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working with others and listening and giving feedback and solutions

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working with others and listening and giving feedback and solutions

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talking a walk, talking to someone about it

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talking a walk, talking to someone about it

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setting expectations early on in the year

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setting expectations early on in the year

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all day especially when others are escalating

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all day especially when others are escalating

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To advocate for myself or others, in a respectful way

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Listening to others even though it seems like all they do is complain and see the worst in situations

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Listening to others even though it seems like all they do is complain and see the worst in situations

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Working with others.

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Not being pushed around by others who feel as though they are above me for some reason - I can't stand sneaky and entitled people

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Not being pushed around by others who feel as though they are above me for some reason - I can't stand sneaky and entitled people

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Not getting overwhelmed when things don't go the way my Type A self planned them to go.

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Not getting overwhelmed when things don't go the way my Type A self planned them to go.

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Take time to figure out how to put items in the dishwasher so the dishes actually come clean...some of us weren't very good at Tetris

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Not eating a whole bag of sour patch kids

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When attempting to work as a team. Also, it is important to realize that part of communication is listening and processing what others are saying as well, and trying to understand them. It is not just about making sure I am understood by others.

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Helping others while also letting them know how I truly feel about things

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Helping others while also letting them know how I truly feel about things

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firm voice and quick action during a potentially unsafe situation

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Trying to understand the other person's point of view... putting myself in their shoes

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going to the gym daily

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Being able to walk through the door of my house despite a hard day and be present with my family

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I need to work on specifically asking for help and doing so in a straight forward (assertive) way.

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I need to be more assertive when I am explaining my needs.

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I need to be more assertive when I am explaining my needs.

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When I am feeling strong emotions, whether positive or negative and need to be more aware of the effect I am having on those around me

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Ensuring my needs are met

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constantly throughout the day with lesson plans, unexpected things that may arise, when students have a disagreement or incident that needs to be handled. 

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constantly throughout the day with lesson plans, unexpected things that may arise, when students have a disagreement or incident that needs to be handled. 

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Being honest even when it's difficult and advocating for a child or adult when you know it's what's best for the person/the right thing

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Being honest even when it's difficult and advocating for a child or adult when you know it's what's best for the person/the right thing

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When I can't stand the bickering that seems to be never ending

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When I can't stand the bickering that seems to be never ending

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expressing my why

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Being able to listen and take on the perspective of someone else

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recognizing it and asking for space time. minute to walk away, readjust

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recognizing it and asking for space time. minute to walk away, readjust

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I need to work on assertiveness, rather than being a "yes"-person

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I tell the kids that they have to tell me what the problem is before I can try to help them solve it.

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I tell the kids that they have to tell me what the problem is before I can try to help them solve it.

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turning the lights off and mitigating noise

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listening to my husband's day and frustrations with his job

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working with my team members to manage things that arise during the day

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When things become overwhelming

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Being able to express my expectations of people or situations

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When my emotions go from 0 to 100 in a situation or when a child or adult is having a difficult time 

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When my emotions go from 0 to 100 in a situation or when a child or adult is having a difficult time 

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When I am extremely frustrated and want to lash out in words or other ways in response

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I am always trying to talk things through with my partner, with my family, with my friends.

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Being able to clearly convey directions

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Screaming "WTF" in my head and not aloud

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when students return from lunch/recess or special with an issue that wasn't addressed prior to picking the class up

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Not shouting rational things at someone who is upset and needs you just listen

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I tell my kids to take deep breaths while we are in line, before we walk outside the classroom.

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I tell my kids to take deep breaths while we are in line, before we walk outside the classroom.

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When any type of challenge or difficult situation arises 

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When any type of challenge or difficult situation arises 

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When I need to understand that my husband's "hard" is hard even if it's not my "hard"

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Helps with my verbal filter

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When working on a group task

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Anytime an obstacle appears as you are working towards a goal

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during daily lessons and activities with peers and kids

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during daily lessons and activities with peers and kids

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When a child at daycare is having a tough time and the cause cannot be determined.

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When a child at daycare is having a tough time and the cause cannot be determined.

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When child care falls through

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Not throwing or breaking things when I feel upset

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when my team members call out sick and we have no subs

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I have to control my impulse to fix things for the child and instead help them figure out how to fix things themselves.

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I have to control my impulse to fix things for the child and instead help them figure out how to fix things themselves.

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all the time when listening to others and to have an overall awareness that others have things going on that we don't necessarily even realize.

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all the time when listening to others and to have an overall awareness that others have things going on that we don't necessarily even realize.

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When an email comes through and I need to weigh out the options

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When my partner needs some direction ; )

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When someone is displaying anger, frustration, and/or sadness. 

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When someone is displaying anger, frustration, and/or sadness. 

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When trying to support others around you - coworkers, students, family, friends, especially when you do not fully understand their situation

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When my sister wakes up in the morning (Do we say good morning, or wait for her to talk to us first?)

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When my sister wakes up in the morning (Do we say good morning, or wait for her to talk to us first?)

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when parents email, message, and call at all hours of the day

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listening to my students long story about poke mon  (girl mom)

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listening to my students long story about poke mon  (girl mom)

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when students are experiencing big feelings

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I make a million decisions every second with an infant, and I'm constantly trying to figure out efficient ways to get things done while I am also watching her, (and making sure she's not throwing herself off of things)

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You're driving down 87 and the guy next to you won't let you merge into their lane... Enough said

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When my kid cries and my husband can't deal with it

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when a child can not understand the task and I need to present it in a way that can be comprehended

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when a child can not understand the task and I need to present it in a way that can be comprehended

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When I encounter a new task/activity and don't know how to do it.

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All the time - perspective is in the eye of the beholder, and I am always thinking of, and about others - 

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All the time - perspective is in the eye of the beholder, and I am always thinking of, and about others - 

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Talking about their day, hopes, goals, etc.

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the first 15 times I ask my kids (at home) to do something. 

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the first 15 times I ask my kids (at home) to do something. 

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When my toddler is tantruming- taking some deep breaths, giving/taking space

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Home and work!

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When my kid doesn't want to go to daycare and I need to get to work

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when a child tells me about something that happened at home

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when a child tells me about something that happened at home

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When I or someone else is experiencing strong emotions

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all day long, especially after work when I feel drained from the day

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Knowing whether the person I am talking to is ready to hear what I am saying

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All day long when you are interacting with people 

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All day long when you are interacting with people 

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When I have a need that is not being met

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When I have a need that is not being met

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When something doesn't go the way it is "supposed" to. 

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When something doesn't go the way it is "supposed" to. 

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Any time a student comes into the building/office

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When emails, texts and calls all come at the same time

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When emails, texts and calls all come at the same time

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When I notice a student may be feeling frustrated or upset.  Helps me know how to approach/respond

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at recess, when a child has a controversy with another

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at recess, when a child has a controversy with another

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Before buying everything in Target and on Amazon, stop, acknowledge it is an impulse purchase, and then buy it all anyways because YOLO

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When emails, texts and calls all come at the same time

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When emails, texts and calls all come at the same time