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Hassan was loyal to Amir and kept reminding him he would do anything he asked. Amir on the other hand, only enjoyed the perks of their friendship. This is shown when Hassan says, "for you, a thousand times over" and meant it. Meanwhile, Amir was not sure he would do anything for his friend.

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Amir wouldn't consider Hassan his friend even though they basically grew up together. This is because Hassan is a Hazara (a servant) and Amir is a Pashtun. Something really sad is the way Hassan is extremely loyal to Amir, however Amir isn't loyal to him at all and takes advantage of his power. In chapter 6 Hassan said that if Amir asked him to eat dirt he would. This was sort of a way he tested Amir's integrity.

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Although hassan is from a lower class, he is stronger and braver than Amir which makes amir be jealouse of. Hassan will always protect amir but amir would not portect him . 

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Amir was jealous of Hassan for a couple of reasons. First, Hassan had a better relationship with his father than Amir did with Baba, in the story we can see Amir wishes sometimes he had a better father, like Hassan. We can see this when Amir and Hassan hear gunshots. Hassan gets scared and Ali comforts him. Amir narrating then says "Later, I would tell myself I hadn't felt envious of Hassan. Not at all. (pg.35.)"

Amir was also jealous of Hassan of receiving the same attention from Baba as he was. We can see this when they are at the kite store and Amir says he wants a better kite, Baba buys it for him but also buys it for Hassan. Amir while narrating then says "Sometimes I wished he wouldn't do that. Wished he'd let me be the favorite (pg.51.)"

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Where Hassan might go out of his way to support Amir, Hassan's feelings don't even cross Amir's mind sometimes.

At the end of ch.6, Hassan tells Amir; "you know...I LIKE where I live." He was always doing that, reading my mind. "It's my home." (pg.58)

This shows both perspectives, the way the Hassan can practically read Amir's mind because he devotes his life and friendship only to him. But also the way the Amir does not consider Hassan's feelings towards his home.

This is of course due to the relationship being between a majority and a minority. How one literally serves the other, but the emotional weight that Hassan is unable to unload must be massive, not just from the event of chapter 7, they were friends, but that term vanishes in an instant when Amir is confronted by anyone. He is the only one that can dictate their relationship.

There aren't just specific instances where the one-sidedness shines through, it is just in constant day-to-day interaction, there doesn't have to be a big events (even though there still are), to show us this aspect of their friendship

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Amir is always seeking his fathers attention. As we can see in the novel there are a couple of quotes when Amir is describing the house that indicate that he is lonely and wants his fathers attention. 'I asked Baba if I could sit with them. "Go on now," he'd say, "This is grown ups time'.  'He'd close the door, leave me to wonder why it was always grown ups time with him.' pg. 5

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Baba is unwilling to accept that Amir has different passions than he has. This is specifically called out when he talks about Amir and his non confrontational attitude instead of standing up for himself like his father wants him to. Baba harshly claims, "‘If I hadn’t seen the doctor pull him out of my wife with my own eyes, I’d never believe he’s my son'" (28). All he wants is for Amir to do what he did as a child, and he doesn't acknowledge any other option to stand up to bullies but physically and verbally confronting them, more like Hassan would.

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Baba being the talented, intelligent, and wealthy person he is, his son, Amir is always trying to find a way to impress him. In page 17 of the book, it states, "it wasn't often Baba talked to me, let alone on his lap-- and I'd been a fool to waste it." When Baba talked to Amir on his lap, Amir saw this as a rare opportunity and didn't want to mess it up. He didn't want Baba to see him as a disappointment.

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Their relationship was defenetly a one sided friendship. Eventhough we see all the adventures that both boys did together, at the end of the day Amir never really saw Hassan as his friend. "I never thought of Hassan and me as friends either. Not in the usual sense anyhow".

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Baba finds it strange that his son, Amir, is so interested in poetry, literature and the arts. Therefore, he  doesn't always connect with his son because he doesn't have a common similarity with him.
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"That's not what I mean, Rahim, and you know it," Baba shot back. "There is something missing in that boy."

"If I hadn't seen the doctor pull him out of my wife with my own
eyes, I'd never believe he's my son." (Hosseini, 28)

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Amir always seeking for his father's approval. Relationship is continuously damaged or challenged but never broken

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Amir and Hassans relationship was full of betrayals. However, most of the betrayals came from Amir. One of the most important examples of betrayal is that when Hassan was getting raped Amir did nothing to stop it. "I could step into that alley, stand up for Hassan--the way he'd stood up for me all those times in the past--and accept whatever would happen to me. Or I could run... I ran" At the end of the day, Hassan made multiple sacrifices for Amir, and all Amir did was keep on stabbing his "friend" in the back.