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My daughter is dating a man more than twice her age. 

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My daughter is dating a man more than twice her age. 

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By Maria Fernanda Diaz

My dear, father:

It must be traumatic for you, I can understand your feelings but you should analyze the reasons behind your daughter’s behaviors. Have you thought about the effect that your divorce has had in her life? It could have been caused by your absence.

Lacking of love, protection or attention might be consequences of this conduct. All would have been different, if you had spent quality time together. Nevertheless, it is not  time to cry over spilt milk,  it is time to move forward and do what is needed to be done. You should deal with this as soon as possible and I would suggest you to have a serious conversation with her and evaluate the pros and cons of this relationship.

One of these cons is that your daughter is destroying a family and she must be fully aware of that. She might be causing sadness and pain to her boyfriend’s family, which is very regrettable. You must make her understand how this relationship can affect the children’s lives reminding her your ex-wife infidelity.

Additionally, she could be judged by society and it would be very painful for her. The divorce can provoke feelings of melancholy, hopelessness, anger or disaffection in their lives and she should not disown it, even for an instant.

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My family is great, but I feel as though I have no real friends.

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My family is great, but I feel as though I have no real friends.

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By Angie Lindsay Davis Pérez

I would like to share with you my opinion.

If you can improve something, do it in your personal life in your role as a woman, leaving aside the position of mother and wife. You should have devoted more time to yourself getting interested in others activities such as: sports, games, arts; that are not specifically about home or work, which may be the reason for your stress. I will give you some details of a specific topic. You should go to a gym; at this place you can meet people and make new friends you would have a training routine that could calm your anxiety and even improve your health. I guarantee you that by frequenting this place you shall overcome your problem and might feel better.

To all women who have multiple occupations!. You ought to work less at home and take the initiative to have a moment of fun and entertainment.  In this way you do not have to wait for your children being older, nor will your social life be over.

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I have a serious crush on my teacher – should I tell her? 

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I have a serious crush on my teacher – should I tell her? 

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By Leidy Julieth Cuartas Peña

Dear, confused

Shall we talk a little bit more about on Motivation, at this age is very normal that students may have feelings towards your teacher at school. It does not mean you are truly in love with him/her. Emotions at this age would play an important role in the adolescent.

Adolescents tend to be passionate about everything, the what you should do instead of tell him/her it is to admire, learn about him/her and get the difference she or he is making in your life.

Besides, another important point is that teachers and students must not establish a love relationship; this is part of their professional ethics. Maybe what you feel about her might be admiration, or perhaps she may remember you, your mother or another special person in your life.

Basically, you should not tell her anything about your ardent feelings for her, because it could complicate things at school. You are still very young and the laws back you.

So, you have got to forget about that idea and transform your feelings for her; besides you are beginning your sexual stage as a teenager and that could confuse your feelings.

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My father is a womaniser. I’m terrified I’ll become one, too?

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My father is a womaniser. I’m terrified I’ll become one, too?

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By Kelly Johhana Sandoval

I would like to share my opinion with you writing:

Being able to relate is one of the most pleasant ways to fall in love and share since you can meet friends, you are young and romantic and that is a quality that makes you unique.

You must go explore that is the only way to cook true love is something that is reversed, not something that keeps it in a grip as a vice and not released are different things; you'll be happy to go out and explore.

Remember dear, you are 22 years old and you need to investigate a little before hitting the person who will be worthwhile to continue in sickness and health, giving up all others, and with which you can share daily.

On the contrary as your father, uncle, grandfather and great-grandfather did, making comments against women is a form of disrespect and it is to be praised that you do not do the same and that you reject this form of “machismo” that is lived and will be lived in some communities and cultures. You should decide and show that romantic quality you can do it and know the true love.

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I left my home for freedom in Europe but I'm terribly lonely

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I left my home for freedom in Europe but I'm terribly lonely

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By Viana Andrea Vaca

Regarding your situation there is Germany, I think you should contemplate going to a psychologist from the university because you are thinking about ending your life and that is the limit of despair.

Apart from going to the psychologist to find a support, I must tell you that there is nothing wrong with you, for this same situation many young people like you are going from the land where they were born to other countries where they find a better future.

At first I have to tell you that nothing is easy, everything at first is difficult and more where you arrive and you do not know anyone, but you have to open up a bit to others, you could make trips to the park, to walk, to get to know little the city and you will see that you are going to find people that you like, also in your same university you can begin to talk to others about some topic of a group work and not tell them your situation and you will surely find support or some words that make your stronger.

You will realize that with the passage of time all your fears will disappear and you will achieve your goals.