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Understanding that what works for someone else might not work for me and not blaming myself if it doesn't. If it doesn't work finding that to move on instead of trying it again and again when it doesn't work.

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Allowing myself to feel guilty when appropriate but allowing myself to learn from the experience and working my way to move on from it while not forgetting it. Whether it's making a mental/physical note to my self, or if it's something that I need to reflect on.

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Allowing myself to healthily go through the stages of grief and identifying a loss. Even though it's not a physical death, being able to understand symbolic death and allowing myself to be sad, go through denial, but also moving on and accepting.

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When negative thoughts occur balance them/overcome them with positive thoughts

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When negative thoughts occur balance them/overcome them with positive thoughts

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Everyone is their own worst critic, it helps us grow, however, when it becomes that there is only critique and no positive reinforcements, the scale becomes unbalanced. In order for me to prevent the scale from favoring negative thoughts and attitudes, balance each negative thought with two positives.

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During failure, rejection, etc. where I am emotionally hurt, give myself words of affirmation to ensure that I don't fall down a rabbit hole. Making sure that I can stop my thoughts from snowballing into something that leaves me even more hurt. This can be through visually representing my thoughts by writing them down or talking with someone who can help me realize that my thoughts are becoming progressively more intense

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Mentally reflect on what happened. Learn from the mistakes and not wallow in it. Reach out to people who understand and succeed and learn from them (friends, family, peers, coworkers).

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Take every morning or every evening to reflect on the day. Journal? Talking with a friend? Drawing the events? Whatever it takes to visualize and release the emotions of the day or week