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1. Describe what is the family is going through and give examples of any case that you have encountered in the community.

The family is experiencing anticipatory grief as they prepare for Mr. Richard's imminent death. This involves mourning not only the anticipated loss of their loved one but also the life changes that come with it. They may feel a deep sense of sadness, helplessness, and fear for the future, especially concerning the impact on Mr. Richard's teenage daughters and his wife

2. Explore the three broad categories of grief.

Anticipatory Grief: This type of grief occurs before the actual loss happens. Families may start grieving when they know that a loved one is terminally ill and death is imminent. It involves preparing emotionally for the loss, which can sometimes help mitigate the intensity of grief after the person has passed.

Acute Grief: This is the immediate reaction to a loss, characterized by intense feelings of sorrow, shock, and distress. Individuals may find it hard to believe that their loved one is gone and might experience physical symptoms like insomnia, loss of appetite, or chest pain.

Complicated Grief: This occurs when acute grief lasts longer than expected and interferes with the person's ability to return to a normal life. Symptoms might include prolonged yearning, bitterness about the loss, and difficulty moving on. It may require professional intervention.

3. Explore, in your group some of the cultural preferences and practices, in the context of Singapore, in relation to grief response. Please cite examples from each ethnic group.

Chinese Community:

Funeral Rites: Traditional Chinese families often hold elaborate wakes and funerals, with specific rituals like burning joss paper to provide the deceased with money and goods in the afterlife.

Mourning Practices: Family members might wear white clothing and observe a period of mourning where they avoid celebratory activities.

Malay Community:

Islamic Burial Practices: The Malay community follows Islamic traditions, where the body is buried as soon as possible after death. The Janazah prayer is performed, and family members often read the Quran and recite prayers for the deceased.

Mourning Period: The mourning period can extend up to 40 days, during which time the family may host gatherings to recite prayers.

Indian Community:

Hindu Funerals: In the Indian Hindu community, cremation is the preferred method of body disposal. Rituals include bathing the body, performing prayers, and scattering the ashes in a sacred river.

Mourning Rituals: The mourning period may last up to 13 days, with specific rituals performed to ensure the soul's peace and transition.

4. What resources/help/agencies can you direct the family to in order provide bereavement support at the community level?

Hospital Care Services:

HCA Hospice Care: Provides home hospice care and offers emotional support for families coping with terminal illness and loss. They have bereavement support groups and counseling services.

Counselling and Support Groups:

Singapore Hospice Council: They offer resources and support for those dealing with grief, including counseling services and support groups.

Samaritans of Singapore (SOS): Provides a 24-hour hotline and face-to-face counseling services for those experiencing grief and emotional distress.

Community-Based Support:

Faith-Based Organizations: Many religious organizations offer grief support services, including pastoral counseling and community support groups. For example, churches, mosques, and temples often have dedicated resources for helping families through the mourning process.

Family Service Centres (FSCs): These centers provide social support and counseling to families in need. They can offer practical assistance, emotional support, and links to other resources.

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1. Describe what is the family is going through and give examples of any case that you have encountered in the community.

Kok Keng's Physical and Emotional Struggles:

Physical pain and discomfort from the cancer, radiotherapy burns, dry mouth, weight loss and difficulty eating.

Emotional distress from witnessing his mother suffer with a feeding tube, leading to his refusal of the same despite his need for nutrition.

Changes in taste and the presence of a metallic taste in his mouth, contributing to his reluctance to eat.

Reduced sense of smell and lack of awareness about the odour from his wound, which could lead to feelings of embarrassment or guilt if he were aware of it.

Wife's Emotional Stress:

High levels of stress and fear due to the wound's odour and appearance.

Emotional distance and physical separation from her husband by moving to another room to sleep.

Feelings of helplessness and potential guilt for not being able to help her husband more effectively.

Overall Family Dynamics:

Strain on marital relationship due to physical separation and emotional stress.

Potential communication issues, with Kok Keng potentially feeling abandoned or unsupported, and his wife feeling overwhelmed and isolated.

The possibility of other family members being affected by the tension and stress within the household.

Example from the Community: A similar case we experienced involves an elderly patient with advanced dementia and severe pressure ulcers. The family experienced emotional distress from seeing their loved one in pain and discomfort, and they might also deal with feelings of helplessness and guilt. The primary caregiver might feel overwhelmed and isolated, leading to stress and potential burnout.

2. Explore the three broad categories of grief.

Anticipatory Grief (This occurs before an actual loss happens, often when a loved one is diagnosed with a terminal illness. Family members begin to grieve the impending loss and the changes in their loved one's condition.

Kok Keng's wife might be experiencing anticipatory grief as she sees his health declining and struggles to cope with the changes in their life.

Normal Grief ( This is the initial and intense reaction to loss, characterized by profound sadness, crying, and a sense of disbelief.)

If Kok Keng were to pass away, his family would likely experience acute grief immediately following his death.

Complicated Grief (This occurs when the natural process of grieving does not progress, and individuals remain in a state of chronic mourning, experiencing intense sorrow, longing, and preoccupation with the deceased. Usually happens during sudden death.)

If Kok Keng's wife continues to struggle with his death for years without finding a way to move forward, she might be experiencing complicated grief.

3. Explore, in your group some of the cultural preferences and practices, in the context of Singapore, in relation to grief response. Please cite examples from each ethnic group.

Chinese Community:

Practices: The Chinese often have elaborate funeral rites that can include wake ceremonies lasting several days (about 3-5 days) to allow family/friends to pay respects - it is also customary for attendees to offer monetary contributions (白金, or “white gold”) to aid in funeral expenses & support the bereaved family; prayer services (Monks/Taoist priests conducting chanting and prayers) to guide the soul of the deceased & help attain peace; burning of paper offerings (e.g., paper money, paper houses, etc) to ensure the deceased has everything they need in the afterlife, and the use of white and black clothing (avoid red & bright colours) to signify death, and mourning & respect respectively.

100 Days of Mourning: Traditionally, the immediate family may observe a mourning period of 100 days, during which they refrain from participating in celebrations and may continue to wear white or subdued colors.

Examples: Family members might engage in rituals to ensure the deceased's peaceful transition to the afterlife, such as chanting and offering food and incense (as mentioned above). Subsequently, the first death anniversary will be particularly significant & is hence marked as a special ceremony.

Malay/Muslim Community:

Practices: Muslims follow specific Islamic burial practices, including washing the body, shrouding it in white cloth, and a quick burial, usually within 24 hours of death.

Examples: The family might observe a mourning period (iddah) and engage in prayers (duas) for the deceased. There is also a focus on providing support and meals to the grieving family.

Indian/Hindu Community:

Practices: Hindus conduct rituals such as cremation, which is believed to liberate the soul from the cycle of rebirth. The rituals include bathing the body, dressing it in traditional attire, and performing rites such as the lighting of a funeral pyre.

Examples: The mourning period can include various ceremonies on the 10th, 12th, and 13th days after death, aimed at helping the soul of the deceased achieve peace.

4. What resources/help/agencies can you direct the family to in order provide bereavement support at the community level?

Several resources and agencies in Singapore can provide bereavement support to Kok Keng's family:

Hospice Care Association (HCA): Offers palliative care services, including home visits, counseling, and support groups for both patients and caregivers.

Singapore Cancer Society (SCS): Provides emotional and practical support for cancer patients and their families, including counseling and support groups.

National Cancer Centre Singapore (NCCS): Offers psychological support and counseling services for patients and their families.

Singapore Association for Mental Health (SAMH): Offers mental health support, including counseling and therapy for individuals experiencing grief and depression.

AIC (Agency for Integrated Care): Connects caregivers with community resources and support services, including respite care and counseling.

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1.Describe what is the family is going through and give examples of any case that you have encountered in the community.

- Grief

- Caregiver burnout

- Stress

- Denial

- Anger

-Anticipatory grief

Example:

2. Explore the three broad categories of grief.

Shock and denial

Intense emotion: Anger, bargaining and depression

Acceptance and adjustment

3.Explore, in your group some of the cultural preferences and practices, in the context of Singapore, in relation to grief response. Please cite examples from each ethnic group.

Chinese Community

1. Funeral Rites:

Traditional Practices: Chinese funerals often include rituals to honor the deceased, such as burning joss paper (representing money) and other paper offerings.

Wakes: It is common to hold a wake that lasts several days, allowing family and friends to pay their respects.

Dress Code: Mourners typically wear white or black, with immediate family members sometimes wearing a burlap sack cloth to signify mourning.

2. Ancestral Worship:

Qingming Festival: The Chinese observe Qingming (Tomb-Sweeping Day), where they visit the graves of their ancestors to clean them and make offerings.

Malay/Muslim Community

1. Islamic Practices:

Burial Rites: In Islam, it is preferred to bury the deceased as soon as possible, usually within 24 hours. The body is washed, shrouded in a plain cloth, and buried facing Mecca.

Janazah Prayer: A special prayer, Salat al-Janazah, is performed for the deceased.

Mourning Period: The mourning period typically lasts for three days, but close family members may observe it for up to 40 days. During this time, family and friends offer support and prayers.

2. Communal Support:

The community often comes together to provide meals and support to the bereaved family, reinforcing social bonds and collective mourning.

Indian Community

1. Hindu Practices:

Antyesti (Last Rites): Hindus typically cremate their dead. The ceremony involves rituals performed by the family priest and the eldest son, including the lighting of the funeral pyre.

Post-Funeral Rites: A series of rituals are performed over a period of 13 days, and on the 13th day, a ceremony called "Preta-karma" is conducted to ensure the soul's peaceful transition.

2. Mourning Practices:

Family members might observe a period of mourning that includes abstaining from celebrations and wearing white.

Christian Community

1. Funeral Services:

Church Services: Christian funerals in Singapore often include a church service with hymns, prayers, and a eulogy.

2. Burial or Cremation: Both burial and cremation are practiced, depending on the denomination and personal preferences.

2. Memorial Services:

Memorial services or wakes are common, providing an opportunity for friends and family to gather, share memories, and offer condolences.

4.What resources/help/agencies can you direct the family to in order provide bereavement support at the community.

Singapore Hospice counsel website has resources. https://www.singaporehospice.org.sg/community-bereavement-service-providers/

Grief Counseling and Support Groups

Grief counseling can provide the family with strategies to cope with their loss. Support groups allow individuals to connect with others in similar situations, providing mutual support and understanding. Options include:

Local Hospitals and Clinics: Often offer grief support groups and counseling services.

Churches and Religious Organizations: Many provide pastoral care and support groups.

Mental Health Professionals: Licensed therapists specializing in grief counseling

Online Resources

There are many online platforms that offer information, support, and counseling.

GriefShare: An online and in-person support group program.

What's Your Grief: podcasts, and community forums.

Hospice care focuses on providing compassionate care to terminally ill patients and their families. Services often include medical care, pain management, emotional and spiritual support, and bereavement counseling. Key organizations include:

Local Hospice Services: Many communities have local hospice providers.

Funeral Planning Services

Planning a funeral can be overwhelming. Funeral homes can often provide not only logistical support but also grief resources.

Local Funeral Homes: Many offer grief support and planning services.

The Funeral Consumers Alliance: Provides information and resources on funeral planning.

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1. Describe what is the family is going through and give examples of any case that you have encountered in the community.

-Anticipatory Grief: The family is likely experiencing anticipatory grief, which occurs before the actual death, as they come to terms with the impending loss of Mr. Richard.

2. Explore the three broad categories of grief.

-Anticipatory grief: Anticipated and real loss associated with diagnosis, acute and chronic illness and terminal illness. Provide time for preparation for loss

-Normal grief: Normal feeling, reaction and behaviour to a loss

-Complicated grief: Sudden death

3. Explore, in your group some of the cultural preferences and practices, in the context of Singapore, in relation to grief response. Please cite examples from each ethnic group.

-Chinese: https://www.nlb.gov.sg/main/article-detail?cmsuuid=a3bfaffd-f823-4cf1-80a0-888db820bf1d#:~:text=A%20red%20or%20white%20banner,has%20occurred%20in%20the%20household.&text=Traditionally%2C%20after%20a%20death%2C%20each,their%20relationship%20to%20the%20deceased.

A red or white banner is plastered over the main door of the house to indicate that a death has occurred in the household

each family member of the deceased wears a different-coloured mourning garment that corresponds to their relationship to the deceased

the body is ritually washed, sometimes with water scented with pomegranate flowers, and dressed

large amounts of joss paper, paper money and some personal articles are included in the coffin for the deceased’s use in the afterworld

-Indian: https://www.singaporefuneralservices.sg/2023/12/31/singapore-hindu-funerals/#:~:text=In%20Singapore%2C%20the%20one%2Dday,%2C%20honey%2C%20milk%20and%20yoghurt.

the louder the music is, the more respect is provided to the dead as it is a grander send off

the coffin will be carried by the family members into the service hall while reciting prayers

The coffin lid will be removed where visitors can view the body a final time

Son of the diseased have to carry the pot on the left shoulder and has to throw the pot backwards to break it into pieces

-Malay: https://www.nlb.gov.sg/main/article-detail?cmsuuid=066609eb-61ad-4bfd-831c-8b3e93c35a12

The deceased must also be buried as soon as possible, preferably within 24 hours of their death

Anyone attending Muslim funerals is expected to dress appropriately and modestly in white or dark-coloured clothes

Some Malay families organise a tahlil on the 3rd, 7th, 40th and 100th day after the funeral. The tahlil comprises the recitation of prayers and supplications for the deceased, and is usually followed by a simple meal prepared by the bereaved family for their guests.

4. What resources/help/agencies can you direct the family to in order provide bereavement support at the community level?

Caring for yourself and others by Singapore Hospice Council on coping with bereavement

Community bereavement service providers

https://www.singaporehospice.org.sg/community-bereavement-service-providers/

Coping with bereavement by Institute of Mental Health

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You can also approach a social worker in a health or social service institution known to you for bereavement support.