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Create a post about (Think about it - 21st Century Families)

1. Watch the Video thoroughly about Family relationships.

2. Share your opinion on these questions below, you may explore from other resources.

Remember to be specific and use proper English in your descriptions!

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a nuclear family is a family that only consists of parents and their children, living together under the same roof. if its like the developed countries like japan and america, then yes it is common because they prefer to live separately from their relatives due to their busy lifestyle

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yes it is common because in indonesia we are close and have strong bonds and relationship with our relatives so that they can help looking after the children while the parents r working

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grandparents/relatives can do best on taking care children bcs they r more experienced, have more time and totally patient to handle children 

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yes, its quite a good one. because it sounds flexible, broad and objective that it shows that family is not just about biological label but also balues love, relationships and warmth

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a nuclear family is a couple with their children living in one home residence. i think this is pretty common in indonesia, considering most married couples as of today still desire to have children. 

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yes! especially families that are middle to lower class, which usually both parents have to work to make a living. i grew up with both of my parents working and had to stay at my grandparents house for them to take care of me :D (i miss my granny)

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i actually forgot... but i remember vaguely that it depends on their knowledge in caretaking? it doesn't matter who takes care of who, it's more of how one's can influence a child based on how they take care of that child itself.

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i don't really think that adding "have similar interests" would be accurate..? because nobody in my family likes kpop like i do LOL!!! it can be pretty hard to exactly define what a family is because not all people care about certain people in their family, or are close of them but they would still label them as family. and then again, family has many definitions based on different perspectives/ in biology, family is a taxonomic rank in the classification of organisms between genus and order...but to describe a family we're close with, a family is a group of people who cares about eachother and gives major influence towards one another, they may be blood related or not. 

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nuclear family is family type that is contain parents and children. this type of family is very common in my country that can be easily to find. because this is the first thing that come ot from someone's mind when they hear family, so that means that is so common.

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yes because there is  a lot of parents out there, that is have to work and can't find someone they can trust or they don't want to sen ther children to the day care. and they choose they relatives to take care of their children because they trust them to take care their child.

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based on the video i think that is the parents or somone that is proffesional to take care of children, because usually know what to do,  and the child phase is the most important phase on someone lives, so they need the best.

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yes i agree, the advantage to be family is you have someone to trust  and have someone that can take care of you, the disadvantage is sometimes we don't close with our family and make you can't trust anyone.

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Nuclear family is a small family that consist with only parents and child. Yes, it's very common. Because this is like a foundation of a big family. All the big family starts in small family.

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Yes! Especially with today's economy. Most family cannot just lean on one parent income. Instead, both of the parents need to work so they can fulfill their family's need. And because of this, the parents needs their extended family to take care of their children.

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If i'm not wrong, I think it depends on the care and parenting (?) itself. I absolutely agree. Because not anyone could give the same and good care to the children. Some parents may give their best to take care their children, but some of them sometimes doesn't care about their child at all.

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Yes, it's a good one! Because in our environment, someone who's blood related to us is not always someone that cares about us. But in my definition of family, family is a group of people that cares about us and could give us a sense of safe. While in the other side, that means that not all a "family" (in blood related way) is a "family" for us (in the more social way). So it will have a little bit of a contradiction between the real definition.

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Nuclear family is a group of people who are tied together by a strong sense to care about each other. It could be formed of parents or parent (single parents) and children.

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Yes, it is common for extended family to care for children in my country. In indonesia most family still belive that families are tied by a blood relation, which makes families like grand parents and grand children closer. 

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according to the video who provides better care  for family in the family couldn't be deffined, because it is different for every people, what important is who gives better quality care. and hat i mean by "quality care" is a treatment that are given by a person to other with sincere and kindness?

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Yes, I think that the last deffinition of family in the video is a good stepf to a better future. By deffining family in a differnt point of view we are able to support people who has "broken home" background, making "family" has a wider meaning and could be suitable for every one.

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A nuclear family is a family that consists of parent and their children, that form of family is common in Indonesia because people are usually lives with their nuclear family. Furthermore, having our own family (or in this context is build another nuclear family) when we are grow up is still becoming the norm in this conventional society. In my opinion, it's common because of we has a close-knitted nuclear family relationship as the norm and ideal life projected by the vast majority of people.

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It depends on the culture since there are various culture as well in my country, but giving their children to cared by other people is pretty common along with the growing number of working parents.. Some people get use  to this because the extended family is trusted to take care of their family, in this case usually the grandma or grandpa who will take over this role since they have nothing to do as well and would happily taking care of their grandchild. On the other hand, some family (like mine) choose to hire a nanny or daycare to take care of the children because they don't want to disturb their extended family and feels it gonna be more professional.

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Based on the video, the development of a child is influenced by the quality of the care itself instead of the person who taking care of them

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In one side, I agree with the opinion because people who have already through many meaningful moments with us are indeed feels like a family. In some cases, there are even people who don't have a good relationship with their biologist family before but they considered their closest friends as a family. But in another side, I think it can be the only definiton of family since in Islam, there are strict differentiation between our real family that can be considered as our mahram versus those who are 'considered' as our family:)

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A nuclear family is a group of people consisting of the core members of the family, such as a mother, a father, and their children. I usually called it the main family. The nuclear family usually lives together in the same household. They also know each other very well because of their close relationship, both physically and biologically.

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In my country, I think it's pretty common. It's also common in my environment, but not in nuclear or even my extended family. I often see my friends being taken care of by their grandparents, aunts, uncles, or nannies because their parents are very busy. But based on my experience, I've never been taken care of by other people except my parents. The same as my extended family, like my cousins, most of them have always been taken care of by their parents, not even by their extended family, except by a nanny when they're still a baby or toddler.

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The video said that the best care for children is defined by the quality itself, not by who they have been taken care of, and I agree with that! because so many parents are so busy with their careers, and they don't have time to learn and give their children good parenting. So sometimes, yeah, it's better to let the children be taken care of by the more competent people, even if they are not family.

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Yeah, I think it's a good one. because there are some people who don't feel close enough or comfortable with their own biological family, but all people deserves love and care, even if its not from our biological family.

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A nuclear family is basically the stereotypical family, where the father of the family will go to work and provide, the mother will stay at home and take care of the children. This is pretty common in my country. But, I think the number is reduced in the past few years since most family now have both parents going to work. I think one of the reasons why the number is going down (based on my real life observation), is basically because everything nowadays are getting more expensive. Both the father and the mother of the family often obliged to work for extra income to fulfill the family needs. And also, another reason for that is because nowadays women are given more freedom to choose whether they want to have a career life, whether they want to get married and start a family. It's that way, because.. let's be honest, in the past where people just aren't as.. "woke" as now regarding women's freedom, women don't have many choice but to comply to the normalized social norms.

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yes, it's actually very common. It's because, based on my observation and experience, every family member is still a family member especially if it's a child. Most of the time, families in my country that have healthy relationship have strong bonds with those that they recognize as a part of their family, even if it's an extended family.

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The quality aspect of parenting a child is more important. Why? Because we're raising a tiny human that will grow up to be a human, an adult, and someone who will obviously have a personality. Better quality of parenting means they will have a bigger chance of raising a child that will grow into someone that's able to walk through life with no big problems. So, no matter who raised a child, as long as they are actually able to parent the child in a good way then I see no problem.

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Yes, it's actually pretty much on the good side. The advantages are people will be more comfortable with that someone they call as their family or someone that is close to them and their relationship is basically build out of love, comfort, and the nice things could develop more and they become closer. Meanwhile, the disadvantages, one of them are may become a little bit... too comfortable with labeling someone new in their life as their family. They can generalize it too much, and starts calling every friend of theirs as their family, even though in reality they're not "that" close to be labeled as a part of their family.

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nuclear family is consist of dad who works, mom who stay at home with the children. in some family that i ever see, the mom was work same as like dad. but honestly its really common to find nuclear family in my country

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i think its normal bacause for the example we never met our extended fam before and we didnt know them well, because them take care of us we can be connect into them and not stick into save zone (zona nyaman, yk)

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i think its their mom and dad, because with them from we were born, so they know us well, our personality, what did we like, etc

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i think its the good one, the statement say that family is someone who we love and we comfortable with. the advantages is we can be more connected with each other and if we have some problem they can calm us and make us comfortable with their warm. the disadvantages i think is we cannot be to depend of them, and in some family they can be not comfortable with each other or rude each other (kinda like broken home ig)

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A nuclear family is the stereotypical family where there is a providing dad, a stay-at-home mum, and child/ren. It is typically common in Indonesia's middle class because the gender norm in general pushes men to pursue careers and pushes women to become mothers. However, nuclear family is not as common for the higher class, as many women and men choose to pursue education or careers instead, leading to a more modern family dynamic - such as a working mother and a stay at home dad, or two working parents and a nanny in place of parents to take care of children. Usually both parents work or study while their child is taken care of professionally. Unfortunately, the nuclear family is also uncommon in the lower class because many people have children outside of marriages as a result of assault/imbalance in education which leads to less understanding in strong, loving relationships. Orphans and single-parent families are also very common in the lower class because of these same reasons.

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From what I've observed, it is quite common but not in the sense where alive parents fully hand their child over to a relative. There are times where parents are busy for a certain period of time, but they have built trust with their extended family to help them take care of their child while they are away. This is of course means that the parents are still/will be present in the child's life as they do not entirely entrust parenting responsibilities to other adults. I think it's more common for extended families to take care of children in circumstances where their parent is no longer present in their lives, be it because they passed away, or because they are unsafe for the child to live with.

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I agree with the statement that it doesn't matter who cares for a child. I believe it lies in the quality. I take into consideration circumstances where some parents are just unsafe for some children to live with, especially in undeserving communities. I do believe that not all adults are good at parenting. Every child deserves a parent, but not every parent may be suited for taking care of children. There are a lot of monetary and psychological considerations when choosing to have children, and some adults, particularly in the lower class, do not think through this properly, leading to dangerous living conditions for children. It's better off for children to not live with their parents if it is dangerous for them. 

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The final definition of family in my opinion is the most appropriate as it can be applied to anyone from any cultural and economic background. It also applies to those who may not have grown up with their immediate families. I think family is defined from every individual's accumulated experiences from interactions from different kinds of people, whether they be blood-related or not. Some people do not consider their families to be their safe havens, and that's okay. They will eventually learn to build their own families with others as they grow up. Family isn't just about being a child, it is also about being an adult and choosing to have a partner, choosing to care for someone else and be their companion. That's why the definition that family is built on top of trust, love, and comfort, is so fitting because it applies to everyone of any ages, too. However, this definition might over-generalize contexts as some people have different definitions of a 'loving and comfortable family'. For example, some people might be used to having banters and arguments with their families, but are still loving and comfortable with them. For these kinds of people, they might meet people they would like to be families with and treat them according to how they view a 'loving family', like by arguing with them. This might offend others, and instead create confusion. That's why I believe there shouldn't be one concrete definition of family, as we give meaning to the word 'family' through lived experiences, not from a dictionary.