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The effects of the high expectations that parents put on their children are being preasured stressed and frustrated .Girls byJamica Kincaid  was being told that in the furture she will turn out as a slut if she dosen't try . The evidence supports my claim because she being preasured to good and not turn out like her mom. Then her mom tells her ''you need to know how to do bread pudding, this is how to make pepper pot , this is how you make doukonn . So the mom is telling her she should know how to cook ,set up the table and do more.

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I believe that us kids owe your parents same thing that makes your parents happy. In the text it stats you want me to help me change my life? Mom asked im fine you are the one that needs help .your values are all cunfused. This shows that her mom was happy even if she did not help her change her life another quote that jeanntte walls stats im worried about you i said tell me what i can do to help you.

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Children owe a lot to their parents because, parents have done a lot for them.For example they work hard to give them a place to live in they give them food and most of the things they need.I believe that that children should not be emberessed of their perents like the daughter

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If one is trying to keep love alive,then the girlfriend and boyfriend  need to have the same love towards each other. In the poem it says"some mornings I'd start kissing her goodbye but she'd just leave cause I was making her late to work". This supports my claim because they din't have the same love towards each other.

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When you want to keep the love alive , you have to be caring about each other. Another thing is if u want to keep the love alive , you have to love each other for who they are. In this poem on O.C.D the author said " the first time I saw her , evrything in my head went quiet ." This quote means that when he first saw her , he fall in love with her for who she was and how they was she acted.

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After being in love,one person keeps the love alive by trying to make a person love them in return. On the poem O.C.D by Neil Hilborn ,The author states that ,"

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Children owe their parents respect,love, and support. In the text  "Excpert from the Glass castle, a memoir" by Jeannette Walls it says "I was overcome with panic she'd see me and call out my name, snd that someone to the party would spot us together mom ould introduce herself and my secret would be out." This means that se doesn't support her or respect she is embarrased about people seeing her with her mom. Instead of saying hi to her mom she avoided her and left. Later on she says "Im wortied about you" that means that she felt bad and now she is showing respect and showing her love. She slso tell her "what can I do to help" she is tring to support her by giving her mom money. Children should respect, love, and support their parents

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When people seek for love, they seek for safety because they don't have to worry about something bad happening to them. In the poem "O.C.D" by Neil Hilborn the author states"  When we moved in together, she said she felt safe, like no one would ever rob us because I definitely locked the door eighteen times.” This means that the author’s love felt secure that she was with him because he close the door many times. This proves that one thing that

people seek for love is the feeling of protection, because it shows that the author, Neil Hilborn close the door 18 times therefore having his love feeling safe. Many people believe no one cares about being safe in a relationship. However the truth is everyone should feel secure because something bad could happen and they may regret it.

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When a person is in love, they keep it alive by consistently supporting the other person. One quote from the text "O.C.D" that supports my claim is "Some mornings I'd start kissing her goodbye but she'd just leave cause I was just making her late for work." This is an example of how he was always there for her  even if she thought he did it too much. Furthermore, the boyfriend loved her so much and wanted to be with her for a long time, so he could keep the love between them alive. Another quote from "O.C.D" is "Now I just think about who else is kissing her. I cant breathe because he only kisses her once-he doesnt care if its perfect. I want her back so bad." The author felt jealous because she left him and he wasnt able to keep the love alive.

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Since most parents accept who their children are, children should do the same and accept who their parents are. This is true because some parents don't want to be judged by their kids. In the text “The Glass Castle” by Jeannette Walls it states “ Your father and I are who we are. Accept it” This means that the mother is telling her daughter to deal with her mother and father's actions and just embrace who they are. This proves that something that children owe their parents is to accept them for who they are because they don't want to change, like how the daughter’s parents are in a situation where they don't want to live differently  however, the daughter does. Many people believe that the only thing that children owe their parents is love. However, love is not the only thing children owe their parents, children also owe is acceptance.

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In a relationship, what people seek out of it is the other person's love. In the text O.C.D. the author Neil Hilborn quotes "she loved that I had kissed her sixteen or twenty four times." He also always says that she is the best thing that ever happened to him. These quotes help my evidence and claim because they both show their love to one another.

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The effect on the high expectations that parants place on their children is steriotype because people may judge you on what gender you are. According to the passage "Girl" by Jamacia Kincaid it states " wash the white clothes on Monday and put them on stone heap; wash the color clothes on Tuesday and put them on clothesline to dry" this indicates that just because u are a female you are expected to wash and house keep. In addition the passage also states " dont squad down to play with marbles-you are not a boy" This indicates that just because you are a female you cant do all the things guys can. This is proving that just because you are a female you will be expected to do different things from guys and wont be able to do all the things they can. The effect on high expectations on their children is steriotype because people may judge you by you gender.

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I think that we owe our parents money because our parents work very hard to have money and to buy their kid stuff that thry need and want. Somethimes things go wrong when kids want more and more stuff. They tend to ask for expensive things with more luxury that costs more money. Parents will use most of their money on the kid to keep the kid happy.

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After being in love, one keeps love alive by trying to make the other person love them in return. In the poem by O.C.D by Neil Hilborn, the author states that "She loved that I had to kiss her goodbye sixteen times or twenty-four time...". This shows that the girl loves it when the guy shows love by kissing her. By doing this it helps to keep love alive between the two of them. Someone might do something different to show love but it is always good for the other person to show love as well. This way, both can live happily for as long as they show love.

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When seeking for love, people hope to find someone with common interest . They hope to find a life partner. In the poem Ocd by Neil Hilborn, the author says "She was the first beautiful thing i got stuck on." That proves that he had found a common interest with her and wanted to be with her forever. This qoute means that Hilborn was stuck on her. She was the first thing he got stuck on, and we was in love with her. But she just wasnt as in love with him, and in the end she left. The qoute proves that common intrest in a realtioship is needed to surive, the realtionship didnt surive because she had no common intrest with him she only licked his ticks but she later got annoyed of them.

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Because they want the best for their children, some effects of high expectations that parents place on their children come from chores and having good manners. In the peom "Girl" by Jamaica Kincaid states," This is how you sweep a corner; this is how you sweep the whole house; this is how you sweep the yard." This evidence proves my claim because it's teaching the daughter how to sweep the whole house and keeping the house clean. The author states, " This is how you iron your father's khaki shirt so that it doesn't have a crease; this is how you iron your father khaki pants so that they don't have a crease."

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If one wants to keep love alive, they put the same amount of effort and attention into the person because they want it to
last. In the poem "O.C.D" by Neil Hilborn he says " love is not a mistake, and it's killing me that she can run away from this and i just can't ." This means he was still doing everything he could to keep the love alive meanwhile she just walked away like nothing was ever there. This quote means that he still continued to do the same things he continued to give her the same love and attention but it just wasn't enough for her. She didn't wait for him at first she would find everything he did nice and she would be okay with it but when she couldnt take it anymore she stopped putting the effort she left.

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When people are in love, they seek passion and for the other person to understand them. In the poem, "O.C.D" by Niel Hilborn, the author states,"She loved that I had to kiss her goodbye sixteen or twenty-four times if it was a Wednesday." This quote explains how the girl understood his illness and accpted him for who he was. This quote proves my claim because it emphasizes on how the author shows his OCD to the girl he has fallen in love with and she accepts him. This goes back to my claim as I stated that people seek passion and understanding from love. She shows understanding by accepting his illness and he gives her passion by loving her so much. The poem "O.C.D" by Niel Hilborn also states,"...when she said she loved me, her mouth curled up at the edges." This quote explains that at the time, she truly loved him. The quote shows her giving him love and passion. In their relationship what was needed was passion and understanding and for awhile it worked but she began to distance herself and the passion was lost. She refused to understand anymore of him and she eventually broke up with him. If in a relationship, the passion, love, and understanding is lost, the relationship will fall.

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Because people seem to fall in love so frequently, the key to a good relationship is communication and happiness. In the poem "O.C.D" by Neil Hilborn he states, "She loved that I had  to kiss her goodbye sixteen timesor twenty four times if it was a Wednesday." This shows that they are so deeply in love which means they are happy and want to be with each other for as long as they can. Hilborn also states ,"When she said she loved me, her mouth would curl up at the edges." This proves that he pays attention and appreciates the little things she does. To sum it all up ,when people seek to find love they have to be willing to do everything for that person ,because "like" and "love" are two very distant words.

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Although we are only children, parents have high expectations for their kids. They expect them to do well in anything because soon enough they will have lives of their own, and they should know everything like the back of their hand. In "Girl" by Jamaica Kincaid the author states, "Dont squat down to play marbles--you are not a boy , you know." This quote means that the mother knows the "rules" as a woman or female and is trying to teach her daughter each and every simple thing that will be useful for her in the future. According to the mother, a lady is usually doing chores at home, cooking, chewing respectfully, not talking to boys, etc. 'Til this day the expectations remain the same for women, along with men.

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When people are in love, they want their relationship to last as long as it can. In the poem "O.C.D" by Neil Hilborn he states that "... I leave the door unlocked   I leave the lights on." This proves that Neil wanted their love to last for a long time, since they broke up he leaves the door unlocked because he believes she's going to come back. In addition, in the poem "O.C.D" by Neil Hilborn he states that "When we moved in together, she said she felt safe, like no one would rob us."  This expresses the idea that people in relationships want to endeavor their love by lasting as long as possible, since they moved in together he believes that she wasn't going to leave and that she was going to stay as long as possible. But once he saw that moving together was the right thing because she felt safe he thought that made the opportunity for them to last. To sum it all up, when people are in love, they want their relationship to last as long as it can.

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Because parents are the ones that teach children how to truly behave, children owe their parents for all of the advice that parents offer. In the poem entitled "Girl" by Jamaica Kincaid, Kincaid writes, "this is how you sweep a whole house; this is how you sweep a yard; this is how you smile to someone you don’t like too much." This is an example of how a parent offers a child advise for how to behave at home and around others. The poem is proof that parents, regardless of what we wish to believe, are always trying to do what they think is best for their children, even if the child views it as incorrect.

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The high expectations that they place on their children are how to do things the way right and it can help them in life.Out of many quote this is one that will help me support my claim"wash the white clothes on monday and put them on tueday and put them on the clothesline to dry".my evidnce proves my claim because in the claim us telling you what expectations do your parents place on their chidren.this is one of the evidence that i could find."this is how you iron your father's khak;pants so that they don't have a crease."

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If anything we as children owe our parents is happiness and what they want in life. In the article titled "Except from the Glass Castle" by Jeannette Wall the author states "You want to help me change my life?" Mom asked "I'm fine you're the one who needs help. Your values are all confused." This means that Jeannette is trying to change her parents but her parents dont want to change. This proves that that we owe our parents happiness and we should be with them in any decisions they make in their life. We should accept them for who they are and the way they think and not try to change our parents decisions. Many people believe that we dont owe our parents anything. However the truth is that we do owe something to our parents.