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If we are asked to wait to assess each other before getting married, is there any guideline for how long the wait should be. Can it be a few years?

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What happens if someone marries a divorced person? Is there then no more chance for reconciliation?

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What about polygamous relationships where the man as multiple wives?why were the early fathers (e.g Abraham,jacob) allowed to have multiple wives even though God doesnt approve of it.

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how do we forgive our partner? is there a process or steps we can go about it?

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The first session you mentioned that cornerstone does not solemnize for people that divorced before. Could I know why? Aren’t we all forgiven by God and have a second chance?

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What if somebody walked out of an abusive marriage, is that individual not welcomed to find love again? (With regards to Luke 16-18)

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I like the ice cream stick example - how both parties are never the same after splitting up. How do you fix the rough surfaces then? Are both parties irreversibly damaged?

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If my parents are imposing their views on me and my spouse, how do you recommend we let practice the leave and cleave while ensuring that we do it on an honorable way?

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In view of the concept of leave and cleave, do you suggest that married couple should live in a separate house from their parents?

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While marriage is a covenant, how far should we practise this in courtship i.e. to be loving and giving to the other party, or can courtship be assessed as a contract?

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Boaz mentioned that we shouldn’t rush into marriage if any doubt. However, will delay of marriage help? No one is perfect and even if your partner seems perfect now might still not be so in the future and vice versa.

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How do we maintain the relationship as husband and wife (perhaps as close to what the relationship is now in courtship) as more commitments like bills/loans, children etc come along?

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If there are aspects of our partner we don’t like (habits, etc), how should we handle it?

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Are the questions to examine ourselves the same as the questions to examine our partner in this process of preparing for marriage?

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Is the ice cream stick a type for oneness?

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Comparison is one of the main causes that cause a relationship to fail... With the temptations around the world and the zeal to be successful, how does one overcome this later on in life and marriage?

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Kindly elaborate more how too much physical contact early on in the courtship affects emotional intimacy later on in the marriage?