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Dear Future Me,

I want all the best for you, not a mere survival of those who have little or nothing, but a real existence, living the life that we used to imagine. I type at a time when we are still in the process of decoding but have already learned to hold on to that which makes us feel good.

At this point, I enjoy video games. It is something about watching a world go by, solving mysteries, and getting a level higher that just resonates with me. I hope you can find time to play even in between meetings, business calls, or even on your own private jet (I guess one can wish and hope, right?). Seriously though, don't forget to enjoy. Revisit those instances that gave us a chance to reset and recharge.

I hope you are still playing football. The game, the rush, and the competition are always keeping me level and making me feel alive. Life has probably thrown you so far away already that you no longer have any afternoon games with your friends, but you have used other means to make yourself still move, to still have the same burning fire.

And quite naturally, the people. We now need our friends a lot. They are not only company; they are family. I would like to think that you have always had good people around you regardless of your successes. I hope that you did not get too wealthy to laugh at stupid jokes, to talk at midnight to shed light on things, or just hang out like everything is the same.

Talking of wealthy I trust you got it. May you be richer than we ever dared to dream, not only in money (although I cannot deny that I am envisioning mansions of a few kinds), but also in meaningfulness, contentment, and leisure. Time to spend on what you like. It is time to pay back. Time to spend. And as far as building a life we have always wanted, it should not be one that looks good; it is being good.

Whatever you are, wherever you are, I am proud of you. I want you to be proud of me, too, for having been ambitious, for keeping my feet on the ground, and at no stage abandoning my belief in your possibility of doing something noble.

In the end there are only 2 people you have to make proud in life: the child who dreamed and the elder who lived. Both of them are watching. Keep going, and when sometimes you lose your way in this world, read this again.

With all my belief,

Your former self

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Infancy 0-1 Years old - Trust Vs Mistrust

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Infancy 0-1 Years old - Trust Vs Mistrust

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When I was a baby I recall being cared for by my parents very dearly.

It was during this time I learned that when I was hungry there would be someone there to feed me.

It was also during this stage where I developed my resentment for vegetables.

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Toddler years 1-3 Years old - Autonomy vs Shame and Doubt

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Toddler years 1-3 Years old - Autonomy vs Shame and Doubt

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During these years, I was learning to walk on my own for the first time, eat by myself, and actually talk with short sentences.

Insisted on choosing certain clothes.

Started potty training as a way of practicing my independence.

Met some of my best friends who have been my friends for 14 years now.

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Preschool years 3-5 years old - Initiative vs Guilt

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Preschool years 3-5 years old - Initiative vs Guilt

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During this time I was playing pretend, like as a superhero, and also acting like my dad.

I drew stuff, wrote extremely short stories, and proudly showed it off to others like my parents.

I even tried out new activities like golfing in the photo, even though I was pretty bad at it.

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Elementary school years 6-12 years old - Industry vs Inferiority

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Elementary school years 6-12 years old - Industry vs Inferiority

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During these years was when I grew interested in travelling the world, flying to other countries several times in a year.

I joined football clubs in Hong Kong and played for my school.

But most importantly was when I made long-term friends here at AdDU.

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Adolesence 13-18 years old - Identity vs Role Confusion

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Adolesence 13-18 years old - Identity vs Role Confusion

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Entering Senior High School and adjusting to all the new responsibilities and challenges.

I explored hobbies like football, however I primarily enjoy playing video games.

I contemplated on my future, such as what course am I going to take in college? Where am I even going to go to college?

But in the end, these experiences shaped who I was, and who I am going to be.

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WW1 2nd Grading - Mental Health and Well Being Plan

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WW1 2nd Grading - Mental Health and Well Being Plan

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Orange and Cream Illustrative Mental Health Poster

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PT1 2nd Grading - Career Plan and roadmap

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PT1 2nd Grading - Career Plan and roadmap

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Objective: To become a successful Chief Financial Officer (CFO) of a major company, like my father, and use my skills in finance, leadership, and strategy to guide organizations toward growth and stability.

Step 1: Senior High School (2025-2026)

Continue studying under the ABM strand at Ateneo de Davao University to build a strong foundation in accounting, business, and management. Participate in school organizations and leadership roles to develop confidence and discipline.

Step 2: College Education (2026-2030)

Pursue a Bachelor of Science in Accountancy or Financial Management at a reputable university. Focus on courses in corporate finance, taxation, and economics while joining finance-related student organizations.

Step 3: Professional Certification (2030-2032)

Pursue a Master's in Business Administration (MBA) to gain advanced knowledge in finance and leadership.

Step 4: Early Career - Financial Analyst (2032-2036)

Work as a financial analyst or junior accountant to apply classroom knowledge to real-world situations. Gain experience in budgeting, auditing, and financial reporting while learning from mentors in the finance field.

Step 5: Career Growth - Finance Manager (2037-2040)

Advance to a Finance Manager or Controller position. Lead small teams, handle financial planning and strategy, and continue developing strong leadership and analytical skills.

Step 6: Career Goal - Chief Financial Officer (2041 onward)

Achieve the position of CFO or Vice President of Finance in a major company. Oversee financial operations, ensure long-term stability, and guide the organization toward sustainable success, just like my father.

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1. Personal Development was quite useful, as it made me think about my strengths, weaknesses, and personal objectives. It made me realize how I was raised and my experiences as well as my relationships to become who I am today. By means of self-assessment exercises and activities, I realized my values, motivations, and aspects that I should work on. All in all, the topic has enabled me to become more familiar with myself and reflect on my future ways of development.

2. Among the lessons learned is the need to know oneself in order to reach personal growth. I also got to know the effects of family background, experiences, and relationships on behavior and decision-making. The other valuable lesson was learning the various stages of personal development and the fact that each stage is accompanied by its own challenges and opportunities. Such lessons will ensure that I live with more confidence and am able to establish a stronger bond with other people.

3. My top preferences were Family Structures and Legacies and Developmental Stages of Middle and Late Adolescents. I enjoyed Family Structures and Legacies due to the fact that it made me realize how family shapes personality, values, and life decisions. I also liked Developmental Stages of Adolescents since it provided me with the understanding of the challenges and developmental experiences one can experience during adolescence, which made me think about my personal development. The two subjects offered useful information regarding myself and other people.