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Year 3 have been thinking about how to make their school community a better place by understanding why rules are needed and how they relate to rights and responsibilities, and how we can make responsible choices.

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The Department for Education's new RSHE revised guidance for England, published in July 2025 will become statutory from September 2026. It represents an evolution of existing requirements. The guidance has been updated in line with current research and data around best practice and research about the lives and needs of young people in England.

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Woodlesford Primary is proud to have achieved PSHE Friendly Status. This demonstrates our commitment to value and provide high quality PSHE education and provision within school.

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A range of our diverse texts and books shared across school  celebrating our differences. 

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Year 2 have been working collaboratively to create imaginative birds for "A garden of Hopes and Dreams."

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Each year group hosts their own class assembly. The children love to share and showcase their learning and achievements with others and their parents too! They show great pride and confidence to talk and present in front of an audience.

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We were pleased to welcome Loti from Milk Education and the Make Life Kind Charity to speak about how to stay safe online and give us lots of useful tips of how to stay safe.#StopCloseTell

Great engagement by all and thanks Loti for enhancing our knowledge of the dangers of going online and also empowering us to stay in control by reporting and making accounts private.

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A selection of our diverse books and texts in our library area.

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We are extremely honoured to have been awarded with an official ‘Exceptional contribution to the Child Friendly Leeds wishes’. The 'Child Friendly Leeds 12 Wishes' represent the voice of children and young people in Leeds. https://cfl.leeds.gov.uk/projects/cfl-12-wishes

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Woodlesford Primary School Child Friendly Leeds certificate

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At Woodlesford we want all children to successfully develop the qualities, skills and attributes they need to thrive as happy children and feel valued as individuals. PSHE education prepares our children to manage many of the most important opportunities, experiences and difficult decisions they will face growing up. They learn how to develop resilience, empathy, self-esteem, a sense of self worth, confidence and a responsibility for their actions and behaviour, as well as, how to maintain a safe and healthy lifestyle, – both physically and mentally. All of which, are vital in order to face life's challenges and responsibilities and to be a positive member of our diverse and multicultural society.

At Woodlesford, we intend to deliver a programme of study which will help pupils to develop the knowledge, understanding, skills, values and attitudes they need to live confident, caring, healthy, active and independent lives, now and in the future. Our PSHE and RSHE curriculum has a positive influence on the ethos, learning and relationships throughout the school and is central to our core values and school vision.

It also makes a significant contribution to our pupil’s spiritual, moral, social and cultural (SMSC) development, and promotes our British values. The subject makes a vital contribution to our school's safeguarding, in that we have a duty of care to keep our pupils safe.

We have developed a PSHE curriculum that is engaging and ambitious and designed to give all learners the knowledge and 'cultural capital' they need to succeed in life.

Our curriculum builds upon prior learning, is coherently planned and sequenced towards acquiring cumulatively sufficient knowledge and skills to support pupils to manage their own lives and prepare them for future learning.

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Our current Woodlesford Jigsaw programme remains compliant with the new DfE RSHE guidance during the transition period. Jigsaw and ourselves are currently reviewing and updating materials to align with the new guidance.

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Golden Art have been thinking about our mental wellbeing and created a piece of artwork to share and reflect our feelings and remind us we are not alone and how important it is to reach out and speak out!

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Year 1  - setting goals and achieving together!

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Year 1  - setting goals and achieving together!

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We had a week celebrating Anti Bullying thinking about something positive to counter the harm and hurt that bullying can cause.
As part of our learning across school we explored ways we can 'reach out',  and to whom, brainstorming our ideas  how we can reach out to others and show each other the support we may need.
We spent time reflecting on our own behaviour, helping others and making sure we set positive examples and create a kinder community.

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Year 4 have been thinking about all our differences and how we are all unique and special, by designing odd socks to express their uniqueness.

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We walked and talked for Children in Need! 

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We enjoyed pairing up with other year groups to walk and talk. A great afternoon supporting one another, as well as benefitting our physical and mental wellbeing.

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What do our pupils’ say about their PSHE learning at Woodlesford?

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What do our pupils’ say about their PSHE learning at Woodlesford?

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We regularly hold pupil discussions to discover the children’s thoughts and feelings about their PSHE learning and to ensure our curriculum meets the needs of our pupils.

Here's what some children had to say:

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PSHE helps us to respect each other and come together as a group of friends. Also, when learning about health, it helps us with choices around health and fitness.” Yr 5

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"In our PSHE we learn about  being healthy and keeping safe, that's really important..we learn about smoking and the impact it can have on our health...it's really bad for you you know!"
"You need a balanced diet..we need protein, lots of fruit and vegetables, and some carbohydrates. Now and again you can have some unhealthy things like sugar and fat, but not too much."
(Year 5)

"We have visitors into school  who  come and talk to us and help us to keep safe, like we had the police in to talk to us about online safety and the NSPCC came in to tell us about being aware and knowing when some thing isn't right and how we must speak out and get help if we need it." (Year 6)

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"We learn PSHE to keep our body and brain healthy and to be a good person.." (Yr1)

"What I  like about PSHE.. makes me  like really ahead of everyone, ..'cos I'm learning things to help me grow up so I know what to do when I'm grown up." (Yr1)

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I like the fact they introduce the ‘Changing Me’ topic early enough so we can understand the changes early enough to understand what is happening.” Yr 6

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"We like to play the games in PSHE, they’re really good fun, recently we played this drama game and we had to solve the problem and work out what to do..what the right thing to do is.. it helps you in real life then." (Yr3)

"We really love doing the ’Calm Me’ time because  it helps us to feel happy and relaxed." (Yr3)

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In PSHE we learn about all kinds of bullying, like physical bullying, mental bullying..and on line bullying. We know  to tell someone if it is happening." (Year 4)

"I like how we have trusted adults we can always talk to.” Yr 6

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"We learn to look after our mental health in our PSHE lessons. We do calm me time..it helps us feel less stressed.. we close our eyes and think about what makes us feel happy..or we might take some deep breaths. It  helps us calm down after break time or lunch or if the work is really stressful.. we all really love it! (Yr 3)

"I love putting our hands on our tummies, feeling it go in and out with our breaths!" (Rec)

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"I like that everyone is good friends and kind to each other, and we respect differences.” Yr 4

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"When we do  PSHE we do a 'starter'  like an activity at the beginning, so we remember what we done before..  like last week.. ”  (Yr2)

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"I love Jigsaw time..my favourite bit is when I cuddle Jigsaw Jenie and I tell him something!"

"I love it when we close our eyes and do the 'chime'.. it makes me feel happy." (Nursery)

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"I love doing PSHE  because  when we do our Jigsaw Chime in 'Calm Me' time it always calms me down when I’m feeling stressed”  (Yr2)

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"We do our 'Zones'  when we come in every day.. it helps us to show how we are feeling.." (Yr2)

"If we change our feelings we can re do them….if you are in the red, yellow or blue zones the teacher comes over to your desk and speaks to you see if you ok.." (Yr1)

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Health Education ~ Health and Prevention

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Health Education ~ Health and Prevention

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https://www.kidshealth.org/
This site has sections for parents, kids and teens. It provides advice and information on a wide range of physical, emotional and behavioural issues affecting children and young people from birth onwards

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Nemours KidsHealth - the Web’s most visited site about children’s health

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KidsHealth is the #1 most-trusted source for physician-reviewed information and advice on children’s health and parenting issues. For parents, kids, teens, and educators, in English and in Spanish.

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We celebrated Odd Socks day to show how we are all different and unique, and respect each other’s individuality.

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Each class has their own check in station where the children are able to express how they are feeling.

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Our curriculum will have a positive impact on pupils’ learning and development, and as a result of this they will become healthy, independent and responsible members of society who understand and value how they fit into and contribute to the world. They will be able to utilise their learning within their daily lives, giving them resilience, confidence to tackle many of the moral, social and cultural issues that are part of growing up and make healthy choices, also knowing where and how to get help if needed.  The positive results of pupils’ learning will be evidenced in their overall potential and the standards they achieve.

To be confident in the impact of PSHE we will monitor the subject effectively using pupil voice, assessment, scrutiny, use of data (through MHMS survey) and moderation of outcomes to ensure that our curriculum is needs led and pupils are building on their skills and knowledge over time so that they know more, remember more and understand more.

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Relationships Education, Relationships and Sex Education (RSE) and Health Education (DfE2025) 

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Relationships Education, Relationships and Sex Education (RSE) and Health Education (DfE2025) 

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Jigsaw RSHE ~ Information for Parents and Carers

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Jigsaw RSHE ~ Information for Parents and Carers

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Primary PSHE scheme of work including statutory Relationships and Health Education

Jigsaw 3-11 offers a comprehensive Programme for Primary PSHE including statutory Relationships and Health Education, in a spiral, progressive and fully planned scheme of work, giving children relevant learning experiences to help them navigate their world and to develop positive relationships with themselves and others.

With strong emphasis on emotional literacy, building resilience and nurturing mental and physical health, Jigsaw 3-11 properly equips schools to deliver engaging and relevant PSHE within a whole-school approach. Jigsaw lessons also include mindfulness allowing children to advance their emotional awareness, concentration and focus.

Stuck at Home?
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Free stories and activities
for parents/carers at home with their children

Jigsaw REST

(Resilience and Engagement Scale and Toolkit)

Building resilience in children

Video: What children say about Jigsaw and the positive impact it has on their health and relationships

Fulfils statutory requirements
for Relationships and Health Education
Plus Ofsted guidance
Your School prepared for 2020

Jigsaw for England
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The full Set includes:

288 Lesson Plans complete with resources

PowerPoint® presentations, images, interactive games and activities needed to teach the lessons

Time-saving Teacher Preparation Pages (allowing teachers to quickly identify key aspects for each unit of work)

A Jigsaw Friend, Jigsaw Jerrie Cat Friend and a Jigsaw Chime for each year group
(extras are available for additional classrooms)

Launch Assemblies (with original songs; sheet music, MP3 music tracks and PowerPoint slides with embedded content)

A range of mapping documents for Subject Leaders and senior management showing how Jigsaw meets key agendas, such as DfE Relationships and Health Education guidance, Ofsted Personal Development criteria, Safeguarding, SMSC, British Values and Internet Safety.

A fully integrated assessment process allowing schools to easily track pupil progress.

Free ongoing mentor support and access to additional materials in the password-protected Jigsaw Community Area (including training materials, mapping documents, materials for parental communication and additional/optional teaching resources).

Jigsaw resources are purchased as a digital download (or with optional hard-copy folders) plus a Friend, Jerrie Cat and a Chime come with each year-group purchased. Schools may choose a Whole School Set or individual year groups. Whatever you choose, you will be equipped with colourful and up-to-date teaching resources.

Please note our digital materials are supplied as Microsoft PowerPoint (pptx), Microsoft Word (docx), Adobe (pdf), Audio (mp3) and Video (mp4) formats. Some types may be embedded into some PowerPoints and you should check that your software is properly compatible. For best results, we recommend using Microsoft Office 2016 onward on a device with suitable processing power and storage with a good internet connection.

Around 95% of Bristol Primary schools are using Jigsaw PSHE to deliver social and emotional skills in every lesson including Mindfulness, increasing focus on support around mental health and wellbeing. We were fortunate to discover the Jigsaw PSHE programme and found it gave us all we were looking for, and more!

Bristol City Council (Unitary Authority)

"Since the introduction of the Jigsaw scheme there has been a dramatic improvement of behaviour within our school. Within two academic years, incidents dropped from 158 to just 4, evidence of a huge improvement. Children now have a weekly lesson with designated time to broach difficult subjects such as sex education and how relationships develop. Throughout the [Ofsted] inspection, they spoke with the Deputy Head and the PSHE lead about the impact that the scheme had had within the school and praised the effectiveness of the scheme in improving children's welfare and preparation for the outside world."

Deputy Head & PSHE Lead - Eynsham

"We achieved outstanding in our recent OFSTED inspection for elements where Jigsaw had clearly impacted. Jigsaw has proved to be a such a valuable investment and we are compliant with compulsory Relationship and Health Education guidance. As a very small rural school with little capital and busy staff, being able to use Pupil Premium and School Sports funding to buy Jigsaw helped us supplement the funds we had already raised through our parent fundraising group. The children love Jigsaw, it's effective and we have saved the staff time, worry and energy. What's not to like?"

Governor (Cumbria)

If you have more than one class per year group, we recommend each class has its own Jigsaw Friend, Jerrie Cat and Chime. Hardcopy folders are available as an additional purchase. You can order any extras you need from our online shop

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To find out about all the different sets and options available and how Jigsaw can best fit into your school,

contact our friendly team on +441202377193

or email steve@janlevergroup.com

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We may also be able to put you in touch with one of our flagship schools who would be glad to show you how Jigsaw PSHE performs and the benefits it has given their children.

You may also contact our friendly team via emailing office@janlevergroup.com, or by calling our office on +441202377193 .

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Woodlesford Jigsaw  PSHE 3-11 snapshot curriculum overview 2025

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We have adopted the Primary ‘Jigsaw PSHE and Health and Wellbeing’ scheme.
This is a detailed and comprehensive whole school approach scheme of learning, which is a spiral, clear and progressive curriculum for ages 4-11 years which includes the statutory Relationships and Health Education.
It has a fully planned scheme of work, ‘giving children relevant learning experiences to prepare them for life and help them navigate this ever- changing world and develop positive relationships with themselves and others’.
The Jigsaw scheme also has a strong emphasis on emotional literacy, building resilience and nurturing mental and physical health, with lessons that include mindfulness allowing children to advance their emotional awareness and spiritual development.
The scheme provides consistent messages throughout the year groups including how and where to access help.
The scheme is divided into 6 different themes or ‘puzzles’:

·  Being Me In My World

·  Celebrating Difference

·  Dreams and Goals

·  Healthy Me

·  Relationships

·  Changing Me
Jigsaw is a whole school approach, with all year groups working on the same theme at the same time.
Themes  or ‘puzzles’ are taught per half term and are designed to progress in sequence from the beginning of each academic year.
Each theme or ‘puzzle’ is well structured and progressive, with age and stage appropriate ‘pieces’ or lesson plans for the different year groups. Every lesson is built upon the 'Jigsaw Charter' which aligns to our whole school values and underpins the behaviour and respect that is expected in each lesson and indeed throughout school.

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Healthy Eating ~ British Nutrition Foundation

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This information provides parents, carers and guardians with advice and support relating to youth related sexual harassment and assault as part of our commitment to working in partnership to keep children and young people safe.

Recognising the importance of linking children's learning at school and among their friends into their life at home, it is recommended you speak to your son/daughter about sexual behaviour (within a similar age group) to help them understand when certain actions or comments could cause harm and could be seen as harassment/assault.

Education and awareness raising can prevent your child being involved in sexual offences as they grow up, either as an offender or as a victim.

Talking to them provides an opportunity for you to:

What is Teen Sexual Harm?
"Any behaviour of a sexual nature, between under 18s, of any gender, which causes harassment or assault to another child or group of children".
When referring to 'behaviour of a sexual nature', this can include a wide range of actions which can often be unintentional, mistaken or excused by young people as 'a bit of a joke' or 'banter', but their actions can have a huge effect on the those they target.

Typical behaviours can include but are not limited to:

As well as sexual or physical, other forms of abuse include, but not limited to:

simulating sexual acts

deliberately brushing against someone

interfering with someone's personal space and appropriate boundaries

displaying pictures, photo or videos of a sexual nature (pornography)

groping and inappropriate touching

forceful or aggressive sexual behaviour

Online sexual harassment

What are the risks to my child?

There are concerns nationally about an increase in sexualised behaviour and offences being committed among under 18s both in school and in their social life. The number of reported sexual offences by under 18s against other under 18s in England and Wales rose by 71% between 2013 and 2017, and the number of sexual offences on school premises also increased by 138% from 386 to 922 offences.

Therefore any child can be at risk of this kind of sexual harm; these can include:

Being a victim or offender

The risk to young people becoming a victim, or an offender is present in most of their social situations; from being in school or college, 'hanging out' or attending parties.

The risk of becoming an offender depends on the sexual behaviour towards their friends; having fun and being curious is a natural part of growing up, but it is important to know boundaries and the 'line' which shouldn't be crossed - being clear on when 'a bit of fun' could be degrading, offensive or upsetting for the person involved.

The risk of becoming a victim is often related to peer pressure, feeling that they 'have to go along with it' to stay part of the crowd, it's expected in a relationship or they have seen others doing the same and accept it as 'normal' and not say anything to challenge it.

Knowing what 'the line' is can be confusing and unclear for both/all young people involved, often lacking understanding or consideration about what it is harmful, inappropriate or the consequences it can have.

The situations and behaviours commonly associated to sexual offences which young people need to be aware of can include but are not limited to:

House/Prom parties/social media parties
Influence of alcohol/drugs affecting ability to consent
Peer/group pressure
Sexting/filming of act

Out socialising/parks/social clubs
In school/college/classroom
On public transport/travelling
Grabbing/groping/pinching
Sexual touching

Making inappropriate suggestions
Showing/sending sexual content
Sexual pestering - in person or online

Effects on Mental Health and Wellbeing

The impact sexual harm can have on a person's physical and mental wellbeing is huge. Victims often find themselves feeling isolated, lost, weak, scared, helpless and worthless, often leading to severe anxiety, depression, self-harm and in extreme cases suicide.

It is important that young people are aware that their behaviour can create an atmosphere that, if not challenged, can normalise inappropriate behaviours and provide an environment that may lead to sexual offending.

Teen sexual harm - if not addressed during teenage years, can be linked to adult offending such as domestic abuse, rape and other serious sexual offences.

What is the Law?

Police Investigation
In cases where teen sexual harm is reported the priority is to safeguard all young persons involved, above criminalisation, using a multi-agency response to educate and protect from further harm. Police will always seek to resolve reported cases without a formal sanction, which can impact a young person's future. However, in serious cases this may not be avoidable.

Charges and convictions
In cases where formal action is necessary, it is important young people know that being charged with an offence will result in having a criminal record which can impact their future, and this is also disclosable in a DBS vetting check, and can limit certain opportunities such as travel abroad, and working with children.

If the young person investigated is not charged, the crime will still be recorded and details will be held on police record, this is not a criminal record, however, young people need to know that enhanced levels of vetting may still disclose details of their involvement in a case to future employers or travel departments.

When should I be concerned?
It's normal for children and young people to display sexual behaviours as they grow up, but sometimes they may behave in ways inappropriate for their age and stage of development - this is referred to as 'Harmful Sexual Behaviour', which can take place at school, at home, at social events and online

In a recent report by NSPCC ("Is this sexual abuse?" NSPCC helplines report 2018), they mention contact from parents concerned about their child/another child displaying sexualised behaviour which they did not feel confident to decide was normal or harmful, and weren't sure of the best way to respond to it.

Parents will have to take a common sense approach to deciding this - is a young child just exploring or does an older child have an unhealthy attitude towards sex and relationships?

Below are some indicators and concerns which may assist you, but if you're unsure about your child's sexual behaviour, talk to the NSPCC, your child's teacher or a health professional for further advice.

In the same report, the NSPCC state that calls to their helpline were mostly about children U11 years - given younger children lack knowledge of sex and sexuality due to their age, this makes it more difficult for them and others to recognise sexual assault.

The most common behaviours reported to the NSPCC are:

using sexually explicit language inappropriate for their age

sexualised role-play/games

exposing private parts to other children

inappropriate sexual touching

simulating sexual acts

older children involving younger children to perform/watch sexual acts

creating and sharing sexually explicit images

Sexual assault, including rape.

When questioned, many children referred to another, often older, child they had spent time with, whose behaviour they said they were copying, or that the other child had encouraged them into sexual activities - not always having a clear understanding of why the actions are inappropriate.

For primary aged children, peer sexual assault was more likely to be a one-off incident taking place in school, for example being touched inappropriately by another child or seeing another child expose themselves in the changing rooms or toilets; in the playground; on school buses; and in classrooms.

Those who display harmful sexual behaviour may not recognise they're doing so, and those who experience it may realise it makes them feel unhappy or unsafe, but they aren't always clear about how to deal with it as often the person may be a friend; boyfriend or girlfriend; ex-partner; or another young person U18 not related to them.

This conflict is not helped by the confusion and misunderstanding caused by puberty as relationships and feelings change and can lead to offences and harm.

Older children report that they experience peer sexual assault at school over longer periods of time, as well as in public spaces, such as parks; at other young people's houses; at parties (alcohol); and online.

The most common complaints include:

Consent is a big issue relating to sexual assault - many young people say they are confused about consent, often worried about jeopardising their relationships if they don't agree to sex/sexual activity - some say there is an assumption that, consent is automatically given in a relationship.

Young people who have been sexually assaulted by a partner often talk about other types of abuse, such as emotional and physical abuse including behaviours which are controlling, manipulating, threatening, jealous, violent, aggressive, coercive and insulting.

It is important to ensure your child is aware of consent and what behaviour is healthy in a relationship - this can help them avoid being a victim or offender now or in their future.

What can I do as a parent?

It is crucial to discuss with children so they are aware of what is and is not acceptable behaviour - both in terms of being offender and/or victim.

We know it is not easy to discuss topics such as sexual harassment or sexual assault with your child, but there a numerous benefits of openly talking to them about this issue which include educating and empowering them to develop skills needed to make safe and responsible choices growing up. It is important that schools and colleges consider sexual harassment in broad terms. Sexual harassment (as set out earlier) creates an atmosphere that, if not challenged, can normalise inappropriate behaviours and provide an environment that may lead to sexual violence.

Talking provides an opportunity to help them understand what makes a safe and loving relationship, and to know what makes it unsafe and unhealthy. If no one helps them understand the difference, they will find it difficult to develop the skills to know if they are a victim or an offender.

Educate
When talking to your child about these issues, it is important to include information about risks, consequences, and the law (as provided in the above sections).

Reassure
It is so important your child knows you are always there to support them in life if ever they find themselves worried or pressured by anyone or any situation; this gives confidence when it's needed, to come to you at any time without fear of being judged, knowing they can confide in you and have your support in any risky or challenging situation.
For parents concerned about their child's sexualised behaviour
https://www.nspcc.org.uk/preventing-abuse/child-abuse-and-neglect/harmful-sexual-behaviour/signs-symptoms-effects/
Support Services

Hampshire PoliceTel: 101 for non-emergency assistance
If your child is in immediate danger call 999

Victim Support
Tel: 0845 30 30 900 8am - 8pm Mon-Fri; 9am - 7pm weekends; 9am - 5pm bank holidays

Share Aware: nspcc.org.uk/shareaware gives parents the skills and confidence to talk to their children about staying safe online.

: net-aware.org.uk is a guide to the social networks children use, giving parents advice about features like privacy settings, safety, and reporting problems.

The NSPCC website offers advice to parents about healthy sexual behaviour and talking about difficult topics. nspcc.org.uk/healthy-sexual-behaviour
nspcc.org.uk/talkingtips

Online and telephone support for young people on a variety of topics.

Radio One
Advice and information on a variety of topics for young people.

Services for young people

The Survivors Trust
Tel 0808 801 0818. (Mon-Thurs 10am-4pm & 6pm-8pm/Fri 10am-4pm)
The Survivors Trust (TST) is a UK-wide national umbrella agency for 130 specialist organisations for support for the impact of rape, sexual violence and childhood sexual abuse throughout the UK and Ireland.

Childline
Free confidential service for young people under 19, provided by NSPCC
Tel: 0800 11 11

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Cyberbullying can be one of the toughest types of bullying to cope with. Smartphones and other devices mean there is no escaping it and so it can continue to happen around the clock. Words and images are preserved online for others to see which can contribute to more people joining in on bullying.

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It's Not Okay - Parents (itsnotokay.co.uk)

Child exploitation can be hard to detect and abusers are very clever in their manipulation. Some young people won’t even be aware that it is happening to them.
Worried about your child? Lots of useful information, help and advice for parents and carers.

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It’s not okay for someone to make or manipulate you into doing sexual things for the benefit or enjoyment of others. Real stories from real victims It’s not okay for someone

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Helping gender-diverse children and young people, providing support, information and guidance for young people and their families.

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At Woodlesford, PSHE  and RSHE is taught through a  structured, comprehensive and developmental planned programme of teaching and learning,  that holds children at its heart, and supports and enhances their learning and development, respecting and taking into account pupils’ prior learning and experiences.
Our teaching reflects the needs shared by all our children and specific needs of pupils in our school. Teaching and learning activities are varied, engaging and mindful of different learning styles and the need for differentiation. Early Years  curriculum planning is aligned to the National Early Years Framework (England).
In addition to our PSHE lessons across classes, our weekly Key Stage assemblies further support and address our curriculum themes throughout the year.
We participate in and promote national events such as: Black History Month, Children's Mental Health and Mental Health Awareness Week, Anti-Bullying Week, BNF Healthy Eating week and Internet Safety Week.
There are also meaningful opportunities for cross-curricular learning, in particular with Computing for online safety, Design and Technology for healthy eating and nutrition, and Science for the human body, growth, teeth, diet and lifestyle, puberty and reproduction.

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An example of one of our Zone of Regulation Class emotional check in points.

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"We talk about our feelings and if you have a worry, it's good to share them. You can talk to a teacher, or a friend or you can put it in the Worry Box". (Year 4)

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'What is it like to attend this school?' 'Respect, kindness and perseverance are at the heart of the high-quality education that pupils who attend Woodlesford Primary School receive. Pupils exemplify their school values and can explain how these help them to behave well. Pupils are extremely proud of their school. They love coming to school and enjoy all aspects of school life. Pupils speak warmly about the staff in school. They know that adults are there to help them with their learning and to keep them safe. Pupils and staff demonstrate high levels of respect for each other. Staff talk about the pastoral, nurturing approach in school where ‘children are at the heart of everything’. Bullying and incidents of poor behaviour are rare. Pupils are confident that staff would deal with any issues that arise. Pupils talk confidently about the importance of equality and the celebration of difference. They understand tolerance. The balance between academic achievement and personal development means that pupils present as positive, polite, respectful and articulate members of the school community. Pupils enjoy the wide range of extra-curricular activities on offer.' (pg 2,Ofsted May 23)

'What does the school do well at...?'

'Leaders consistently promote the extensive personal development of pupils. They go beyond what is expected and provide pupils with a wide, varied set of experiences which are open to all. The personal, social, health and economic education curriculum is detailed and well sequenced. The curriculum starts in Nursery and builds on learning up to Year 6, in an age-appropriate way. Pupils learn about different families and healthy relationships. They have a well-developed awareness of how to keep themselves safe both physically and mentally. Pupils talk with enthusiasm about their leadership responsibilities, such as reading ambassadors, eco warriors and sport leaders.' (pg 3,Ofsted May 23)

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Ofsted Inspection report Woodlesford Primary  May 2023