in Friends. Perry has written a memoir about h...