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Based on your group’s scenario, take on the role of the friend of someone who is in an unhealthy relationship and discuss:

1. Is this relationship healthy or unhealthy? Why? (You may use the checklist given)

2. How do you think your friend is feeling in this relationship?  Should your friend end this relationship? Why?

3. Why might it be difficult for your friend to end the relationship? What could he or she do to end the relationship in a safe manner?  What are his or her other sources of help?

4. If your friend chooses to end this unhealthy relationship, what are some healthy ways to cope with the breakup?

5. As a friend, would you find it difficult to intervene? Why? What could you say or do to help?

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1. How does a respectful and healthy relationship sound like, feel like or look like?

2. How does one show respect for his or her partner in a healthy relationship?

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A healthy relationship is one where no one gets hurt, and that everyone happy. to show respect for partner is by knowing that "whatever you say or do is wrong, and the partner is always right"

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1. The relationship is unhealthy because the male is threatening to harm himself, and this puts pressure on the female to do what he says. He is too controlling over what she should do and forces her to stay with him through emotional blackmail.

2. She feels isolated and dejected because she cannot break away from the relationship and stay away from the partner.

3. It might be difficult because he is threatening to harm himself and she does not want him to harm himself.

She can arrange to speak with him face-to-face to address her troubles and worries. She can respectfully state her opinions but also be assertive. She can turn to trusted family and friends for advice or call a helpline.

4. She can not think about it too much and move on. She can not let herself get trapped in the grief by accepting that the relationship is over.

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Based on your group’s scenario, take on the role of the friend of someone who is in an unhealthy relationship and discuss:

1. Is this relationship healthy or unhealthy? Why? (You may use the checklist given)

2. How do you think your friend is feeling in this relationship?  Should your friend end this relationship? Why?

3. Why might it be difficult for your friend to end the relationship? What could he or she do to end the relationship in a safe manner?  What are his or her other sources of help?

4. If your friend chooses to end this unhealthy relationship, what are some healthy ways to cope with the breakup?

5. As a friend, would you find it difficult to intervene? Why? What could you say or do to help?

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1. It does not feel forced and you feel happy in the relationship

2. People respect each other in the relationship and allow each other to express themselves.

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1. Everyone feels comfortable with each other, and is happy to be around them, nobody is a burden

2. Don't overstep boundaries

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1. A respectful and healthy relationship is one with mutual understanding and with no conflicts. People should communicate with one another and empathise with others.

2. One can listen to his or her partner's opinion with respect and treat the other party how he or she would like to be treated. One should also be understanding in a relationship.

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1. happy and caring

2. show care

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a healthy relationship is one where both parties treat each other with equal care and respect

they show respect by understanding each others feelings and acknowledge them

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1. care and respect towards each other.

2. respect their choices and not be controlling

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1. Respecting each others opinions, listening to each other, setting clear boundaries and not trying to convince their partner to do something that may be out of their comfort zone.

2. Getting consent from their partner and not always trying to push blame to their partner

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1. happy

2. by hitting each other

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1. Everyone involved in the relationship feels respected and happy.

2. One can show respect by agreeing to disagree on some decisions but tries to make the most out of them

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1. Boundaries are known and respected, communication is clear between the two, opinions are heard

2. Listen to each other, dont control and restrict your partner too much, respect your partner's needs

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1. a healthy relationship is when there is mutual respect and care for the other party

2. they do not overstep the other person's boundaries and apologise when they make a mistake that hurt the other person

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Where everyone's opinions and thoughts are heard loud and clear and are taken into consideration.

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1. A respectful and healthy relationship is one where both parties feel comfortable being in. They show mutual respect and understanding towards each other, and would work together to resolve conflicts instead of merely avoiding each other.

2. One can show mutual respect for the other person through gestures such as offering words of support and encouragement when the other person is going through tough times. They should also agree to disagree to minimize conflicts.

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1. A healthy relationship is when both respect each other, talk openly, and feel safe being themselves. They support one another and handle conflicts calmly.

2. One can do so by being an active and empathetic listener, showing honesty, and respecting their partner's boundaries.

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1. Relationship with no tensions and no quarrels. It is also a relationship where no one is abused

1. Respecting each other, listening to each other

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1. A respectful and healthy relationship is where both parties respect each other and mutually understand each other.

2. They should show respect by not turning down each other's goals and dreams and also not forcing each other to do something that only they like.

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1. a relationship where both people respect and love each other, and support each other through all kinds of challenges

2. By not hurting them and respecting their boundaries

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1.good communication where either party puts in equal effort

2.by caring about their partners opinion and checking up on them whenever they seem down along with not withholding secrets from their partner

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1. A respectful and healthy relationship is when both parties respects the opinion of one another. They should feel respected and not obliged to do something they are uncomfortable with.

2. Listen to what the other party has to say to prevent misunderstandings, don't jump to conclusions and respect their opinions

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Respect and care for each other

everyone is comfortable and happy

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1.A respectful and healthy relationship is where both sides are nice to each other.

2.one can show respect by treating the partner nicely.

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1. The individuals in the relationship respect each other’s boundaries. There is mutual trust in the relationship and consideration of each other's thoughts and feelings. They both feel safe and cared for with their opinions being heard and no judgement.

2. They consider their partners feelings and opinions and do not push past their boundaries

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both sides views are heard and respected by the other

no one gets hurt/ feels forced

2. -respect boundaries/ choices

-respect and acknowledge each others feeling

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1. A respectful and healthy relationship is one where the both of them give each other privacy and personal space. They don't intrude on each other's privacy and are not possessive of each other. They allow each other to have friends which are of the opposite gender. Both of them feel safe with each other.

2. Allow each other to do what they want, as long as it does not hurt the relationship. Don't control or dictate their actions

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1. A respectful relationship should be one where both parties can trust each other to make the right decisions without the need for supervision of any form. It should also be the allowing of decisions unless intervention is absolutely necessary

2. A respectful relationship should include the following:

-Attention

-Acceptance

-Appreciation

-Affection

-Allowing

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1. when we both do not hurt each other feelings and make the other feel like an option

2. be understanding and loving

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1) partners support one another and give constructive criticism

2) do not disrespect the partner's opinion on sensitive topics, or choices they might take e.g. political views etc

instead acknowledge that they should be in control of their own actions

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1. It is where both parties support and respect each other, to set proper boundaries with each other and where both sides make effort to spend time with each other

2. Respect their individual beliefs and practices unless it is unreasonable and encourage them. Being nice to their friends and family will also indirectly show respect for the partner

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Based on your group’s scenario, take on the role of the friend of someone who is in an unhealthy relationship and discuss:

1. Is this relationship healthy or unhealthy? Why? (You may use the checklist given) refer to the jack and the beanstalk story

2. How do you think your friend is feeling in this relationship?  Should your friend end this relationship? Why?

3. Why might it be difficult for your friend to end the relationship? What could he or she do to end the relationship in a safe manner?  What are his or her other sources of help?

4. If your friend chooses to end this unhealthy relationship, what are some healthy ways to cope with the breakup?

5. As a friend, would you find it difficult to intervene? Why? What could you say or do to help?

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This relationship is unhealthy as there is abuse. He is also crossing boundaries and also very controlling.

Sad, depressed because she don't like the relationship.

she scared to leave him

go to China and never come back.

Ask parents for help or any other trustworthy people

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Based on your group’s scenario, take on the role of the friend of someone who is in an unhealthy relationship and discuss:

1. Is this relationship healthy or unhealthy? Why? (You may use the checklist given)

2. How do you think your friend is feeling in this relationship?  Should your friend end this relationship? Why?

3. Why might it be difficult for your friend to end the relationship? What could he or she do to end the relationship in a safe manner?  What are his or her other sources of help?

4. If your friend chooses to end this unhealthy relationship, what are some healthy ways to cope with the breakup?

5. As a friend, would you find it difficult to intervene? Why? What could you say or do to help?

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1. This relationship is not healthy. The girlfriend keeps on restricting her boyfriend when she should instead be supportive of her boyfriends decision.

2. I think he is conflicted because he likes his girlfriends but at the same time she is not giving the support that he need. She should end this relationship

3. He may have been with her for a long time and is too attached to her. They should break up face to face.

4. He can listen to music and exercise

5. yes cause its his personal relationship

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1. The relationship is unhealthy because the relationship with his girlfriend has been taking a toll on him physically and mentally.

2. We think that the friend should end the relationship because your partner is not supposed to drain you mentally and supposed to make you feel safe and healthy.

3. Because he might like the girl very much, and he might cherish the memories that he has with the girl. They might have also have a really close relationship before that.

4. Distract himself with hobbies, he can talk to a trusted adult such as his family members and friends.

5. Yes, because this is his relationship, it is rude to meddle with other people's affairs. One way I could help is I can give my advice and suggestions but do not force him to make decisions

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1. unhealthy because he got abused

2. he feel abused and unhappy because he was abused and he was forced to cut off from his friends

3. He will be abused even more. He should physical take revenge before ending the relationship to prevent her from telling her parents after relationship end. external physical training loactions

4. why would he be not happy to end this relationship

5. No. I wish to free him from the emotional restriction. I could provide him with external physical training to help him take revenge.

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1. the guy is taking advantage of her

2. sad because she is disrespected. yes she should end the relationship, because the relationship is unhealthy

3. her boyfriend is clingy and will not leave her alone, because he desires emotional connection. call the police to intervene if needed. Call for tinkerfriend.

4. she should be happy.

5. no, because her boyfriend is bad anyway. help her cut it off.

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1. Unhealthy

2. He feels discouraged and seems to have a low self-esteem. He should end this relationship as his girlfriend does not respect his decisions, empathise with him, and listen actively. Moreover, she seems to be controlling and is disrespecting his boundaries.

3. It might be difficult as he assumes that she knows what's best for him and he wishes not to hurt her. He could end the relationship in a safe manner by talking it out with her. He could approach friends whom he trusts/mutual friends to assist him as well.

4. He could cope by focusing on his interests.

5. Yes as it would be awkward meddling with his personal matters.

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1. It is unhealthy, the guy does not respect her and keeps going against her wishes. He also invalidates her emotions. He also disregards her safety.

2. She feels really invalidated. She's also scared to do anything against her boyfriend. She should end the relationship because it is unhealthy and can deeply affect her sense of self worth and mental health

3. She is probably reluctant to leave the guy since they formed a bond that she grew attached to. She could seek help from an adult for advice and protection. She could also report her partner to the police

4. pick up new hobbies to focus more on herself and get her mind off her partner. Talk to her friends about it for their comfort. Seek a therapist if needed

5. yes because i would feel unsafe and scared of doing or saying anything wrong

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no not healthy.

i think my friend is in a big dilemma

not yet. because the boyfriend has threatened to kill himself expressing his devotion to his gf.

because she still cares for him, and he doesn't want him to kill himself.

my friend could end the relationship by providing reassurance and convincing the boy into thinking breaking up may be the better option

some healthy ways to cope with the break up could be meditating and ascending into a higher life form.