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When I first got to kindergarten, a 4 y'o boy can't seem to speak like his other classmates. I noticed he likes to suck his finger in his mouth, during the class, when he sleeps, watching tv.... almost all of the time

Recently, as the intensity went down, he speaks a bit and a bit these few days!!!

p.s. his mother actually considered bringing him to speech therapy

Glad that he is improving slowly!!!!

Shannee

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in my experience, we’re like kinda in kindergarten at this point right? i remember like my friend and i, he was a guy and we for some reason showed each other our underwear 😹 i think we were just curious lads back then ~~ also pls dont shame me HAHAH I WAS 6

not like the underwear it self, like pulled our pants down🤔

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in my opinion, i dont like these complexes,, i think like concerning the whole oedipus, it became quite like a big subject on tiktok at one point about how guys have crushes on their moms (weird lah) when i see it, i just feel like they want to be more like their dad?? not necessarily an attraction to their mom.. or maybe i just don’t wanna believe such complex exists 🤔

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s - i feel like during this stage, there are a lot of people who have ‘unsatisfactory relationships’ - especially those who are starting to mature and they want to gain something from a relationship with another person, but sometimes when their needs or wants aren’t met, it feels ‘unsatisfactory’ to them. the way i interpret it, i’ve seen people who get into relationships with others, and expect their person to meet all of their expectations, but once they don’t, they just feel upset. an example of this would be when one of my guy friends dated someone who was quite younger than him and expected her to understand all his problems and be a ‘perfect girlfriend’, and yet got disappointed when she couldn’t provide his needs.. i mean she’s rlly young so i would’ve thought he expected that haha. i believe this may be because people grow ‘expectations’ or dreams about how they want someone to be. but yea, that’s how i interpret it. (i dunno if this makes sense huhu)

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I believe that boys will look for partner which posses similar traits that his mother posses, and girls will look for partner similar to her dad. But not to the extent of .... mentioned.

I don't doubt exceptional cases, but generally, I don't agree that much

Shanneeeee

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I never understood this because i believe a son doesnt really look at his mother this way because she gave birth to him and he respects her and i dont think any sexual attraction could arise from it.

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I've seen perfectionist children too. When they aren't satisfied with the neatness or their desires, the emotional breakdown can be extremely crazy.
But once they got well organised, they are just lovely again.

IDK if this is it LOLLL

Shannee again

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At this age i think its hard to have feelings because we are more pre occupied with having fun and enjoying our hobbies so we dont really take account any sexual feelings. The only thing i remember when i was 8 or 9 was playing around and having fun

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i’ve seen one instance where a girl was like still young yah so maybe no common sense yet, and she was crying because she didn’t have a pp like her i think dad? and it was quite funny honestly, but the whole sexual aspect of electra complex is so out of line haha 😭 but idk personally i don’t have any experiences of feeling pp envy

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For me, the only thing that I remember at this stage is only having fun and discovering new things so I think that it’s hard to relate sexual feelings with it.

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i do believe that girls and boys tend to usually look up to the same sex parents when it comes to ‘resolving their conflicts’ or just their experiences. although, it’s quite strange when it was mentioned that boys have a certain ‘attraction’ to their moms. i think it’s more of the way that boys want to be like their dad’s because they see how their mom really love their dad’s, and they want to get the same love maybe??

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i remember most of this stage in my life i was just having fun and exploring hobbies and such-don’t really remember having any ‘sexual feelings’.

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During the earlier times of this stage i feel like boys and girls start to develop crushes and like small relationships because of society but in the most part these relationships stat to fall very easily because they arent in love with the person but they are in love with the idea of that relationship which is why many of them fail. People also get into them for the sake of it or because its what others do without being self aware of themselves and loving themselves. However i feel later on in the genital stage once people understand themselves and what kind of partner theyre looking for  and what kind of person they are then they can be happy

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the complexes sound a bit extreme and the way it was explained is a bit concerning,, i genuinely don’t believe kids think this way? kids might look up to their parents as role models but not in the way freud has mentioned

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in my opinion, i dont agree on this. cuz if this is true then there wont be someone called 'mummy boy'. and how come mummy boy will look for a girlfriend if he has the mindset on 'having sex with his mom'. ??
from what i think, as a child, he just respect and love his mom cuz his mom gave birth to him.