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This helpful guide outlines how you can look, say, sing & play with baby at the different stages in the first year of their lives. It also outlines some engagement and disengagement cues, and explains how each of these steps can help baby's development.

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Help improve your child’s social skills through play. Discover games, activities, and tips to strengthen your bond and enhance their development.

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The importance of play - BBC Tiny Happy People

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Play is more than just fun for babies and children. It's a key part of their early development. Find everything you need to know about different types of play, and why it's important on this page.

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Toddlers are constantly making connections, as they start to understand the world around them.

They might spend lots of time doing a certain activity, like moving all the sand out of a sandpit or putting little passengers into a toy bus over and over again.

By repeating actions, they start to understand how objects and ideas connect, and through a concept called cause and effect, they learn that their actions can have interesting results. Play, doesn't just keep them busy, it's essential for brain development.

Doing a puzzle for example, involves recognising shapes and colours, picking up a piece of the puzzle, looking at it, deciding which way is up, where it might go? And then placing it, uses lots of skills. Hand eye coordination, memory and imagination and fine motor skills - that's the small fine tuned hand movements that we all use for doing all sorts of everyday tasks.

Right, now, who's tidying up?

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Toddlers love repetitive play. This is great for their development as they learn lots from play, from coordination to shapes, colours and cause and effect.

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"Regularly engaging in active, unstructured group play improves a child’s social skills in all of the following ways:

1. Play builds empathy.

2. Kids who play have better literacy and language skills.

3. Engaging in unstructured group activities can reduce socially inappropriate behaviour.

4. Play reduces anxiety and teaches kids how to regulate their emotions.

5. Kids who play have more social confidence and self-esteem.

These points are expanded on in the link.

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Child Psychology Resources by Dr. Tali Shenfield

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https://www.psy-ed.com/wpblog/wp-content/uploads//The%20Importance%20of%20Play%20in%20Social%20Skills%20Development.mp3

In modern Western society, we typically view play as being separate from learning. However, while children's games appear casual and spontaneous, they serve many crucial developmental functions. When kids engage in unstructured social activities, they use their imaginations to simulate diverse experiences, which serve as a model for real-life situations. They learn how to negotiate and cooperate with other kids while expressing their feelings, thereby building better social, communication, and emotional self-regulation skills. Kids who play frequently also exhibit stronger creative and critical thinking abilities.

Unfortunately, play is under threat due to a complex mix of factors, including increased academic pressures, urbanization, digital device use, and the devaluation of free time. Today, North American children spend 50% less time engaging in unstructured outdoor activities than children in the 1970s. To support healthy development, parents and educators need to recognize the worth of free play and create the right conditions for kids to engage in self-directed activities.

What is Play?

Play is any activity that is initiated by the child for the simple sake of enjoyment, rather than in pursuit of a goal. Free play always involves an element of "pretend" and doesn't follow predetermined rules, which sets it apart from sports, classes, computer games, and other structured activities. During pretend games, kids take on fictional identities and use their imagination to transform everyday objects into props (for example, using a broom to represent a magical staff).

How Does Play Contribute to the Social Development of Children?

Play enhances multiple aspects of a child's mental and physical well-being, but it's particularly crucial for healthy social development. Regularly engaging in active, unstructured group play improves a child's social skills in all of the following ways:

1. Play builds empathy.

Role-playing games challenge kids to put themselves in someone else's shoes and see the world from a different point of view. As a result, they gain a greater awareness of other people's feelings and how their actions affect others. Social games may also require children to integrate the experiences of other kids from different cultural or economic backgrounds than themselves, which enhances traits like tolerance and openness.

2. Kids who play have better literacy and language skills.

When kids play, they must find the right words to convey their ideas, label objects in their environment, negotiate limits and boundaries, resolve disputes, share, and take turns. Together, these actions exercise a child's language skills, helping them build a richer vocabulary and learn to use language more effectively. Group play also involves a significant amount of listening, as cooperative world-building relies on the ability to understand and apply the ideas of others.

Although free play rarely includes the use of written language, kids who are allowed sufficient time for play typically demonstrate stronger literacy skills. Researchers believe this association exists because pretend play hones several pre-literacy skills, including working memory, naming, and symbolic thought. As kids play, they remember past experiences and apply them to their current activity. This process increases their ability to retain information and infer meaning, two core components of reading comprehension. Likewise, using objects in a symbolic context helps kids understand how the written word can represent concepts, objects, and experiences. This practice improves their ability to visualize while reading and writing. Pretend games also teach kids the basics of narrative structure via oral storytelling.

3. Engaging in unstructured group activities can reduce socially inappropriate behaviour.

When kids play, they experience the benefits of exhibiting positive traits (e.g., friendliness and patience) and the consequences of succumbing to negative behaviours, such as selfishness and aggression. Through a natural process of trial and error, they learn to inhibit their impulses and construct more thoughtful, appropriate responses to challenging situations - ultimately becoming more considerate, cooperative, accepting, and flexible. This state of social competence allows kids to build stronger relationships and thrive in stressful environments as they mature.

4. Play reduces anxiety and teaches kids how to regulate their emotions.

Role-playing has profound therapeutic benefits for kids. Pretend games give kids a safe space to explore, express, and process their emotions, which relieves tension and promotes self-awareness. Play can help kids come to terms with loss, prepare for stressful situations, adapt to change, and create a more positive, empowering narrative around adversity.

Importantly, research shows that preschoolers who engage in pretend play are more likely to use private speech than kids who participate in adult-directed activities. This behaviour change suggests improved emotional regulation because private speech is a primary tool for internal communication, self-guidance, and self-governance in kids aged 2-7.

Some types of play, such as adventurous outdoor play, also reduce anxiety by allowing children to take risks, which exposes them to limited episodes of fear, apprehension, and doubt. These experiences teach kids how to manage psychological and physiological arousal and cope with uncertainty, which is highly protective against stress.

5. Kids who play have more social confidence and self-esteem.

Kids, like adults, need to feel capable and autonomous. However, because they lead such structured lives, they have few opportunities to exercise their power as individuals. Throughout much of the day, kids are told what to do, where to go, and when things will happen, which contributes to feelings of frustration and helplessness.

As a child-led activity, play provides a critical outlet for these feelings and gives kids a chance to feel more in control of their lives. During pretend play, kids adopt a leadership role, creating their own rules in a setting of their choosing. They're free to inhabit fictional positions of authority, such as pretending to be a prince or superhero, while using their motor and creative skills to support their role. As a result, they become more confident in their abilities and secure in their identity.

Not only are confident kids happier and more resilient, but they're also more likely to approach other children and initiate friendships. Over time, they build a more robust social network, which provides a buffer against depression, isolation, and bullying while continuing to improve their social and communication skills.

What Do Kids Need in Order to Play?

Kids are naturally motivated to play; however, they still need the right environment and conditions to make play accessible. To encourage your child to engage in unstructured play, make sure they have the following accommodations:

At least an hour of free time (preferably outdoors) each day, without access to mobile devices.

Safe, engaging spaces for play. Consider setting aside one room of your home as a dedicated playroom, and make sure your child has access to playgrounds and natural spaces near your home. In the event of inclement weather, recreation centres can also provide play opportunities. If safety is a concern in your neighbourhood, learn how to supervise your child's outdoor play inconspicuously (for example, by keeping an eye on them from within your vehicle). Avoid interfering in your child's games; i.e., don't criticize their ideas, give them instructions, or mediate minor disagreements. If your child wants you to participate in group play, let them take the lead in planning and coordinating the activity.

Play materials. Allow your child to use everyday household objects as props, to build forts, etc. Provide building blocks, chalk, paints, cardboard, craft paper, and other creative supplies so your child can construct props and costumes. Your child should also have a diverse selection of figurines, vehicles, puppets, and other toys to play with.

What Should You Do if Your Child Won't Play?

If your child has everything they need to play and they're still struggling, a deeper issue may be inhibiting their ability to enjoy unstructured recreation. Kids with developmental disorders or sensory processing difficulties, for example, may avoid certain activities for fear of becoming overwhelmed. Anxious and traumatized children, on the other hand, sometimes shun play because they exist in a state of hypervigilance that prevents them from letting go and "just pretending."

In complex cases such as these, getting help from a family therapist specializing in child development is crucial. During therapy, your child can build the skills needed for play in a calm, objective environment. A therapist can also guide you on choosing the best settings, environments, and materials to facilitate play. Some children benefit most from one-on-one play, for example, or solitary creative exercises, like writing or drawing. Others are more likely to engage socially when play dates take place at home, where they feel safest. Rest assured that all children, regardless of their unique needs and preferences, can experience the healing, transformative power of play once given enough support.

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The Importance of Play in Social Skills Development

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Discover the transformative power of play in child development. Unstructured play fosters social skills, emotional self-regulation, and cognitive growth.

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Playing is a useful and effective way to bond with your baby whilst helping them develop motor skills, speech and emotional regulation.

This Padlet links some tips, ideas, and information to help you get the most out of playing with your baby.

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This article highlights these 5 ways to bond with your baby through playing:

1. Singing songs together and making silly noises

2. Letting them explore your face

3. Hide-and-Seek

4. Playing with a mirror - making silly faces

5. Mimicking their noises

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Games are natural & wonderful baby bonding activities that also aid in your child’s social development. Click here to learn 5 ways to bond with your baby.

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Infants benefit from turn-taking interactions, especially when it comes to playtime, however it is often confusing on how to engage with them appropriately for their age.

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When the infant is between 3 and 6 months repetitive turn-taking behaviour is great for the baby!

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From 6 to 9 months some varied turn-taking games will start to take place.

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And after 9 months you may find that your baby engages in some turn-taking communication using sound or gestures!

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Disengagement cues are signals that the baby has had enough, is sad, or is stressed

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Disengagement cues are signals that the baby has had enough, is sad, or is stressed

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Examples include frowning, grunting, yawning, and attempts to self-soothe (like putting their hands in their mouth)

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Big Little Moments is a movement which helps parents to see how the small moments in every day-to-day life help to shape a child's future. Their website provides short video clips to support parents with everyday activities with their little one such as play, communication, and connection.

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How do the Big Little Moments work?

Children's brains are made of many different strands. Three of these strands are how they learn to talk, how they feel, and how they make friends. Every time you talk to a child, or respond to them, you're helping these strands grow strong. And the stronger each strand is, the stronger their brain will be.

All these little moments you share add up to something much bigger. Giving children the skills they need to develop into healthy, bright adults.

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Children's brains are made of many different strands. Three of these strands are how they learn to talk, how they feel, and how they make friends. Every time you talk to a child, or respond to them, you're helping these strands grow strong. And the stronger each strand is, the stronger their brain will be.

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Engagement cues are signals that the baby is happy, ready to play, or ready to engage

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Engagement cues are signals that the baby is happy, ready to play, or ready to engage

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Examples include moving towards the caregiver, moving their face towards people, smiling, and slow and smooth movements of arms and legs

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Further play ideas for infants up to 12-months-old

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Further play ideas for infants up to 12-months-old

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Activities for Bonding and Learning from Birth to 12 Months

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Try these fun games and activities with your children and watch how their eagerness to learn and their relationship with you grow!

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30 Easy Parent-Child Activities to Strengthen Your Bond — Parent List App

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Spending quality time with your child doesn’t have to be hard -- in fact, it can be a lot of fun! Check out these easy activities that will help strengthen your bond.

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This helpful NHS manual outlines:

1. What is Watch Me Play! ?

2. How to do Watch Me Play!

3. Preparing

4. Baby and Child-led play

5. Watching your child play

6. Talking with your baby or child about their play

7. Talking with another adult about the child’s play

8. Toys and materials for play

9. A Watch Me Play! Diary

10. Why Play Matters

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Link to 'Play' Section from the Communication Padlet

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Link to 'Play' Section from the Communication Padlet