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Introduction

This is our very own SEND Padlet page. It contains information and support for parents.

Our SENDCo is Mrs H. Fitch (hfitch@drapersmaylands.com)

If you need any further support then please do not hesitate to contact us.

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Supporting children with additional needs

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If your child has additional needs, this hub can help you keep them safer from harm online. Find guidance and activities for support.

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Flyer - Parent Carer Primary Workshop June July 2026

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Flyer - Coffee event for Sensory Play 21.04.26

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Flyer - Parent Carer Primary Workshop April May 2026

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Parents Helpline | Mental Health Help for Your Child

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The YoungMinds Parents Helpline, Webchat and Email provide support and help for parents and carers worried about their child’s mental health and wellbeing.

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Parenting and Family Support - Family Lives (Parentline Plus) | Family Lives

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Parenting and family support from Family Lives (formerly Parentline Plus) through our website, helpline 0808 800 2222, email service at askus@familylives.org.uk, live chat and local services.

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Anger management in children: how parents can help

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Why is my child angry? Advice for coping with anger issues in children and young people from our team of experts.

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Online safety for families and children with SEND

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Online safety for families and children with SEND

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Research shows that the majority of autistic people experience high to debilitating levels of anxiety every day. Having a little anxiety is helpful; it can boost our energy and assist us to get important things done. Higher levels of anxiety are exhausting, can interfere with life satisfaction and important goals, and

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Discover our exciting, ever-grogin list of available online video courses for school and college staff, including our selection of free courses.

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Addup – ADHD – Let’s get it right together

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Sycamore Trust - New Havering All Age Autism Service announcement!

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Havering EPS Parent/Carer Support Helpline 2024-2025 (Page 1 of 2)

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Havering EPS Parent/Carer Support Helpline 2024-2025

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Every year we provide information for children leaving year 6, come back to the page at the end of July to see the new information for year 6's in 2023. In the meantime, we have the E-Book below with information and advice.

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Havering Mind - For better mental health

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Supported Self-Help
Supported self-help can make a positive difference to your mental health.
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Welcome to ADDISS, The National Train your child to do what you want them to do. Easy to follow steps for disciplining without yelling, arguing or smacking. proven successful programme. Attention Deficit Disorder Information and Support Service.
We provide people-friendly information and resources about Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder to anyone who needs assistance - parents, sufferers, teachers or health professionals. Whatever you're looking for in ADHD, we'll do our best to help.

This website contains just a fraction of the information that we have on ADHD. If you would like to know more, visit our Bookstore. It has a wide range of resources about all aspects of ADHD and associated conditions, with special sections for parents, children, teenagers and professionals.

If you would like to talk to someone about ADHD, telephone us on 020 8952 2800, or you can send us an e-mail if you have any questions or need more information about anything you see on this site.

ADDISS is a proud member of ADHD Europe, an organisation founded to advance the rights of, and advocate on every level throughout Europe for people affected by AD/HD and co-morbid conditions in order to help them reach their full potential.
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ADHD Awareness Month 2020 - Common Questions, Reliable Answers

Working in partnership with organisations around the globe, we've reached out to people with ADHD and their families across the globe to find the most commonly asked questions. We've taken these questions to world-leading ADHD experts, who have given us answers you can rely on! Check out these answers at adhdawarenessmonth.org. For more information, visit our 2019 project website on myths and facts at adhdisreal.org.

COVID-19 and ADHD

ADDISS is determined to continue supporting people with ADHD during these difficult times, and we appreciate the support of each and every one of our members and the ADHD community. For more information on how to access support during this crisis, pleasesee our Facebook page, where you can get in touch if you need us.

We know that this pandemic is creating new challenges for people with ADHD, so we'd like to share this guidance from the European ADHD Guidelines Group - click here to view a PDF article.

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We now have a dedicated page listing several ways you can help support us in our work. Please follow HOW TO SUPPORT US
THIS LINK for more information.

We are pleased to announce a new and exciting way to support ADDISS that won't cost you a penny. In fact, it could even save you money on your online shopping! A NEW WAY TO SUPPORT ADDISS... THAT COULD EVEN SAVE YOU MONEY!

We have partnered with Savoo who will donate to ADDISS every time you search online via their website. In fact, you can make it even easier by making "https://www.savoo.co.uk/#addiss" your default search engine! It's totally free, and would help us a great deal.

All you have to do is follow this link, click "Support this cause", set up a free account, and start searching!

Savoo is also a great way to save money. If you visit Savoo, click "Support this cause", and set up an account you can find voucher codes for hundreds of your favourite shops including Boots, John Lewis, Amazon, and many many more. Every time you use one of those voucher codes Savoo will donate to ADDISS, and you will save money on your shopping!

And, if you're shopping with Amazon, use Amazon Smile instead of the normal amazon.co.uk - If you make ADDISS your chosen charity, Amazon will donate a small percentage of their profit from your purchase to ADDISS at NO COST to you!

For more information on this and other ways to support ADDISS, click here

WHO'S IN CHARGE AT YOUR HOUSE?
Put Yourself back in control.

The 1 2 3 Magic programme is highly recommended by ADDISS as behavioural intervention for children with ADHD and other challenging behaviours. We have now trained over 200 practitioners to deliver this programme to parents in the UK. Please contact us to find if there is a group running near you.

Buy the 1-2-3 Magic Book on-line now for £13.50 including Postage and packing.
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The Tipping Points
By Phil Anderton PhD
What professionals should recognise as the social impact of ADHD.
Retired police officer Phil Anderton brings us a unique book looking at how young people with poorly managed ADHD are at risk of following a path into crime, substance misuse, anti-social behaviour and personal danger, and outlines ways to reduce those risks with easy to follow and pragmatic text and checklists. The book, the first of its kind also has advice for magistrates and the police when coming into contact with these young people.
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"As an adult who has ADHD, from childhood, and I have had my fair share of issues with the police and courts as a consequence, I really appreciate the interest in this subject being taken by Phil Anderton. This book should be read by anyone and everyone who deals with youngsters who have the disorder, if the people who looked after me had recognised my Tipping Points and done right by me, I might not have the criminal record that I have."
Gary Sendall, Founder WADDSUPP, adult ADHD support group in the Wirrall

"Many books seek to promote awareness of ADHD among the public but very few do so with as splendid a combination of science and compassion as does Mr. Anderton in this up-to-the-minute summation of what parents and others should know about ADHD and its management."
Professor Russell Barkley, SUNY Upstate Medical School

"This book is very welcome – it takes the lessons from the scientific study of ADHD and applies them to a social and justice perspective. It deserves to be read widely, especially by those who doubt whether the individual's vulnerability of ADHD is relevant to how society should react."
Professor Eric Taylor, King's College London, Institute of Psychiatry, London

"Phil Anderton, an experienced police officer, has seen that many who get in trouble with the law have ADHD. In this book he clearly describes what ADHD is and makes very practical suggestions for how those with ADHD can be powerfully helped by appropriate treatment. His approach is sensible, compassionate, and desperately needed."
Professor Thomas E. Brown, Ph.D. Dept of Psychiatry, Yale University School of Medicine

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RAISING FUNDS FOR ADDISS AND RAISING AWARENESS. ADHD is REAL

You can help raise funds for the national ADHD Charity ADDISS. At the same time you will be helping to raise awareness about ADHD by purchasing our Shopping Trolley Token Keyrings and/or the National ADHD Charity Wristband. Maybe you'd even like your own personal ADDISS Stress Brain! Click the picture for larger images and order details.

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We have now teamed up with Just Giving.com to create a secure method for making donations to ADDISS or for raising funds through various events.

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We asked Will Gardener, CEO of Childnet, and Suzanne Taylor, Assistant Director Impact - Child Sexual Abuse and Exploitation at Barnardo's, to answer some of your questions about keeping children safe online.

How do I keep my child safe online? What age should I speak to my child about online safety? How do I keep up with an ever-changing online landscape?

While the internet has created fantastic new opportunities for children to learn, play and connect, we know it has created some big risks as well. A 2021 Office for National Statistics (ONS) report found that nearly a third of children had accepted a friend request from someone they did not know and around 1 in 10 children (11%) aged 13 to 15 years reported receiving a sexual message, while 1 in 100 reported sending a sexual message.

Read Will and Suzanne's answers to frequently asked questions about keeping children safe online.

Parenting and the internet

Watch parents reflect on the issues they encounter balancing trying to keep children safe online and letting them make the most of what the internet can offer them.

What types of harms do I need to be aware of as a parent?

Suzanne:
There are different types of inappropriate, concerning and illegal content online. From bullying, violent videos and 'sexting' to blackmail. We know that those that want to harm our children can use chat rooms, gaming and social media to befriend and groom children.

Children tell us that they can be quickly exposed to content they didn't search out. Therefore, it's vital not to blame children and keep calm if you are faced with this as a parent. The responsibility always lies with those that want to harm.

The risk of online harm differs by age and what they are doing online. So, finding age-appropriate ways to educate our children is essential.

The Child Exploitation and Online Protection Command(CEOP) have some great animations to show younger children. Plus, they're split into age brackets with key messages you can revisit as a parent.

What age should you start to talk to your child about online safety?

As soon as your child shows an interest in engaging with technology, it's time to begin sharing simple online safety strategies with them.

Will Gardener

CEO of Childnet

Will:
For younger children, it's best to use technology together and use that time to discuss what to do if something unusual or scary pops up. As they get older, they will need more independence, but keep those conversations about online safety going. Remind them to tell someone if they need help, are worried or something makes them feel uncomfortable.

Suzanne:
Children tell us conversations about the internet and online safety should be frequent and not a one-off.

Regular dialogue allows children to lead the conversation and leaves space for them to ask questions and share concerns. For older children, it allows us to explore what they are doing online. These conversations will change as they grow and mature but started early, they get easier.

You can find more information about having a conversation with your children on our o nline safety hub.

Which parental control tools would you recommend? What features should they include?

Will:
Parental controls are designed to help protect children when they go online. Childnet would recommend putting parental controls on the home Wi-Fi and all devices that your children might use. Key features to look out for are content restrictions (to block things like pornography), in-app purchases and time limits.

There are companies who will charge money to provide parental controls, but most Wi-Fi services, devices and apps have parental controls that you can use for free. Internet Matters has step-by-step guides on how to put many of these in place.

Whilst parental controls will reduce the chances of your child seeing something they're not ready for, inappropriate content can still get through. Supervise younger children and keep talking about their online lives. It is also a good idea to test the parental controls yourself and adapt them as your children get older.

Whilst parental controls will reduce the chances of your child seeing something they're not ready for, inappropriate content can still get through. Supervise younger children and keep talking about their online lives.

Will Gardener

CEO of Childnet

Suzanne:
We all know the saying "do as I say, not as I do". Alongside parental controls, one of the best ways we can protect children is to lead by example. This could mean being aware of your own use of technology, asking children's permission before sharing a picture of them online or talking about your own digital life. Barnardo's have partnered with Vodaphone who have some good suggestions on leading by example and being a digital role model for your child.

It's also important to remember that, as adults, we don't always understand what teenagers or children like to wear, do and watch on TV. This is the same with what children watch online. But you don't have to like or understand what they watch, just be aware of whether it's harmful.

Being a good listener is also vital. Having an open relationship makes it easier for them to tell us if they feel uncomfortable online.

As a parent, how can I stay up to date with platforms, such as TikTok, Snapchat, Instagram, and their safety and settings. What are the biggest dangers to children online right now?

Will:
The dangers that pose the most risk to your child will depend a lot on how they use the internet, what is already being done to keep them safe, and what they already know about using the internet safely and responsibly.

A simple and effective way to hear about the latest online trends or what your child is getting up to is to talk with them about their life online. By maintaining an open dialogue and encouraging them to talk to you about their internet use, parents can help children access the amazing resources and opportunities the internet has to offer whilst keeping them safe.

Read Childnet's advice on talking to your child about life online.

Suzanne:
The risks to each child are different depending on what they are doing online and the ever-changing tactics of those who want to harm. Therefore, it is most effective to equip your child with the skills to identify harmful or uncomfortable situations, seek support and offer them regular opportunities through conversation to talk with you.

My advice would be:

equip yourself with some basic knowledge by using internet sites

ask your child to show you what new apps are

speak with other parents or older teens to see what they are doing online

ask your child's school how they are educating children and staying up to date.

Vodaphone also have shared information on apps every parent should know about.

Do you have advice on keeping children safe when they're using an Xbox or PlayStation?

Will:
The best way to keep your child safe when they are playing games or using games consoles is through discussion. Talk with your child about the games they enjoy playing and where possible, sit down and play these together.

Speak to your child about what else they do on their consoles, aside from play games. For example, what else do they access? Who do they communicate with?

Next, establish and support realistic boundaries with your child, whilst encouraging safe choices. For example, make sure young people know not to share their personal information or anyone else's when playing online games.

You may also want to think about the amount of time your child spends on these devices or take control of in-app purchases. Childnet's family agreement has some great ideas for areas to focus on with your family. The UK Safer Internet Centre also has further information specifically relating to the use of games consoles.

Internet Matters and Thinkuknow are excellent tools to explore parental controls available through games consoles.
Learn more about why young people like online gaming.

How can I report someone who has contacted my child with inappropriate content?

Will:
Online grooming is where someone befriends a child online and builds up their trust with the intention of exploiting them and causing them harm. For more advice about grooming and the forms it can take, you can visit Childnet's advice page on online grooming.

If you are worried your child is being groomed online or sexually exploited, you should report your concerns to CEOP. CEOP is the Child Exploitation Online Protection command, part of the National Crime Agency.

We all want the best for our children, and that includes keeping them safe online. Find out how with our tips and advice.

Keeping children safe online: how to start the conversation

Struggling to talk about online safety with your child? Here are some expert tips on how to start the conversation.

Are you following these 5 tips to keep your child safe online?

Here are some basic steps you can take to support your child to stay safe online.

Online pornography and age verification: what parents need to know

This guide from the BBFC outlines what you need to know for when the time comes to speak to your child about online pornography and how to broach those tricky conversations

*According to Government statistics, in 2016 pornography was accessed 1.4 million times by UK children every month. That number is likely to be higher now due to the increase in time spent online during and post pandemic.

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Keeping children safe online - Parent's questions answered

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Shout 85258 is the UK's first 24/7 text service for anyone in crisis. Get free, confidential mental health support anytime, anywhere. Text 'SHOUT' to 85258.

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Huge thanks to our corporate partner, Furniture Village, who has helped us to launch a brand new National Sleep Helpline to ensure that everyone has access to high quality, evidence-based advice regardless of age, ethnicity, background or income.
"We've always believed that sleep is equally as important as diet and exercise yet we know the UK is really struggling to sleep, particularly with the ongoing effects of the pandemic" says Charlie Harrison, Furniture Village Commercial Director. "From my work as a doctor, I know how great the need for a National Sleep Helpline is. It will make a huge difference to so many people." Dr Ranj, Furniture Village Sleep and Wellness Advisor
Working together to improve the nation's sleep.

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National Sleep Helpline - The Sleep Charity

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Who do I talk to if I can't sleep? The National Sleep Helpline can help with your sleep problems, 7pm-9pm, Sunday to Thursday, 03303 530 541.

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Kooth has kindly offered to host a Stress and Anxiety Workshop for young people, aged 10-18 years old, which parents can also attend. Please share the following details with your young person and, if interested, register by clicking on this  Eventbrite link. You may register together or separately, depending on yours and their preferences. Eventbrite will then send you a confirmation email with a zoom link. Please note that during the workshop all attendee cameras and mics will be automatically disabled and any questions may be asked via the chat box.

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Short Breaks provide children and young people the opportunity to:

have fun

make friends

try new activities

build independence

develop new skills

It also gives families an opportunity to:

have a break from their caring responsibilities

rest and relax

spend time with other members of their family

Short Breaks may include arrangements for your child to access:

You may be eligible if your child:

has a diagnosed disability or impairment that would define them as a disabled person under the Equality Act 2010 including a physical or sensory impairment, learning disability, Autism Spectrum Disorder, challenging behaviour as a result of a disability, complex health needs and those with palliative, life-limiting or life threatening conditions

is a resident in Havering

is aged 0-18 years

Read the Council's Short Breaks Statement for full eligibility criteria.
Your child may also be eligible for Continuing Healthcare Funding from the NHS if they have complex medical needs. Read about Continuing Healthcare Funding.

Packages of support for an enhanced offer are presented to a Short Breaks panel to agree the level of support that will be provided.

Parents and carers will receive a copy of the Short Breaks assessment being presented by the social worker before it goes to panel.

The panel comprises of professionals from the different services that provide support to disabled children. They look at the best ways of providing and allocating resources available in relation to short breaks provision for children and young people with the highest levels of need.

The panel takes into account the opinions of the family and specialists who work with the child or young person and brings everyone's ideas together to work out how best to provide the right short breaks package for the child or young person and their family. In addition to this, the panel ensures children/young people of similar needs and circumstances are provided with similar level of support.

If your application is not agreed by the local authority you will receive a letter detailing the reasons why.

If you do not agree with the decision you should initially discuss any concerns with the person who completed the short break assessment or the duty senior social worker. To do this, you can call 01708 432488 between the hours of 9am and 5pm from Monday to Friday.

If the issue is not resolved at this stage, you can appeal within 14 days of receiving the letter.

We want to ensure our work meets the needs of our children and young people in Havering.

We welcome your feedback so let us know what you think about our Short Breaks services by emailing your suggestions to CADduty@havering.gov.uk.

Or you can contact the parent forum for Havering and Young Advisors Havering, or Advocacy for All to tell us your views.

If you're not happy with your Short Breaks service you can make a complaint. Discuss your issue first with the duty senior social worker by email at CADduty@havering.gov.uk or by telephone on 01708 432488 to see if we can resolve this.

If the issues are not resolved via this conversation, you can make a complaint.

Some families with a disabled child or young person can access universal services that are available and can be accessed by everyone. These may be:

Where possible our expectation is for families to access universal services to help disabled children be a part of their local community.

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Short Breaks are for children and young people with disabilities to spend time away from home to give parents a break from caring. The breaks can be for a few hours, a day, evening, overnight, for a weekend or longer. There are different kinds of Short Breaks available depending on the needs your ch…

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Neurodiversity Celebration Week aims to challenge stereotypes and misconceptions about neurological differences and change how neurodivergent individuals are perceived and supported.

There are some great guest speaker sessions this week avalible through the Neurodiversity Celebration Week website so please take a look and find out more.

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POSTER - parent virtual drop-in MAY 2023

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Havering Adult College free family courses

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What is dyslexia? - Kelli Sandman-Hurley

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What is Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)

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What is Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)