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In Joel Steins article, "To solve my social anxiety, I had to confront why I became a writer in the first place", he talked about how his work as a writer was affected by his social anxiety. To help him with the problem, he went to go see , Greg Cason, a psychologist who told him to go through a few social tasks. Having him interact with people on the street complimenting them on their shoes because he enjoyed the look of female footwear. It was taken a little further, as he talked to his father and edged him into being a better grandfather to his son, Laszlo. Cason, Steins physcologist stated that, "giving a message that's more of a hint than an actual message"(Cason, 59). He was stating a point to Stein pointing out how he had avoidance to politeness when in the presence of other people, but he interacted with a more isolated vibe. In many ways he is right, but some people might find it more polite if a persons intentions in social actions were a little hidden, just for reassurance.

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S. Glass' article, infidelity, talks about infidelity. It goes through all of the aspects of infidelity,. From discovery, to treatment and emotions. Glass says that, "following the initial disclosure of an affair, it is common for both partners to experience depression." This is true. Can you imagine how it would feel to be cheated on? Would you break up with your boy/girlfriend or divorce your spouse? How would you feel if your spouse divorced you or girl/boyfriend dumped you because you did something to wrong them? Wouldn't you be depressed?

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My article is about what makes people cheat and what are the effects. Sheri Stritof goes into the physiology into what makes married people cheat.

“It is critical to realize that if you were the one cheated on, you are NOT responsible for your spouse making the decision to cheat.” (Stritof) What they mean is that no matter the circumstances you are not liable for your spouses cheating. For some people they don’t know how to escape an abusive relationship and sometimes seek the attention of another, if your spouse cheats on you, before looking at their actions check your own.

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In Frank Pittman’s article, “Beyond Betrayal: Life After Infidelity,” This article is explaining what your life can be like after cheating during a relationship with your spouse.  Pittman states, “No matter how many sacrifices you make to keep the love alive, it will gradually burn itself out when there is nothing more to sacrifice to it” (Pittman, 2017). This quote is explaining that if there is nothing else to sacrifice in a relationship the more likely a person will get bored and eventually cheat on whoever their partner is at that time.

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In Cari Wira Dineen's article "5 Ways Your Relationship Changes After Someone Cheats." Do you and your partner have a cheating heart? Your not alone research shows that infidelity rates might me as high as 60 to 70 percent. You can't blame it on all the guys Indiana University took a study on this conversation and found that it is a equal rate between men and women. These feelings differ between gender as well such as " most women cheat because they are emotionally deprived " and " men are unfaithful because the feel sexually deprived." He or she might also to begin to doubt their partner " In the wake of affair, more and more lies come out, and that makes it to trust one another." Your confidence starts to plummet and they feel unwanted in their relationship so the turn to cheating instead and end up hurting themselves and the person he or she is with. Your focus can shift. Cheating can create a level of stress and anxiety that can cause depression in that person and make it difficult for him or her to focus on what they are doing whether it is at work or in school.

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In Brendan Smith article “Are Internet affairs different?” In the article smith wrote, he wants to know if you are having a steamy conversations in a cheat room with someone that you are not in a relationship, and there is no physical contact is it still an affair? Katherina Hertlein, PhD, at the University of Nevada in Las Vegas who studies in affairs. She goes on the say, “it’s not just that you’re communicating with someone online but that there is a saxual or emotional nature.” she also states, “with the infidelity, we’re moving away from just physical ideas about infidelity and acknowledging emotional infidelity.” Hertlein just answered Smiths question which is ‘do you think having a steamy conversations in a cheat room with someone that you are not in a relationship, and there is no physical contact is it still an affair?’ The answer to that question is yes, because you’re being sexual and being emotional in this cheat room in a unnatural way that you only should have for your other half.

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In Emily Bobrow’s essay, “What’s Wrong With Infidelity?” Bobrow is talking about a couple that were already engaged and discovered that she had cheated on him. The boyfriend wondered whether his fiancee’s infidelity meant there was something fundamentally wrong with their otherwise loving relationship. He was well worried that it was a sign that their marriage would be doomed. The couple went to Esther Perel to help see if they could save their relationship. “Back when divorce was a shameful prospect , couples grappling, with an affair typically found a way to muddle through.” (Bobrow, 2017.) Reliable statistics on infidelity are hard to come by for some couples and there are few incentives. People are not always willing to forgive a mistake that has been made. “Infidelity was always painful, but today it’s ‘traumatic.’” This statement is said by Esther Perel. Cheating on someone is never a good idea, and it always hurts people. The person who love should be cherished, not to be used as someone you can cheat on.

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Affairs are a controversial topic in many countries, and for good reason. The American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy has a webpage dedicated specifically to infidelity, and in it they discuss the effects of infidelity. They say, “Following the initial disclosure of an affair, it is common for both partners to experience depression, including suicidal thoughts, anxiety, and a profound sense of loss.” They are showing that cheating can lead to severe consequences, in some cases as bad as suicidal thoughts. This is the reason why infidelity is such a terrible thing to people, and the reason why no one should have an affair with someone else.

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In Dr. Grey Lewandowski Article “The Biology of Cheating” he talks about what in human biology may cause people to cheat on one significant other along with that he talks about how males with high testosterone and females with high estrogen levels are more likely to commit infidelity. Although he makes these claims he later states “If biology were destiny,then every high-testosterone male and high-estrogen female would be a serial cheater, which clearly isn’t the case. Rather, hormones may make resisting harder, but people have the ability to be self-aware and self-reflective and thus should be held accountable for their own choices.” (Lewandowski). What this is getting at is just because you have a high level of testosterone or estrogen doesn’t mean that gives you an excuse to cheat it might be harder to fight your hormones but you are more than self-aware and self-reflective of your actions. This statement makes a good point at proving that if you decide to cheat on you significant other then you should be held completely accountable for the choose you made and the consequences that follow.

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In Robi Ludwig website, "Why Women May Be Bigger Cheaters Than Men" most people think that getting married is going to be a fairy tale and it will makes all your problems go away. But that isn't true. On some level our expectations are very high of the men we choose to marry and it’s easy to get disappointed with our partners.  Women want a sexual relationship who is not like their partner and or who is like their partner use to be. They want to feel in love and swept off their feet. Affairs are good at offering this kind of emotional experience. Especially at the beginning.

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In Rachel’s Hosie website, “Millennials Cheat On Partners For Two Main Reasons, Claims Study”. Rachel claims that people make excuses to cheat on their partners; like for example is your partner there for you anymore? Sometimes they usually cheat by accident, on if their partner is nice to them anymore or barely home. Another reason why your partner maybe cheating on you is because you need more independence, according to Rachel Hosie’s study’s.  People try to make excuses all the time on why they did this and why they did that, well that still doesn't make it right for someone to cheat on their partner because if you truly love someone, you would try and make it work for the sake of your guy's relationship, no matter the circumstances.