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Not being able to say No is how variability grows, finally saying NO with out saying why helps with understanding that not everything needs an answer.

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you haven't learned a person just by talking to them but actually seeing what they are, and who they are a pointed to be

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looking back on something bad makes you think you wanted to add things to what yo have done instead changing it to " I shouldn't have done that" helps shows a change in what you could have done

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Just listening will not help understand what they mean, actually feeling what they say is what shows a person what it is like to be in that position.

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Be the one to show the affection, don't wait when you can't keep the comments

Be with someone or be in a group with people and show how much you care to be in their presents, cause one day they will leave, and you will miss them

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Don't get attached to something you know will go away in time, attach to the things that stays forever

Friends have left me before and being overly attached is sad once you have to let them go.

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Don't change for someone who doesn't care about you, change for someone who you trust the most

I used to change my self to fit someone else's preference to stay friends with them it was not till many times I changed for the wrong person and it turned out I never needed to change

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The more painful life is the more you learn the mistakes. replay that mistake multiple times, you see more flaws.

This quote actually was formed when I was talking with a friend, cause it is always like doing work, you keep doing a problem over and over till you finally fix it.