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Every time I saw a pink skirt, the first thing that come to my mind was so girly.

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Whenever I saw some "cool" pants and want to try them on. My mother would instantly tell me: "This is boy's clothes, so you can't wear this, it's unacceptable"

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Consequently, I grew up thinking that pink is only for girls and blue is usually for boys. I grew up believing that men wear pants, and dresses and skirts are made for women only. I had developed the gender norms in fashion (rules for appropriate clothes for boys and girls).

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But upon entering highschool, leaving my small town in the suburb of Ha Noi to go to Chu Van An highschool, which is located in the center of Ha Noi, that belief of mine also change.

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At Chu Van An high school, I got the chance to get to know friends from other provinces. Having more friends, and hanging around with them in Ha Noi city, I came to see more things than just "pink skirt" or "blue pants", more than just "boyish" or "girly". There's also style and personality in the clothes they wear. And their uniqueness is genderless.

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Enrolling in Chu Van An high school, I also had the chance to experience Sparkling, where girls wear (coincidentally) blue sports pants to play football and boys wear (fake) skirts to dances. It's then that the word "beautiful" or "handsome" can't be used to compliment my friends anymore.

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My time at Van An has taught me what fashion really is. It's not just boy's clothes or girl's clothes. It's not just acceptable or unacceptable. It's more than beautiful and handsome. It taught me that fashion actually has no boundaries, and it's genderless.