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Gladys Muganda

Portfolio Assignment 6.2 – Healthy, Unhealthy, or Abusive Relationships

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Gladys Muganda

Portfolio Assignment 6.2 – Healthy, Unhealthy, or Abusive Relationships

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Step 1: Behavior Identification

1.           Abusive

2.           Abusive

3.           Abusive

4.           Toxic

5.           Healthy

6.           Abusive

7.           Toxic

8.           Abusive

Step 2: Reflection on Two Behaviors

1. Says you always need to have your location on so they know where you are, is Abusive

This is abusive to me because being in a relationship doesn’t mean giving up your personal freedom. If someone always needs to track where I am, that shows they don’t trust me, and that’s not healthy. It’s different if we’re checking in for safety or just to meet up, but demanding my location all the time feels more like control than care. A partner should believe me when I say where I am, not try to monitor me like I’m doing something wrong.

6. Wants you to have sex with them to prove your love is Abusive

This is a serious red flag. No one should feel pressured to have sex just to “prove” something. If someone truly loves you, they will respect your boundaries and understand your decisions. Using sex to test or guilt someone into proving love is manipulation. It’s not about love, it’s about control. Love and respect go hand in hand, and forcing or pushing someone into sex takes away both.

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Asset Map

1. Related coursework and jobs

a. Organic Biochemistry (labs and lectures)

b. Volunteered at a community health clinic in Kenya

2. Passions and interests

a. Women’s and children’s health

b. Advocating for immigrant and low-income families

3. Relevant experiences

a. Parenting a toddler while attending college full-time

b. Bellevue College support group

4. Clubs, organizations, sports

a. BC’s Umoja Club (Intend to join)

b. Involved in a church-based women’s fellowship group

5. Technical expertise/skills

a. Microsoft Office (Word, Excel, PowerPoint)

b. Research skills from academic writing and sociology projects

6. Personal background and culture

a. East African immigrant; fluent in Swahili and English

b. Strong cultural emphasis on community, respect for elders, and perseverance

7. Creative expression

a. Writes personal reflections and faith-based poetry

b. Enjoys making visual presentations with thoughtful design elements

8. Team and project skills

a. Strong at active listening and making others feel heard in group work

b. Can manage deadlines and keep tasks organized (especially under pressure)

Three growth areas

1.           Evidence-based writing with stronger citations

2.           Becoming more confident in speaking up in group discussions

3.           Developing better time management to balance parenting and studies

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1. Related coursework and jobs

a. Organic Biochemistry (labs and lectures)

b. Volunteered at a community health clinic in Kenya

2. Passions and interests

a. Women’s and children’s health

b. Advocating for immigrant and low-income families

3. Relevant experiences

a. Parenting a toddler while attending college full-time

b. Bellevue College support group

4. Clubs, organizations, sports

a. BC’s Umoja Club (Intend to join)

b. Involved in a church-based women’s fellowship group

5. Technical expertise/skills

a. Microsoft Office (Word, Excel, PowerPoint)

b. Research skills from academic writing and sociology projects

6. Personal background and culture

a. East African immigrant; fluent in Swahili and English

b. Strong cultural emphasis on community, respect for elders, and perseverance

7. Creative expression

a. Writes personal reflections and faith-based poetry

b. Enjoys making visual presentations with thoughtful design elements

8. Team and project skills

a. Strong at active listening and making others feel heard in group work

b. Can manage deadlines and keep tasks organized (especially under pressure)

Three growth areas

1.           Evidence-based writing with stronger citations

2.           Becoming more confident in speaking up in group discussions

3.           Developing better time management to balance parenting and studies

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PA 6.2 HR | Red Flags: Healthy, Toxic, or Abusive Relationships

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PA 6.2 HR | Red Flags: Healthy, Toxic, or Abusive Relationships

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1. Says you always need to have your location on so they know where you are:

Healthy

Toxic

Abusive

I chose Healthy because I believe that there shouldn't be anything to hide. In my own family sometimes I get home and nobodies around so I check to see where they are. I don't think there is a valid reason where you would need to hide from your partner if you truly loved and cared for one another.

2. Tells you what you can and cannot post on social media:

Healthy

Toxic

Abusive

3. Demands access to your social media or passwords:

Healthy

Toxic

Abusive

4. Tells you they don’t like your best friend and they want you to see them less:

Healthy

Toxic

Abusive

5. Says they need “alone time”:

Healthy

Toxic

Abusive

6. Wants you to have sex with them to show your love:

Healthy

Toxic

Abusive

7. Tells you no one will ever love you the way they do:

Healthy

Toxic

Abusive

8. Slaps you during an argument:

Healthy

Toxic

Abusive

I chose Abusive because in an argument it should be respectable and doesn't require the need of any violence whatsoever. So I think it's abusive to feel the need to slap somebody in an argument. However, this can vary depending on what the argument is about.

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Reflection Questions:

1. I have the strongest connection with my status as the youngest child and it's very stable as i don't think I'll get another sibling. Mostly I feel connected with it while being with my family who I spend a lot of time with.

2. I draw strength and pride from my ethnicity as I have something I could stand for and identify with.

3. I would like to learn more about my religion as I don't know as much as I could.

4. My experience with socialization relates to my religion and ethnicity as I feel more connected with those similar to me and those are the most easily seen things.

5. Sometimes my body type makes me feel vulnerable but I'm trying to change that.

6. My hobbies should've been an identity category since they are an integral part of myself.

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OPTION 1:

Here’s a simple and delicious recipe for pan-seared pork chops:

### Pan-Seared Pork Chops

#### Ingredients:

- 2 bone-in or boneless pork chops (about 1 inch thick)

- Salt and pepper

- 1 tablespoon olive oil

- 1 tablespoon butter

- 2 cloves garlic, minced

- Fresh herbs (like thyme or rosemary), optional

- Lemon wedges, for serving

#### Instructions:

1. Prepare the Pork Chops:

- Take the pork chops out of the fridge and let them sit at room temperature for about 30 minutes. This helps them cook evenly.

- Pat the chops dry with paper towels and season generously with salt and pepper on both sides.

2. Heat the Pan:

- In a large skillet, heat the olive oil over medium-high heat until it shimmers.

3. Sear the Chops:

- Add the pork chops to the skillet. Don’t overcrowd the pan; cook in batches if necessary.

- Sear for about 4-5 minutes without moving them, until a nice golden-brown crust forms.

- Flip the chops and add the butter and minced garlic to the pan. If using herbs, add them now.

4. Baste and Finish Cooking:

- As the second side cooks (another 4-5 minutes), spoon the melted butter and garlic over the chops to baste them.

- Cook until the internal temperature reaches 145°F (63°C). Use a meat thermometer for accuracy.

5. Rest and Serve:

- Remove the chops from the skillet and let them rest for about 5 minutes before serving.

- Serve with lemon wedges and your favorite sides.

### Tips:

- For added flavor, marinate the chops in your favorite marinade for a few hours before cooking.

- Serve with roasted vegetables, mashed potatoes, or a fresh salad.

Enjoy your delicious pork chops!

OPTION 3:

A student uses Chat GPT to contribute to a Canvas discussion about the class’s weekly reading assignments.

In my opinion this isn't ethical as it simply just isn't their won work. Using Chat GPT to contribute to a Canvas discussion may save maybe 10 minutes of time but it just isn't worth the risk of getting caught. Canvas discussion require much less effort than most assignments so there is little reason I would think to use Chat GPT to complete them.

Reflection Questions:

1. My thoughts haven't changed because I think the uses of Chat GPT should only be to help yourself and others and not to cheat to get ahead of others.

2. Colleges should restrict the use of Chat GPT only using it to make creative assignments and make sure it can't be used to complete assignments.

3. I wouldn't think I would use Chat GPT in my classes, but just like googling stuff in general it would be to figure out a question.

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-I have seen that it works and that the result is achieved more easily.

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-I have seen that it works and that the result is achieved more easily.

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-Chatgpt should be encouraged to be used at maximum capacity with the help of more effective and better asked questions.

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GRP Conflict Style Assessment & Reflections-done

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here is my schedule!
As you can see my day is made up by homework and swim team practice. As the season ends my schedule will change but this is it for now!

1. How much mental rest time are you giving yourself?

I am giving myself around 2-3 hours of rest time

1. Do you have time for all of the things you like doing?

No, I need to work on balancing my studies and hobbies.

1. Do you have enough time to work on all of your classes?

Yes I have time to finish my assignments.

1. Will school or other obligations compromise how much time you can commit to self-care?  Which areas of self-care can you not afford to compromise?

I compromise self care a lot due to swim competitions, band performances, and etc. But I will not sacrifice Bible time, worship time, or a good hot shower haha.

1. Does this schedule feature some activities that you will engage in every week this quarter?  Does it feature some activities that you will not engage in every week this quarter?  Does it represent a "typical" week?

The class schedule is accurate for the week. The competition schedule is also the same. The football games are every OTHER week, but this is basically my daily schedule.

1. How may self-care contribute to your success as a student?

Balance is key, if I don't send time doing my hobbies or relaxing, I am tired before I even start the work I have to get done.